Imithandazo, ukufundwa kunye nezipho ezizodwa ziyinxalenye ye- ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile. Kule nqaku, sikunika iingcebiso zendlela yokuhlela enye, ubhengeza ilizwi likaThixo.
Ishawa yasebhayibhileni
Ishawa yentsana ngokubanzi ngumbhiyozo phakathi kwabahlobo kunye nabazali abalindeleyo. Ngubani oqokelelayo ukwamkela usana olungekazalwa.
Ngoku, ukuba sithetha ngemodem ye ishawa yomntwana webhayibhileKungenxa yokuba abo badibeneyo uninzi lwabo bangamakholwa. Ke, yintoni enokwahluka kwenye ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile kunye nesiko.
Kukuba ngexesha lomsitho kuthandazwe, ukongeza ekunikezeleni ngeentsikelelo kusana olusesiswini sikanina, bevakalisa ilizwi likaThixo eBhayibhileni. Ngale ndlela umntwana ophuma esibelekweni uya kuva amandla akhoyo xa kuthandazwa, kunye Umthandazo wabantwanaNgumkhwa ekufuneka uhlakulelwe.
Ngokungena kule khonkco uya kufunda malunga nokuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukufundisa abantwana emthandazweni. Kuba ngayo abantwana besebancinci bamisela ubudlelwane obusondeleyo noThixo, obuya kubonakala ebomini babo nakubudlelwane kunye nemeko yosapho.
Kule holide ngokubanzi, ikwalisiko ukuba abazimayo bazise izipho zabo zethenda nezintle kwiintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa. Kwangokunjalo, iisendwitshi, iilekese, iziqhamo, iziselo, phakathi kwezinye iisandwitshi ezifunwayo okanye zifunwa ngabo bazimase lo mbhiyozo.
Ngaba ishawa yomntwana eBhayibhileni?
Ngelixa ukubhiyozelwa kweshawa shafa ayisiyiqela lebhayibhile, nangona kunjalo, ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga iintsikelelo kunye nezipho ezifunyanwa sisidalwa esitsha. Singacinga ukuba, ekudalweni komntu, uAdam wabuliswa ngesona sesefu sintle sinokwenziwa kwimbali yonke yehlabathi.
Masikhumbule ukuba xa uThixo wadala uAdam, wayesele emlungiselele iparadesi yokwenene. Iparadesi apho uAdam eya kuhlala khona ngezona zipho zibalaseleyo kunye neentsikelelo ezinokufunyanwa nasiphi na isidalwa.
Nokuba yiparadesi apho isono sasingekho kwaye nalapho ubukho bukaThixo babudlula kuso, hayi indlela esimangalisa ngayo! UThixo njengoBawo noMdali wayigqiba ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile wase-Eden, enika uAdam intsikelelo enkulu yomntu omncedisayo, uEva.
Umfazi ke wenziwa ukuba abelane ngeentsikelelo kunye nezipho zeparadesi kunye nendoda, uAdam. Funda nzulu ngabo ngokungena apha, UAdam noEvaIsibini sokuqala sabantu kwindalo.
UAdam noEva babonisa imvelaphi yobuntu, indoda nomfazi badalwa nguThixo ngokomfanekiso wakhe nangokufana xa wayesenza indalo. Njengoko kubhaliwe kwizibhalo kwincwadi yeGenesis.
Ngesi sihlandlo siza kwabelana ngeengcebiso zokucwangcisa a ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile, Ndivakalisa ilizwi likaThixo. Kodwa kuqala, masibone ukuba lisuka phi na isiko lokuququzelela olu hlobo lokubhiyoza.
Ivelaphi isiko lokuhlamba umntwana?
Isiko lokuququzelela nokubhiyozela ishawa yabantwana livela eUnited States of America. Yiyo ke loo nto, igama layo likulwimi lwesiNgesi kwaye, njengoko isiko lendawo lisasazeka kwezinye izizwe, abantetho isisiSpanish bakhethwe ukuba bamkele ishawa yangasese.
Inguqulelo yokoqobo yeshawa yosana kwiSpanish kukuhlanjwa kosana, okunokuba nentsingiselo ngokwendlela esebenzayo: Ukuhlamba usana okanye imvula yosana. Ngokwenguqulelo kwaye kuxhomekeke kwinjongo yesiko laseMntla Melika, iya kuthi emva koko igcine intsingiselo yeshawa yezipho zomntwana okanye ibhafu yezipho zosana.
Uluvo lokuba mhlawumbi lwavela kwimvelaphi yalo ngeenjongo zokubonelela ngoncedo lwezinto ezibonakalayo kubazali bexesha elizayo ekukhuliseni inqanaba lokuqala losana. Siyakuhlonipha uku ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile imvula yeentsikelelo iyakongezwa kwinjongo yokuqala, ngokubhengeza ilizwi likaThixo kubomi bosana olungekazalwa.
Ayizukunceda abazali abazayo kuphela ngokubonelela ngezinto eziphathekayo, kodwa ikwagubungela usana oluzelweyo kungekudala ngesibonelelo somoya esivela kuThixo. Ngokubhiyozela ishawa yabantwana, ikwafumene amanye amagama amanye amazwe athetha iSpanish, anje ngala: Itheko lokuzalwa, iti ye-layette, iqela le-diaper, umbhiyozo wokubeleka ngaphambi kokubeleka.
Kodwa eyona idla ngokusetyenziswa kwiindawo ezininzi yile ibhekisa kwigama lesiNgesi, "Baby Shower."
Uhlela njani ishawa yasebhayibhileni?
Ukuba ulindile kamnandi kwaye kunye nomyeni wakho yenza umtshato okholwayo owamkela ukholo kuYesu Krestu. Banokuthi emva koko bacwangcise ukuba nokholo olusekwe elukholweni, olunethoni yokomoya.
Ukuba kunjalo, ukubhiyozelwa kokufika kosana kwangoko kufanele ukuba kucwangciswe ngononophelo ukuba yonke into iyahambelana nesitayile kunye nemeko yokomoya. Umthendeleko ongaphambi kokubeleka kufuneka ubandakanye umthandazo wombulelo, iintsikelelo kunye nokufundwa kwamaphepha okanye izicatshulwa zeBhayibhile.
Ngale ngqiqo, kufuneka kubekho ukulungiswa kwangaphambili kungekuphela kokuhombisa, ukuphatha kunye nokunye. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uthandaze ukukhokelwa kunye nokukhokelwa nguMoya oyiNgcwele, kuba le yeyona nto iphambili kuyo yonke imibhiyozo kwindawo yobuKristu.
Ke ikwangulo Moya Ungcwele weNkosi unika isikhokelo malunga nemithandazo, iintsikelelo kunye namazwi kaThixo ukuba abhengezwe ngexesha ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile. Itheko ngaphambi kokuzalwa komntwana nalo lihlala licwangcisiwe zizihlobo okanye ngabahlobo abasondeleyo babazali bexesha elizayo.
Ukuba yindlela yokonwabisa esi sibini okanye ithuba lokuhlonipha kwaye unike umbulelo ngentsikelelo efunyenwe kuThixo yokuba bakhulelwe.
Ezinye iingcebiso ezinokusetyenziswa ukuyilungiselela
Ngale ndlela, nokuba kucwangcisiwe ngabazali bexesha elizayo ngokwabo okanye ngabahlobo babo kunye nezihlobo. Kungenxa yoko le nto sabelana apha ngezantsi ezinye iingcebiso ezinokusetyenziswa xa siququzelela ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile.
Ukuhonjiswa
Ukuze umhombiso wendawo ebonakalayo uhambelane nokubhiyozela ishawa yabantwana kwaye ngokukodwa ngokwebhayibhile. Unokukhetha imifanekiso yeendinyana eBhayibhileni, ngokungcono ukuba ezi zinabalinganiswa abanobuso babantwana.
Imizekelo yale mifanekiso yile idla ngokubonakala kwiiBhayibhile zabantwana. Ngokuphathelele kumabali eBhayibhile, enye indlela iya kuba kukukhetha umkhombe kaNowa. Ukumela ithuba lesibini likaThixo nendalo yakhe.
Kodwa kwakhona umhombiso unokwenziwa kuphela ngokusekwe kwizicatshulwa zebhayibhile ezinomda wobuntwana, weengelosi kunye neethenda kwiithoni ze-pastel.
Uluhlu lweendwendwe kunye namakhadi esimemo
Eli nqaku libaluleke kakhulu xa kubalwa inani lokutya, iidessert kunye neziselo eziya kwenziwa ngexesha lokubhiyozela. Kwaye, ukuba ishawa yomntwana icwangciswa ngabahlobo kunye nosapho lomtshato oza kuzukiswa.
Eyona nto icetyiswayo kukuthathela ingqalelo uluvo lwesibini, ngaphambi kokulungiswa kwoluhlu lweendwendwe. Ukuze bazi ukuba ngoobani abantu abafuna ukuya kuzo.
Nje ukuba uluhlu lweendwendwe luchazwe, amakhadi ezimemo ayilelwe. Amakhadi esimemo kufuneka ahambelane noyilo oluchaziweyo kumhombiso. Kananjalo umbono olungileyo kukubhala kubo ukongeza kunyango, amagama kunye nezithembiso ezifanelekileyo zebhayibhile zeso sihlandlo.
Ukuba ufuna ezinye zazo, ungangena inqaku: Izithembiso zebhayibhile elinde wena. Kuyo uyakufumana udidi oluhle lweentsikelelo zentsikelelo kaThixo kubantu bakhe.
Chaza ukutya kunye nemenyu yokusela
Kuxhomekeke kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali onalo, unokucwangcisa ukuba ngaba ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile Imenyu yokunambitha okanye iisandwich kuphela, iidizethi kunye neziselo ziya kunikwa. Olunye uluvo kukulungiselela itafile yesayizi elungileyo enomhombiso ofanayo wendalo kunye naleyo iprintwe emakhadini.
Kule tafile ungabeka iitreyi ezineekuki ezimnandi, iisendwitshi ezinetyuwa, iitartlets, iizithambiso, itshizi, iikeyiki, phakathi kwabanye. Ngendlela efanayo, beka izitya ezintle nezintekenteke etafileni, ukuze xa umthetho uvula ukutya, iindwendwe zinokuziphilela ngokwazo ukuthanda kwazo.
Imithombo yezixhobo
Amandla oqoqosho lwezixhobo zokuqhuba umbutho weshawa yabantwana anokuhluka kakhulu. Ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo nto, kuxhomekeke ukuba ngubani oza kuququzelela umsitho, kuba ukuba ngabazali bexesha elizayo ngokwabo, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuba ngabaxhasi.
Kodwa ukuba umbutho umela usapho kunye nabahlobo, wonke umntu anganegalelo kwinto leyo. Okanye kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuphela ngamalungu osapho angabaxhasi okanye umthombo wezixhobo.
Uluhlu lwezipho
Kukho iimeko zokuhlanjwa kosana olohlobo lwesitayile ngokufanayo neminye imitshato ekuphuhliseni uluhlu lwezipho zomntwana kwaye ulubeke ngaphakathi kwesimemo. Ngokubanzi, uluhlu lwezipho zabantwana lubandakanya izinto eziza kufunwa lusana kakhulu okanye ezo zingakhange zithengwe ngabazali.
Nangona kunjalo, apha ngezantsi sibeka ezona zinto zifunwa lusana ngokubanzi. Kunye noko kuhlala kunikwa umntwana osanda kuzalwa:
- Amanabukeni ezilahlwayo.
- Iilwimi zangaphantsi zeebhedi okanye iibhasethi.
- Iingubo okanye iingubo zeentsana.
- Iidrafti zamalaphu.
- Iimpahla ezisandul 'ukuzalwa.
- Mamilas kunye neeteteros.
- Izinto zokuhlamba abantwana.
- Cologne, izithambiso, iitawuli ezimanzi
- Izinto zabantwana ngokubanzi, phakathi kwabanye.
Iindinyana zebhayibhile yokuhlamba umntwana
Lixesha lokuba wabelane ngeendinyana ezithile zeBhayibhile ezinokusetyenziselwa ukuhombisa ulwamkelo lwaphambi kokubeleka. Ezi zinokubekwa kwiimemo okanye ezinye zazo zingasetyenziselwa ukuphuhlisa, ngokukhokelwa nguMoya oyiNgcwele, intetho okanye iintetho ezibhengeziweyo ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile.
Lucas 18: 16 (DHH): Ke uYesu wababiza wathi: “Bayekeni abantwana beze kum, ningabaleli, kuba ubukumkani bukaThixo bobabo banjengabo.
INumeri 6: 24-26 (CST): 24 INkosi ikusikelele kwaye ikugcine; 5 INkosi mayikubonele, ikunanzile, ikwenzele ubabalo; Ngamana iNkosi yakubabala, ikunike uxolo.
I-8 Psalms: 2 (RVA-2015): Ukusuka emilonyeni yabancinci nakwabo basancancayo, umise indumiso phambi kweentshaba zakho ukuze uthule utshaba kunye nempindezelo.
IMizekeliso 22: 6 (NTV): Khokela abantwana bakho kwindlela elungileyo, kwaye xa sele bebadala, abasayi kuyishiya.
I-127 Psalms: 3 (PDT): Abantwana lilifa esilinikwa yiNkosi; iziqhamo zesizalo ngumvuzo ovela kuThixo.
UIsaya 44: 3 (TLA): Ndiza kwenza ukuba amanzi abaleke entlango kwaye nemilambo iqukuqele emhlabeni owomileyo. Ndiya kuyinika imbewu yakho entsha, ndibasikelele;
Yakobi 1: 17 (NTV): Yonke into elungileyo negqibeleleyo sisipho esihla sivela kuThixo uBawo wethu, owadala zonke izibane zamazulu. Akaze atshintshe okanye ahluke njengesithunzi esihambayo.
Lucas 2: 40 (RVA-2015): Umntwana wakhula kwaye womelela, kwaye wazaliswa bubulumko; kwaye nobabalo lukaThixo lwaluphezu kwakhe.
Iindumiso 128: 5-6 (PDT): 5 Yanga iNkosi ingakusikelela ivela eZiyon ukuze ubone iintsikelelo zeJerusalem bonke ubomi bakho. 6 Ngamana ungadibana nabantwana babantwana bakho. Malube luxolo kwaSirayeli.
Umthandazo wase Bhayibhile wosana
Eli lelona candelo libalulekileyo kwi ishawa yomntwana webhayibhile, kuba ukuba abanye abantu abakholwayo bayahlangana ngenjongo yokubhiyozela ukuzalwa kwangoko. Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukungcwalisela loo mzuzu kuThixo kwaye uvumele uMoya wakhe oyiNgcwele ukuba azibonakalise ngexesha lomsitho.
Ke kwiprotocol yomnyhadala, umthandazo wombulelo kunye nokudumisa uThixo kufuneka ubekwe njengendawo yokuqala. Ngendlela efanayo, umsitho kufuneka uvalwe, udumisa uBawo wasezulwini ngomthandazo:
Bawo waseZulwini, namhlanje sihlangana ukuze sikubulele,
Kwaye ubhiyozele ebusweni bakho ummangaliso wobomi,
Ukuba usinike esi sibini sitshatileyo.
Namhlanje ebusweni bakho sicela ukukhuselwa kunye nentsikelelo,
Kulolu sana lungekazalwa.
Siyakucela Bawo ngegama likaYesu.
Ukuba ubanike ubulumko obuvela phezulu kubazali babo,
Ukumfundisa endleleni.
Enkosi Nkosi, Amen!