Amavesi eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni, imibhalo esiyithola emiBhalweni Engcwele. Iyiphi isiqondiso nosizo ukuze amakhaya akheke ngokwentando kanye nomklamo wokuqala kaNkulunkulu. Ukuze zikhule ziqine, zibe nempilo enhle futhi zijabule.
Amavesi eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni
Amavesi eBhayibheli ngomndeni ayizwi likaNkulunkulu elivumela ikhaya ukuthi lakhiwe ngokwentando kaNkulunkulu. Sengathi nayo ingakhula ngokohlelo lwayo kanye nenhloso ephelele eyadalelwa yona. Masikhumbule ukuthi umhlaba kuwo wonke umlando uye wavumela inhloso kaNkulunkulu yokuqala ukuba isintu ibe nokuhlanekezelwa okuthile. Konke kuphambene nezinhlelo zikaNkulunkulu ezwini lakhe.
Nokho, naphezu kokuphambuka okungaka, emhlabeni umndeni useyisixhumanisi esiphephe kunazo zonke esingaba khona ukugcina isintu sindawonye. Ngakho-ke umndeni uwukusekela okungcono kakhulu umuntu angaba nakho emhlabeni.
Umklamo kaNkulunkulu - Imvelaphi yomndeni
Kusukela ekudalweni, uNkulunkulu usungula isifiso sakhe sokuba indoda nowesifazane bande ngokuhlangana kwabo, ukuze bagcwalise umhlaba. Genesise 1:27-28
27 UNkulunkulu wamdala umuntu ngomfanekiso wakhe, wamdala ngomfanekiso kaNkulunkulu; wabadala owesilisa nowesifazane. 28 UNkulunkulu wababusisa, wathi kubo: "Zalani nande, nigcwalise umhlaba, niwunqobe; Nibuse phezu kwezinhlanzi zolwandle, nezinyoni zezulu, naphezu kwakho konke okuphilayo okunwabuzelayo emhlabeni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphinde ibeke ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane kufanele bahlale ndawonye. Kanye nokujoyina enyameni efanayo, ukusungula umndeni phakathi kwabo, Genesise 2:24 (LBLA)
24 Ngakho indoda izatshiya uyise lonina inamathele kumkayo, njalo bazakuba nyamanye.
Khona-ke sibona indlela uNkulunkulu anikeza ngayo indoda umsizi ofanelekayo omelelwa kowesifazane, futhi ngokuhlangana nayo bayoba indoda nomfazi. Isibusiso sikaNkulunkulu salokhu kuhlangana ngabantwana, abaphelelisa umndeni wesu eliphelele leNkosi. Izwi lithi ngabantwana abayinjabulo kubazali, singakubona encwadini yamaHubo 127:3-5 (LBLA):
3 Bhekani, abantwana bayisipho seNkosi; futhi umvuzo yisithelo sesisu. 4 Njengemicibisholo esandleni seqhawe, banjalo abantwana bobusha. 5 Ubusisiwe umuntu onomgodla wakhe ugcwele yibo; Ngeke ube namahloni uma ukhuluma nezitha zakho esangweni.
Umndeni-ke, ngokohlelo lukaNkulunkulu uyisiqalo sokuthi ikhaya lithuthuke enjabulweni. Ngisho nangokwengeziwe uma umndeni usekelwe ezwini likaNkulunkulu.
Amavesi eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni nendlela yokuxhumana ekhaya
Umhlaba unesimiso esimisiwe sesikhungo somndeni, okungukuthi umndeni uyisisekelo somphakathi. Ngandlela-thile, lesi simiso sinesizathu sokuba khona. Ngoba kuyokwenzeka kuphela ukwakha umphakathi onempilo nophephile kuze kube yilapho imindeni yakheka emakhaya lapho kufundiswa khona uthando, inhlonipho nezindinganiso. Mayelana nalokhu eBhayibhelini singathola amavesi ahlukahlukene angahlobana nomndeni nekhaya, ake sibone ambalwa awo ngezansi.
