UNkulunkulu wasidala ukuba siphile njengomkhaya, ngakho akufanele kusimangaze ukuthi kuningi okushiwo ngakho eBhayibhelini. Uma ufuna ukwazi ezinye Izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni, sikumema ukuba ufunde le ndatshana.
IBhayibheli licaphuna ngomkhaya
Umndeni ungachazwa njengesisekelo esiyisisekelo sawo wonke umphakathi. Lapho kunemindeni emphakathini engenazo izindinganiso nothando, kumane kuwumphakathi ogulayo, ongaphelele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lapho umphakathi wakhiwe imindeni egcwele uthando nezindinganiso, leyo nhlonipho nokunakekelana, lokhu kumane kubhekwe njengomphakathi onempilo.
UNkulunkulu wadala abantu ukuba baphile njengomkhaya, ezikhathini eziningi ngeBhayibheli, kuyembulwa ukubaluleka kobuhlobo bomkhaya noNkulunkulu. Ibandla kanye nawo wonke amakholwa alo, umndeni kaNkulunkulu. Ngaleso sikhathi lapho uMoya oNgcwele wemukelwa khona, indoda ithathwa emndenini weNkosi.
Lapha sikushiyela ividiyo lapho uzochazelwa khona ukuthi kungani uNkulunkulu adala umndeni:
Ngokuvamile, umuntu wayedalelwe ukuphila ndawonye njengomkhaya phakade. Ukube uNkulunkulu wayefuna kube ngenye indlela, ubeyomane asidale ukuba sifunde ukuphila sodwa, singadingi muntu. Kodwa njengoba sazi, kwakungenjalo, siyohlala sifuna umnikelo nosizo lomunye. Umuntu nomuntu udinga esinye isidalwa ukuze asinde ukuze aqhubeke nesintu, sakhe, sihlale futhi sibusise izindawo lapho uNkulunkulu asibeke khona.
Nokho, uNkulunkulu wayeqaphela futhi ukuthi njengabantu siyoba nezikhathi eziningi ezinhle nezimbi ebudlelwaneni bomkhaya, yingakho eshiye iziqondiso ukuze sikwazi ukubhekana nazo zonke izimo, ukuze zisiqondise endleleni engcono kakhulu yokugcina ubuhlobo bomndeni obuhle, ukuze asicacisele ukubaluleka komkhaya.
Lezi ziqondiso zingatholakala eBhayibhelini, emavesini ahlukahlukene agcwele isikhuthazo nogqozi lokunikeza ukukhuliswa okungcono kakhulu kwezingane, ukubhekana nobuhlobo obuhle nezingane zakubo, nokubaluleka kobudlelwane bomkhaya.
Ukucaphuna kweBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni ekuqaleni kwayo yonke into
“Futhi uNkulunkulu wamdala umuntu ngomfanekiso wakhe, wamdala ngomfanekiso kaNkulunkulu; wabadala owesilisa nowesifazane. UNkulunkulu wababusisa, wathi kubo: Zalani nande; nigcwalise umhlaba, niwunqobe, nibuse phezu kwezinhlanzi zolwandle, nezinyoni zezulu, nezilwane ezihamba emhlabeni.” ( Genesise 1:27-28 ).
Lapho uNkulunkulu edala owesilisa nowesifazane, ebabusisa, futhi edlulisela kubo umgomo wabo emhlabeni, lowo wokwanda nokugcwalisa umhlaba ngabantwana, ubunye babo bobulili buyobavumela ukuba banwebe ukuphila kwabo phakade emhlabeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wabanika amandla, kangangokuthi kokubili, ngenhlanganyelo, bawunqoba umhlaba, bawunakekela, bawulima futhi bawubusa kanye nezidalwa eziphilayo kuwo.
Ubunye obumelela umshado
“Ngakho-ke indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina inamathele kumkayo, futhi bayoba nyamanye” ( Genesise 2:24 )
Uma umshado uvela kwabashadile, kufanele baphile ngaphansi kwemithetho kaNkulunkulu, futhi nakuba sebengamalungu omndeni, kulowo esakhulela kuwo, uma umshado ususungulwe umndeni omusha, ngisho singasho ukuthi umkhaya uyandiswa, ngomehluko wokuthi izinqumo ezizuzisa umkhaya omusha ziyokwenziwa ndawonye nombhangqwana, njalo kuhlonishwe intando kaNkulunkulu.
Izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli ngomndeni: imfundiso yezwi likaNkulunkulu kuwo
“Yizwa, Israyeli: uJehova uNkulunkulu wethu, uJehova munye. Woyithanda iNkosi uNkulunkulu wakho ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho, nangawo wonke umphefumulo wakho, nangawo onke amandla akho. Lawa mazwi engikuthuma wona namuhla ayakuba senhliziyweni yakho; uwakhulume kubantwana bakho, ukhulume ngawo lapho uhlezi ekhaya, nalapho uhamba endleleni, nalapho ulala, nalapho uvuka. ( Duteronomi 6:4-7 .
Kulawo mazwi kwenziwe kwacaca ukuthi abazali kufanele bakhulume ngoNkulunkulu kubantwana babo, emikhayeni yabo, bakhulume ngaye ngokusuka enhliziyweni, ngemfundiso kaNkulunkulu ngayinye. INkosi iyisibonelo esihlala njalo sothando, izimfundiso zayo ziyovumela abazali nezingane ukuba bahlale bephila ngothando nangenhlonipho, yingakho kubalulekile ukuphila ngaphansi kwegunya lakhe. Uma umkhaya wenza kanjalo, uyothola isibusiso sikaNkulunkulu. Kumelwe baqaphele ukuthi uNkulunkulu ukhona ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi uyokwazi ukungenelela ezinkingeni ezingase ziphakame usuku nosuku.
Dumisani uNkulunkulu ndawonye njengomkhaya
“Mnikeni uJehova nina mindeni yezizwe, mnikeni uJehova inkazimulo namandla. Mnikeni uJehova udumo olufanele igama lakhe; Lethani umnikelo, nize phambi kwakhe; Khothama phambi kukaJehova ebuhleni bobungcwele. yesaba ebusweni bakhe, mhlaba wonke; Umhlaba usazoqiniswa, ukuze unganyakaziswa. Malijabule izulu, umhlaba uthokoze, nezizwe mazithi: UJehova uyabusa. ( 1 IziKronike 16:28-31 ).
Leyo mindeni ekhulekela uNkulunkulu ndawonye ngokungangabazeki iba nesibopho esiqinile nesikhethekile. Baphila futhi bayakujabulela lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kokudumisa ngobunye, futhi siyazi ukuthi yonke into eqenjini ijabulisa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma inalabo bantu obathandayo. Imindeni edumisa uNkulunkulu ndawonye ijabulela injabulo enkulu lapho iya ethempelini futhi ikhazimulisa uNkulunkulu, ngazo zonke lezo zinto ezinhle iNkosi ezithululela kuyo.
Izingane ziyisibusiso esivela kuNkulunkulu
“Bheka, abantwana bayifa elivela kuJehova, isithelo sesisu singumvuzo. Njengemicibisholo esandleni seqhawe banjalo abantwana bobusha bomuntu. Ubusisiwe umuntu ogcwalisa umgodla wakhe ngabo! Ngeke azenyeze uma ekhuluma nezitha zakhe esangweni.” ( IHubo 127:3-5 ).
Ngamunye wabantwana abakhulelwa ngumuntu uyisipho, isibusiso uNkulunkulu abapha sona. Yingakho akufanele babonakale njengomthwalo empilweni, njengomlomo nje wokuphakela, njengomunye umuntu ongasebenzisa imali kuwo. Lezi kufanele zamukelwe futhi zithandwe ngaphandle kwemibandela ngoba ziyimvume evela kuNkulunkulu. Kumelwe sizame ukubafundisa kahle, sibafundise ukuba izakhamuzi ezinhle futhi baqonde futhi balandele izwi likaNkulunkulu njalo. Ukubonga ngokuphila kanye nezibusiso uNkulunkulu asinika zona.
fundisa izingane kahle
“Khulisa umntwana ngendlela efanele, ngisho nasebudaleni bakhe ngeke amlahle. ( IzAga 22:6 ).
Ukufundisa izingane ngendlela efanele kuwumsebenzi wabazali, kufanele bafundise izingane zabo izindinganiso ezinhle, indlela efanele yokuziphatha. Kufanele babafundise ngenhlonipho nokuthi wonke umuntu ufanelwe yiyo. Ngokunjalo, kungumsebenzi wabazali ukufundisa izingane ngendlela yevangeli, bazifundise ukubaluleka kwalokhu eqinisweni eliqukethwe kulo.
