Izwi leNkosi yethu kanye nomthandazo kuyizindlela ezimbili ezinkulu asinike zona ukuze sinqobe isitha, ngakho-ke Faka lesi sihloko, ufunde indlela yokuthandazela inganeNgoba akukho okunamandla emhlabeni njengomthandazo kamama.
Ungakwenza kanjani thandazela ingane?
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi isitha somoya samaKristu kanye neBandla, uSathane, ufuna ukubhidliza umndeni, nokho uBaba Wethu waseZulwini uzuze ifa lezibusiso ezinkulu futhi esinye sazo esokusinikeza amathuluzi okwazi ukuthi simthandazela kanjani umntwana.
Lapho uSathane ehlose ukuthatha omunye wabantwana bethu, indima yabazali iwukuguqa phambi kukaNkulunkulu ukuze abalamulele futhi ngesenzo esinamandla kangaka isitha siyathuthumela. Yingakho inhloso yalesi sihloko iwukuchaza indlela yokuthandazela umntwana.
INkosi ithi eZwini layo:
I-Psalm 2: 8
8 Cela kimi, ngiyakukunika izizwe zibe yifa;
Futhi njengefa lakho imikhawulo yomhlaba.
Ngakho ungaphumula kuJehova futhi wenze izinhlelo zomthandazo eziphumelelayo nezinenjongo ezisekelwe eZwini likaNkulunkulu, lezi zimelela amathuluzi amakhulu emzabalazweni ongokomoya esibhekana nawo nsuku zonke.
Singathandaza kuSomandla ngazo zonke izikhathi, isibonelo: ezilingweni, emizabalazweni nasekunqobeni, kanye nasendabeni yabantwana abahlubukayo abasuka kude nekhaya.
Izikhathi eziningi siyazibuza ukuthi kungani izingane zethu zingalaleli?Kungani zihlubuka kangaka? Kungani behamba ekhaya? Ngalezo zikhathi ukudangala kuyasihaqa futhi ukukhungatheka kuyasihlasela, futhi yilapho okufanele silandele, ngaphandle kokungabaza, indlela yomthandazo njengoba incwadi isho:
Jeremiya 33:3
3 Khala kimi, ngikuphendule, ngikufundise izinto ezinkulu nezifihliwe ongazazi.
Efesu 3: 14-15
14 Ngalesi sizathu ngiguqa ngamadolo ami phambi kukaYise weNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu,
15 okuqanjwe kuyo yonke imindeni yasezulwini neyasemhlabeni.
Manje, uJehova usinike isipho esiyigugu, esiwumkhaya. Impela, uNkulunkulu usibusisile ngomndeni, ngakho-ke akukho lutho olungasephuca lona. Yebo, kodwa yingakho uSathane engayeki ukusebenzisa amaqhinga akhe ukuze asenze siwele ezilingweni futhi yilapho kufanele sibambelele emthandazweni njengendlela nensiza yokusincengela.
indlela efanele yokuthandaza
NgemiBhalo Engcwele singabona ngokucacile ukuthi ukuthandaza akuyona into engaphezu kokukhuluma noNkulunkulu. Lapho sithandaza, sivula izinhliziyo zethu eNkosini ukuze siyitshele indlela esizizwa ngayo. UJesu uthi:
UMathewu 6: 5-8
5 Futhi lapho nikhuleka, ningafani nabazenzisi; ngoba bayathanda ukuthandaza bemi emasinagogeni nasemakhoneni emigwaqo, ukuze babonwe ngabantu; Ngikufungisa ukuthi sebewutholile umvuzo wabo.
6 Kodwa wena, nxa ukhuleka, ngena ekamelweni lakho, uvale umnyango, ukhuleke kuYihlo osekusithekeni; futhi uYihlo obona ekusithekeni uyokuvuza obala.
7 Futhi ukuthandaza, ungasebenzisi ukuphindaphinda okuyize, njengabezizwe, abacabanga ukuthi ngenkulumo yabo bazolalelwa.
8 Ngakho-ke maningafani nabo; ngoba uYihlo uyakwazi enikuswelayo ningekamceli.
Kusukela ngesikhathi lapho iNkosi isinika ithuba lokuba nomntwana, siqala ukuzwa umhlaba omusha, sizwa uthando olukhulu nokuvikelwa kubo, okusiholela ekubeni siqaphele inhlalakahle yabo yezinto ezibonakalayo nengokomoya.
