Kuleli thuba sifuna ukwabelana a umkhuleko womndeni amahle futhi ngempumelelo. Ngoba uma kunokuthile okufanele wonke umuntu azazise, ubuhlobo bomkhaya, ngisho nangokwengeziwe uma singabantu bokholo.
Umkhuleko womndeni
Asikho isibusiso esikhulu ukwedlula umkhaya onobunye, kodwa futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi akulula ukusifinyelela. Okuningi ngosizo lukaNkulunkulu nangamandla kaKristu okubuyisana kithi konke kungafezwa. Yingakho sihlanganyela umkhuleko womndeni obumbene othandweni lweNkosi.
Sikumema ukuba wenze lokhu umthandazo wokuvikela ekhaya nomndeni, noma wena izicelo zomndeni, ukuhlala nimunye. Kanye nokufunda lezi amahubo okuvikela.
Umthandazo wokuhlangana komndeni
Baba oseZulwini, ngiyabonga ngoba ubuhle bakho abunamkhawulo futhi umusa wakho umi phakade. Ngalesi sikhathi ngizibeka phambi kwakho ngiqiniseka ukuthi uyalalela futhi uyakulalela ukunxusa kwabantwana bakho.
Nkulunkulu ngalesi sikhathi ngiyakucela egameni likaJesu Kristu ubunye bomndeni wami. Nkosi ngizibeka phambi kwakho ngenhliziyo evulekile futhi ngizimisele ukwamukela ukugcwala koMoya wakho oNgcwele.
Nkosi, gcwalisa ngoMoya wakho inhliziyo yawo wonke amalungu omndeni wami nawo wonke amagumbi endlu yami, egameni elinamandla likaJesu. Baba othandekayo phatha impilo yami, umndeni kanye nekhaya, ukuze usinakekele, usivikele futhi usibusise.
Nkosi yemboza umndeni wami nempilo yami ngegazi lakho eliyigugu, uvuse uthango ngalo nxazonke zendlu yami. Igazi lakho eliyigugu malibe yisivikelo nganoma isiphi isikhathi nendawo, ngokuba ngiyazi ukuthi isitha sihamba njengengonyama ebhongayo, sifuna engamshwabadela.
Kodwa amandla akho nenkazimulo yakho kungaphezu kwakho konke, igama lakho Jesu, liphezu kwamagama onke. Nguwe kuphela Jesu Kristu onamandla okusindisa, okuphulukisa nokukhulula, ngiyabonga Kristu ngothando lwakho nomusa.
Baba osezulwini ngicela ukuthi siwumndeni sibekezelelane sibone ukuthi intando yakho iyinhle kangakanani. Kungakho ngishumayela izwi lakho, ngikholwa amazwi omlomo wakho alotshwe ngokuthi:
Nibekezelelane, nithethelelane uma umuntu enensolo ngomunye. Njengoba nje iNkosi yanithethelela, nani thethelelani, (Kolose 3:13, DHH).
Bhekani ukuthi kuhle, kumnandi kanjani ukuba abazalwane bahlalisane ndawonye!” ( IHubo 133:1 , DHH).
Nkosi sisize singabazali siqhube kahle ikhaya lethu ngokulalela izwi lakho elilotshwe ngokuthi:
Kumelwe ukwazi ukuphatha kahle umuzi wakho futhi wenze izingane zakho zilalele futhi ziziphathe ngendlela ehloniphekile, ( 1 Thimothewu 3:4 , DHH).
Ngamafuphi, nonke niphila ngokuzwana, nimunye emuzweni ofanayo futhi nithandana njengabazalwane. Yiba nomusa futhi uzithobe, (1 Petru 3:8, DHH).
Egameni likaYise neleNdodana nelikaMoya oNgcwele, Amen!