Ingabe usanda kushada noma uzoshada maduze? zazise lezi amathiphu emishado yamaKristu, okukusiza ukuba wakhe ubuhlobo nokuhlakanipha nothando lukaNkulunkulu.
izeluleko zemishado yamaKristu
Njengamadoda nabesifazane bakaKristu kumelwe siqonde injongo eyinhloko yomshado, engeyona enye ngaphandle kokuba isibopho esiphelele, ukuthi baphelelisane futhi bathandane ngenhliziyo yonke.
Lapho umbhangqwana unquma ukushada, awugcini nje ngokwenza isenzo somkhosi womphakathi lapho ubonisa khona uthando ngomunye nomunye. Kunalokho, wenza isivumelwano phambi kukaJehova nomngane wakhe okufanele sibe phakade. Lesi sivumelwano kumele sihlonishwe, saziswe futhi kungazelelwe kuphulwe. Kufanele sihlale sikhumbula ukuthi lowo okithi mkhulu kunalowo osezweni.
Ukuqala impilo yomshado kuletha izibusiso ezinkulu, injabulo, uthando nezinkumbulo ezinhle. Nokho, izivivinyo nezimo okufanele bazixazulule njengabashadile nazo zingafika nazo.
Yingakho namuhla sizokunikeza okunye amathiphu emishado yamaKristu lokho kuzosiza kakhulu kulesi sigaba esisha ebudlelwaneni.
Isikhungo nguKristu
Iseluleko sokuqala semishado yamaKristu esizokwabelana ngaso nomunye nomunye wenu namuhla ukuthi uJesu Kristu kufanele abe isizinda sobudlelwane benu.
Kusho ukuthini lokhu? Kusho ukuthi bayophila impilo ehambisana nalokho okumiswe ezwini likaNkulunkulu ka-Israyeli. Ukwesaba uJehova kuyoba khona ekuphileni kwabo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukuqaphela intando yeNkosi uJesu Kristu ekuphileni kwabo nokuphila ngenjabulo kuyokwenza izithembiso zoPhezukonke zikhukhule ikhaya labo.
Ezweni eligcwele ubumnyama, ukuba nethemba kanye nokuKhanya kukaKristu akunakuqhathaniswa. Masikhumbule ukuthi impilo egcwele yileyo uJesu Kristu angasinika yona futhi into engcono kakhulu ukuthi ingeyaphakade.
Ukukhula ngokomoya nibambene ngezandla, ukufunda okwengeziwe nsuku zonke ngezimfihlakalo zezwi likaNkulunkulu, ukuba nokwazisa ukuphila okuphethwe nguSomandla, kuzokwenza umehluko ophawulekayo emshadweni wakho.
Ukunquma ukuthi inkaba yobudlelwane nguKristu ukuqaphela ukuthi ngaphandle Kwakhe asinakwenza lutho futhi sidinga amandla akhe kanye nezeluleko ukuze sigcine ukuphila ngokuvumelana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho sithatha isinqumo sokwandisa umndeni, izingane zethu zizoqonda ukubaluleka kokuba noJesu Kristu ezimpilweni zabo, ngaleyo ndlela banikele ngezimpilo zabo nezinhliziyo zabo entandweni yeNkosi.
KwabaseRoma 8: 9-10
9 Kodwa aniphili ngokwenyama, kodwa ngokukaMoya, uma ngempela uMoya kaNkulunkulu ehlala kini. Futhi uma umuntu engenaye uMoya kaKristu, akusiye owakhe.
10 Kepha uma uKristu ekini, umzimba ufile ngenxa yesono, kepha umoya uphila ngenxa yokulunga.
Uthando
Uthando umuzwa omsulwa nowangempela kunayo yonke umuntu angawuzwa. Awukho umuzwa odlula uthando, ngoba lokhu akunqunyelwe, kujulile futhi kuzibonakalisa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokumelela uthando uNkulunkulu noMdali ngokwakhe, owanikela ngeNdodana yakhe okuwukuphela kwayo ngomzuzwana nje ngenxa yothando ngathi. INkosi uJesu isithanda kakhulu kangangokuthi nsuku zonke, imini nobusuku, iyasinxusela phambi kukaBaba oseZulwini.
1 Johane 4: 8
8 Lowo ongathandiyo akamazi uNkulunkulu; ngoba uNkulunkulu uluthando.
Uthando phakathi kombhangqwana kufanele lube nsuku zonke, lubonise omunye ukuthi ukhathalela kangakanani, ukugcina ukuzwana phakathi kobudlelwane.
Uma wazi ukuthi umlingani wakho ubenosuku olunzima, mmangaze ngokuphuma noma ngengxoxo engenasiphazamiso egumbini lokuphumula. Usuku lothando noma uhambo olungalindelekile lapho bobabili bengajabulela khona kuzogcina ilangabi livutha emshadweni.