Yebo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuyafundwa ukuthi abantwana bazodlula ezigabeni ezinzima emhlabeni wabo kamoya, kungaba ngenxa yokuhlubuka noma ngenxa yezenzo zesitha sikamoya, kulapho okumele sithathe khona indima yabazali sibambelele okholweni lwethu ukuze sisize. ngemithandazo.
Uma kukhona obaba nomama ababusisa izingane zabo, akekho ozobaqalekisa futhi umusa omkhulu weNkosi yethu uyothelwa phezu kwabo.
Izinyathelo zokuthandazela ingane ehlubukayo
Uma unendodana ehlubukile yahamba ekhaya ungasakwazi okumele ukwenze, izimo zilokhu zikhula ungazi ukuthi uyithandazela kanjani indodana, ezwini likaNkulunkulu kuhlala kunezixazululo. Kunoma yisiphi isimo obhekene naso kumele sihlale simkhumbula uNkulunkulu.
vusa inhloso
Ngesikhathi sokuthandazela leyo ndodana ehlubukayo eyashiya ikhaya, entula inhlonipho, ephambana nezindinganiso zokuziphatha nezobuKristu ezishiwoyo, ngaphezu kokuphambana nemizimba nempilo yazo.
Kungakho into yokuqala okumele siyifunde uma sikhuleka wukuvusa inhloso uNkulunkulu ayinike abantu esesiswini sikanina.
UJehova wamnika injongo futhi akasanyakazi ngokugcwele kuze kube yilapho ethola iNkosi, nokho, endleleni yokuphila uyamsiza ukuba afinyelele leso siphetho nenjongo; futhi yilapho umthandazo ungena khona njengomthombo oyinhloko wokuvusa inhloso futhi wenze insindiso isebenze nokuthi ubumnyama obusemehlweni abo bungaphuma.
Leyo nhloso ilele futhi okuphapheme okukaSathane, ngaphezu kwezinqumo umuntu azithathayo zokungayilandeli indlela yokuhle. Ngoba uJehova angaphendula okubi kube kuhle.
ukuphaphama kokwazi
Lapho abantu benza izono ngokuphindaphindiwe, ububi bungena. Singasho ukuthi unembeza wabo ushile, abakwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokuhle nokubi.
Kuleli phuzu, sikumema ukuthi ufunde isixhumanisi esilandelayo ku umfanekiso wendodana yolahleko owayenakho konke futhi walahlekelwa. Wayedlubulunda kakhulu futhi ngaleso sikhathi lapho wayengasenalutho, yilapho efika phansi futhi yilapho asabela khona futhi waqondisa amehlo akhe phezulu, esibhakabhakeni.
UNkulunkulu ngomusa wakhe ongapheli wezwa ukukhala nemithandazo yabazali bakhe ukuba abuyele ezingqondweni, lapho wavusa unembeza wakhe futhi waba namandla okuhlukanisa phakathi kokuhle nokubi.
Biza izinto njengoba zinjalo
Kubaluleke kakhulu, njengoba kusho emiBhalweni Engcwele:
Taga 18:21
21 Ulimi lunamandla okuphila nokufa, futhi abaluthandayo bayodla isithelo salo.
Kulapho-ke thina bomama abakhuluma kabi ngezingane zethu, simemezela ubumnyama kubo, ngakho-ke kufanele siguqule iziqalekiso sithole izibusiso sithi indodana yami iphawulwe nguNkulunkulu, ikhonza uNkulunkulu futhi izofeza injongo yakhe lapha emhlabeni. Lokhu kuzuza ukuphaphama emhlabeni kamoya futhi kuxosha ubumnyama babantwana abahlubukayo.
Ufanele uzinikele ekukhaleni nasemthandazweni, kulowoMoya womkhuleko. Khonza futhi udumise iNkosi Yethu ngaphambi kokukhuleka, ngoba ihamba phambi kwabantwana bethu ukulwa izimpi zabo. Kubalulekile ukuthi sifunde iHubo 140 futhi lihambisana nomthandazo wabantwana abahlubukayo.
