Ijoka elingalingani ekuqomeni: Kungani ligwenywa?

Ijoka lokuqomisana elingalingani: ngoba ikholwa uNkulunkulu unikeza isiyalo esinembe kakhulu ngaphambi kokusungula ubuhlobo bomshado noma isibopho somshado. Kwesinye isikhathi leli gunya liba yingqinamba kumakholwa, kodwa indlela engcono kakhulu iyohlale ingukulalela iNkosi.

Ijoka lokuqomisana elingalingani

Okholweni lobuKristu ikakhulukazi kulabo, ngaphezu kokuba amakholwa, abaye bahlangabezana nenhlekelele ekuphileni kwabo ukuze bazalwe kabusha, njengoba uJesu efundisa kuJohane 3:1-13. Kula makholwa akwanele ukuthi abe nobudlelwano bothando nabashadikazi ababuthana ebandleni labo, kodwa bazodinga ukuthi lobu budlelwano buqiniswe, ukuze bobabili babe nezinga elifanayo lokusondelana nokuzibophezela kuNkulunkulu.

Lesi yisihluthulelo sokuqonda incazelo yamazwi omphostoli uPawulu kweyoku-1 Korinte 5:9-11 , njengomphelelisi wesifaniso sakhe sezibopho phakathi kwabantu nejoka lokulima, elichazwa njengejoka elingalingani kweyesi-2 Korinte 6 : 14-15. Ake sibheke yomibili imibhalo yeBhayibheli engezansi:

1 KwabaseKorinte 5: 9-11:9 Ngililobele ngencwadi, ukuze lingahlanganyeli leziphingi; 10 hhayi ngempela neziphingi zalumhlaba, noma nabahahayo, noma namasela, noma nabakhonza izithombe; ngokuba uma kunjalo bekuyakudingeka ukuba nihambe emhlabeni. 11 Kunalokho ngalibhalela ukuba ningahlanganyeli nanoma ubani, ozibiza ngokuthi ungumzalwane, noma eyisifebe, noma engohahayo, noma engokhonza izithombe, noma engumhlebi, noma eyisidakwa, noma isela.; nabanjalo kalidli ngitsho.

2 KwabaseKorinte 6: 14-15: 14 Ungahlanganyeli ukuboshelwa ejokeni linye nabangakholwayo; ngoba kunakuhlanganyela kuni ubulungisa nokungalungi? Kunakuhlanganyela kuni ukukhanya nobumnyama na? 15 Futhi unakuvumelana kuni uKristu noBeliyali? Noma unasabelo sini okholwayo nongakholwayo na?

Uma sifunda zombili iziqephu zombhalo siyabona ukuthi ukuboshelwa ejokeni ngokungalingani kungenzeka ngisho naphakathi kokuqomisana kobuKristu. Futhi hhayi kuphela phakathi kwezinyunyana zomshado, kodwa futhi phakathi kwezinye izibopho zomuntu siqu, njengoba sizobona kamuva.

Ngakho ukuqomisana ebuKristwini kufanele kube phakathi kwamakholwa athembekile azelwe ngokusha ngomoya, abamazi ngokuseduze uNkulunkulu, abamthandayo nabamfunayo ngezinhliziyo zabo zonke.

Kusho ukuthini ukuboshelwa ejokeni ngokungalingani?

Umphostoli uPawulu ngenkulumo yejoka elingalingani ubhekisela esilinganisweni phakathi kwendlela yokulima nokuhlangana noma ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu ababili. Ijoka liyithuluzi lokhuni elibekwa emakhanda ezinkabi, iminyuzi, noma izimbongolo, ukuze lizibophe ndawonye bese ziqhuba igeja ndawonye.

Kodwa, ukuze lo mshini usebenze kahle umsebenzi noma isenzo ndawonye, ​​izilwane zombili kufanele zifane noma zifane. Okusho ukuthi, okokuqala, ukuba yizinhlobo ezifanayo, ukuba namandla afanayo nobukhulu obufanayo; Kungale ndlela kuphela lapho kungatholakala khona igeja elihle, ukuhlwanyela okuhle kanjalo nezithelo ezinhle.

Ngemva kokusho lokhu, inkulumo yomphostoli uPawulu yejoka elingalingani ingaqondwa, ngamafuphi: okuhlanganisa abantu ababili akunakulingana, futhi ngeke bobabili bacabange ngendlela ehlukile. Ngoba, uma kungenjalo, yilowo nalowo uzozama ukuhamba ngendlela yakhe, ngaphandle kokuthi ekugcineni afinyelele umgomo abajoyine ngawo.

Leli joka elingalingani lingagcina ngokugqashuka, izingxabano, ukungaboni ngaso linye noma ukuthi omunye ancike emibonweni yomunye. Ukugijima engozini yokuthi ikholwa lisuke ekukholweni futhi ngenxa yalokho kuNkulunkulu.

Ukuqomisana Ngokungalingani Nokulalela ImiBhalo

Ezikhathini ezithile kuba nezimo zentsha engamaKristu ephendukela kubefundisi bayo, ikhathazeke ngokuthi ayinakushada nesoka noma intombi yayo engakholwa. Bebhekene nalokhu kukhathazeka, bavikela ubuhlobo babo bokuqomisana, bebhekisela eqinisweni lokuthi bangamalungu omkhaya onezimiso zokuziphatha, amasiko amahle nohlonipha ubuhlobo.

Kodwa ngaphambi kwazo zonke lezi zimpikiswano kungcono ngaso sonke isikhathi ukulalela imibhalo. UNkulunkulu usishiyela iBhayibheli njengencwadi yeziqondiso futhi njengegunya lokusihola ekuphileni kunoma yisiphi isimo noma ukukhathazeka.

Endabeni yokuqomisana, umlingani ofanelekayo womguquki osemusha, uNkulunkulu uyala ukuba ahlobane nomuntu olingana naye ukuze amise umshado wesikhathi esizayo, njengoba kulotshiwe kweyesi-2 Korinte 6:14. Futhi ngaphandle kokungabaza kuyindlela engcono kakhulu, ngoba kumuntu osemusha ophendukayo noma oguqukayo, uthando lukaNkulunkulu luhlala enhliziyweni yakhe.

Ngakho-ke, ngale kokuhlanganisa ubuhlobo bomshado ngothando lwe-eros nothando lwe-filio, ukuhlangana nothando lwe-agape, okuwuthando lukaNkulunkulu, kuyobusiswa. Abashadikazi bayobonana hhayi ngamehlo abo kuphela, kodwa nangalabo umdali wabo nalowo obathandayo aze anikele ngokuphila kwakhe ngenxa yabo, uJesu Kristu.

Izizathu ezinikezwa abantu abasha ejokeni lokuqomisana elingalingani

Naphezu kwalokhu osekushiwo ngenhla, kunezimo zentsha engamaKristu egcina isoka nendoda noma owesifazane ongaphenduki, futhi iyazi ukuthi imibhalo ayilucabangi lolu hlobo lokuthatheka ngoba ijoka elingalingani. Kulezi zimo kunezizathu eziningi noma izizathu zokuthi kungani le ntsha inezingane zokungalaleli njengentombi noma isoka, ezinye zazo kube yilezi zizathu ezilandelayo zabantu:

Ngingakwenza ukholwe

Kulokhu kulungisiswa, abantu abasha bathi ngobudlelwano bathola ithuba lokuvangela umlingani wabo futhi babaholele ezinyaweni zikaKristu. Futhi akukubi, ngoba lokho kuwumsebenzi omkhulu womKristu ukwethula uKristu nesigijimi sakhe sensindiso.

Kodwa-ke, iqiniso liwukuthi lokhu kuqomisana kwabo kungenxa yokuthi besothandweni futhi bafuna ukwenza bakholwe ngalokhu ukuthi kuyintando kaNkulunkulu hhayi eyokucabanga kwabo. Yini eholela ekubekeni engozini ukholo lwekholwa.

Umphumela ongathi sína ongalethwa yilelijoka lokuqomisana elingalingani ukuthi ikholwa liyaphola futhi lidonseleke emhlabeni. UmKristu kumelwe aqaphele ukuthi ukukhetha okungalungile kumelelani noma okungaphandle kwezwi likaNkulunkulu ekuphileni kwakhe.