Ningavumeli noyedwa wenu ukuthi alale ecasukile omunye ngenxa yesimo esithile. Yakha umkhuba wokuthi uma kube nengxabano, ngaphambi kokulala uxazulule inkinga ebuzwayo. Ukukhetha usuku lwesonto ukuze sazi ukuthi omunye uzizwa kanjani, uma kunokuthile okumkhathazayo noma engikujabulela kakhulu, kuyosivumela ukuba sixazulule izinkinga ngesikhathi.Lesi seluleko semishado yamaKristu simelela esinye sezisekelo eziyisisekelo zobuhlobo. .
Ungakwazi futhi ukushiya imilayezo emangazayo nemishwana ukuze ngamagama ukwazi ukuveza lokho umyeni noma umkakho akwenza uzizwe. Ngesixhumanisi esilandelayo uzothola umuhle Imishwana yothando yobuKristu
Ezokuxhumana
Abesilisa nabesifazane banezici ezihluke ngokuphelele, ama-chromosome, amahomoni, izindlela zokucabanga nomuzwa. Lokhu kuyiqiniso esingalitholi eBhayibhelini kuphela lapho uJehova edala owesilisa nowesifazane. Kodwa ngisho nesayensi ngokwayo inikeza iqiniso kulokhu.
Kubalulekile ukuthi sikukhumbule lokhu futhi singacabangi ukuthi omunye uyayiqonda indlela engizizwa ngayo, engikudingayo nokuthi yini engingathanda. Uma sithatha njengesithenjwa ubunye obukhona kuZiqu-zintathu, obuphelele futhi obuphakeme, singavuma ukuthi bukhona:
- Amor
- Ukuxhumana
UYise, iNdodana noMoya bathandana ngokujulile. INkosi uJesu ibeka uthando ngoNkulunkulu nomakhelwane njengomyalo obaluleke kunayo yonke. Ngenxa yothando uJehova wanikela ngeNdodana yakhe esiphambanweni ukuba isifele futhi ngenxa yothando basishiyela uMoya oNgcwele ukuba abe uMduduzi wethu, kuze kube sekubuyeni kwesibili kukaJesu.
Manje, ake sibheke ukuxhumana njengeseluleko semishado yamaKristu. UZiqu-zintathu, ngesikhathi bedala umhlaba, bakhulumisana ukuze kwenzeke.
UGenesise 2:18
18 INkosi uNkulunkulu yathi: “Akukuhle ukuba umuntu ahlale yedwa; ngizamenzela umsizi omfaneleyo.
UJesu Kristu phakathi nenkonzo yakhe wasifundisa ukuthi wayehlale ekhuluma noBaba ngemithandazo. Ngiyanxusa ukuthi singene emthandazweni sicele ukuba siwunikwe.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ukuxhumana phakathi kwabashadile kube obala futhi kungashintshi. Njengoba uveza ukuthi umthanda kangakanani umlingani wakho, kubalulekile ukuthi umtshele into ongayithandi ngaphandle kokulimaza ngamazwi. Iba nezingxoxo ezisezingeni eliphezulu phakathi nosuku, lapho zonke izinzwa zakho zikuleso sikhathi.
Ukuphila Komkhuleko
AmaKristu kumelwe abe noJesu Kristu njengendawo yokuqala ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto. Impilo yomthandazo iyimpilo ekuhlanganyeleni noBaba waseZulwini. Njengabangane bomshado abangamaKristu kufanele sibe nezikhathi zethu eziseduze zokuthandaza kodwa futhi sibe nomzuzwana lapho bobabili bethula izicelo zabo eNkosini.
UMathewu 15: 19-20
19 Futhi ngithi kini: Uma ababili kini emhlabeni bevumelana nganoma yini abayicelayo, bayoyenzelwa nguBaba osezulwini.
20 Ngokuba lapho kubuthene ababili noma abathathu egameni lami, ngikhona lapho phakathi kwabo.
Ngaphambi kokuba niqale ukuthandaza, nobabili kufanele nivumelane ngezicelo enizoziletha kuNkulunkulu futhi ngaleso sikhathi lapho nilungiselela ukuvula inhliziyo yenu phambi kukaSomandla, ubukhona bakhe buyoba lapho nani. Lesi iseluleko kwabashadile abangamaKristu okufanele basigcine sikhona ezinhliziyweni zabo.
Ukwethembeka
Njengoba sesishilo kulesi sihloko, umshado uyisivumelwano esasenza nomlingani wethu futhi uJehova wasibeka uphawu ngobungcwele bakhe. Ukuphinga ngesinye sezono ezinyanyekayo uJehova azilahlayo.
Sikuthola eTestamenteni eliDala lapho uJehova wamabutho emisa imithetho futhi enxusa abantu bakhe ukuthi bangafebi. Lokhu akusona nje iseluleko semishado yamaKristu, lokhu kuwumsebenzi okufanele siwufeze ngobuntu bethu bonke.
Owesifazane kanye nendoda oqala ukwabelana nayo ngempilo yakho namuhla, ungumuntu ofanelekile uNkulunkulu ayemfunele wona. Uma uphila impilo yomshado yenhlonipho, yothando futhi ngaphansi kwesibusiso sikaJehova, injabulo yakho iyophelela.
