Unoda kudzidza kuti chii mhando dzerudo? Pane zvakawanda zvauchadzidza kuzvizivisa uye kuzviongorora wega kana wakambozvionera. Muchikamu chino tichakupa tsananguro dzeumwe neumwe wavo. Pending!
Mhando dzerudo
Mhando dzerudo dzinogona kusiyaniswa mune imwe neimwe yemafomu aunofanira kuratidza kune munhu, pano ini ndichakusiya iwe tsananguro nezvemumwe nemumwe wavo, umo iwe waunonzwa uchizivikanwa.
Plato rudo
Kunzwa kworudo rwechokwadi, chishuvo chorudo chokuramba takabatana kumunhu asingasvikiki; inoratidzirwa nekusagona kuitika kana kuti kusingabviri, rudo rurefu runobva pafungidziro, iyo inonangidzirwa pakunaka kwomukati nokungwara kwomunhu, uye kwete pakuonekwa kwavo kwomuviri.
Rudo rusina kukodzera
Vamwe vevakadzi kana varume vaigona kunge zvakaitika kwavari. Zvinogona kunge wakapenga mukuda munhu, asi iye haanzwe zvakafanana kwauri. Zvinosuwisa zvikuru kana kuora mwoyo kune uyo anonzwa rudo; Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti rudo rusingadzoserwe ingori nhanho huru yehupenyu hwako uye munguva pfupi iwe unozvipedza.
"Ramba uchienda! kuti vanhu vatsva vakawanda nezvinhu zvakanaka zvichiri kuuya”
Rudo rwechokwadi
Irwo rudo rwakasimba kwazvo runokuisa iwe semumakore uye rwunodzokororwa zvakanyanya. Ane shungu, ane rudo, anoputika, anonakidza, anopenga, anoremekedza, ane mutsa, akapfava, ane moyo murefu, izvo zvisingambofi zvakakupedza simba uye zvinokuita kuti "ufare" kwazvo kuva nemunhu iyeye anokutsigira mune zvese uye anokuda zvakanyanya.
“Saizvozvo varume vanofanira kuda madzimai avo semiviri yavo. Unoda mukadzi wake unozvida iye; VaEfeso 5:28
Ini ndinokurudzira kuti uverenge bhaibheri, richakubatsira pakuva mukadzi akanaka kana murume akanaka!
rudo rwevechidiki
Icho chinhu chakanyanya kusimba uye chinoita senge chichagara hupenyu hwako hwese, asi muchokwadi chinomutsa mahomoni ako uye unorarama mukati memuviri wako, kunyangwe ikarega kuvapo mushure.
Waiziva here kuti vechidiki vakawanda kubva kurudo rwavo rwekutanga, vanogona kuroora munhu iyeye kubva paudiki hwavo uye vagara kusvika vafa! "Tsvaga"
Rudo rwakaita sorwemwana
Nhasi vazhinji vacharangarira kubva vachiri vadiki, pavakadanana nemumwe wavaidzidza naye uye pavakamuona vakatsvuka.
“Rudo irworwo rusina mhosva uye runyoro ndirwo rwakachena kwazvo runogona kuvapo”
Rudo rusingagoneki
Zvinogona kutaurwa kuti irwo rudo rusingabviri kune chimwe chezvikonzero izvi:
- Nokuti ane makore 35, mukuru kwauri
- nokuti akaroora
- nekuti ane musikana
Idzi dzinoda seizvi, hadzina kumboitika, dzinongobva semutambo kana kunakidzwa kwechinguvana.
mumwe rudo
Irwo rudo runonzwisisika rwemhuri kana shamwari dzepedyo dzaunogara uchiona uye dzakazara kuvimbana kwakazara, kushamwaridzana, rukudzo uye kubatana kwakawanda.
“Tinogara tine shamwari yatinoda zvikuru, sehama, ndiye watinovimba naye”
Kuzvida
Ndizvo zvatinonzwa isu pachedu, uye zvinofanira kuva zvinoshamisa kwazvo! Nokuti kana tikasasvika pakuzvida, tinofanira kushanda papfundo iroro.
Saka ngatitangei kuzvida.
- ita kuti uve wakanaka
- Gadzirira
- Sal
- Nakidzwa
- Teerera kumimhanzi
- Verenga bhaibheri, rinokubatsira kuva munhu ari nani uye kuzvichenesa pakunamata
"Saka tora matipi aya uye anokutungamira kuti uve munhu anoshamisa"
Rudo rwaamai
Rudo rwaamai haruna magumo uye haruenzaniswe nechimwe chinhu, ndicho chinhu chinoshamisa chakaitwa nemadzimai mazhinji muhupenyu hwavo. Iwe uchagara uchidzivirira vana vako uye uchivaitira zvese zvinogoneka, kuti vanyatsopora.
Kana usati wasangana nazvo? Zvakanaka, munguva pfupi iyo yakakosha zvikuru munhu muduku achauya kwauri, uyo achashandura hupenyu hwako zvachose uye iwe uchasvika pakuda, kunyange madhaka ane tsvina avanosiya shure.
“Ndirwo rudo rwakanaka kwazvo runogona kuvapo”
Tichataura newe munyaya ino nezvekuti izvi zviri sei mhando dzerudo zvinoenderana ne psychology yavo
Chii chinonzi rudo?