Kumelwe bafundiswe nencazelo yangempela yothando, yothando ngoJesu. Ngale ndlela, bayoba nokulinganisela okuhle okungokomoya, okuyobasiza ukuba babhekane nezinselele zokuphila, bahlale bekhumbula uNkulunkulu.
Khumbula ukuthi konke okufundiwe ebuntwaneni kunomthelela omkhulu kanye nethonya ekukhuleni kwakho, lapho usengumntwana, uthola ukuqeqeshwa ukuphila kwakho konke. Thanda futhi ufundise izingane zakho, ziqondise endleleni yeNkosi.
ukulalela abazali
"Ndodana yami, gcina umyalo kayihlo, ungalahli isiyalo sikanyoko." ( IzAga 6:20 ).
IBhayibheli lithi kuwumsebenzi wezingane ukulalela abazali bazo. Kulabo bazali abafundisa ngokwethembeka izwi leNkosi, imiyalelo kaNkulunkulu. Kulabo bazali abathanda uNkulunkulu futhi abangeke bafune kubantwana babo izinto ezingenangqondo.
Njengoba abantwana beqala ukukhula, futhi bezifundela izwi leNkosi, bazokwazi ukuqonda ukuhlakanipha esicelweni ngasinye negunya elitholwa abazali babo, bazothola incazelo kulo, futhi isibusiso siyasebenza. lapho ufunda ukuphila impilo yokulalela phambi kukaJehova.
busisa izizukulwane zonke
Igalelo ngalinye lelungu ngalinye elakha umkhaya kumelwe laziswe yiwo wonke umuntu. Uma umndeni ukwazi ukubona ilungu ngalinye, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izingane, ogogo nomkhulu, abashana, omalume, abazala, abazukulu, kubonisa ukuthi umndeni oqinile. Umndeni obumbene okwazi ukugubha impumelelo yabanye ndawonye.
Ngaphakathi kwezingcaphuno zebhayibheli mayelana nomndeni okhona, injabulo yogogo nomkhulu ngokubona izingane zabo zifundisa futhi zikhulisa abazukulu babo ngendlela efanayo naleyo abayenzayo, kuwuphawu lokuqaphela injabulo yokuphumelela kwabo. inzalo ezicini ezibalulekile zokuphila ezinjalo. Le mindeni ifanelwe isibusiso sikaNkulunkulu kuzo zonke izizukulwane zayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi abantwana bayofunda ukwazisa konke abazali babo ababenzela kona, bayobona wonke umzamo nokuzidela okwenziwa ukuze bakhulele endaweni egcwele uthando, kanye nokuba khona kweNkosi njalo.
Izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli ngomndeni: ukulwela ubunye
Futhi, uma umndeni uhlukene wodwa, lowo mndeni awunakuma. ( Marku 3:25 )
Yonke imindeni kumele igweme ukungqubuzana okukwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi, kubuhlungu kakhulu ukubona ukuthi kunemindeni engakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuxabana, kubuhlungu kakhulu ukubona imindeni ingakhulumisani. Lena into uNkulunkulu angayithandi. Yingakho kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi silwe ukuze silondoloze umkhaya, sihlanganyele isikhathi, sixazulule ukungezwani ngendlela engcono kakhulu futhi ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Iqembu lomndeni kufanele libe namaphupho afanayo, kufanele lifinyelele imigomo ndawonye ekhiqiza injabulo ekhaya. Ngalokhu, iNkosi izokhazinyuliswa, ngomzamo wokugcina ukuzwana, inhlonipho, ukuzinza nokuthula ngaphakathi kwekhaya, phakathi komndeni.
Ukunakekela nokuhlinzeka ngokwethu
“Lowo ongabondli abakhe, ikakhulukazi abendlu yakhe, ukulahlile ukukholwa, mubi kunongakholwayo. (1 Thimothewu 5:8).
Emkhayeni kufanele banakekele omunye nomunye, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho ilungu ngalinye kufanele linikele ngokuthile okwalo. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela izidingo zamalungu omndeni ngamunye, ukuze sazi ukuthi singawasiza kanjani, uma singakwazi ukuwafinyelela. Akumelwe sibe nobugovu, noma izinhliziyo eziseduze, noma singazinaki izidingo zamalungu ahlukahlukene omkhaya.
