Kulokhu okuthunyelwe sizokwazi indaba kaLucas, kanye ngemva kokuba uSofía osemusha engene empilweni yakhe, endabeni ethi isifinyezo sokujabula kwaba lokhu. Sikumema ukuthi wazi le ndaba okungenzeka ihlobene nempilo yakho, yindaba ka-Eduardo Sacheri.
U-Eduardo Sacheri
Isifinyezo sokujabula kwakuyilokhu
Ukuqala lesi sihloko ngifuna ukuhamba isikhashana ukuchaza izincwadi ngokuthi «ubuciko bokukhuluma ngomlomo» ngakho-ke ihlanganisa imibhalo ebhaliwe, kanye nokukhulunywa nokuculwa. Lo mqondo usiholela ekuqondeni ukuthi izincwadi zibekwe njengelinye lamathuluzi asisiza ukuba sivule izingqondo zethu futhi sikwazi ukwazi amanye amasiko namazwe.
Indaba edonsa amehlo omfundi yingakho ngikumema ukuthi uyazi, ngoba iyindaba elula, eqondakala kalula futhi esishiya nesifundo sempilo, njengoba ikhuluma ngokuhlangana kukababa. nendodakazi yakhe. Ngiyakumema ukuthi ungaphuthelwa, ingaba wusizo kakhulu ezimpilweni zabaningi.
Indaba yomhlangano phakathi kukababa nendodakazi yakhe
U-Lucas uyindoda ezungezwe ukuthambekela kwakhe kokuba namahloni futhi egxile ekuziphatheni kwakhe, futhi yonke into ishintsha ngokuzumayo lapho uSofia engqongqoza emnyango, intombazane eneminyaka eyishumi nane esanda kushonelwa unina futhi, engazi, Kunjalo. indodakazi le ndoda (uLucas) eke yaba nayo nentokazi ayethandana nayo ebusheni bayo futhi akazange aphinde ayizwe.
Ngokuthikamezeka, ukwethembana kuhlangana kancane kancane futhi kutholakale izimfihlo ezifihliwe endabeni kaLucas noSofía. Ebunyeni bayothola ingcebo yokuhlobana nokubambana, okuthi, ukuphulukisa amanxeba okuntula uthando nehlazo, okubavumele ukuba bashiye okwedlule emuva.
Lapha kuzovezwa indaba yabantu ababili abanesizungu nabalimele, okubophezeleka kwabo kulapho bethola khona izindlela ezintsha zothando lapho bebhekana khona nokwesaba nokwehla, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ngenjabulo yokupha nokwamukela ukuguqulwa okubaluleke kakhulu kwabo. izimpilo. Ngaphandle kwalo msebenzi kwabanye ozokuholela ekujabuleleni ukufunda okujabulisayo, ngincoma lona engizokukhombisa wona esigabeni esilandelayo.
Umsebenzi ongawuthanda futhi uwuthakasele isifinyezo sesimiso senjabulo, ngiyakunxusa ukuthi ukujabulele lokhu kufunda ngokuvakashela izixhumanisi zethu ngayinye zinhle kakhulu. Thola futhi uzoyithanda njengoba isifinyezo sokujabula sibe yilesi!
Ubaba uvakashelwa indodakazi yakhe eyeve eshumini nambili engalindele
Ukusabela kukaLuke
Singamchaza uLucas kulo lonke isifinyezo sokuthi "ukuthokoza kwakuyilokhu" njengokuthi, indoda evamile enentshiseko yokubhala, kodwa naphezu kwalokhu akabhekwa njengomlobi, kodwa indoda eshisekayo ngalobo buciko obuningi obungathandi ngempela. yona.
Umkakhe unomsebenzi lapho ematasa khona usuku lonke futhi bobabili banempilo yokuhlalisana njengaleyo izithandani ezingenazo izingane ngokuvamile eziba nazo. Ngolunye usuku oluvamile, uSofía ushaya insimbi yasemnyango futhi umtshela izindaba eziphakeme, okungeyona enye into futhi engengaphansi kokuthi uyindodakazi yakhe eyeve eshumini nambili, umkhiqizo wothando lwakudala angakaze aphinde alubone.