Ningakhohliswa ngomunye wenu, ayikho intokozo esisinikeza yona yilo mhlaba esigcwalisa ngempela ngenjabulo nokuthula njengoba iNkosi uJesu kuphela engenakubanika yona.
Umshado emehlweni kaNkulunkulu uyisivumelwano esingenakwephulwa esenziwa owesilisa nowesifazane futhi sabekwa uphawu nguNkulunkulu. Umshado uyisivumelwano uJehova asimisa sokwethembeka nobuqotho. Kuwukuzibophezela umbhangqwana okuthola ukuphila kwakho konke.
Hebheru 13:4
4 Umshado mawuhlonishwe kubo bonke, nombhede ungabi nasici; kepha izifebe neziphingi uNkulunkulu uyakuzahlulela.
Njengoba oPhezukonke engabafundisi ngezwi lakhe, noma ukufisa ngeso omunye owesifazane noma indoda engeyena umlingani wakho. Kungcono ukungabi nalunga lomzimba kodwa ukwazi ukuthokoza phakade phambi kukaSomandla, kunokulahla umzimba wonke esihogweni.
iyunithi eyodwa
Lesi iseluleko somshado wamaKristu esibalulekile ukuze ubuhlobo buphumelele. Kokubili amadoda nabesifazane banabathandekayo babo abafisa ngenhliziyo yonke ukuchuma emshadweni.
Nokho, kumelwe sikhumbule ukuthi lapho sinquma ukunikela ukuphila kwethu komunye umuntu ngomshado, sisuke sisakha umkhaya omusha.
Izinto esizifundile eminyakeni edlule singazisebenzisa kule mpilo entsha kodwa ngeke sizivumele zingenelele size singakwazi ukuzithathela izinqumo njengabashadikazi.
UGenesise 2:24
24 Ngakho-ke indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina futhi inamathele kumkayo, futhi bayoba nyamanye.
Ukwamukela nokufuna iseluleko kubazali bethu, umndeni nabangane kwamukeleka ngokuphelele futhi kufanele sibabonge. Kuphela ukuthi kufanele sibenze baqonde ukuthi ikhaya elisha nomndeni ozoba namandla okukusebenzela njengombhangqwana.
Indima yendoda njengeseluleko emishadweni yamaKristu
Indoda iyinhloko yomndeni, umholi, owondla umndeni wakhe, ohlinzeka futhi awunakekele ngaso sonke isikhathi nangaso sonke isikhathi. Kumelwe inakekele umkayo njengetshe eliyigugu ayilo futhi imnikeze ukunakekela okudingekayo, ukuze azizwe eyigugu futhi ethandwa.
Khumbula ukuthi abesifazane bahluke ngokuphelele kwabesilisa futhi kuyadingeka ukwenza izinto ezingabalulekile kwabesilisa kodwa ezibaluleke kakhulu kwabesifazane.
Efesu 5: 23
23 ngokuba indoda iyinhloko yomfazi, njengokuba noKristu eyinhloko yebandla, eliwumzimba wakhe, yena enguMsindisi walo.
Njengoba nje uJesu Kristu ethanda, enakekela, futhi elazisa ibandla lakhe, indoda kufanele yenze kanjalo nomkayo.
Indima yabesifazane njengeseluleko emishadweni yamaKristu
Owesifazane ngakolunye uhlangothi wadalwa ukuze abe usizo olufanele lwendoda. Kumelwe sisekele abayeni bethu futhi sibe yilowo mngane othembekile omnikeza amazwi esikhuthazo lapho edinga.
Indoda njengenhloko yomkhaya, owesifazane unesibopho sokuzithoba kuyo. NjengamaKristu, uzoqonda ukuthi lokhu akusho ukuthi indoda iyophoqelela umkayo ukuba enze izinto ezingangqubuzani nentando kaKristu. Futhi ngeke amphathe kabi futhi amxhaphaze ngokuba umsizi wakhe okahle.
UKristu usungula umshado njengobudlelwane bakhe nebandla lakhe futhi yile ndlela ukuguquguquka kombhangqwana okufanele kube ngayo. Kugcwele umusa, intethelelo, uthando, injabulo, ukuxhumana, ukuvikelwa nokunye.
Efesu 5: 28-29
28 Kanjalo namadoda kufanele athande omkawo njengemizimba yawo siqu. Othanda umkakhe uzithanda yena.
29 Ngokuba akakho owake wazonda eyakhe inyama, kepha uyayondla, ayinakekele, njengokuba noKristu enza kulo ibandla;
cha ukwehlukanisa
Esinye iseluleko semishado yamaKristu esifuna ukwabelana nawe ngaso namuhla ukuthi ngaphandle kwesizathu sicabange ukuthi isehlukaniso siyisixazululo. Ukuphila njengombhangqwana, njenganoma ibuphi ubuhlobo bomuntu siqu noma bomsebenzi, abuhlali bubuhle.