Pfungwa yerudo yakadzama uye yakaoma, nekuti inogona kuzivikanwa nezvinhu zvakasiyana kwazvo kuvanhu kana vanhu. Kwakakosha zvisinei nezera, tsika, mutauro kana rudzi, munhu wese anonzwa kuda kukuru kwerudo.
“Tinofanira kudanana, zvisinei nekuti vanobva kunyika ipi. Nekuti tese takafanana"
Anodiwa
Zvinoreva ushamwari hwechokwadi, hwaunongova nehukama hwepedyo, asi hapana kuzvipira. Vanhu vane rudzi urwu rwehukama vanonzwa vari pedyo uye vanovimbana. Asi havana hukama hwepedyo uye havatombozvifungi ivo sevakaroorana.
infatuation (chido)
Iko kufungidzira kuti munhu anofanira kuva nehukama hwepedyo, asi hapana kuvimba kwakakwana kana kuzvipira, iyo inotungamira sechido. Inogonawo kunzi "rudo pakutanga pakuona" kana "kupwanya".
rudo rusina chinhu
Irwo rudo nekuzvipira, rusina chido kana hukama hwepedyo. Rudzi urwu rwehukama hunogona kuitika uye hunogara kwemakore mazhinji, semuenzaniso: muwanano.
fatuous love
Inosimbiswa pahwaro hwekukwezva kwepabonde kune munhu, asingakwanise kupa hukama hwepedyo. Mumwe anogona kutaura nezvekuzvipira kusati kwasvika, uko hukama hwepedyo uye ruzivo rwehukama hunofanirwa kuve hwakakosha. Ivowo havana zvakawanda zvavanofanana.
Kudanana
Manzwiro anoratidza uye anoratidzwa zvakanyanya nekunakidzwa, kunyangwe pasina kuzvipira semurume nemukadzi. Rudo rwerudo rwakakurukurwa kakawanda, munguva dzekare uye nhasi.
rudo rwakakwana kana runoperera
Zvakafanana nemanzwiro ane chido kana kukwezva, kana munhu wacho achinzwa akakwana mumativi ose nemunhu, ine hukama mumashoko mashoma, hapana chinoshaikwa, saka vane kuzadzika muhupenyu hwavo hwerudo. Inomiririra hukama hwakanaka.
Inoumbwa nezvinhu zvitatu:
- Consummate love ndiyo huru yematory archetype
- Ndirwo rudo rwakakwana
- Inogamuchirawo zita rerudo rwakakura
Mhando dzakasiyana dzerudo zvinoenderana nebhaibheri
Kune 4 mhando dzerudo dzinowanikwa mubhaibheri mandiri kuenda "Kutsanangura" nezveimwe neimwe yadzo:
“Nokuti Mwari akada nyika nokudaro, kuti akapa Mwanakomana wake akaberekwa ari mumwe oga, kuti ani naani anotenda kwaari arege kufa asi ave noupenyu husingaperi.” ( Johani 3:16 )
Chii chinonzi rudo rwaEros muBhaibheri?
Harimo muMagwaro echiKristu echiGiriki, asi rakavakirwa pakukwezva vatano. Rinorevawo rudo rwekudanana uye rudo pakati pevarume nevakadzi.
Chii chinonzi rudo rweStorge muBhaibheri?
Kunzwa kunobva pahukama hweropa. Kunobvawo parudo runogona kuitwa mumhuri.
Chii chinonzi Philia rudo muBhaibheri?
Rudo rwerudo rweushamwari rwakavakirwa pakuongana. Rinogona kureva rudo kana kuti rudo rwatinarwo neshamwari dzedu.
Chii chinonzi agape rudo mubhaibheri?
Rudo rweAgape rwakakwana, haruna zvimiso, rupiro, uye rwakachena. Jesu Kristu akaratidzira rudzi urwu rworudo rwoumwari nokuda kwaBaba vake norudzi rwose rwomunhu munzira yaakararama nayo nokufa kwake.
Rudo rwakavakirwa panheyo, panzvimbo pomurangariro kana kuti udyire.
Chii chinonzi kushamwaridzana, kuzvipira uye chido? Pazasi isu tichatsanangura mumwe nemumwe wavo:
Zvakavanzika: Iko kunzwa kwepedyo, iyo ine hukama pakati pe: vanhu vaviri vari chikamu chenyaya yerudo, vanovimbana, ushamwari uye rudo.
Passion: Iko kufara kana simba pamusoro pehukama. Manzwiro anokwezva kudiwa kwemunhu, kuva naye uye kukwanisa kuva nehukama hwepedyo.
Kuzvipira: Nongedzero inoitwa kuti vose vari vaviri vanopwiswa chose chose chokugara pamwe chete nokuva noukama hwakarongeka.
Vakaroorana vane pfungwa yokunyatsozvipira vanoona muchato wavo semubatanidzwa wechigarire, uye izvozvo zvinoita kuti vanzwe vakachengeteka. Vose vane chokwadi chokuti vacharamba vari pamwe chete pasinei nokuti chii chinoitika.
Muvhidhiyo inotevera iwe zvakare uchakwanisa kukoshesa mhando dzerudo.