Okwesibopho somshado
Bekuvele kubonakale phambilini ukuthi ohlelweni lukaNkulunkulu ukuthi umbhangqwana ngamunye uma ushada, uqhubeke wakhe umndeni omusha. Kodwa futhi izwi likaNkulunkulu libonisa emavesini alo amaningi ukuthi umshado umeleni emndenini. Isibonelo singatholakala encwadini yezaga zeNkosi uSolomoni, umlingiswa waseBhayibhelini onokuhlakanipha okukhulu. Kule ncwadi sithola kuZaga 18:22
22 Ukuthola umfazi ukuthola okuhle kakhulu: kuwukwamukela isibonakaliso somusa kaNkulunkulu
Kodwa ungaphinda usho ezinye ezifana nalezi:
Ungathumeli noma yimuphi owesilisa osanda kushada empini, futhi ungathwesi omunye umsebenzi phezu kwakhe. Uzoba nonyaka wonke ekhululekile ukuthi anakekele umuzi wakhe futhi ajabulise owesifazane amthatha njengomkakhe. ( Duteronomi 24:5 )
Kepha uma bengenakuzibamba, mabashade, ngokuba kuhle ukuganwa kunokushiswa yinkanuko. ( 1 Korinte 7:9 )
Madoda, thandani omkenu, njengalokho noKristu walithanda ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yalo. ( Efesu 5:25 )
Uma ufuna ukujula emavesini obumbano lomndeni, sikumema ukuthi ufake isixhumanisi esilandelayo lapho uzofunda khona ukuthi ungambona kanjani uNkulunkulu. izicelo zomndeni, ukuhlala ndawonye
Amavesi eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni nokuphila okungokomoya
Kungumsebenzi nomthwalo wabazali ukusiza izingane zabo ukuba zithuthukise ukuphila okungokomoya okusekelwe ezwini likaNkulunkulu. Kanye nokunikeza isibonelo sothando nokwesaba uNkulunkulu. Konke lokhu ngeke kube yisibusiso kubantwana kuphela, kodwa naseqenjini lomndeni wonke.
6 Khumbulani ngekhanda zonke iziqondiso engininike zona namuhla, 7 futhi nizifundise izingane zenu ngezikhathi zonke nasezindaweni zonke: lapho usekhaya noma usendleleni, nalapho uvuka noma lapho ulala. ( Duteronomi 6:6-7 )
Ndawonye njengomkhaya dumisani uNkulunkulu
Ayikho intokozo enkulu ukwedlula wonke umkhaya ozinikele futhi uthotshiswe ekudumiseni uNkulunkulu. Ngalendlela, ngaphezu kwesibopho segazi esihlanganisa umkhaya, futhi bamisa isibopho sobunye esikhulu nakakhulu esiwuthando lukaNkulunkulu. Lesi sibopho siyisibopho sobunye obungokomoya noNkulunkulu, obugcwalisa wonke umkhaya ngenjabulo, ukuthula nokulunga. Wonke umkhaya onobunye emoyeni uthola isibusiso uNkulunkulu asinikeza bonke abamkhulekela ngomoya nangeqiniso. 1 IziKronike 16:28-29
28 Bantu bonke, qaphelani amandla kaNkulunkulu wethu, limkhonze. 29 Wozani phambi kwakhe nilethe iminikelo yenu; Mkhonze ngokumfanele! Khothama phambi kwakhe endlini yakhe engcwele emangalisayo!
Amavesi eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni - Isibusiso sezingane
Izingane ziyisipho esikhulu kunazo zonke nesingcono kakhulu uNkulunkulu angasipha umshado. Ngaphandle kokumelela umthwalo wemfanelo, izingane ziyindlela kaNkulunkulu yokubusisa umshado. Ngakho-ke abazali kufanele babathande, babanakekele, babafundise futhi babavikele. Ikakhulukazi bahambise endleleni eholela ekuphileni okuyizwi likaNkulunkulu. IzAga 17:6
6 Umqhele wamalunga angamadodana amadodana, nodumo lwamadodana ngoyise.
Roma 8:14 ( ESV)
14 Ngoba bonke abaholwa nguMoya kaNkulunkulu bangabantwana bakaNkulunkulu
3 Johane 4
4 Anginayo intokozo enkulu kunalokhu, ukuba ngizwe ukuthi abantwana bami bahamba eqinisweni;
Funda kabanzi kulesi sixhumanisi mayelana ne izibusiso zabantwana ezivikelayo futhi ezakhayo. Inhloso kaNkulunkulu kusukela ekudalweni iwukubusisa imindeni, futhi udlulisele kubazali umsebenzi nesibopho sokubusisa nokukhulumela izingane zabo ukuze zibaholele ekuphileni okuhle.
