Hlangana nathi kulesi sihloko, esakha kakhulu izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli umshado. Ukuze zibe incwadi yeziqondiso ezivela kuNkulunkulu kuwe, ngezikhathi lapho kufanele ubhekane nezinkinga ezinkulu ebuhlotsheni bomshado.
Yakha umshado wakho noNkulunkulu
Izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli zemishado
Kulesi senzakalo sifuna ukwabelana ngothando ezinye izingcaphuno zebhayibheli zemishado ukuze yakhiwe ngokuhlakanipha kukaNkulunkulu. Ubudlelwane bokuganana kungenye yemiyalelo emangalisayo yeNkosi yokwandisa isintu.
Kodwa, ukuze laba bakhule ngendlela ethandwa uNkulunkulu, abashadile kudingeka bazinikezele futhi baphikelele ebuhlotsheni babo bomshado. Lokhu kufezwa ngokubonakalisa uthando lukaNkulunkulu komunye nomunye.
Imibhalo engcwele isitshela ukuthi lunjani uthando lokuqala kwenye yezingcaphuno zebhayibheli zemishado kanye nanoma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lobudlelwano:
1 Korinte 13:4-8 ( NKJV ): 4 Uthando luyabekezela futhi lunomusa; akanamona noma azigabise, akakhukhumali; 5 akenzi lutho olubi; akazicabangeli noma akacasukile; akananyanye; 6 aluthokozi ngokungalungi, kodwa luhlanganyela enjabulweni yeqiniso. 7 Ubekezelela konke, ukholwa yikho konke, uthemba izinto zonke, usekela konke. 8 Uthando alusoze lwaphela. Kunalokho, iziprofetho zizophela, izilimi ziyoyeka ukukhulunywa, nolwazi luyophela.
Uma ubuhlobo bakho bomshado busesigabeni sobusha, ungase futhi ube nesithakazelo kwabanye izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli intsha ngezeluleko ezinhle kakhulu. Ungakhohlwa ukufaka lesi sixhumanisi, lapho sizokwabelana nawe ngeseluleko esithile ukuze uphile ubusha bakho ngokuvumelana nezwi likaNkulunkulu.
Izeluleko ezimbili eziyinhloko zikaNkulunkulu ngemishado
IBhayibheli liyizwi likaNkulunkulu elihlakaniphile, ngakho ligcwele izithembiso nezeluleko ezinhle ezimpilweni zethu. Eziningi zalezi zeluleko ziwusizo kakhulu ukuthi zisetshenziswe ebuhlotsheni bomshado.
Nokho, enye yezingcaphuno eziseBhayibhelini zemishado ebaluleke kakhulu yileyo equkethe imiyalo emibili eyinhloko uNkulunkulu ayenza kubantu abashadile.
Esokuqala, ukusungulwa kwe-oda lokubalulekile komndeni futhi okwesibili, ukuhlangana njengokungathi bamunye:
(Genesise 2:24) Ngakho indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina futhi inamathele kumkayo, futhi bayoba nyamanye.
Lokhu kucashunwa kweBhayibheli kubonisa umklamo kaNkulunkulu wasekuqaleni ngemishado, lapho owesilisa nowesifazane beshada baba umndeni omusha. Endlini angeke kube nezinhloko ezimbili zomndeni, kodwa eyodwa kuphela futhi ngaphezu kukaKristu wakhe, lokhu kuzogwema izingxabano ekhaya.
Bobabili indoda nowesifazane bayoqhubeka bethanda futhi behlonipha abazali babo, kodwa kusukela ekhaya labo elisha. Okwesibili, phakathi kombhangqwana kufanele kube nokusondelana, inyunyana, ukwethembana, njengokungathi bangumuntu oyedwa, okungukuthi, komunye nomunye.
Abashadile kufanele badlule kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwabo ndawonye, ubulili, umnotho wasekhaya, izindaba zomndeni, ukukhonza uNkulunkulu kanye nemfundo yezingane, njll.
Ngalo mqondo sikumema ukuba ungene esihlokweni lapho uzothola khona ezinye izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli mayelana nomndeni Sibumbene sidumisa uNkulunkulu. Ngoba uNkulunkulu wasidala ukuba siphile ngokuvumelana nalokho ayekuklame njengomkhaya futhi simunye kuYe.
Izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli zemishado kanye nomklamo kaNkulunkulu wokuqala
UNkulunkulu wadala umndeni njengomklamo wakhe oyinhloko nobaluleke kakhulu phakathi nohlelo lwakhe oluphelele futhi wawuklama ngendlela yokuthi uzohlala phakade, lesi isici esiyinhloko umshado okufanele usigcwalise.
