Uma ufuna ukuba munye owesifazane onesibindi nonesibindi, namuhla sizokwethula kwabesifazane abathile ababenesibindi futhi bekhuthele, ukuze babe isibonelo futhi bafeze injongo kaNkulunkulu.
Yikuphi yizimfanelo ze-mowesifazane onesibindi nokhuthele?
Una owesifazane onesibindi nonesibindibona imikhawulo yakho. Abesifazane abanesibindi bakhetha ukuzibonela ngokwabo ubungozi bokuqhubekela phambili, kunokukholelwa okushiwo abanye; bancamela ukushintsha igama elithi "ngeke" lithi "Ngizamile futhi angikwazanga", balwela ukuqhubeka.
Una owesifazane onesibindi nonesibindi ukuphila kobuso; waziwa ngesimilo sakhe, ngokuba umlwi, osebenza kanzima nokwenza umzamo wokuqhubeka; ugqama futhi ngokwazi izikhathi; ungowesifazane ofuna futhi othanda uNkulunkulu ngaphezu kwakho konke; uthando, umusa, inhlonipho, isibindi kodwa uyazwela.
Abesifazane abanesibindi nabanamandla abagqama eBhayibhelini
IBhayibheli likhuluma ngabesifazane abaningi ababenesibindi nabanamandla, esingafunda kubo izifundo ezibalulekile. Ukuphila kwabo kuyisibonelo kithi.
U-Abhigayili
Kukhona indaba ka-Abigayili, yena, nakuba ayengumfazi wendoda ecebile, wayengowesifazane onengqondo, othobekile, omuhle futhi ongokomoya. Lapho ezwa ukuthi umyeni wakhe wenqaba ukunikeza iNkosi uDavide yesikhathi esizayo ukudla namadoda ayo, ngokushesha wayala izinceku zakhe ukuba zimphathele ukudla.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, walandela izinceku, futhi wacela ububele kuDavide ngalokho umyeni wakhe, uNabali, ayekwenzile. Futhi naphezu kokuba owesifazane omuhle futhi engunkosikazi wendoda ecebile, wayenombono olinganiselayo, wayenesibindi futhi ezimisele; Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubezimisele ukuxolisa enkosini ngecala angalenzanga, ngaphandle kokungabaza ukuthi kuyisenzo sesibindi.
Ababaningi abesifazane namuhla abathatha isibonelo sika-Abigayili, owasiza uDavide ngisho noma engathandi umyeni wakhe, futhi kwakunganele ukumsiza, kodwa futhi, ukuthi wabonisa ubuso bakhe.
UDeborah
Esinye isibonelo uDebora, umprofethikazi kaJehova, uNkulunkulu ka-Israyeli. UJehova walisebenzisa ukuze abonise ama-Israyeli lokho okwakufanele akwenze futhi ngokuhlakanipha kwakhe, wanikeza ikhambi elifanelekayo phakathi kwawo. Wabasekela ngesibindi labo ababekhonza uNkulunkulu. UDebora waya empini noBharaki, enethemba lokuthi uNkulunkulu wayesemnqobile kakade, wazidela ngenxa yabanye.
Wakhuthaza abanye ukuba benze okulungile emehlweni kaNkulunkulu. Futhi lapho ekwenza, akazange angabaze ukubanikeza ukuqashelwa okubafanele.
Manje sekuyithuba lokuzibuza, “Ingabe ngiyabazisa labo abafaneleka?” Masicele uNkulunkulu ka-Israyeli ukuba asiphe lokho kuhlakanipha okuvela kuye.
Esther
Kukhona nesibonelo seNdlovukazi u-Esteri, washiya isibonelo sakhe: isibindi, ukuthobeka nesizotha, naphezu kobuhle bakhe nesikhundla sakhe. Wafuna usizo nezeluleko kwabanye. Lapho ekhuluma nomyeni wakhe, wayenesu lokungacunuli futhi enenhlonipho, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke wayenesibindi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, wayengesabi ukuziveza njengowesifazane ongumJuda ngesikhathi esinzima nesiyingozi kangaka kubantu bakwa-Israyeli.
U-Esteri wayengowesifazane owayengahambi yedwa, wayemethemba futhi ekwazi ukuthi uhamba nokusekelwa ngabantu bakubo, ngakho wabiza ukuzila ukuze athole umusa phambi kwenkosi. Bangaki kithi abafuna ukwesekwa nosizo kubantu bakithi?
Kwaba njalo ukunqoba wathola umusa phambi kwenkosi; UNkulunkulu wamnika ithuba lokuphelezela inkosi njengendlovukazi. Ngenxa yesenzo sakhe nesibindi sakhe kuze kube manje, izizukulwane ziyomazi njengendlovukazi u-Esteri. Ngoba wayengabuthembi ubuhle bakhe, kodwa udaba lwakhe walubeka ezandleni zikaNkulunkulu.
Sikumema ukuthi ufunde kabanzi ngempilo ye U-Esteri eBhayibhelini.
URahabi
Esinye isibonelo esikaRahabi okwathi nakuba ayeyisifebe ehlala emzini waseKhanani, wasiza izinhloli futhi wazincenga ukuba zisindise yena nesizukulwane sakhe lapho ama-Israyeli efika ezobhubhisa iJeriko. IBhayibheli lithi uRahabi uyisibonelo esivelele sokholo nesibindi.