Umthandazo wezingane ezingamahlongandlebe
ubaba onothando
Ngalesi sikhathi ngimi phambi kwakho ukuze ngikhulumele abantwana bami, nomndeni wami.
Kungalesi sikhathi Nkosi ngizithola ngikhathazwa ukuhlubuka kwezingane zami.
Wena Nkosi uyazazi izinhliziyo zabo. Nguwe kuphela ongangisiza.
Ngiyancenga ngalelihora ukuze egameni likaJesu, hlukanani nonke
ukuthunjwa kobubi, ukuhlubuka, ukuzidla
futhi ngimemezela ukukhulula izingqondo zezingane zami kubo bonke ububi.
Ngisungula ikusasa lami
izingane ezikhululekile ethonyeni lezithombe ezingcolile zobulili, ubufebe, amaqembu ezigelekeqe, imisebenzi yokuziphatha okubi neyokungathembeki.
Baba othandekayo, Nguwe wedwa ongavikela izingane zami kuzo zonke izimfundiso zamanga, ukukhonza izithombe, ubuthakathi, kukho konke okuvukela intando kaNkulunkulu.
futhi ngiyakhala ngoba bahlale befuna iqiniso kuwe.
Nkosi ngiyakuncenga ngenxa yakho
izingqondo ziyathunjwa kuze kufike ebukhoneni bukaKristu wethu othandekayo.
Baba eGameni likaJesu ukuthi abantwana bami bazithobe entandweni yakho ephelele
Ngiqondise njengobaba/umama ukuze ngiqondise, ngiqondise futhi ngiqondise izingane zami eZwini lakho.
Nkosi, ngivumele ngilalele isiqondiso sakho futhi ngikusebenzise ngokuhlakanipha okuvela phezulu.
Akumina obeka intando yami, kodwa eyakho ekhaya lami.
Zikhazimulise Nkosi endlini yami, emndenini wami nasezimpilweni zabantwana bami.
Manje-ke baba ngiyamncengela umyeni wami ukuze nawe umnikeze umkhombandlela ukuze akwazi ukubhekana nalesi simo nezingane zethu.
Gcina yonke imicibisholo kude nesitha, yephula futhi yephule noma isiphi isibopho sokuhlubuka Nkosi ezizukulwaneni zethu.
Khumbula Nkosi yendlu yenceku yakho
Ngalesi sikhathi Nkosi ngiphumule kuwe ngoba ngineqiniso lokuthi usizwile isicelo sami futhi nguwe ophethe zonke izinto.
Konke lokhu Nkulunkulu wami ngikuthumela kuwe egameni lendodana yakho eThandekayo neNkosi UJesu Kristu
Ngakho-ke makube njalo.
Futhi, kuyathakazelisa ukuthi siye evesini elilandelayo.
1 KwabaseKhorinte 1:10
10 Ngiyanincenga, bazalwane, egameni leNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu ukuba nivumelane nonke ezwini, kungabikho ukwahlukana phakathi kwenu, kodwa nipheleliswe engqondweni nasengqondweni.
Ngokulandelana kwemibono efanayo, siqhubeka nezinye izindlela zokuthi ungathandazela kanjani ingane ukuze ukwazi ukukhetha evumelana nezidingo zakho.
Umkhuleko wezingane ezihlubukayo
Baba othandekayo, ngiyakucela ukuba usebenze ensindisweni nasekuguquleni indodana yami; Ngilawula inhliziyo yakho, ingqondo yakho,
nangentando yakhe ukumkhulula emicabangweni emibi embusayo; ukuze ngiphume ethunzini futhi ngikhanyiswe ukukhanya kwakho okuyisivikelo.
Nkosi yami yala ukuthi konke ukulawulwa omubi phezu kwendodana yami kunyamalale ngokushesha futhi kudlule ngokuphelele kuNkulunkulu uSomandla;
futhi ukuze ngithole intethelelo yakho, ngithole isibusiso sakho.
Guqula indodana yami ibe ngumuntu onomusa ngokuphelele futhi othobekile.
Nika indodana yami isibusiso sakho ukuze ibone izono zayo futhi ibenzele isenzo sokuphenduka,
futhi angaphuma ezindleleni ezimbi, iseluleko, izinkampani kanye nenyakatho yayo ukwethembeka nobuqotho.
