Kuva nemunhu wepedyo newe ane dambudziko rekudhakwa kunogona kuva dambudziko rakaipisisa. Mamiriro acho anogona kutowedzera kurema kana munhu iyeye ane mutoro uyu ari mumwe wako, uye kana iri nyaya yako, une rombo rakanaka; Muchikamu chino tichakudzidzisa zvese nezve kunamatira murume wechidhakwa.
Kudhakwa mune zvemweya
Kunosanozivikanwa kuti kubvira pamakore okutanga-tanga okusikwa kwomunhu, doro rave riri rimwe rezvinetso zvakatanhamara zvebudiriro.
Kunyangwe mushure mekukura kwevanhu, matambudziko epasi rose edoro haana kuderedzwa kana kuderedzwa. Izvi mhedzisiro yekusasimukira kwemweya kwevanhu uye zvinoguma nekuparadzaniswa kwevanhu naIshe.
Hapana nguva apo Mwari akarambidza kunwa zvinhu zvinodhakisa, panzvimbo pezvo, kazhinji kazhinji, iye akakumbira kuti munhu afarikanye betsero dzose dzinobva mumuti uye kuti ivo vashandise zvikurusa zvibereko zvawo.
Zvisinei, dambudziko rinouya apo murume anotanga kurasikirwa neshungu dzake kuburikidza nekunwa musanganiswa unoparira migumisiro yedoro.
Kana munhu angova chidhakwa, anenge asingateereri Mwari nokusakwanisa kuzvitonga, nokunwa doro zvisina mwero uye kuziva zvinhu zvaanokwanisa kuita akadhakwa.
Mumakore okutanga, waini, somuenzaniso, yakanga iri chinwiwa chaishandiswa mumhemberero huru pasina kuzvidza kupi nokupi kurayira kwaMwari.
Zivawo nezve munamato waJabhezi. Zvichakufadza.
Ukuwo, apo vatori vechikamu vakanga vasina kudzora, hasha dzaMambo weMadzimambo dzakakwira uye akaita nokururamisira pakusateerera kwomurume wacho.
Noa, semuenzaniso, akava munhu aivimbwa naMwari kuti aizova chikamu chezano rake mubasa rokubvisa zvakaipa zvose panyika, akanga ari chidhakwa asati acheneswa neropa raKristu Mudzikinuri paakazarura mwoyo wake. kudenga uye akachema kuti Mwari amuchenese.
Izvi zvinoreva kuti shoko raMwari rinokwanisa kubvisa kusvibiswa kupi nokupi kana masora angamera mumweya womunhu.
Pane rumwe rutivi, mukati menzanga yechiKristu yenyika yose, vanhu vanodavira kuti kupindwa muropa nedoro hakunei nechokuita nomudzimu womunhu, asi ikoku hakungagoni kuva kwakaipa zvikuru.
Kana huipi pachahwo hurihwo hunokonzera kusaipa mumweya, dambudziko rine mudzi wemweya wakananga.
Vazhinji vevanhu munyika vakatambura nekukwezvwa kuchimwe chinhu chakazopedzisira chave chakaipa, asi zvisingarambiki, vhangeri rinogara richitaura pavanhu ava kuti Baba vashande pamwoyo yavo.
Kana iwe uchiziva mumwe munhu ane dambudziko rekudhakwa, kunyanya kana munhu uyu ari munhu ari padyo newe semurume wako, baba vako, mwanakomana wako kana mumwe munhu ari padyo, unogona kuzvigadzirisa neshoko raMwari, uchitaura munamato wechidhakwa. murume .
Munamato wemurume chidhakwa
Mubhaibheri mune zvakawanda zvimedu zvebhaibheri zvinoshanda zvakakwana kune akasiyana mamiriro uye zvine mhedzisiro inoshamisa pahupenyu hwemunhu waunoda kunamatira.
Chekutanga, yeuka kuti kunyangwe paine munamato chaiwo werudzi urwu rwedambudziko, kutaurirana naMwari kunogara kuchibatsira mukurapa huipi hwehupenyu hwako kana ukavhura moyo wako.
Nokuda kweichi chikonzero, mukuwedzera kukudzokorora munyengetero wauchadzidza pasi apa, unofanira kuzarura mifungo yako kuna Wamasimba ose ndokutaura mirangariro yako pamusoro penhau iri kutaurwa.