Bacaphuna amacala afanayo esontweni

Abanye abangashadile abangamaKristu banikeza ukuqomisana njengezaba zesimo sabo sejoka elingalingani: -Ebandleni kube khona imishado eyaqala ngokuqomisana okunjalo, futhi umbhangqwana owawungabezwe waphendukela kuKristu-. Kulawa masoka nezintombi, impendulo enengqondo kakhulu ukuthi akekho okufanele asekele okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kokwabanye, ngaphezu kwalokho uNkulunkulu akumisayo ezwini lakhe.

Empeleni kunamakholwa amaningi aseqalile ukujola nokuthandana nabantu abasezweni futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo aguqulelwa ekukhanyeni kukaKristu. Kodwa esimweni ngasinye kuyadingeka ukuhlola izinga lokuguqulwa kwalowo muntu.

Ngoba, ingabe wakwenza ngokusuka enhliziyweni, noma ngenxa nje yothando ngomunye? Baningi abantu abavuma ukuhlala esihlalweni sesonto, kodwa hhayi ngenxa yalokho ababhekana nakho ekuphileni kwabo, kodwa ukuze bajabulise umlingani wabo okholwayo.

UmKristu kumele akhumbule amaqhinga isitha esiwasebenzisayo ukuhlasela nokulinga umntwana kaNkulunkulu. Umphikisi uyohlala ezama futhi enze konke okusemandleni akhe ukwethula indodana noma indodakazi yokungalaleli kumKristu ongashadile, esebenzisa imizwa yenyama ekukhohliseni kwakhe, ngoba lokhu kuphikisana nentando kaNkulunkulu.

Basikisela ukuthi uNkulunkulu akakhethi.

Zingaki izaba esizisebenzisayo noma esingazifihli ukuze kwesinye isikhathi sisungule ezethu ukucabanga kwabantu? Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezinkulu ezenza amakholwa athandane nabangakholwa.

Nokho, kuyiqiniso ukuthi uNkulunkulu uthanda yonke indalo yakhe futhi umisa nomsebenzi wokushumayela wonke umuntu ngaphandle kokukhetha noma yiluphi uhlobo. UmKristu ubizelwa ukuba ngumdobi womuntu (Luka 5:10b), kodwa nguKristu oguqula inhlanzi ibe imvu ngoMoya wakhe oNgcwele.

Roma 8:28-29:28 Futhi siyazi ukuthi zonke izinto kusebenzelana kube ngokuhle kwabamthandayo uNkulunkulu, okungukuthi, kulabo abathanda uNkulunkulu. babizwa ngokwenhloso yakhe. 29 Ngoba lowo ayemazi ngaphambili, laye emiselwe ngaphambili ukuba afane nomfanekiso weNdodana yakhe, ukuze abe yizibulo phakathi kwabazalwane abaningi.

Ngakho-ke, ukushumayela ivangeli nokufundisa uKristu akufanele kudidaniswe nokunamathela noma ukuzibophezela ngokomzwelo emphefumulweni ozuzelwe umbuso wakhe. Okokuqala, izwi likaNkulunkulu kumele linqobe futhi umgomo walo uthi:

-Ungahlanganyeli eduze kwabangakholwayo- (2 Korinte 6:14a)

Ngazizwa ngikhangwa futhi ngathandana

Akuyona yonke into esihehayo enhle noma esungulwe ngobulungisa, izibonelo ezimbalwa zalokhu kanye nemiphumela yako zingatholakala eBhayibhelini. Phakathi kwalezi zibonelo singabala uDavide, uSolomoni, u-Esawu, phakathi kwabanye nokuthi kwadingeka baphile kanjani ngemva kwesinqumo esingalungile sokubeka amajoka angalingani ekuphileni kwabo.

Ezimweni eziningi ibona kanye ubuntu bomuntu obumshukumisela ukuba afune ukukhulisa imizwa nothile ongaphandle kwabantu bakaNkulunkulu. Ngale ndlela, uzizwa ekhangwa ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nalowo muntu wezwe, kungaba ekilasini, ehhovisi, njll.