Lapho owesilisa nowesifazane behlangene emshadweni kungunaphakade, njengokulotshwa kwashiwo iNkosi yethu:
(Mathewu 19:4-6) UJesu wabaphendula wathi: “Anikhumbuli yini ukuthi iBhayibheli lithini na? Kubhalwe kuyo ukuthi Kusukela ekuqaleni, UNkulunkulu wenza owesilisa nowesifazane ukuba bahlale ndawonye. 5 Yingakho uNkulunkulu athi: “Indoda kumelwe ishiye uyise nonina, ishade futhi ihlale nomkayo. Bobabili bazophila sengathi bangumuntu oyedwa. " 6 Ngale ndlela, labo abashadayo akusenjalo bahlala njengabantu ababili abahlukene, kodwa sengathi bamunye. Ngakho-ke Uma uNkulunkulu ehlanganise owesilisa nowesifazane, akekho okufanele abahlukanise.
Empilweni engenaNkulunkulu kungaba nobulukhuni benhliziyo, yingakho esivumelwaneni esidala soMthetho kaMose, isehlukaniso sasivunyelwe. Kodwa uma siphila kuKristu, sizokwazi ukubekezelela noma yiziphi izimo ezingase ziphakame emshadweni, ngisho nalezo ezithatha umbhangqwana umkhawulo.
Izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli zemishado: Ukulandela intando kaNkulunkulu kuletha izibusiso
Ngezansi sabelana ngesinye sezingcaphuno zebhayibheli ezisifundisa ukuthi umshado, ngokwentando yeNkosi, uletha kuwo izibusiso afuna sibe nazo:
IzAga 18:22 ZULXNUMX; Ukuthola umfazi omuhle kuyinto enhle, ngokuba lokho kubonisa ukuthi uJehova uthokozile ngawe.
Leli gama liyaseluleka ukuthi kufanele sivumele ukuqondiswa uNkulunkulu ekukhetheni umlingani wethu, ngoba uyohlale esifunela okuhle kakhulu. Ukuzivumela ukuba siqondiswe yintando kaNkulunkulu kusiqinisekisa umngane nomsizi ofanelekayo emshadweni, ngale ndlela kuyoba phakade.
Izingcaphuno zeBhayibheli zemishado ehlanganiswe kuKristu
INkosi iyasixwayisa ukuthi singaboshelwa ejokeni ngokungalingani, ukuze kuthi uma sikuKristu, umuntu esihlangana naye kumele abe njalo.
(2 Korinte 6:14-15) Maningaboshelwa ejokeni linye nabangakholwayo, ngokuba ubulungisa nokungalungi kuhlangene kuni na? Kunakuhlanganyela kuni ukukhanya nobumnyama na? 14 Kumbe unakuvumelana kuni uKristu noBeliyali? Kumbe unasabelo sini okholwayo nongakholwayo na?
Lesi sikhuthazo senziwa nguNkulunkulu kithi esikuKristu. Uma usuzoshada, kubalulekile ukuthi nawe ufunde isihloko Ijoka lokuqomisana elingalingani: Kungani uyigwema?
Izikhathi eziningi lolu hlelo lweNkosi luba yingqinamba kumakholwa, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi inketho engcono kakhulu iyohlale ingukulalela uNkulunkulu.
Ukukhethwa kwezingcaphuno zebhayibheli zemishado
Okokugcina, ukukhethwa kwezingcaphuno zebhayibheli zemishado, lapho uzothola khona izeluleko ezivela kuNkulunkulu ngobudlelwano bomshado obunempilo nobuhlala njalo. Zindla ngazo, uzilandele ngokukholwa, ngesambulo nangokumethemba uNkulunkulu.
(Efesu 5:21-22) Nina enihlonipha uKristu kumelwe nithobele omunye komunye. 21 Abafazi kufanele bazithobe kubayeni babo, njengoba nje benza kuKristu. Zithobeni omunye komunye, ngenxa yokwesaba uKristu. Bafazi, thobelani amadoda enu njengokungathi kukuyo iNkosi.
1 Johane 4:18a: Othandweni akukho ukwesaba, kepha uthando olupheleleyo luyaxosha ukwesaba, ngokuba ukwesaba kunesijeziso, nowesabayo akapheleliswa othandweni.
( Efesu 5:25 ) Amadoda kufanele abonise omkawo uthando olufanayo nolo uKristu alubonisa ibandla lakhe. UKristu wazinikela ngenxa yakhe.