Kuwedzera pane zviri pamusoro apa, zvinokoshawo kuti unyengetere nemwoyo wose. Kuti uite izvi unofanirwa kuve wakatendeseka zvakazara, kuratidza kutenda kwakachena uye kwakapfupika, kukwidziridza Mwari sechikamu chemunamato wako uye kuzviparadzanisa nevamwe kubva kune chero zvinokanganisa panguva yemunamato.
Pazasi iwe uchadzidza nezvekunamatira murume akadhakwa:
O Baba, neruoko rwenyu pamwoyo wangu rwakazarurwa zvakazara kumaziso enyu, ndinonamatira izvo zvinondinetsa usiku.
Ndakaisa kutya kwangu pamuri izvo zvave kuchemedza nekurwadziwa kumhuri yangu yawagara uinayo mumoyo mako.
Pasi pezita renyu ndinopfugama kuti muone mandiri kukosha kwekutendeukira kwamuri, pamusoro pezvose, nokuti ndimi kwete ini, ndinokwanisa kugadzirisa matambudziko ose ari panyika.
Ndimi moga munogona kupedza shungu dzangu kuti ndirarame zvinoenderana nemweya wenyu.
Ishe munonyatsoziva rudo rwandinonzwa kumuchato wangu nemhuri yangu, uye ndaona zvakanaka rudo rwamunonzwa narwowo, ndosaka ndiri pano kuti ndikukumbirei kuti mundibatsire kukunda nhanho iyi.
Ah Ishe, vane tsitsi, vakakwana uye vane masimba ese, ndinonamatira murume wangu akazvibvumira kubatwa nemaoko emuyedzo.
Parizvino mumwe wangu haakwanisi kutiza nekuda kwake, nekuti maconcoctions ekuodzwa mwoyo anoita kuti pfungwa dzake dziite dzungu uye dzinoita kuti abve panogara mweya wako wakasungwa.
Ini ndinoita munamato wangu kwauri nekuti iwe unongokwanisa kudaidza kuvhenekera ese masimba anomutambudza husiku uye anohwanda kuseri kwemeso ake masikati.
Ndinokukumbirai nekuti kana angotsauswa nehuipi hwake anokwanisa kurasikirwa nekusagadzikana uye kubvisa zvese zvakanaka zvasara muhupenyu hwake, izvo iwe chete wauya nazvo uye watokanganwa.
Ndinotendeukira kunyasha dzenyu nokuti munonyatsoziva, somuzivi wezvinhu zvose, kuti rudo rwandinonzwa kwaari rwakakura zvokuti ndinogara kunyange kana ari panguva dzakaipa zvikuru uye ndichichema kwamuri nokuda kworuponeso rwake.
Kunyange zvakadaro, ndinoziva kuti rudo rwangu haruna kuenzaniswa nerudo rwaunomunzwira iwe pachako, Mwari werudo nehupenyu, nekuti ndiye mwanakomana wako uye nekuti iwe uri chiedza uye chiedza chete, usina rima kana ruvengo uye nemabasa zvakaipa, nokufamba kwenguva, hazvisvibisi mwoyo wako woumwari.
Naizvozvo ndinotaura nokuda kwevavariro dzakanaka dzomurume wangu, uyo ari mutengesi pakati pavaevhangeri vako uye anochema usiku nemwoyo unoda kukuzarurira, asi iye anofuratira.
Uye naizvozvo ndinozvitaura kuti umubvise mujeri rechivi neuipi uye umuchenese, uye umubatsire kuvaka chido chake muupenyu hwake kuti atevere nzira yako nokuti mwanakomana akanaka, anokwanisa uye ane rudo.
Nokuti akanganwa shoko renyu, asi hapana nzira iyo mweya usiri mumwoyo make kana angoregererwa kubva kuzvivi zvake nekusiya mweya wake chido chekugutsa huipi hwake pasina zviyero kana miganhu.
Nhai baba murume wangu, mukoma, mwana wemurume nemukadzi, arasika nekuti haana kukwana sevamwe.
Murume wangu achave mutsvene nekuda kweshoko rako rakaropafadzwa, nekuti rudo rwako runomusunungura uye achawira murudo zvakare nenyasha dzako, kupfuura zvaaimboita amai vake, mukadzi wake kana mwanakomana wake.
Naizvozvo, Baba ndinokumbira kuti muve muponesi wake, kuti aone kuti ane zvakawanda sei pamberi pake uye kuti ari mukati zvakadii. Ndinokukumbira kuti umusunungure kubva mukuparara kwake uye umupe, nenzira yeruponeso, nyasha dzehupenyu hwako.
