Kuso sonke lesi sihloko uzofunda ngokuningiliziwe okuhlukile imiphumela yokungavikeleki kanye nendlela yokuthuthukisa ukuzethemba okuphansi. Ngendlela efanayo, sizokukhombisa imininingwane ezokusiza ukuthi ubone uma uhlushwa yilokhu kuntula ngokomzwelo.
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Imiphumela Yokungavikeleki Komuntu Siqu
I-Las imiphumela yokungavikeleki zomuntu siqu uchungechunge lokuguquguquka, okumele kuhlaselwe ngokushesha ukuze umuntu othintekayo kulesi simo sengqondo angalinyazwa ezingeni eliphakeme, ukudala i-anthropophobia, evimbela lowo muntu ukuthi angakwazi ukuxhumana nanoma yiliphi ilungu lomphakathi, enqaba noma yikuphi kusho ingaphandle kumuntu wakhe. Abantu abangavikelekile, uma isimo sabo singanakekelwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bangagcina sebezama ukulwa nezimpilo zabo ngokuzizwa bengelutho, bethi abalingani empilweni baqede ubuhlungu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kwezinye izimo ezinolaka oluncane, laba bantu bakhetha ukugqoka imaski yomphakathi, bafihle imizwa yabo nokuthi bayini ngempela, ngenxa yokwesaba ukwahlulelwa nokuhlukaniswa nomphakathi ngenxa yokuhluka esihlokweni esithile, befuna i-iota yezenhlalo. ukwamukela ukuba ngumuntu ongeyena, izinto ezingalungile nezilimaza ubuntu balowo othintekayo. Ngendlela efanayo, izimo zengqondo ezinolaka neziphoqelelayo ziyasetshenziswa ezilimaza uthando kanye nawo wonke umuntu oseduze kwazo.
Kwezinye izimo, abantu bakhetha ukuziqhelelanisa nomphakathi ngendlela engazelelwe, ukuzehlukanisa ngaphandle, bacwiliswe ukwesaba kwangaphakathi umuntu anakho, okuthinta ingqondo yakhe nokubona izimpawu zomuntu ophoqelekile, kanye nokukhiqiza okunye ukuhlalisana kwabantu. iziyaluyalu. Ukuzikhukhumeza yikona okuhlupha kakhulu laba bantu, uma bengasizwanga ngokushesha lokho kukhukhumala kungaphenduka ukudelela kanye nemibono ewuzungu.
Uma uthole lokhu okuthunyelwe kuthakazelisa, sikumema ngemfudumalo ukuthi ufunde, ujabulele futhi udlule esihlokweni sethu esikhuluma ngaso hlukana ngo-50, ekhuluma ngezimbangela zokwanda okukhulu kwezehlukaniso noma ukwehlukana ngokomzwelo abaningi ababa nakho, lapho sebeneminyaka engu-50 ubudala, eduze nomuntu ababemthanda ngentshiseko enkulu, faka isixhumanisi esishiwo ngenhla, ukuze bakwazi ukwazi ukuthi lezi ukuhlukana kuyakhiqizwa kanye nendlela yokukugwema, ukugwema noma yisiphi isenzakalo esingalindelekile esingase sivele.
Abantu abanale mfanelo bahlale bedala imiphumela kubantu abangaphandle kwesimo sabo, njengoba bekholelwa ukuthi wonke umuntu ungcono kunabo, nokuthi uma benesikhathi senjabulo, kungashesha ukudlula, ngoba emqondweni wabo kuhlale kuwukuthi. wonke umuntu uyajabula, kodwa abanjalo, njengoba nje bengaphansi kwawo wonke umuntu. Omunye umphumela uhambisana nokuzethemba, ngoba umuntu othintwa omunye wemiphumela yokungazethembi ulahlekelwa naso sonke isithunzi sakhe.
Ekugcineni, umuntu othintwa ukungavikeleki komuntu siqu, uphetha ngokuzethemba kwabo njengakwabanye, ngezinye izikhathi ewela ezimweni ezibucayi ezingeni elingokwengqondo noma lezenhlalo, kube ushintsho oluyinhloko kusuka kumakhono abo avamile, ukuba abe umuntu onolaka, okuyinto. bayizidalwa eziyingozi kubantu abaningi, uma bengelashwa ngaphansi kwezinhlamba ezingokwengqondo ezifanele bona. Ngokufanayo, bafuna indlela yokuphunyuka emphakathini naseqinisweni, njengoba ingqondo yabo, lapho befuna indawo engeyona yangempela, yonakaliswa ngendlela engathi sína ngaphandle kokungabaza.
Uma uthole lesi sihloko sithakazelisa, sikumema ngokufudumele ukuthi ufunde, ujabulele futhi udlule kokuthunyelwe kwethu okukhuluma ukulawula umfutho, lapho sikubonisa khona ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi ungathola kanjani ukulingana ngokomzwelo okulangazelelayo, ukubeka eceleni impilo egcwele izenzakalo ezingokomzwelo ezingalindelekile ukuthi kancane kancane zingalimaza kakhulu impilo yakho yezenhlalakahle nomndeni, sikumema ukuba ufake isixhumanisi esishiwo ngenhla , ukuqala indlela egcwele ukuzola nokuthula kude nobuvila bomzwelo.