INkosi uJesu ayizange isikhohlise ngalokhu. Wasitshela ngokusobala ukuthi noma ubani ofisa ukumlandela makathathe isiphambano sakhe ahambe ezinyaweni zakhe. Uma sicabanga kancane ngalesi sisho bese sidlulela kulowo mzuzu, siyaqonda ukuthi indlela ayihamba enesiphambano emhlane wakhe yayingelula neze.
Kufanele futhi ucabange ukuthi icebo lokuqala loMdali wethu kwakuwukudala owesilisa nowesifazane ukuze balime umhlaba, bazalane futhi babe nobunye kuYe.” Kwenzekani ngemva kwalokhu? Isitha sangena emiqondweni yabo ukuqeda icebo leNkosi.
Namuhla lokhu akukashintshi. Uma sibona izibalo zezehlukaniso noma sihlaziya nje isimo salabo esibajwayele, sizovuma ukuthi unyaka nonyaka lokhu kuyanda.
UJesu Kristu wamisa ukuma okuqinile maqondana nesehlukaniso, ekwenza kucace ukuthi leli kwakungelona uhlelo lokuqala lukaBaba waseZulwini, ngakho njengamaKristu akufanele sikucabangele lokhu.
UMathewu 19: 6-8
6 Ngakho-ke abasekho ababili, kodwa sebenyamanye; ngakho-ke, lokho uNkulunkulu akuhlanganisile, umuntu akwehlukanisi.
7 Base bethi kuye: Pho, uMose wayala ngani ukunikeza incwadi yesahlukaniso, futhi alahle?
8 Wathi kubo: “Ngenxa yobulukhuni benhliziyo yenu uMose wanivumela ukuba nilahle omkenu; kodwa ekuqaleni kwakungenjalo.
Lapho ubhekene nanoma iyiphi inkinga, khuluma ushiye imizwa yakho eceleni futhi uzame ukuqaphela iphuzu lenye. Uma isimo sisikhudlwana futhi unomuzwa wokuthi awukwazi ukuxazulula lesi simo uwedwa, hamba kumfundisi wakho noma umdala webandla ukuze akusize.
Amazwi othando hhayi inzondo
Amagama anamandla okwakha noma okubhidliza yingakho kufanele sikunake kahle esikushoyo, hhayi kozakwethu kuphela kodwa nakuwo wonke umuntu esizungezile, kuhlanganisa nathi. Uma sifuna ukwenza noma yikuphi ukugxeka umlingani wethu okwakhayo futhi okusekelwe othandweni.
Amazwi ethu nesimo sethu sengqondo kungaba yisinqumo ebudlelwaneni bethu. Masingalokothi sikhulume ngokusekelwe emizweni okungenzeka sinayo ngaleso sikhathi futhi sinciphe uma kuyintukuthelo noma intukuthelo. Kungcono ukuhlehla, sikhalele ukuthula kuNkulunkulu bese sikhuluma ngomoya ophansi ngezinto ezisicasulile noma ezisenze sangakhululeki.
Taga 21:19
19 Kungcono ukuhlala ezweni eliyihlane
Lokho ngowesifazane oxabanayo nothukuthele.
Isikhathi esihle njengamathiphu emishado yamaKristu
Isikhathi esihle esisinikeza umlingani wethu sibaluleke njengesikhathi esisichitha noNkulunkulu. Yisikhathi lapho engqondweni yethu, enhliziyweni yethu nakuwo wonke umphefumulo wethu, kukhona kuphela umlingani wethu.
Kwesinye isikhathi sizithola sisembuthanweni womndeni noma sikanye nomngani kodwa ingqondo yethu ikwenye indawo. Akusona isikhathi sekhwalithi lesi. Kuwukubeka zonke izinzwa zethu kuleso sikhathi sesikhathi.
Lezi zikhala zesikhathi zingasungulwa phakathi kwezinhlangothi zombili, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ihora, isigamu sehora noma amahora amathathu ngosuku, into ebalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi yisikhathi sekhwalithi futhi esiyingqayizivele kumbhangqwana wethu. Isikhathi esifanele sokuthola isinyathelo esilandelayo enifuna ukusenza njengabashadikazi, iphrojekthi ethile ekhethekile noma nihlele uhambo lwamaholide. Yisikhathi sobudlelwano kuphela, akumele kube khona olunye udaba ngaphandle kwalobo budlelwano nokuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani nokusebenzela ukubuqinisa futhi bukhule.
Isinqumo nokwethembana njengamathiphu emishado yamaKristu
Lapho sinquma ukushada, sizimisele ngokuphelele ukuthanda omunye umuntu. Uthando alusekho ngaphansi kwemizwelo, okwenza lube ntekenteke kakhulu, ngoba ngolunye usuku singazizwa sithandana kakhulu futhi ngakusasa sicasulwa okuthile futhi uthando alukho.
Uma uthando luba yisinqumo, luyaqina futhi luzinzile. Kufana nalapho sinquma ukuthanda uKristu. Kwakuyisinqumo sethu ukumlandela, ukwenza intando yakhe, ukuphila ngezindinganiso zakhe, nokuvuma ukuthi uyiNkosi noMsindisi. Kunjalo nasemshadweni.
Lesi sinqumo kufanele sibe nsuku zonke, sisebenze nsuku zonke futhi usigcine engqondweni ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Uma bobabili bevumelana ngokunquma ukuthanda omunye nomunye nakho konke okuza naleli gama (inhlonipho, ukutuswa, ukubaluleka, injabulo), ukwethembana okudingekayo kukhiqizwa kubo bobabili ukuze bazi ukuthi komunye, siyinto eza kuqala kubo.
Ukwazi ukuthi ubudlelwano bubaluleke kakhulu kithi sobabili nokuthi uJesu Kristu uyinsika yokuphila kwethu, siyazi ukuthi akukho lutho futhi akekho ongasihlukanisa. Ukuqiniseka kokwazi ukuthi omunye umuntu ufuna ukuba nathi yikho okubaluleke ngempela futhi okunikeza ukuzethemba kukho kokubili.
bonke ubudlelwano buhlukile
Ukuba nesibonelo somshado njengesithenjwa kuhle kakhulu. Kuyo yonke impilo yethu, sibe nezibonelo ezihlukene okufanele sizilandele, ababa ngabantu esibathandayo futhi basisize senze kangcono kunoma iyiphi indawo yempilo.
Isibonelo sangempela salokhu ukuthi wonke amaKristu angabalandeli bakaJesu Kristu. Sifuna nsuku zonke ukufana Naye kakhulu futhi silangazelela ngawo wonke umphefumulo wethu, ukuba nempilo yomoya efana nalena iNkosi yethu uJesu eyasifundisa yona. Okufanele sikucacele kakhulu ukuthi umshado wethu uhluke ngokuphelele kunoma iyiphi enye esemhlabeni.
Okokuqala, singabantu abahluke ngokuphelele. INkosi uJesu, ngesikhathi isidala, yasenza sahluka futhi akekho omunye ofana nathi ngaphakathi.
Okwesibili, inhloso uJesu Kristu anayo ngobudlelwane bethu ubuhlobo bethu obukhethekile. Azikho izinhloso ezimbili ezifanayo endaweni eyodwa, nabantu abafanayo nangesikhathi esisodwa. INkosi yanibizela ukuthi nihlangane ngesizathu esithile.
Okwesithathu nokokugcina, izimo ezizungeze ubudlelwano bethu, imisebenzi yansuku zonke esiyenzayo, indlela esiphatha ngayo umshado wethu, zihluke ngokuphelele emshadweni esiwuncomayo nesinawo njengesibonelo.
Lowomshado abanawo njengenkomba nawo unezabalazo zawo, ubuthakathaka kanye nokunqoba kwawo kuKristu Jesu. Ngakho-ke, akukho lutho emhlabeni uma kuqhathaniswa nomunye.
Hlonipha
Inhlonipho, njengothando, iyisisekelo sokukhulumisana okuphumelelayo. Akumelwe sihloniphe nje kuphela ngamazwi siye ezwini lethu kodwa kuzo zonke izinto ezenziwa ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekhaya. Futhi njengamaKristu kufanele sihloniphe umndeni nabangane bomlingani wethu.
Ukunikeza ukubaluleka nokucabangela zonke lezi zinto ngaphakathi kobudlelwane kudala isimo sokuzwana nenhlanganyelo, hhayi kuphela phakathi kobudlelwane, kodwa kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi womphakathi lapho kufanele bahlanganyele nomndeni, osebenza nabo noma abangani bomunye. Lokhu kungenye yezeluleko zemishado yobuKristu okufanele ibe khona njalo ebudlelwaneni bethu.
1 Phetro 2: 17
17 Hlonipha wonke umuntu. Thandani abazalwane. Mesabeni uNkulunkulu. Hlonipha inkosi.
Thethelela njengeseluleko emishadweni yamaKristu
Kumelwe siqale simise futhi sivume ukuthi singabantu abangaphelele nokuthi senza amaphutha nsuku zonke ngokuvamile okungaqondile.
Ukuphila kwethu njengabantwana bakaNkulunkulu akuphelele, nakuba sinikela ngakho konke ngokwethu ukuze sijabulise uNkulunkulu, senza amaphutha esingawaqapheli nokungawazi. Igama elibi noma ukubheka omunye umuntu okulimazayo kungaba esinye sezono esizenzayo. Nokho, nsuku zonke uNkulunkulu ngothando lwakhe olukhulu nesihe uyasithethelela njalo futhi uyasikhohlwa isono sethu.
Ngenza lesi singeniso ngoba ngezinye izikhathi siba lukhuni ngempela uma kuziwa ekuthetheleleni, ngisho nokuba namandla kunoMdali uMninimandla onke ngokwakhe, ongukuphela kwakhe uMahluleli wendawo yonke nakho konke okukuyo.