Amavesi eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni ukuqeqesha izingane kahle
Ingxenye ebalulekile yomndeni ifundisa izingane kusukela zisencane kakhulu izwi likaNkulunkulu. Kuyinani eliyinhloko elingafundiswa enganeni, ngoba uma lakhiwe ngokwesaba nokuhlonipha uNkulunkulu, zonke ezinye izindinganiso ziyozenezelelwa. Uma izingane zisekelwe empilweni enempilo engokomoya neyiqiniso, zizokwazi ukubhekana nakho konke ukuphila okungakuveza kuzo endleleni:
Efesu 6: 4
4 Nani boyise, ningabathukuthelisi abantwana benu, kodwa nibakhulise ngokulaya nangokuqondisa kweNkosi.
UMathewu 19: 14-15
14 Kepha uJesu wathi: "Bayekeni abantwana, ningabenqabeli ukuza kimi, ngokuba umbuso wezulu ungowabanjalo." 15 Ngemva kokubabeka izandla wasuka lapho.
Taga 22:6
6 Fundisa umntwana indlela ekufanele ahambe ngayo, kuyakuthi lapho esekhulile angasuki kuyo
Ingabe uyafuna ukufundisa izingane ukuba zihlakaniphe kuzo zonke izici zokuphila? Sincoma ukuthi ufunde i incwadi yezaga: Incwadi eyalotshwa iNkosi uSolomoni, ngemva kokuba uNkulunkulu eyinike inhliziyo enokuqonda egcwele ukuhlakanipha. Lapho ilandisa khona ngezahluko ezingu-31, ukuthi le nkosi yenza kanjani izambulo ezinkulu mayelana: nokuhlakanipha, indlela yokuphila, ubuvila, ukuziphatha, owesifazane oqotho nokunye.
Ekulaleleni abazali
Phakathi kwesu likaNkulunkulu kuyabonakala futhi ukuthi abantwana kumelwe balalele futhi bahloniphe abazali babo. Uma abazali behambisana nengxenye ebonwe ngenhla mayelana nokufundisa izingane zabo indlela kaNkulunkulu. Njengoba bekhula ezwini, ukulalela nokuhlonipha abazali babo benza kanjalo ngokwemvelo, njengoba uMoya oNgcwele uyabaqondisa. Yingakho abazali kufanele badebeselele ukufundisa izingane zabo, kufanele bahlale beqaphile, ngoba isitha singasebenzisa noma yikuphi ubuthakathaka noma ukunganaki.
Efe 6:1 Abazali nabantwana
6 Bantwana, lalelani abazali benu. Wena ungabakaKristu, futhi yilokho okumelwe ukwenze.
KwabaseKolose 3: 20
20 Nina bantwana lalelani abazali benu kukho konke, ngoba lokhu kuyayithokozisa iNkosi.
Efesu 6: 2
2 Hlonipha uyihlo nonyoko (okungumlayo wokuqala onesithembiso)
AmaRoma 1: 30
30 abadeleli, abazonda uNkulunkulu, abadelelayo, abazidlayo, abazidlayo, abaqambi okubi, abangalaleli abazali.
U-Eksodusi 18:19
Manje lalela izwi lami; Ngizokunikeza izeluleko, futhi kwangathi uNkulunkulu angaba nawe! Uyomelela abantu phambi kukaNkulunkulu futhi wethule izindaba zabo phambi kukaNkulunkulu
Ukubusisa ezinye izizukulwane
Ngokuqondene noNkulunkulu umndeni umelela icebo lakhe lasekuqaleni endalweni. Kuyiqiniso futhi ukuthi lapho ebusisa imindeni, akagcini ngokubusisa lona wamanje, kodwa ubusisa izizukulwane eziyizinkulungwane zalowo mndeni. Lokhu kungabonakala emavesini ambalwa eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni lapho uNkulunkulu ephawula isiphetho sesibusiso kuwo wonke owesilisa noma owesifazane omlalelayo ngokwethembeka. 1 IziKronike 16:15-17
15 Uyasikhumbula njalo isivumelwano sakhe, izwi alinika izizukulwane eziyinkulungwane; 16 lesivumelwano asenza lo-Abhrahama, lesifungo asenza ku-Isaka, 17 asimisa saba yisimiso kuJakhobe, saba yisivumelwano esilaphakade ku-Israyeli.
