Umndeni uyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila komunye nomunye wethu, ngenxa yalesi sizathu kufanele sihlale sihlangene futhi sifunde komunye nomunye, sikhule njengabantu abalungile. Hlangana ne umthandazo womshado ukuze ube nakho lapho ukudinga kakhulu.
umthandazo womshado
Uma usemshadweni, ungathandaza lo mkhuleko ukuze uhlale uvikelekile, uguquke njengombhangqwana futhi unikeze izindinganiso nezimfundiso emndenini wabo.
Ukwenza lokhu, khuleka umkhuleko womshado ngokukholwa okukhulu nokuzinikela nsuku zonke futhi uzobona ukuthi uthando lukhula kanjani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngomthandazo, ukuxhumana kuyasungulwa noNkulunkulu, ovikela futhi aqondise ubuhlobo ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Umthandazo womshado ubalulekile kubo bobabili abantu ukuthi bathandaze ukuze ube namandla amakhulu nomthelela ebuhlotsheni bakho futhi uvule umndeni wakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bangathatha isikhashana sosuku ukuthandaza ndawonye futhi babe nokukhulumisana njalo.
Ngomkhuleko womshado, ungaphinda ucele ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bombhangqwana obhekene nokuphazamiseka okuthile, ukuze yonke into ilunge phakathi kwabo futhi ukulingana phakathi kwabo kuzuzwe futhi. Ngokulandelayo, kukhona imibhangqwana enquma ukwenza ukuhlehla komshado ukuze kuqhubeke ukuqinisa ubuhlobo babo futhi umthandazo womshado ungenye yezinto ezibalulekile ezingabaqondisa. Yazi futhi umkhuleko wokuthi angithande.
Iziphakamiso ngaphambi kokuthandaza umthandazo womshado
Kubalulekile ukuthi ngaphambi kokuthandaza noma yimuphi umthandazo, uzole futhi ugxile. Mayelana nomthandazo womshado, okufanelekile ukuthi umthandazo wenziwe kancane futhi bobabili abantu bangana noma babambane ngezandla, bebukana emehlweni.
Kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukukhuleka komkhuleko womshado ngale ndlela kuvumela ukuthi kube nokuxhumana okuyingqayizivele phakathi kwalokhu okubili nokuthi indlela yokuxhumana yanda kakhulu. Kuyisenzo esihle kakhulu ukwenziwa, ngoba kukhona ukusondelana okwengeziwe.
Esinye sezincomo okufanele sizikhumbule lapho uthandaza umkhuleko womshado ukuthi bobabili bakhumbule isikhathi abahlangana ngaso, kanye nosuku abashada ngalo, izikhathi ezimnandi abaye baphila ngazo noma iyiphi inkumbulo yobudlelwano ebenza bazizwe bejabule.
Ubuhle bempilo emshadweni ukuthi uthando, ukuxhumana nokweseka kuhlale kuhambisana nokuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ubudlelwano bukhula ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Uma unabantwana, nalo mkhuleko ungabathandazela, ngoba bawumphumela wothando lwakho. Yazi futhi izinhlobo zothando ezisebhayibhelini
Umthandazo wokuziphendukela kwemvelo emshadweni
Ngalo mkhuleko womshado uzobe uxhumeke kakhulu ngokomoya nomlingani wakho futhi nsuku zonke uthando lwakho luzokhula. Likhuleke ngokukholwa okukhulu nangokuzinikela.
Ohloniphekile Ongcwele zintathu, Baba, iNdodana noMoya oNgcwele, ngiyabonga ngesipho esikhulu sesakramente lomshado. Ngiphinde ngibonge ngesipho esihle esingumyeni wami, owangidalela sona kusukela kwaphakade. Ngicela ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi siphathane ngenhlonipho, sincomane, sihloniphe futhi uthando luhlale lukhona.
Ngiyakucela futhi Nkosi ehloniphekile ukuthi umshado wethu uhlale ukhula njalo, sobabili sinikele ngokusemandleni ethu ukuze uthando lube zikhathi zonke. Ukuthi singafihli lutho, ukuthi esikwenzayo akukhona ngenhloso yokulindela noma yini imbuyiselo. Futhi nokuthi nsuku zonke sibona futhi sibe nokubonga okujulile ngakho konke esikwenzela thina kanye nomndeni wethu.
Ngiyakucela Nkosi yethu ukuthi uqinise futhi uvikele umshado wethu, uvikele nabantu abasondelene nathi, umndeni wethu. Sengathi singakhuleka ndawonye nsuku zonke. Sivumele ukuthi sikwethembe njengoba kufanele.
Sicela usiqondise endleleni elungile, sengathi umshado wethu ube muhle, ujabule futhi intando yakho mayigcwaliseke njalo. Siqondise endleleni efanele yokwakha nokugcina umndeni wethu uqinile, ngokuphepha okukhulu, uthando, ukholo nokuzinikela kuwe.
Mhlonishwa Mariya Ongcwele, sithembela kuwe ukuthi uzowuvikela umshado wethu nomndeni wethu ngesembatho sakho.
Sithembela kuwe ngokuphelele, Nkosi yethu uJesu, ngoba unathi ngaso sonke isikhathi, uyasivikela futhi uvame ukufuna okungcono kakhulu imindeni yethu. Uletha konke okuhle futhi usiqondise endleleni efanele.
Othandekayo (yisho igama lomlingani): Mina nawe simunye. Ngiyakwethembisa ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngizokuthanda futhi ngithembeke kuwe. Angisoze ngakulahla. NginoNkulunkulu kanye nawe eceleni kwami, kanye nomndeni wethu, nginakho konke.
Ngiyakubonga Nkosi yethu uJesu, ngokusivikela njalo. Iseva yakho enkulu. Siyakuhlonipha futhi sikuthanda ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Amen
isikhathi sokukhuleka
Ungathandaza umthandazo womshado noma nini lapho uthanda. Kodwa-ke, kuyanconywa ukuthi ukwenze ekuseni kakhulu. Khumbula ukuthi uJesu wavuka ekuseni kakhulu waya yedwa entabeni wakhuleka khona. Kungakho ungakwazi ukusizakala ngokuthula kwasekuseni futhi uthandaze ngokukholwa okukhulu nokuzinikela.
Khumbula ukuthi umshado kanye nomndeni ungamasakramente angcwele othando lukaNkulunkulu emhlabeni. Njengoba kuchaziwe ku Marku 10,9:10-XNUMX:
Okuhlanganisa iNkosi Yethu, umuntu akakwazi ukukwehlukanisa.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi wubunzima enidlula kubo njengabashadikazi, okubalulekile wukuthi uthando luyanqoba ngaso sonke isikhathi phakathi kwenu futhi ningavumeli muntu anihlukanise. Thandaza umkhuleko womshado nsuku zonke, ukuze bahlale bevikelekile.
Lapho usunqume isikhathi esifanele sokuthandaza lo mthandazo, okubalulekile ukuthi uzithole usendaweni ethule futhi uma umlingani wakho engcono kakhulu, bazohlala bexhumekile futhi ukuxhumana kuzogeleza kangcono kakhulu. Ngakho-ke ukubaluleka kokuhlala ugxile futhi ukhuleka ngokukholwa okukhulu nokuzinikela.
Uma ubunentshisekelo olwazini olukulesi sihloko, ungase futhi ube nentshisekelo yokwazi mayelana Izindikimba zobuKristu zomndeni.