Taga 17:9
9 Osibekela ukuswela ufuna ubungane;
Kodwa oyidalulayo, uhlukanisa umngane.
Nangabe indvodza nobe umfati wakho ente intfo lebuhlungu sibili, kufanele umtsetselele futsi ukhohlwe sono. Lokhu, njengothando, kuyisinqumo okufanele sisiqinisekise nsuku zonke. Akulula futhi isitha ngeke senze kube lula ukuthi sikhohlwe. Nokho, singenza konke kuKristu osiqinisayo futhi ngokusebenza nsuku zonke ukuthethelela, siyokwazi ukushiya ukona ngemva futhi sikholwe ukuthi uthando luyokhula futhi lube namandla nakakhulu.
Umshado
Ukuze usebenzise lezi zeluleko zemishado yamaKristu, kubalulekile ukuqonda, ngokukhanya kweBhayibheli, ukuthi uyini ngempela umshado nokuthi uNkulunkulu wawudala ngayiphi injongo. Ukuba nalolu lwazi kuyosisiza ukuba sazise, sihloniphe futhi sithathe umthwalo wemfanelo olethwa yilokhu.
Umshado uwubunye phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane ukuze bakhe inyama eyodwa. Lokhu kubonakaliswa ngomkhosi womphakathi nowesonto ukukhombisa lobu bunye emhlabeni. Isenzo esibaluleke kakhulu nesibalulekile salo mgubho izithembiso ezenziwa bobabili phambi kukaNkulunkulu.
inhloso yomshado
Inhloso enkulu yomshado ukuthi ngalobu bunye nangezenzo esizenzayo phakathi kwawo, sidumise igama leNkosi yethu uJesu. Njengoba sesivele sithuthukile ngokwezeluleko zemishado yamaKrestu, umshado kumele ulingane nobudlelwano iNkosi uJesu enabo neBandla layo.
Kuphinde kube yisibopho esifeza umyalo weNkosi wokuzala thina futhi sandise Umhlaba. Kusemshadweni kuphela lapho ubuhlobo bobulili buvunyelwe. Masiqonde ukuthi uma owesilisa nowesifazane behlangana baba nyamanye, yingakho ukubaluleka nobungcwele balesi senzo esihambisana nombhangqwana othandanayo.
ukulalela kweBhayibheli
Umshado kufanele ube indawo lapho umbhangqwana ungajabulela khona, uzivikele futhi kube eyokukhula komuntu siqu nokungokomoya kubo bobabili. Ikhaya elinempilo liyindawo lapho kujabulisa khona ukuhlala nokuhlangana futhi.
Ukuze sibe nalokhu kujabula kanye nalokhu kuthula, kuyadingeka ukuthi iNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu ibe isizinda sobudlelwane nekhaya lethu. Kubalulekile ukuthi konke esikwenzayo ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwawo sihloniphe uNkulunkulu wethu.
Masikhumbule ukuthi umshado uyiqembu lapho kokubili kuphelelisana, kokubili kubalulekile kuNkulunkulu futhi kuyamjabulisa.
UmShumayeli 4: 9-11
9 Ababili bangcono kunoyedwa; ngoba bathola iholo elingcono ngomsebenzi wabo.
10 Ngoba uma bewa, omunye uyophakamisa umngane wakhe; kodwa maye kuyedwa! ukuthi uma ewa, kungabi khona okwesibili ukumcosha.
11 Futhi uma ababili belele ndawonye, bayofudumala; futhi umuntu uzofudumala kanjani?
Ukuxazulula izinkinga ebudlelwaneni
Ubunzima esinabo njengabashadikazi, kuye ngokuthi sibhekana kanjani nabo, buyosisiza ukuba sikhule futhi siqine othandweni noma siqhelelane nathi futhi senze izinhliziyo zethu zibe lukhuni.
Kuyacaca ukuthi njengamaKristu inhliziyo elukhuni iyinhliziyo ehlukanisiwe neNkosi futhi lokhu akumeleli intando kaNkulunkulu.
Njengeseluleko sokuqala, kufanele ukukhumbule ukuthi inkinga okungenzeka ukuthi ubhekene nayo nesithandwa sakho akuyona inkinga eyingqayizivele omunye umuntu ahlangabezane nayo futhi wayinqoba. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi lesi simo siyenzeka kubo kuphela, ngaphandle kokucabanga nakancane ukuthi kukhona abantu abadlula kulezo zinto bakwazi ukushiya konke ngemuva.
Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukuthethelela kweqiniso nokweqiniso kungenye yezisekelo zobudlelwano babo futhi bakwazile ukuyishiya ngenhliziyo yonke leyo nkinga ukuthi kwabanye inquma ukuphela kobudlelwano.
Kunezimo zengqondo umlingani wethu anazo esingaziniki ukubaluleka okukhulu futhi simane sithi: akunandaba, unjalo. Uhlamvu ngalunye lwesihlabathi luyahlanganisa futhi ngayinye yazo singenza intaba enkulu yesihlabathi engaba intaba okunzima ukuyiwela.