I-145 AmaHubo: 4
4 Izizukulwane zonke zizathokoza ngezenzo zakho, zimemezele amandla akho
Kulelihubo elifanayo kamuva uNkulunkulu uyaphinda, AmaHubo 145:13
13 Umbuso wakho ungumbuso waphakade; ukubusa kwakho kuhlala kuyo yonke iminyaka (izizukulwane)
Uma uNkulunkulu enenani elikhulu ezizukulwaneni ngezizukulwane, kufanele kwenziwe okufanayo emndenini nawo wonke amalungu awo kanye nabo bonke ubudala. Umndeni wamagugu uhlonipha futhi uhloniphe bonke abawenzayo, kungaba izingane, ogogo nomkhulu, abazukulu, omalume, abazali, abazala, njll. Baphelezelana noma ngabe yisiphi isimo, enjabulweni naselusizini, enaleni nasekusweleni.
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Ukunakekela nokondla umndeni
Iqembu lomndeni kufanele linakekele futhi linakekele omunye nomunye ngokwezidingo zomunye nomunye. Okufanele asize lowo ohamba ngezinyawo, izidingo noma usizi. Hhayi kuphela ngokombono wezomnotho, kodwa futhi ngokwemibandela yengokomoya, impilo, njll. Umndeni kufanele usebenze phakathi kwamalungu awo ngesihe nozwelo njengoba uKristu enza kithi sonke. Uyisibonelo sethu esihle kakhulu senkonzo okufanele sisilandele, Marku 10:45
45 Ngokuba ngisho neNdodana yomuntu ayizanga ukuzokhonzwa, kodwa ukukhonza nokunikela ukuphila kwayo, kube yisihlengo sabaningi.
Isisekelo sokholo lobuKristu siwukwenza ngothando lomhlatshelo uNkulunkulu analo nathi, njengoba uJohane 3:16 (NIV) esho.
16 “Ngoba uNkulunkulu walithanda izwe kangangokuba waze wanikela ngeNdodana yakhe ezelwe yodwa, ukuze wonke umuntu okholwa yiyo angabhubhi kodwa abe nokuphila okuphakade.
Lolo kholo nothando akumelwe nje siluzwe, kodwa futhi silubonise kwabanye, ikakhulukazi emndenini wethu, 1 Thimothewu 5:8
8 Lowo ongabondli abakhe, ikakhulu abendlu yakhe, ukulahlile ukukholwa, mubi kunongakholwayo.
Amavesi eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni ukwenza ngokuhlakanipha
Umkhaya ophethe izingane nentsha ngokuhlakanipha ngokuqinisekile uyoba ikhaya eliyohlala linokuthula nenjabulo. Kodwa uma kungenjalo, kuyokwakhiwa umndeni ongasebenzi kahle, onezingxabano futhi uqhelelene nomklamo noma injongo kaNkulunkulu. Lapho kukhulunywa ngokuhlakanipha, akubhekiselwa olwazini lwesayensi, kodwa ekuhlakanipheni okuvela phezulu, okuvela ezulwini.
- Indodana ehlakaniphe ngolwazi ngoNkulunkulu igcwalisa inhliziyo kayise nomama ngenjabulo. Indodana ehlakaniphile iyokwazi ukubahlonipha futhi iyoba isibusiso kuwo wonke amazwi nezenzo. Umthombo wokuhlakanipha okunguNkulunkulu uyobonisa indlela emjabulisayo nabazali bakhe.
- Ngenkathi indodana eyisiwula ilahla zonke iziyalo nezimfundiso zabazali bayo. Ukubabangela usizi. IzAga 1:7-9
7 Ukumesaba uJehova kungukuqala kolwazi; iziwula ziyadelela ukuhlakanipha nokulaywa 8 Ndodana yami, lalela ukulaya kukayihlo, ungawushiyi umthetho kanyoko. 9 Ziyakuhlobisa ikhanda lakho njengomqhele, zihlobise intamo yakho njengomgexo.
Amavesi eBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni nothando
Ukuqeda umndeni ohlelekile ngaphandle kothando phakathi kwamalungu awo, awukwazi, okokuqala, ukuhlala ndawonye. Okwesibili, ngeke akwazi ukubhekana novivinyo noma izimo ezingase ziphakame futhi, ngaphezu kwakho konke, uyobe ekude nothando lukaNkulunkulu.
Phakathi kwamalungu omkhaya kumelwe kube namandla okuthethelela nokucela intethelelo, angabi namagqubu futhi agcwaliswe ukubhekakade kukaNkulunkulu. Uma endleleni yeNkosi kuye kwaba nokwenzeka ukwazi indlela esithanda ngayo, khona-ke kumelwe sihlale othandweni lwakhe. Umndeni ohlala othandweni uhlala kuNkulunkulu, noNkulunkulu kuwo. 1 Johane 4:16