ULucas uthola ukumangala okukhulu lapho ethola lezi zindaba abengazilindele, ezingathinta umkakhe, ngoba kuzomele azivumelanise nesimo esisha sikayise, ngoba umyeni wakhe uzimisele ukulungisa iphutha lakhe. Ukusabela kukaLucas kufanele kube ukusabela kwabazali abaningi, ngoba uvula umnyango futhi umema ukuba athole le ndaba, ngoba kuye akungabazeki ngalokho okushiwo uSofía, ekubeni indodakazi ayenayo ngothando lwakhe oludlule olungakaze luphinde lubone. .
U-Lucas uyindoda evulekile yokuhlangana naye onquma ukuzinikela futhi amnikeze ithuba ngaphandle kokungabaza ukuhlangana naphezu kobunzima obuningi obuzovela ngenxa yokuba abantu ababili abangaziwa futhi nakuba engalungile kwesinye sezinqumo azenzayo, noma kunjalo. kuyinto evamile ngaphansi kwezimo futhi unquma ukulungisa iphutha lakhe ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
Indaba kababa othola indodakazi yakhe isivele isencane.
ukufunda ukwehlukahlukana
Uma uqala ukufunda isifinyezo sokuthi "ukuthokoza bekungesikho lokhu", ubungazi ukuthi uzotholani ngaphakathi kuleyo ndaba; kodwa uma kufundwa amakhasi okuqala kuyaphawuleka ukuthi lolu limi bekungelona lolu oluvame ukusetshenziswa eSpain kanti uma kubhekwa ulwazi ngombhali kutholakala ukuthi ungowase-Argentina.
Kuhle ukuqonda ukuthi ukufunda kucebisa isilulumagama ngakho-ke kuzokhulisa isiko. Kuhle ukugqamisa ngokufunda le ncwadi ungabona, futhi, ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukwehluka, abalingiswa abathintekayo kule ndaba abazange bakhokhe ngemali, kodwa bakwenza ngemali.
Kunabantu besifazane abayizixhwanguxhwangu abahlala phansi bahlebe ngempilo yabanye abantu, uma besohambweni abawasebenzisi amapotimende kodwa basebenzise amapotimende. Lapho becela usizo, abalokothi babuze umuntu osemusha, umfana noma insizwa, kodwa ingane ibambisana ngomusa. Kukhona abantu besifazane abagqoka iziketi hhayi iziketi ezincane kanye nezindatshana eziningi eziveza ukumamatheka okuningi ngesikhathi kufundwa nokusiphoqa ukuthi sibheke incazelo esichazamazwini.
Kuhle ukuveza ukuthi u-Eduardo Sacheri unezindaba namanoveli amaningana ashicilelwe, futhi ezinye zezindaba zakhe ziguqulelwe ukwenza ifilimu, njengethi: The Secret in their Eyes, ifilimu eyawina i-Oscar ngo-2009 futhi yawina indondo yokubhala futhi. umsebenzi wakhe uhunyushelwa ezilimini eziningana. Kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukuqhubeka nokubuza okuningi ngale ndaba.
Isiphetho
Ukujabula kwakuyilokhu, kuyindaba egcwele uthando, lapho ubaba nendodakazi bafunda ukwabelana, iyinoveli engokoqobo njengoba maningi amadodana namadodakazi abazana nomzali oyedwa futhi kwesinye isikhathi bayobheka. kubo .Kuyisifundo esidonsa amehlo ekhasini laso lokuqala, kumnandi futhi kulula, isakhiwo sakhiwe kahle kangangokuthi sifihla izimfihlakalo ezimbalwa ezizoxazululwa njengoba indaba iqhubeka.
Uma usithandile lesi sihloko mayelana nesifinyezo sokujabula bekulokhu futhi ungumthandi wokufunda inganekwane yesayensi, ngikumema ukuthi ufake lesi sixhumanisi futhi ubuze ngomsebenzi we-«isihlahla sombani«, yincwadi yombhali uPatrick Rothfuss futhi ekuyisa emfihlakalweni yendaba ethakazelisa kakhulu oyoyithanda. Ngikushiyela le vidiyo ukuze ufunde okwengeziwe ngaleyo ndaba.