Yingakho noma ngabe kuncane kangakanani, uma kukhona okungakuphathi kahle nomaqondana wakho, khulumani ngothando. Abukho ubudlelwano obunqamuka ngobusuku obubodwa. Konke lokhu kwenzeka ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngezinkinga ezingaxazululwanga ngesikhathi. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukuxhumana, njengoba sesibonile, kubaluleke kakhulu.
Umyeni wakho nomkakho bakhuliswe ngendlela ehlukile. Mhlawumbe kukhona ukufana ngenxa yokuba ngamaKristu, kodwa kukhona izinto ezazibalulekile komunye umndeni kanti komunye ziyinto nje engadingi ukubaluleka okungaka.
Yingakho kufanele siqaphele ukutolika esikwenzayo ngezinto ezithile. Ake sikhulume ngesibonelo ukuze sikuqonde kahle lokhu.
Mhlawumbe ekukhuleni komyeni wakho, kwakubaluleke kakhulu ukuxoxa nomkhaya wakhe futhi ubazise uma eze emsebenzini, uma ezozikhipha neqembu labangane, noma ukuthi uzizwa kahle yini. Emndenini womkakho, lokhu bekungabalulekile ngempela, umyalezo owodwa bewanele.
Uma sebehlangene emshadweni, uxhumana nomkakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi ngoba lokhu kubalulekile kuye, ngakolunye uhlangothi, akasiboni isidingo sokumazisa ngezinyathelo azithathayo ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Lokhu kumele kuxoxwe ngakho futhi zombili izinhlangothi kumele ziqonde ukuthi kwenye ibalulekile kanti enye ayibalulekile. Ngokunikezwa lokhu, finyelela isivumelwano esinethezekile nesilula ukusifeza kokubili.
Amavesi eBhayibheli njengeseluleko semishado yamaKristu
Kusukela eTestamenteni Elidala kuya eTestamenteni Elisha, uBaba waseZulwini usembulela ukubaluleka nokubaluleka komshado kanye nomndeni phakathi komhlaba kaMoya.
Kungakho sikumema ukuthi ufunde futhi ucabangisise ngalezi ndima ezingeke zikusize nje kuphela ebudlelwaneni bakho, kodwa futhi ziyizeluleko zemishado yamaKristu enikezwe evela phezulu iNkosi noMsindisi wethu uqobo.
Taga 18:22
22 Onomfazi uthola okuhle;
Futhi uthole umusa kaJehova.
Indoda ethola umngane wayo waphakade yindoda eyathola umsizi wayo ofanelekayo, umphelelisi wayo, owesifazane ozoyisekela futhi ayikhuthaze. Wathola umusa eNkosini, ngoba uNkulunkulu wasidala ukuba siphile impilo yokuthula, uthando kanye nokuchichima. Wathi uma eyibona lendoda yavele yathi ayimuhle yingakho edale umaqondana wakhe.
KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19
18 Bafazi, thobelani amadoda enu, njengoba kufanele eNkosini.
19 Madoda, thandani omkenu, ningabi nonya kubo.
Inkuthazo ithi owesifazane aqaphele ubuholi bendoda ekhaya futhi ayihloniphe kanjalo. UNkulunkulu wamdala ngaleyo njongo futhi lokho kuwumsebenzi wakhe ngaphakathi kwesisekelo somndeni. Asikwazi ukungalaleli noma ukuvukela phambi kwaleli qiniso.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, indoda kumelwe ithande umkayo futhi ingamphathi kabi, ngokuzikhukhumeza noma ngokuzidla. Impatho yayo kuye kumelwe ibe ethambile futhi ethambile futhi ngalendlela ngeke igcine nje ngokuthola uthando lomkayo kodwa futhi nomusa kaJesu Kristu.
Taga 31:10
10 Owesifazane oqotho, ngubani ongamthola?
Ngoba udumo lwakhe ludlula kude amatshe ayigugu.
Owesifazane oqotho yilowo ohlonipha umyeni wakhe, ungumeluleki, isibonelo sokulandelwa kwamanye amantombazane angamaKristu, ahlakaniphile, amesabayo uJehova, umqondisi omuhle, ohlakaniphileyo, akalona ize, othanda umyeni wakhe futhi uyamhlonipha.
Kubalulekile ukuthi njengabesifazane sizindle ngalezi zinto, ngoba ungowesifazane ofanele wonke amadoda angamaKristu.
Duteronomi 24: 5
5 Lapho umuntu esanda kushada, akayikuphuma impi, futhi ngeke abe matasa nganoma yini; uzakuba sendlini yakhe umnyaka ngesihle, ukuze athokozise owesifazana amthathayo.
Ngakho-ke kufanele sithathe ikhefu lonyaka singashadile singenzi lutho nhlobo? Cha, kusobala ukuthi lokhu akuhambisani nezikhathi zanamuhla. Okubalulekile ukuthi siqonde ukuthi ngesikhathi seholidi lethu, kumele sizinikele komunye nomunye. Azikho izinkinga, umsebenzi, izimo ezisenza sisuke kulowo mzuzu omuhle.