Nokho, uma umKristu ezisekelwe kahle okholweni, uyoqonda ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyohlale emfunela okungcono kakhulu. Ngendlela efanayo, niyoba nokuhlakanipha nokuqonda ngalokho okusengozini, ukholo lwakho, ukulungisiswa kwakho nokusindiswa kuKristu Jesu.

Noma ngubani onesambulo semibhalo engcwele akakwazi ukubuza amandla kaNkulunkulu, nokuthi yini angayenza empilweni yakhe. Ngena lapha futhi uhlangane nathi amandla kaNkulunkulu okwedlula konke ukuqonda.

Izinhlobo zobudlelwano kumaKristu asemasha

Hlobo luni lobuhlobo amaKristu asemasha angalusebenzisa kulokhu okukhulunywe ngakho ngaphambili. Amadoda angaba nezinhlobo ezahlukene zobungane kanye namazinga ahlukene okusondelana. Phakathi kwalezi zinhlobo zobudlelwane, okulandelayo kungahlukaniswa:

ubudlelwano nabantu obajwayele y ubungane obukha phezulu

Ubudlelwano nabantu obajwayele, ubudlelwano obujwayelekile koxhumana nabo ngezikhathi ezithile, lapho izihloko ezikha phezulu nezejwayelekile kwabelwana ngazo. Lolu hlobo lobudlelwano luvame kakhulu phakathi kwamakholwa nabangakholwa ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.

Ubungane obukha phezulu uhlobo lobungane obungeqi emazingeni okusondelana. Ubungane busekelwe emisebenzini evamile, njengomsebenzi, umphakathi, izifundo, isonto, njll. Kulobu nobudlelwano obudlule kuyithuba elihle lokuvangela ukuyisa izwi kubantu abangamazi uKristu Jesu.

Ubungani be-filial noma obuthembekile

Kulolu hlobo lobungane, abantu bangasondelana kakhulu, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi banezinhloso ezifanayo noma imigomo efanayo. Yini eyenza bakhe ubungane obujulile.

Kuwubuhlobo obungaholela ekukhangeni futhi kamuva ekuqomeni, kungaba phakathi kwamaKristu noma phakathi kwamakholwa nabangakholwa. Kuleli qophelo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqapha ukuze ungalilaleli izwi likaNkulunkulu.

Ubungane obuseduze noma ukuthatheka

Yibo ubudlelwano obuthatha igxathu eliya phambili ngemuva kophiko olungaphansi, kulesi sikhathi sekuyasungulwa ukuqomisana kwabantu ababili. Futhi kuyofaneleka uma nixoxa ngemicabango nezinkolelo ezifanayo.

Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela ebudlelwaneni lapho kuzoba nenkululeko yokulungisa nokukhuthazana, ukumisa inhloso kumbhangqwana wokuthuthukisa isimo sikaKristu. Ekugcineni, umbhangqwana uzohlangana kuze kube yilapho ushada ngaphansi kokulingana kwe-conjugal.

Kodwa uma lobu bungane bothando senzeka phakathi kwejoka elingalingani, izinkinga ziyophakama, ngoba uma uthando lukaNkulunkulu lungenakuhlangatshezwana nalo, khona-ke luyokwabelwana. Ningakhuleka kanjani kuNkulunkulu njengombhangqwana, umshado usekelwe kukuphi ukukholwa, nokuthi abantwana benu bayofundiswa kukuphi ukukholwa, ningakhuthazana kanjani ezikhathini ezinzima uma bobabili bengakholwa okufanayo.

Uma ungumlobokazi ongumKristu lesi sihloko ngeyakho: Mfazi kaNkulunkulu kanye nohlelo oluphelele iNkosi enalo ngathi. Ngoba selokhu kwathi nhlo uJehova unesu eliphelele ngabantu besifazane.Uyafuna ukwazi ukuthi yini eyenza sibe ngowesifazane kaNkulunkulu? Thola lapha ukuthi lolu hlelo luyini kanye nezici zalo.