Emndenini uthando kufanele luchichime
Ngaphandle kothando, ngeke kwenzeke ukunqoba noma isiphi isithiyo esingaba khona emkhayeni. Ilungu ngalinye kufanele lithande umndeni walo, kufanele, ngenxa yalolo thando, lizimisele ukuthethelela futhi licele intethelelo uma lenza iphutha. Wonke umuntu kufanele abe nomusa, athande futhi abekezelele. Imindeni kufanele iqonde ukuthi uma igcwalisa ukuphila kwayo ngothando, igcwalisa ngoNkulunkulu.
“Futhi siye sazi futhi sakholelwa ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyasithanda. UNkulunkulu uluthando. Ohlala othandweni uhlala kuNkulunkulu, noNkulunkulu ukuye.” ( 1 Johane 4:16 ).
Uma ufuna ukufunda izingcaphuno eziningi zebhayibheli zalolu hlobo, sikumema ukuthi ufake indatshana elandelayo: izingcaphuno zothando lwebhayibheli, ngiyakuqinisekisa ukuthi uzothola izingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu.
Ezinye izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni wokuhlalisana okuhle
Kulesi sigaba uzothola iqoqo lezingcaphuno zebhayibheli mayelana nomndeni, okuzosiza kakhulu ekuhlalisaneni njengomndeni, ngayinye imele i-orientation yokuba nomndeni ongcono kakhulu, ogcwele uthando, inhlonipho, ukuqonda, ukulalela nokulalela. Okuningi.
“Yazisa uyihlo nonyoko, ukuze izinsuku zakho zande ezweni uJehova uNkulunkulu wakho akunika lona.” (U-Eksodusi 20:12).
“Kwangathi uNkulunkulu wokubekezela nowenduduzo anganinika ukuba nihlalisane ngokuzwana ngokukaKristu Jesu, ukuze ngazwi linye nikhazimulise uNkulunkulu noYise weNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu.” (Funda amaRoma 15:5-6.)
“Nibekezelelane, futhi, uma umuntu enensolo ngomunye, nithethelelane; njengalokho uJehova ekuthethelele, nani niyakuthethelela.” (KwabaseKolose 3: 13).
“Ngokunjalo, amadoda kufanele athande omkawo njengemizimba yawo siqu. Othanda umkakhe uzithanda yena.” (Kwabase-Efesu 5:28).
“Lowo othi uyamthanda uNkulunkulu kodwa ezonda umzalwane wakhe ungumqambimanga. Ngokuba ongamthandi umfowabo nodadewabo ambonileyo, angemthande uNkulunkulu angambonanga.” (Johane 4: 20).
"Baphendula: 'Kholwa eNkosini uJesu, futhi uzosindiswa, wena nomndeni wakho.' (IzEnzo 16:31).
“Ngoba njengoba nje umzimba umunye futhi unezitho eziningi, futhi zonke izitho zomzimba, nakuba ziziningi, zingumzimba munye, kunjalo nangoKristu.” ( kwabaseKorinte 12:12 ).
"Ungamlahli umngane wakho noma umngane womndeni wakho, futhi ungayi endlini yesihlobo sakho lapho kuvela inhlekelele, umakhelwane oseduze ongcono kunesihlobo esikude." ( IzAga 27:10 ).
“Bathandekayo, masithandane, ngokuba uthando luvela kuNkulunkulu, nalowo othandayo uzelwe nguNkulunkulu, uyamazi uNkulunkulu.” ( Johane 4:7 ).
"Kumele uwuphathe kahle umuzi wakho, ngaso sonke isithunzi ugcina izingane zakho zizithoba." ( Thimothewu 3:4 ).
"Ekugcineni, nonke yibani nobunye bengqondo, ukuzwelana, uthando lobuzalwane, inhliziyo emnene, nokuthobeka." ( Petru 3:8 ).
Futhi sesifinyelele ekupheleni kwalesi sihloko mayelana nezingcaphuno zeBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni, sethemba ukuthi ukuthandile. Futhi lapha sikushiyela ividiyo enamavesi, izingcaphuno ezinhle zebhayibheli mayelana nomndeni: