Incwadi ingoma yezingoma kaSolomoni yayiyincwadi ephikisanayo kumaJuda. Okuqukethwe kwakho kuhlukile. Ngalokhu okuthunyelwe nizokwazi ngokuningiliziwe ngezahluko ukuthi iyini iNgoma Yezingoma zeNkosi edumile uSolomoni nencazelo yayo?
Iculo Lezingoma
El ingoma yezingoma kaSolomoni noma njengoba abanye bezibiza ngokuthi "Izingoma zikaSolomoni" yincwadi yohlu lwezincwadi zeBhayibheli yeTestamente Elidala, ikhuluma ngothando olumsulwa kowesifazane nowesilisa.
Liyincwadi yebhayibheli enohlobo lwemibhalo yezinkondlo. USolomoni uqokomisa ubuhle nokuhlanzeka kwalolo thando oluncike ezintweni ezingcwele. Lobu budlelwano buqhathaniswa nobudlelwano beNkosi nebandla layo. Umqondo oyinhloko wale ncwadi indaba yothando phakathi komyeni (owayezomela iNkosi uSolomoni) nomkakhe. Inhloso yakhe iwukuqinisekisa ubungcwele bomshado futhi uwuqhathanise nothando lweNkosi ngabantu bayo nebandla.
Ngokwezindlela ezenziwe ngochwepheshe bezincwadi, impatho uSolomoni ayinikezayo kule ndaba ayinakho umphikisi oyinkondlo. Ngesikhathi sokuthuthukiswa kwencwadi, kungabonakala ukuthi uSolomoni uvame ukushintsha kanjani isilungiselelo nezinhlamvu. Le nsiza yenza kube nzima ukuqonda ukufunda kwakho.
Incazelo abanye abaye bayinikeza ekuculweni kwezingoma iwubudlelwane uJesu anabo nebandla lakhe, okukhulunywa ngaye kwezinye iziqephu zeBhayibheli njengomlobokazi wakhe. Kwabanye, imayelana noMaria. Nokho, kule mibono, leyo eye yazuza amandla amakhulu ubuhlobo phakathi kukaJesu nebandla lakhe.
Efesu 5: 27
27 ukuze alethule kuye ibandla elikhazimulayo, elingenabala nambimbi nanto enjalo, kodwa elingcwele, elingenasici.
Efesu 5: 32
32 Inkulu le mfihlakalo; kodwa lokhu ngikutsho ngoKristu lebandla.
I-Etymology
Igama lale ncwadi yezinkondlo, ingoma yezihlabelelo, livela esiHeberu שִׁיר הַשִּׁירִים, Shir Hashirim, futhi ukuhumusha kwayo kusho "ingoma esezingeni eliphezulu" noma "izingoma ezimnandi kakhulu". Njengoba kuphawuliwe ngenhla, le ncwadi ikhuluma ngothando olumsulwa nolungcwele phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, ababonisa uthando lwabo ngezinkondlo ezigcwele izingathekiso nemifanekiso.
Umbhali nosuku lwengoma yezingoma
Ngokuhlolisisa imibhalo esingayiqonda encwadini yoku-1 Samuweli 4:32 singakwazi ukubona umlobi wengoma yezingoma. Uma sifunda wonke umongo siyazi ukuthi ukhuluma ngoSolomoni. Njengoba lenkosi yacela eNkosini ukuhlakanipha ukuze iqondise abantu bayo. Ngokufanayo, kuthiwa nguye owaloba izingoma eziyizinkulungwane ezinhlanu, ngaphandle komShumayeli nencwadi yezAga.
1 Samuel 4: 32
32 Waqamba izaga eziyizinkulungwane ezintathu, izingoma zakhe zaziyinkulungwane nanhlanu.
IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 1:1
IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo, esikaSolomoni.
Ngokuqondene nosuku lokuloba, le ncwadi yezinkondlo icatshangwa ukuthi yalotshwa ngekhulu lesi-XNUMX BC.
EBhayibhelini lamaKristu, lamaKatolika singathola lezi zingoma zezingoma phakathi kwencwadi yomShumayeli kanye no-Isaya.
ubungcwele
Ukuba yingxenye yohlu lwezincwadi zeBhayibheli kwakunezimpikiswano zako ngokomongo wamaJuda, njengoba kwaziwa ukuthi intsha engaphansi kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala yayingakwazi ukuyithola le ncwadi.
Isizathu esenza ukuba bangavunyelwa ukulifunda ukuthi amaJuda ayekholelwa ukuthi ingoma yezihlabelelo yayigcwele inhlamba, ukuxhwala nokuxhwaleka, kanye nobulili kanye nenkanuko. Nokho, ukuqhathaniswa kwayo nothando lukaNkulunkulu ngabantu bakhe kuye kwavumela amaJuda ukuba ayifunde lencwadi ngoMkhosi WePhasika.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, le ncwadi yayinabavikeli bayo ku-hedonism, abaphakamisa injabulo yenyama njengendlela yokuphila.
Ngokuphambene, iculo lezingoma linikeza isihloko sothando phakathi kombhangqwana njengento ehlanzekile, enhle eba ngcwele kuNkulunkulu. Ngalesi sizathu, ibhidliza kokubili ukweqisa futhi izuze ukufaneleka kwayo ohlwini lwezincwadi zeBhayibheli eMkhandlwini wase-Jamnia.
ivesi eliphakathi
Lapho sifunda iculo lezingoma singabonga ukuthi likhuluma ngothando olumsulwa, oluthembekile, lweqiniso nolungcwele lomshado. Ivesi elihlanganisa zonke lezi zimfanelo yileli:
Izingoma 6.3
3 Mina ngingowothandiweyo wami, nothandiweyo wami ungowami;
Uyadla phakathi kweminduze;
Okuqukethwe kwengoma yezingoma
Ukuze ufunde okuqukethwe yincwadi yezingoma zezingoma, kubalulekile ukuthinta izici ezintathu ezifana nesakhiwo, uhlelo kanye nokuqukethwe ngokwako.
Isakhiwo
Njengamanje, iBhayibheli lamaKristu kanye/noma lamaKatolika liqukethe izahluko eziyisishiyagalombili zengoma yezingoma. Lesi sakhiwo yisona esithole amandla amakhulu emhlabeni wamaKrestu.
Isikimu
Ukuze sitadishe incwadi yezingoma, kudingekile ukuba sicabangele izingxenye ezinhlanu, kanye nalokho okubhekisela ezingomeni ezinhlanu. Ngaphezu kokubheka izigcawu eziyisithupha ezizotholakala ezibongweni eziyisikhombisa ezihunyushwe ezingomeni ezingamashumi amabili nantathu.
Ukufingqa, sethula izigaba ezisetshenziswa kakhulu ocwaningweni lwale ncwadi yezinkondlo.
Njengoba uzoyithokozela, yakhiwe yisandulela, izinkondlo ezinhlanu ezinhle nezithasiselo ezimbili, ezihlelwe kanje:
Isandulelo (1, 2-4)
Ingoma yokuqala (1 - 5)
Ingoma yesibili (2, 8 - 3, 5)
I-canto yesithathu (3, 6 - 5, 1)
I-canto yesine (5, 2 - 6, 3)
I-canto yesihlanu (6, 4 - 8, 7)
Kukhona izithasiselo ezimbili ezengezwe kamuva (8, 8-14)
okuqukethwe okuvamile
Okuqukethwe okujwayelekile kwengoma yezingoma kukhuluma ngombono kaNkulunkulu ngothando emshadweni. Ukuhlanzeka nobuhle bothando phakathi kwendoda nomkayo kuyagqama ezingomeni. Bathuthukisa izimiso zokwethembeka kwabesilisa kwabesifazane futhi ngokuphambene nalokho. Lo mbono uvela kuGenesise 2:24.
UGenesise 2:24
24 Ngakho-ke indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina futhi inamathele kumkayo, futhi bayoba nyamanye.
Engqikithini yayo, le ndaba igxile kubalingiswa ababili abayinhloko, iNkosi uSolomoni ( INgoma 1:4, 12; 3:9, 11; 7:5 ) nomShulami osemusha ( INgoma 6:13 ). Umongo womlando wale ncwadi yilapho uSolomoni ehlala esihlalweni sobukhosi sikaDavide ngo-971 BC. Uthandana nale ntombazanyana isanda kuthatha ubukhosi.
Njengoba sesibonile, le ngoma igqamisa ubumsulwa nobuhle bothando emshadweni. Iqokomisa izimiso zokwethembeka nokwethembeka kwakho kokubili.
Naphezu kwalokhu kuhlakanipha nezinkolelo zikaSolomoni siyazi ukuthi wayifulathela le ndlela yokuphila. Wayephila ukuphila okuxekethile. Nokho, ngemva kohambo lokuphila kwakhe, lapho ehlaziya okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe, wayazi ukuthi lokhu kuphila kwakuyize kuphela futhi kuphetha ngokuthi:
UmShumayeli 9: 9
9 Jabulela ukuphila nowesifazane omthandayo, zonke izinsuku zokuphila kwakho okuyize owakuphiwayo phansi kwelanga, zonke izinsuku zakho eziyize; ngokuba lokhu kuyisabelo sakho ekuphileni, nasemsebenzini wakho owushikashikayo phansi kwelanga.
Izinsiza zemibhalo uSolomoni azisebenzisayo yincazelo, inkhulumomphendvulwano futhi uthuthukisa ukulandisa kwakhe ngezigaba nemifanekiso.
Phakathi kwezincwadi ezinhlanu amaJuda azifunda emikhosini yawo yaminyaka yonke, lena eyokuqala ayifunda, ikakhulukazi ngoMkhosi wePhasika.
Phakathi kwazo zonke izingoma singabonga ukuthi ingqikithi eyinhloko yengoma yezingoma iwuthando phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, oluvezwa ensimini, phakathi komhlambi wabelusi ( IsiHlabelelo se-1:8 ) phakathi kwezivini, izindlu nezingadi ( INgoma 1:16; 2:4; 7:12 ) noma edolobheni ( INgoma 3:2 ).
Amazwi phakathi kwezithandani nezenzo zabo anqunywa umfutho wothando okhona phakathi kwabo.
Singaqaphela ukuthi ngaphezu kwensizwa, intombi ibuye iveze imizwelo nemizwa yayo ( INgoma 8:14 no-1:2, 4 ). Akungabazeki ukuthi lezi zingoma zifuna ukugqamisa ubuhle nokuhlanzeka kothando lomuntu. Nokho, lo mbono uchithwa amaJuda namaKrestu.
IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 8:14
14 Shesha sithandwa sami,
Futhi ube njengendluzele yendluzele, noma inzinyane,
Ezintabeni zamaphunga.IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 1:2-4
2 O, uma enganga ngokwanga emlonyeni wakhe!
Ngoba uthando lwakho lungcono kunewayini.3 Ngaphezu kwephunga lamafutha akho athambile,
Igama lakho linjengamafutha achithekileyo;
Yingakho izintombi zikuthanda.4 ngingenise; Sizogijima emva kwakho.
Inkosi ingingenise emakamelweni ayo;
Siyakwethaba, sithokoze ngawe;
Siyakukhumbula izithandwa zakho ngaphezu kwewayini;
Shono bekuthanda.
izincazelo
Njengoba sike saphawula ngaphambilini, umqondo wokubhekwa njengendikimba eyinhloko egqamisa ubuhle nobumsulwa bothando lomuntu incazelo elahlwe amaJuda namaKrestu.
Kula maqembu isizathu silula. Incwadi engcwele kanjalo eneBhayibheli ayinakuqukatha izingoma ezihlambalazayo ezinikezelwe ngokukhethekileyo ekuqhakambiseni izinkanuko zenyama zowesilisa nowesifazane.
IZwi likaNkulunkulu lixwayisa ngokuthi okwenyama nokomoya kuyaphikisana. Ngakho-ke, le ncwadi iwuphawu lothando lukaNkulunkulu ngabantu bakhe, kanye neBandla lakhe.
Galathiya 5:17
17 Ngoba inkanuko yenyama imelene noMoya, futhi isifiso sikaMoya simelene nenyama; futhi lokhu kuyaphikisana, ukuze ungenzi okufunwa nguwe.
uthando olumsulwa emshadweni
Ingoma yezingoma ingabonakala ngombono wothando olumsulwa, oluthembekile, oluqotho okufanele lube khona emshadweni. Phela kusukela ekudalweni komhlaba uNkulunkulu uye waqakathekisa umshado njengelungiselelo elingcwele.
Ngaphakathi kwecebo likaNkulunkulu elingcwele kukhona uthando phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Singabona endimeni yeZwi likaNkulunkulu ukuthi uNkulunkulu ulunikeza kanjani ukubaluleka kothando emshadweni.
Kanjalo-ke kube yincwadi ehambisana nemishado ebijwayele ukwenzeka lapho kubhalwe khona incwadi. Phakathi nale mikhosi umakoti nomkhwenyana bahlabelela izingoma zothando nenjabulo ( Jeremiya 33:11 ). Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, imishado ithathe izinsuku eziyisikhombisa. Isibonelo ubude bomshado phakathi kukaJakobe noLeya:
Jeremiya 25:10
10 Futhi ngiyokwenza izwi lenjabulo kunyamalale phakathi kwabo, izwi lomyeni nezwi likamakoti, nomsindo wokugaya nokukhanya kwesibani.
UGenesise 29: 27-28
27 Gcwalisa isonto lalona, futhi nelinye lizakuphiwa lawe, ngomsebenzi ozawenza kimi eminye iminyaka eyisikhombisa.
28 UJakobe wenze njalo, waligcwalisa isonto lalowo; wanika uRaheli indodakazi yakhe ibe ngumkakhe.
AbaHluleli 14:12
12 USamsoni wathi kubo: “Manje ngizakunibekela imfumbe; uma ningitshela ngezinsuku eziyisikhombisa zedili, nilihlathulule, ngiyakuninika izambatho zelineni ezingamashumi amathathu nezingubo ezingamashumi amathathu.
Esimweni sothando olumsulwa kumbhangqwana, uthando olunganqamuki, oluthembekile phakathi kwabashadile lunqoba izinkanuko zenyama ngakho-ke ukuzibophezela bobabili abakucabangele.
IZaga 15: 15-19
15 Phuza amanzi emgodini wakho.
Nemifudlana evela emthonjeni wakho.16 Imithombo yakho iyakuchichima ezitaladini,
Nemifudlana yakho yamanzi ezigcawini?17 ube ngawe wedwa,
Futhi hhayi kubantu ongabazi nawe.18 Kwangathi intwasahlobo yakho ingabusiswa,
Futhi ujabule nowesifazane wobusha bakho.19 Njengenyamazane ethandekayo nensephe enomusa.
Ukumbambatha kwakhe kuyakwanelisa ngaso sonke isikhathi,
Futhi othandweni lwakhe zijabulise.
Uthando lukaNkulunkulu ngabantu bakhe
Enye incazelo enikezwe le ncwadi uthando lukaNkulunkulu ngabantu bakhe. Uma siphenya iTestamente Elidala sithola iziqephu zeBhayibheli ezikhuluma ngalendikimba.
Ngokunjalo, uma sibuyekeza iTestamente Elisha sithola uthando uJesu alusho ngebandla lakhe. Kulo mbono, incwadi yezihlabelelo ithathwe njengesingathekiso noma umfanekiso wothando lukaNkulunkulu kubantu bakhe u-Israyeli, lweNkosi uJesu ebandleni lakhe kanye nebandla kuJesu.
Jeremiya 2: 1-3
Izwi likaJehova lafika kimi, lathi:
2 Hamba umemeze ezindlebeni zeJerusalema, uthi: ‘Usho kanje uJehova, uthi: “Ngikukhumbulile ukuthembeka kwasebusheni bakho, uthando lokuganana kwakho, ekungilandeleni kwakho ogwadule, ezweni elingahlwanyelwanga.
3 U-Israyeli wayengcwele kuJehova, ulibo lwezithelo zakhe ezintsha. Bonke ababemdlile babenecala; ububi behlela phezu kwabo, isho iNkosi.
Hezekeli 16:6-14
6 Ngadlula eduze kwakho, ngakubona ungcolile egazini lakho, futhi lapho usegazini lakho ngathi kuwe: Phila! Yebo, ngathi kuwe usegazini lakho: Phila!
7 Ngenza nandisa njengotshani basendle; wakhula, waba mkhulu, waba muhle kakhulu; amabele akho amila, nezinwele zakho zakhula; kepha wawunqunu, wembethe.
8 Ngaphinda ngadlula kuwe, ngakubona; bheka, isikhathi sakho sasiyisikhathi sothando; ngendlala ingubo yami phezu kwakho, ngembesa ubunqunu bakho; + futhi ngafunga kuwe + ngangena esivumelwaneni nawe, isho iNkosi uJehova, + futhi wawungowami.
9 Ngakugeza ngamanzi, ngakugeza igazi lakho, ngakugcoba ngamafutha;
10 ngakugqokisa izifekethiso, ngakufaka izicathulo zamatahasi, ngakubhincisa ilineni, ngakumboza ngosilika.
11 Ngakuhlobisa ngezivunulo, ngafaka amasongo ezingalweni zakho nomgexo entanyeni yakho.
12 Ngafaka ubucwebe emakhaleni akho, namacici ezindlebeni zakho, nomqhele omuhle ekhanda lakho.
13 Wawuvunuliswa ngegolide nangesiliva, ingubo yakho yayingelelineni elicolekileyo, usilika, nemifekethiso; udle imbali kafulawa kakolweni, izinyosi namafutha; futhi wawumuhle ngokwedlulele, waphumelela waze wafika ukubusa.
14 Udumo lwakho lwaphumela ezizweni ngenxa yobuhle bakho; ngokuba wayephelele ngenxa yobuhle bami engabugqokisa wena, isho iNkosi uJehova.
Efesu 5: 22-23
22 Abafazi thobelani amadoda abo kungathi kukuyo iNkosi;
23 ngokuba indoda iyinhloko yomfazi, njengokuba noKristu eyinhloko yebandla, eliwumzimba wakhe, yena enguMsindisi walo.
Isambulo 21: 2
2 Mina Johane ngabona umuzi ongcwele, iJerusalema elisha, wehla uvela kuNkulunkulu ezulwini, ulungisiwe njengomlobokazi ohlotshiselwe umyeni wakhe.
Abukho ubufakazi bezincazelo ezinjalo, kodwa ulimi olutholakala eBhayibhelini lungokomfanekiso. Incazelo ayikona ukuchazwa komuntu. Ngakho-ke, lapho sicabangela uthando phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, kulula ukuphetha ngokuthi imayelana nothando lukaJesu ngomlobokazi wakhe ibandla.
Isifinyezo sencwadi Yezingoma Zezingoma
Ingoma yezingoma iqala ngaphambi komshado. Umakoti wakusasa ufisa ukuba nomyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo kanye namaphupho esikhathi lapho bezoba ndawonye ngokusondelana.
Kodwa-ke, uyazi futhi weluleka ngesidingo sokuthi uthando luthuthuke ngokwemvelo futhi yisikhathi sakhe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, inkosi itusa ubuhle bentombi engumShulami, okunqoba nakanjani ukungaqiniseki kwayo ngokubukeka kwayo.
Intombi iphupha ilahlekelwa nguSolomoni futhi ekufuneni kwayo ngokuphelelwa yithemba iya konogada bomuzi abayisizayo. Ethola isithandwa sakhe, unamathela kuso ngokungananazi. Unquma ukumyisa endaweni lapho bezophepha khona. Lapho evuka kuleli phupho elinzima, ugcizelela ukuthi uthando kufanele luvunyelwe ukuba luthuthuke ngokwemvelo futhi lungalokothi luphoqwe.
Lapho ubusuku bomshado bufika, isithandwa sakhe esisha siphinde siqokomise ubuhle bomlobokazi wakhe. USalomón usebenzisa ulimi olugcwele izimpawu, lapho alolonga khona izifiso zenkosikazi ngokumema umyeni wakhe ngalokho angamnika kona. UNkulunkulu ubusisa ukuhlangana kwabo futhi baba nyamanye.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abashadile bayavuthwa ebuhlotsheni babo. Umshado udlula izilingo ezinzima ezichazwa kwelinye iphupho.
UmShulami uyaphinda lapho ephupha elahla umyeni wakhe amthandayo futhi uyamshiya naphezu kwalokhu kudelelwa. Ecindezelwe ukuzisola nokuzisola, uselangazelele ukumthola, emfuna ngabomvu edolobheni. Kulokhu onogada abamsizi, kunalokho bayamphatha kabi. Lapho behlangana bobabili, indoda nomfazi, bayabuyisana.