Musunungurei kubva kune zvakaipa zvese zvinomuvhima uye zvinomuzevezera munzeve dzake kuti agutse huipi hwake nekuti ndimi moga munokwanisa, pamusoro pezvimwe zvinhu zvenyama nezvakaipa uye zvisiri manyuko echiedza neruponeso semi Baba.
Ah Ishe, ndinokutendai nekuti wanga uri iwe nguva dzese wakanditungamira kuti ndizive kuti ndiwe chete une mhinduro kumutoro uyu unotakurwa nemudiwa wangu kumusana uye kuti iwe chete unobvisa muhupenyu hwake.
Muzita renyu, iye achaporesa kubva kune zvakaipa zvose, iwe uchamupa simba mumweya wake kuti azvisunungure kubva pakuedzwa uye, kutanga, nokuda kwake, kukwanisa kuti 'Kwete' kunwa.
Ipapo, nokuda kwezviratidzo zvamuchaisa pazuva rake nhasi, iye achaona nyasha dzenyu muruponeso rwake uye nokuda kwake achafarira kubwinya kwenyu, uye panzvimbo ino achava achinyengetera pamberi penyu kuti imi. mumudzidzise nzira yoruponeso. Ameni.
Dzidzira munamato uyu wemurume chidhakwa kuitira kuti ugone kubatsira mumwe wako, ari kure, kuburikidza nebasa raIshe.
Kukosha kwekuita munamato uyu
Muchato wevakaroorana umo mumwe wevaviri ari munyatwa yehumwe huipi kana kuti muedzo unogara uripo, unoparara nguva dzese. Kuziva munamato wemurume chidhakwa kunokosha zvikuru.
Kana mumwe wevaviri ava akanyudzwa muhuipi nguva dzese, mumwe wacho ndiye angangove akanyanya kukanganiswa munharaunda yese yezvekutanga.
Muchiitiko ichi pachava nezvinetso zvehukama pakati pevanhu vevakaroorana, zvakakwana kuyeuka matambudziko ose anokonzerwa nekudhakwa kwemurume wako.
Kwauri zvanga zvisina kunaka zvachose, pamwe vanga vaine matambudziko akawanda kupfuura akajairwa, moto wehukama wakadzimwa nekuda kwekukanganisa kukuru kunokonzerwa nedambudziko iri.
Muchiitiko chisingadikanwi, mukana wemhirizhonga yepanyama kana yepfungwa kana chero imwe mhando yehasha inopindira munhaurirano.
Ikoku, sezvaungaziva mumanyuko echiKristu ari mumwoyo mako, kunokonzerwa nesimba rakaipa rinodyisa murume wako kana angobvumira zvinodikanwa zvaanofunga kuti anazvo pamusoro pedoro kana kuti zvinodhaka.
Nekuda kweizvi, chimwe chinhu chakakosha kwauri chinoratidzwa. Mwari chete ndiye anogona kumisa kukura kwembeu yakaipa yakadyarwa nedoro pamurume wako kana kuhama ine dambudziko iri.
Manyuko bedzi echiedza chakachena chinokwanisa kurwa hondo yokukunda mukurwisana nouipi huri munyika ndiMwari. Saka kuti dambudziko remurume wako redoro ripere, unofanira kunamata kuna Baba nemunamato wekubwinya uyu. Kuve nematambudziko ehukama kwakuita kuti uzvibvunze chinangwa chako ndechei muhupenyu?, tsvaga pazasi.
Chero imwe nzira yaunowana yekugadzirisa dambudziko iri risina kubatana nehurongwa hwaMambo weMadzimambo ichave isina maturo, inoparara uye pakupedzisira iyi nhamo ichagogodza pamasuwo ehupenyu hwako zvakare.
Izvi hazvireve kuti hapana dzimwe nzira munyika dzekugadzirisa matambudziko emukati memumwe munhu, semuenzaniso, zvirongwa zvekurapa, Alcoholics Anonymous mapoka, uye kupindira kwevamwe vari pedyo nemunhu. Asi ichokwadi kuti hazvibatsiri kutsvaga mhinduro yedambudziko rine midzi yemweya, kana zvese zvisina kutanga zvabatanidzwa nenyasha dzeMweya Mutsvene.
Munamato wekubvisa chidhakwa
Panogona kunge kune nyaya yakaoma uye yakakomba, iyo apo iwe zvechokwadi unorasikirwa nekutenda kune munhu akanyura mudambudziko rekudhakwa.
Kana izvi zvikaitika, ungangofunga kuti haukodzeri kuramba uchishivirira utsinye hwose hunobva kune mumwe wako, uyo akakanganiswa zvachose nokunwa.