Egameni elinamandla likaJesu Kristu, amen.
izingane ezingalaleli
Izindlela ezahlukene zokucela nokuthandazela izingane zethu, ngokusho kwemiBhalo Engcwele:
ngesihawu
UNkulunkulu uhlala ethethelela izono zethu, ngakho-ke, akasiniki isijeziso esisifanele, lonke ulaka lwakhe ngezono zethu lwehlela kuJesu, iNdodana yakhe ezelwe yodwa, lapho eyothululela umusa wakhe ongapheli kubantwana bethu.
U-Lucas 6: 36
"Kwangathi izingane zami zingahlala zinomusa njengawe Nkulunkulu wami, baba onomusa".
Ngokukholwa
Ukukholwa kuwukuba nesiqiniseko salokho okulindelekile, ukuqiniseka ngalokho okungabonwayo, ngakho uma sibambelela kukho futhi sithembela eNkosini siyobona izibusiso nezithembiso zikaNkulunkulu kubantwana bethu esibathandayo.
ULuka 17: 5-6
"Ngithandazela ukuthi uKholo olusezinhliziyweni zezingane zami luqine, futhi ngalo bangakwazi ukunqoba lezo zithembiso uNkulunkulu abanikeze zona".
Isizinda sakho
Lapho sithandazela izingane zethu kubalulekile ukuba sicele ukuzithiba, ukuze iNkosi ibenze baqaphele futhi bavuke ebumnyameni futhi babuyele endleleni yokukhanya kokuvikela kukaNkulunkulu.
1 Thesalonika 5:6
"Nkosi yami, namuhla ngicela abantwana bami ukuba babuse enyameni yabo, bangaphazanyiswa izinjabulo ezidlulayo ezilethwa yilelizwe."
Insindiso
U-Isaya 45:8
"Baba, vumela insindiso ifike kubantwana bami kanye nakulowo nalowo ezinhliziyweni zabo, ukuze babone ukuthi uKristu uyindodana yakho ethandekayo nokuthi ukhokhele izono zethu".
Abashushisi Bokuthula Nokuthula
Roma 14:19
“Baba, vumela izingane zami zenze konke okuletha ukuthula.”
Uthando ngeZwi likaNkulunkulu
I-Psalm 19: 10
“Kwangathi abantwana bami bangakhula bazuze izwi lakho eliyigugu kunegolide, kunegolide elicwengekileyo; futhi imnandi kunezinyosi zekhekheba”.
Isithiyo esikhulu emithandazweni
Kubalulekile ngaphambi kokuqala noma yiluphi uhlobo lomkhuleko wempi kamoya wonke amalungu omndeni azibophezele ekuguquleni isilulumagama sisuke kwisiqalekiso siye esibusisweni. Ngakho-ke, kufanele bagweme ukukhononda, izimangalo, ukuthuka, ukugxekwa, kanye nezenzo zomunyu noma zokwehlulwa ezingabonwa kahle nguBaba wethu waseZulwini.
Ukuziphatha okungalungile okugqugquzela ukulwa, ukuklabalasa, ukungezwani, nokungabekezelelani kudingeka kusuke ekhaya noma yonke into izophenduka i-flop. Ulimi kumele ngaso sonke isikhathi lube nesibusiso futhi lumemezele ukunqoba kukaNkulunkulu. Uma isimo sokulwa nokucasuka siqhubeka ekhaya, imithandazo izoba yize.
KunamaKrestu amaningi akhuleka eNkosini esimweni esithile abese ememezela ukunqoba, kodwa kuvele ukuthi kamuva azwakalisa umunyu, ukunqotshwa noma ukuqalekisa, ngakho-ke, imithandazo yabo ayisoze yaphendulwa.
Ulimi olusetshenziswa ukuphakamisa imikhuleko kumele luhambisane nezenzo zethu.
Kuyaye kwenzeke ukuthi uma abantu bekhuleka, bahlakazeke ngomkhuleko bagcine sebethandazela izinto eziningi ezisuke zingenampendulo evela kuNkulunkulu.
Futhi ekugcineni ngikumema ukuthi ubone lokhu okunye okuthokozisayo okulalelwayo nokubonwayo.