Ekugcineni, lapho abashadile behlangana, bayaqiniseka ngemizwa yabo. Bayazi ukuthi uthando lwabo olumsulwa noluthembekile luphephile. Baphakamisa izingoma zokugubha uthando lwabo lweqiniso futhi bangangabazi isifiso sabo sokuba ndawonye kuze kube phakade.
Ingoma Yezingoma Sketch
INgoma Yezingoma ibonakala njengencwadi eshukumisayo elandisa ngedrama yothando lombhangqwana. Indaba ixoxwa ngendlela esankondlo yengxoxo phakathi kwensizwa (iNkosi uSolomoni) nowesifazane (umShulamiti).
Kuyo yonke le ncwadi, imizwa ekhona phakathi kwalaba ababili ichazwa ngemininingwane yabo ejulile. Inhloso yabo kwakuwukuhlala ndawonye kuze kube phakade. Izingxoxo zidingida izindaba ezenzeka emshadweni ngokombono kaNkulunkulu.
Njengoba sibonile kuso sonke isihloko, kuye kwaba nezincazelo eziningana eziye zanikezwa lezi zingoma. Abanye bayakufakazela ukuthi kumayelana nothando olumsulwa noluqotho okufanele lube khona emshadweni. Kufanele ubudlelwano phakathi kombhangqwana buguquke kanjani?
Abanye bayawuvikela umbono wokuthi imayelana nothando lukaNkulunkulu ngo-Israyeli nesonto lakhe. Nokho, ukuhlakanipha nemfihlo kaNkulunkulu akunamkhawulo. Kuzo zombili izindikimba, iculo lamaculo liyasebenza ekubhekaneni nalezi zinkinga ekushumayeleni kwebandla.
Ngokombono wokuqala, ukuphola, ukunakekela ukuhlala uhlanzekile kuze kube umshado kanye nokuphila njengombhangqwana kungabhekwana nayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu angakhuluma ngothando nokwethembeka kukaNkulunkulu nabantu bakhe kanye neBandla kuze kube yilapho kwenzeka uMshado weWundlu. Kusele kuphela ukucela isiqondiso kuMoya oNgcwele ukuze ushumayele ngalezi zici.
Umdwebo
Usuku Lomshado ( INgoma 1:1 kuya ku-2:7 )
Isikhumbuzo sokuqomisana (IsiHlabelelo 2:8 kuya ku-3:5)
Isikhumbuzo sokuzibophezela (IsiHlabelelo 3:6 kuya ku-5:1)
Ukulala okungaphumuli (IsiHlabelelo 5:2 kuya ku-6:3)
Ukudumisa ubuhle bomlobokazi (IsiHlabelelo 6:4 kuya ku-7:9)
Ukuncenga kwenkosikazi (IsiHlabelelo 7:9 kuya ku-8:4)
Amandla othando ( INgoma 8:5-14 )
Le ncwadi yezinkondlo iyingoma yomshado ebungaza umshado. Indlela yokubhekana nocansi iyabonakala kule ncwadi. Abaningi baye baba ngabaphikisi bencwadi yezingoma ngenxa yenkanuko yayo. Nokho, labo abathatha lesi sikhundla, bayakulahla ukuqondana kweBhayibheli okuphathelene nobungcwele bothando, ubumsulwa balo nokuphila emshadweni uJehova akumisa kusukela ekuqaleni kwendalo.
UNkulunkulu ungumdali wazo zonke izinto futhi phakathi kwalokho ubulili ngokombono omsulwa. Emshadweni kungcwele, kuhle futhi kumsulwa. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kufanele ujatshulelwe ngaphakathi kohlaka lomshado. Ngokuphambene nale mibono ebucayi ngobungcwele bengoma yezingoma, uNkulunkulu uhlonipha imibhangqwana ethandanayo futhi ejabulelanayo.
Isicelo esiwusizo
Namuhla umphakathi usunombono oyiphutha wokuthi umshado usho ukuthini njengelungiselelo elingcwele. Siyabona ukuthi imindeni ihlukana kanjani futhi imibhangqwana ihlukanisa kalula.
Kuye kwavela imibono emisha yokuthi ungawakha kanjani umshado iphikisana nalokho okushiwo iBhayibheli. wabadala owesilisa nowesifazane. Le mibono emisha iphambene nencwadi yezingoma.