Nyaya yacho inova inosuwisa kana munhu ari chidhakwa akatanga kukushungurudza, kukurova kana kukurwisa.
Zvakaoma kwazvo kuziva zvekuita kana munhu waunoda akakuisa pachinzvimbo ichocho, zvisinei, chinhu chakanakisa kwauri kufunga kuti mutoro wako wepamoyo nemunhu wakataurwa wakagumira uye kuti kuvapo nguva dzese kunogona kuita chepfu iwe.
Kana munhu abva asina kukuvadzwa kuvapo kwechisikwa chepedyo (uyo anochengeta masangano akaipa pachawo) anenge achipa nzira yemahara kuti madhimoni kana masimba anobva munyika yerima ashande muhupenyu hwavo.
Izvi hazvisi izvo zvinodiwa naMwari kwauri. Kuda kwake ndekwekuti uzvitenderedze nevanhu vanokuitira zvakanaka uye vanogona kukubatsira kukura pamweya.
Panguva imwecheteyo, kuda kwake ndiko kuti iwe utore shoko rake munzvimbo dzine rima uye dzakaoma zvikuru kuparadzira nyasha dzake.
Nekudaro, kana kuvepo kwako muhupenyu hwemunhu iyeye kuchipedza simba rako remweya, zviri nani kuti ubvepo.
Kutora matanho panhau yacho kana yasvika kune mumwe munhu waunoda kunodiwa zvikuru. Kana ari mumwe munhu asingagare achikuzadza nekuzvidemba asi kana paine mhirizhonga yepanyama, yepfungwa kana yepabonde, zvine hungwaru kuti usabve ipapo.
Heino munamato wemurume chidhakwa arikushungurudza nekuda kwedambudziko rake redoro uye kuti akusiye wega:
Haiwa Ishe wangu, imi munoshandisa kururama kwoumwari muupenyu hwangu, munozvidza zvakaipa pamusoro pezvakanaka. Imi musiki wangu uye munoziva kupfuura ani zvake zvandinofanira uye zvandisingakodzeri.
Baba ndinonamata kuti mundibatsire kubvisa zvakaipa zvese zvinorwadza moyo wangu. Sezvo murume wangu akawira mudoro, ndinokumbira kuti mumubvise, asi kwete nerubatsiro rwangu, nokuti zvinokuvadza kukura kwangu kwemukati.
Zita renyu ngarive dzvene muhupenyu hwangu Baba. Kana nzwara dzechakaipa dzakanyudza mumwe wangu mudoro ndinokumbira kuti usandibatewo ndichiedza kuchengetedza zvisiri zvangu.
Ndinopfugama pamberi penyu kuti muone kuti ndinovimba kuti munoziva hunhu hwangu uye ndinorangarira kuti imi moga ndimi muponesi wamwari.
Ndinoda kubvisa murume wangu nekuti kudhakwa kwake kunondinetsa siku nesikati, uye chiedza chako chete ndicho chinovheneka nzira yangu. Ameni.
Munamato kuti uzvidzivirire pachidhakwa
Kana wanzwa kuti wava panjodzi nokuti murume wako ari kukunyangira mukudhakwa kwake nehasha, usazeza kuita munamato uyu.
Kana iwe uchityisidzirwa nemurume wechidhakwa, munamato uyu wemurume chidhakwa uchave chishandiso chakanakisa chekuzvidzivirira kubva kwaari:
Nhai Baba makandichengeta siku nesikati mandionesa ani akanditenderedza nemweya yese yeshungu inovanda kumusana kwangu.
Ndanga ndiri bofu kuti munditungamirire pameso enyu, uye ruoko rwenyu ngarunditungamirire munzira dzerugare, nokuti ndinovimba nemi Ishe wangu.
Ishe vehupenyu hwangu bvisai munhu uyu asina kundiitira zvakanaka kana neni, akasunungura hondo muhupenyu hwangu ndisingatarise kuti ndiri chiedza, nokuti ndakatungamirirwa nerudo nemi.
Nekuti rudo rwangu rwakasimba, ndinokumbira kuti umubvise munyika yekunwa uye uite kuti aone imwe nzira yekuzadzikiswa nayo pamweya.
Uye zvakare nekuti rudo rwangu kwauri uye kwandiri rwakasimba, ndinokumbira kuti umubvise muhupenyu hwangu.
Zvino kana munhu uyu achinge anditevera pandinosvika kumba, munondipa musha muine hushingi hwenyu, nokuti muchamudzinga kure nekwandinogara. Ipapo chete ndichazorora mukubwinya kwenyu.
Kana munhu uyu akasimudza ruoko rwake kwandiri, muchamutsira hasha dzake kudenga napanyika yakewo, nokuti ndakaitwa mutsvene nezita renyu.
Nezita renyu ndichaponeswa pamaoko ake nepamaoko anomusvibisa nemishonga ine muchetura, uye ndichaongawo mukururama kwenyu nepazvose zvinoenderana neshoko renyu. Ameni.
Kukosha kwemunamato uyu
Kuti udzivise matambudziko muhupenyu hwako uye kuti iwe ugone kukura semuKristu muvhangeri, iwe unofanirwa kudzidzira munamato uyu pane uyo ari kukushungurudza nekuda kwematambudziko avo ekudhakwa.
Hazvinei kuti une rudo rwakadini nokuda kwomurume wako, kana akakurova, achikutambudza uye kushandisa chisimba nguva dzose, yeuka kuti rudo rwaunofanira kuva narwo nokuda kwaMwari uye nokuda kwako pachako ruchiri kukosha sei.
Wawira mugomba neshumba ine nzara uye shoko raJehovha ndiro nhovo yako sezvakangoita chombo chako chikuru munamato. Nyasha dzababa dzichakubatsira kuti ubve ipapo wokwanisa kubvisa chitubu ichocho cherima muhupenyu hwako.
mweya wekudhakwa
Kana mudiwa wako akavharirwa mujeri remweya umo ari musungwa wedoro, unofanira kukurumidza kurondedzera kune chimwe chinhu chinoitika mukati mehupenyu hwake hwemweya.
Nokuda kwechikonzero ichi, zvinowanzoitika kuti apo kubatana uku kunoitika mupfungwa dzako kunobatanidza mweya kune mamiriro ezvinhu emumwe wako, chinhu chekutanga chinomuka mubvunzo unotevera: "Chii chikonzero chemweya wekudhakwa mumurume wangu? ''.
Mhinduro yacho inogona kuva yakaoma kana usingazivi zvakanaka zvaunofanira kuziva pamusoro peshoko raMwari. Mubhaibheri makanyorwa kuti huvepo hwehuipi nemasimba ehutsvina hwakanyanya kuoneka.
Masangano erima, nekuda kwekuti ari mumakona ese epasi aunoziva, shandisa mukana wese kupinda muvanhu nekuvashatisa.
Mikana iyi inoonekwa nemadhimoni nevatumwa vezvakaipa, inokurudzirwa nehuipi hwevanhu vane kutenda kwakaneta uye vasina moyo yakavhurika kuna Mwari.
Semuyenzaniso, nguva iyo murume wako akaita nenzira yakaipa kwaari, asingateereri shoko raMwari, masimba ehuipi akapinda mumwoyo make ndokudyara mhodzi yezvakaipa.
Edza kudzidzira munamato uyu kumurume wechidhakwa sezvo mhodzi yezvakaipa inokura uye ichikura nguva dzose nenzira yekuti nekubata mwoyo wemunhu, hana, zvinangwa uye simba, inotanga kukuvadza zvinhu zvose kunze kwemunhu.
Nenzira iyi anokuvadza ukama hwake, basa uye chido chake chemweya. Naizvozvo, munamato wemurume chidhakwa ndiyo mhinduro yakanakisa yaungawane kuti munhu iyeye abvise zvinhu zvese zvanga zvakachengeta moyo wake.
Kununurwa pamweya kwechidhakwa
Kusunungurwa kwomudzimu kunoitwa kana munhu akazarura mwoyo wake kuna Mwari zvokuti anodzinga mweya upi noupi wakaipa uye anochenesa mavara anokura mumwoyo.
Kana mumwe wako ari muKristu uye achipinda chechi, zviri nyore zvikuru kumutora kuti asunungurwe pamweya.
Kuti chiito ichi chinokura sei zvinoenderana zvachose nemunhu wachinoitwa kwaari uye nemufundisi kana ungano inozviita. Kazhinji, kusunungurwa pamweya kunounza mamiriro akadzama ekuti munhu achabatwa neropa raJesu uye nenzira iyi achaponeswa.
Ziva zvazvinoreva Kururamisira kwaMwari nezvimwe pane iyi link.
Kana murume wako asiri mutezo unongogara wechechi, kwakanakisisa kuti umukoke kuti atore rutivi murusando rwemharidzo yavose kwemavhiki mashomanene uye panguva yakafanira zvikurusa unogona kutaura nomufundisi wako kuti agokokwa kuva. chikamu chemaitiro iwayo.
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