Futhi ngaphandle kwe-honeymoon ngezikhathi zethu zokuphumula, iwukubanikela ngokuphelele ebuhlotsheni bethu nasekhaya. Masingakhathazeki noma sinikeze ukubaluleka kulokho empeleni okungabalulekile ekuphileni kwethu. Masikhumbule ukuthi yonke into inesikhathi nehora.
IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 4:7
7 Nimuhle nonke mngani wami.
Futhi alikho ibala kuwe.
Njengabesifazane sikugxeka kakhulu ukubukeka kwethu nendlela yethu yokuphila. Kumelwe siqonde ukuthi siyindalo ephelele kuKristu Jesu, senziwe ngomfanekiso nangomfanekiso wakhe.Amadoda wona kufanele akhumbuze omkawo ngazo zonke izimfanelo zabo nobuhle obenze bathandana nabo.
1 Phetro 3: 7
7 Nani-ke, madoda, hlalani nabo ngokuhlakanipha, nibahloniphe abesifazane njengesitsha esibuthakathaka, njengezindlalifa zomusa wokuphila kanye nani, ukuze imikhuleko yenu ithiye.
Leli vesi lembula incazelo yeqiniso nenjongo yokwazisa nokuhlonipha abesifazane kanye nencazelo yangempela abayimelelayo kuNkulunkulu. Umyeni ongahambisani nalokhu, imikhuleko yakhe ngeke ifike kuBaba waseZulwini ngaphandle kwezihibe. Indoda yakho ihlale ikhumbula kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwakho lawa macebiso emishado yamaKristu atuswa yiNkosi uJesu uqobo.
Kuyamangaza ukuthi izenzo zethu zingawenza kanjani umehluko ekuhlanganyeleni kwethu noNkulunkulu. Ukwazi ukuthi ngenxa yabo, uJehova umane anqume ukungasilaleli kuze kube yilapho sishintsha indlela yethu yokuphila, kuyiqiniso elinamandla elisithinta ngokujulile njengamaKristu.
Umthandazo wokuqala impilo yomshado
Njengoba sibonile ngaphakathi kwezeluleko zemishado yobuKristu impilo yomthandazo. Kungakho nginimema ukuba nithandaze kanyekanye lomkhuleko ukuze iNkosi uJesu iqondise umshado wenu kusukela namuhla naphakade.
Ubaba wasezulwini
Malibongwe igama lakho Nkulunkulu Somandla
Mdali wakho konke okukhona
Ngubani ongaqhathaniswa nawe?
Namuhla siza ngenhliziyo evulekile futhi ngaphandle kokuzenzisa
Ngibonga izibusiso kanye nesihe sakho esivuselelwa njalo ekuseni
Siyakudumisa ngoba usihlanganise emshadweni ongcwele
Kusukela ngalolo suku kuqhubeke siyinyama eyodwa njengoba kwamiswa yiZwi lakho elingcwele
Ngiyabonga ngokuletha umsizi wami kanye nenhloko yekhaya empilweni yami.
Yazisa izinzwa zethu ezwini likaMoya wakho oNgcwele
Futhi ube Nguwe Nkosi osiholayo nosiholayo
Siyazi ukuthi unenjongo ngathi nasebudlelwaneni bethu
Futhi namuhla siyakutshela, silapha ukuze sigcwalise
Busisa umshado wethu nsuku zonke
Yenza uthando lwethu lukhule nsuku zonke
Siphe ukuqonda nobuhlakani bokuphatha ikhaya lethu
Ungavumeli izinyawo zethu ziphambuke endleleni yakho engcwele
Hlala kude nathi sonke ukuhlasela kwesitha
Okabani inhloso ukucekela phansi lokho enikuhlanganisile nakwakhayo
Mboza ngeGazi Lakho elinamandla izimpilo zethu, umshado wethu, ikhaya lethu, umsebenzi, izimali kanye nempilo.
Makwenziwe ngokwentando yaKho ebudlelwaneni bethu
Siyabonga Baba waseZulwini ngokusikhetha ukuthi sakhe umndeni
Sengathi singalikhazimulisa iGama lakho elingcwele ngezenzo zethu futhi imikhuleko yethu mayihlale iyimpepho enephunga elimnandi esihlalweni sakho saseZulwini.
Ubusisiwe kuze kube phakade
Ngegama likaJesu.
Amen
Ngiyethemba ukuthi lezi zeluleko zemishado yamaKrestu ziyakha, ziyakhula, futhi ziyaqinisa kuKristu Jesu. Ungangabazi nakancane ukubeka uNkulunkulu njengesizinda sempilo yakho. Vumela ngoMoya wakhe oNgcwele ukuba uguqulwe ebuthakathakeni bakho.
Ukuze ngiqedele, ngabelana nawe le-audiovisual ezophinde ikunikeze izeluleko zemishado yamaKristu ezoqinisa ngokwengeziwe lobunye obungcwele obubusiswe nguMoya oNgcwele.