Ngokombono wale ncwadi yeBhayibheli, umshado umayelana nokujatshulelwa, ukubungazwa nokuhlonishwa. Ngalo mqondo, iBhayibheli lisinikeza imikhuba okumelwe siyenze emishadweni yethu ukuze siyiqinise:
- Kubalulekile ukuthi isikhathi sansuku zonke sinikezwe indoda noma inkosikazi. Leso sikhathi asinikezelwe ekwazaneni.
- Ngokunjalo, kubalulekile ukuthi ebudlelwaneni umbhangqwana unconywe, ukhuthazwe ezinhlelweni zabashadikazi kanye nobudlelwano babo bomshado.
- Umbhangqwana kufanele ujabule wodwa. Kulokhu kunconywa ukuthi eminye imihlangano ihlelwe iyodwa. Kubalulekile ukuthi zidala, zinemininingwane futhi ziyadlala. Ngamanye amazwi, jabulela isipho sikaNkulunkulu sothando lomshado.
Okunye okusebenzayo okuvela kule ncwadi ukuthi ukuzinikela kunkosikazi noma kumyeni kuyaqinisekiswa. Esinye sezenzo ukuvuselela izifungo zomshado.
Igama elithi isehlukaniso akufanele libe nendawo emshadweni wakho. Intando kaNkulunkulu iwukuba uthando emshadweni luphephe futhi lube nokuthula.
amavesi eBhayibheli ngomshado
UMathewu 19: 4-6
4 Waphendula, wathi kubo: “Anifundanga yini ukuthi owabadala ekuqaleni wabenza owesilisa nowesifazane na?
5 wathi: “Ngokuba lokhu indoda iyakushiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo, futhi laba ababili bayakuba nyamanye na?
6 Ngakho-ke abasekho ababili, kodwa sebenyamanye; ngakho-ke, lokho uNkulunkulu akuhlanganisile, umuntu akwehlukanisi.
UGenesise 2: 22-24
22 UJehova uNkulunkulu wakha owesifazane ngobambo abeluthathile kumuntu, wamyisa kumuntu.
23 U-Adamu wathi: “Lokhu manje kuyithambo lamathambo ami nenyama yenyama yami; Lo uzobizwa ngokuthi uVarona, ngoba uthathwe kumuntu.
24 Ngakho-ke indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina futhi inamathele kumkayo, futhi bayoba nyamanye.
1 Johane 4: 8
8 Lowo ongathandiyo akamazi uNkulunkulu; ngoba uNkulunkulu uluthando.
1 Johane 4: 18
18 Othandweni akukho ukwesaba, kepha uthando olupheleleyo luyaxosha ukwesaba; ngoba ukwesaba kuhambisana nesijeziso.
1 KwabaseKorinte 13: 4-7
4 Uthando luyabekezela futhi lunomusa. Uthando alunamona. Uthando alunabukhazikhazi, futhi aluzikhukhumezi. 5 Akukona okungafanele, futhi akuzifuneli okwalo. Akacasukile, futhi akagcini imibiko yobubi. 6 Aluthokozi ngokungabi nabulungisa, kodwa lujabulela iqiniso. 7 Uhlupheka ngakho konke, ukholelwa yonke into, ulindele yonke into, weseka yonke into.
UmShumayeli 4: 9-12
9 Kungcono ababili kunoyedwa, ngoba banomvuzo ongcono ngomsebenzi wabo. 10 Ngoba uma bewa, omunye uzothatha umlingani wakhe. Kodwa maye kowayo kungekho omunye wokumphakamisa! 11 Futhi uma ababili belala ndawonye bazofudumalana. Kodwa umuntu angafudumala kanjani eyedwa? 12 Futhi uma omunye ehlaselwa othile, uma kukhona ababili kubo, bayomehlula. Futhi intambo kathathu ayinqamuki ngokushesha.
Uma uqeda ukufunda lokhu okuthunyelwe, ngikumema ukuthi ufake isixhumanisi esilandelayo futhi uqhubeke nenhlanganyelo yakho noNkulunkulu Imishwana yothando yobuKristu
Ngendlela efanayo ngabelana ngale nto yokulalelwayo nokubonwayo ukuze ujabule