Amanye amajoka angalingani

Emavesini 2 Korinte 6:14-18, umphostoli uPawulu ukhuluma ngokungalingani ebudlelwaneni nabangakholwa. Lokhu kungalingani akugcini nje ngokuba nemiphumela yako ebudlelwaneni bokushada, kungaba nakho nasemiphakathini yezinga lebhizinisi.

Futhi nakuba umphostoli ethi umKristu angakwazi ukuzihlanganisa nabantu bezwe kweyoku-1 Korinte 5:9-10. Unikeza neziqondiso zokuthi lobo budlelwano kufanele bubukeke kanjani kweyoku-1 Korinte 10:25-33.

Kule ndima umphostoli wembula iqiniso lokujula okukhulu okungokomoya. Ixwayisa umKristu ukuba angazihlanganisi nabantu abenza ukonakala, okuphambene nomthetho, abasebumnyameni, abakhonza izithombe noma abanomoya omubi osebenza kuzo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, uNkulunkulu usungula isixwayiso kubantu bakhe kuDuteronomi 22:10. Lesi sexwayiso kungenxa yokuthi zombili izilwane azikwazi ukudonsa ngamandla afanayo noma zihambe ngesigqi esifanayo, futhi ngeke zenze ngaphansi kwemvelo efanayo.

2 KwabaseKorinte 6:15 a: Futhi unakuvumelana kuni uKristu noBeliyali?

Ukuze siqonde ukuthi uNkulunkulu uthini engxenyeni yokuqala yaleli vesi, ake sibheke umsuka wegama elithi Beliyali. Leli gama livela egameni lesiHeberu elihlanganisiwe elithi: Bliya'al noma bel-e-yah-al.

Leli gama lesiHeberu lakhiwe amagama amabili:

-Bliy noma i-bel-ee' incazelo yayo ingukonakala. Leli gama lingatholakala ku-Isaya 38:17:

17 Bhekani, umunyu omkhulu weza phezu kwami ​​ngokuthulakodwa kukuthokozisile ukukhulula impilo yami emgodini we inkohlakalo; ngoba ulahlile zonke izono zami ngemva kwakho.

-Ya`al noma yaw-al' incazelo yayo ingukuzuza, inzuzo noma inzuzo. Leli gama lingafundwa ku-Isaya 30:5, Jobe 21:15 naku:

Jeremiya 7:8 Bhekani, nina uyamethemba ngamazwi amanga, ukuthi abasizakali.

Sesikushilo lokho, uBeliyali ungomunye wemimoya kadeveli esebenza ngemuva kwenzuzo ekhohlakele noma etholwe ngokungeyikho. Abanye abagxeki beBhayibheli bambiza ngongalaleli noma umhlubuki.

Ngokufanayo, ezinye izazi zihlobanisa uBeliali nokuqhosha nokuqhosha. Ngoba kwenza umuntu angalaleli imiyalo kaNkulunkulu eqotho yokulandela ukuzimela, ukucabanga kanye/noma ukwanelisa komuntu siqu, ukuze azuze impumelelo nokwaneliseka komuntu siqu.

Isiphetho

Ngakho-ke, unakuvumelana kuni uKristu noBheliyali?” Indaba ayilona nje ijoka elingalingani lokuqomisana nomshado. Ijoka elingalingani nalo liyakhiqizwa kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwano bomphakathi obungalingani noma phakathi kokulingana.

Ngoba ebudlelwaneni bebhizinisi okuhlanganisa abalingani ababili akukwazi ukungalingani, futhi bobabili abakwazi ukucabanga ngendlela ehlukile. Umbuzo olandelayo ungasungulwa emphakathini noma ejokeni elingalingani lebhizinisi: Ingabe inzuzo noma izithelo zebhizinisi zitholwa ngobulungisa?

Zindla ngalokhu, uma kuyicala lakho futhi ngisho nangaphezulu ngikumema ukuthi ufunde ngabangewona amakholwa, esihlokweni:  Ukungakholelwa ebukhoneni bukaNkulunkulu: Kuyini?, incazelo, incazelo, nokunye okuningi. Zitholele kuye konke okukhona ngemuva kokungakholwa.