Wata rana Elizabeth Gilbert, duk da cewa tana mafarkin rayuwa, ta tashi da sha'awar sanin ainihin abin da take so a rayuwarta, shin kun san aikin adabi da ake kira ci Addu'a Soyayya? Kuna a daidai wurin! A cikin wannan labarin, muna ba ku darussan rayuwa waɗanda littafin ke bayarwa.
Ku ci Addu'a Soyayya
Sau tari a matsayinmu na masu karatu mukan ci karo da ayyukan adabi da suke nishadantar da mu da kuma sanya mu yin balaguro. A cikin lamarin Ku ci Addu'a Soyayya muna da damar koyon darussan rayuwa. Wannan littafin gayyata ce ta yin tunani a kan rayuwarmu da abin da muke fatan gani.
Wannan aikin adabi gayyata ce a gare mu mu nemo ruhaniyarmu. Novel ne inda jarumar ta ke neman abin da take son yi, abin da take ganin zai faranta mata rai.
Ku ci Addu'a Soyayya: makirci
Wannan littafin, wanda ya gayyace mu mu bincika ainihin abin da muke so mu yi, ya gaya mana game da Elizabeth Gilbert. Wannan mata za a iya cewa tana da duka. Gida, mijin da yake sonta, sana'arta. Duk da haka, wata rana ya farka kuma ya kosa don sanin menene mafi zurfin sha'awarsa.
Da yake fuskantar wannan matsalar, ya yanke shawarar barin komai don yin balaguro na shekara guda. A lokacin wannan tafiya ya yi tafiya zuwa Turai, musamman Italiya inda ya gamsu da burinsa na cin abinci mafi kyau na kayan abinci na Italiyanci. Daga nan sai ta yi tafiya zuwa Gabas ta Tsakiya, zuwa Indiya inda ta hadu da wani malami na ruhaniya kuma ya koya mata ta sami Kai na ciki kuma a karshe ta tafi Indonesia inda ta sake yin soyayya.
Koyarwar littafin ku ci, ku yi addu'a da ƙauna
Akwai ayyuka da yawa da za su iya ba mu ɗabi'a kamar littafin momo wanda ya ba mu wasu tunani kan yadda al'ummar yammacin duniya suka sadaukar da kansu don rayuwa don aiki, cin kasuwa da kuma bayyanar. Duk da haka, wannan littafin ya ɗan ƙara zama. Bari mu sake nazarin waɗannan koyarwar.
zabi tunani
Daga cikin darussan da Elizabeth Gilbert ta ba da shawarar, muna da abin da ta gaya mana:
"Dole ne ku koyi zabar tunanin ku yayin da kuke zabar tufafinku kowace rana"
A cikin ƙwarin gwiwar sake saduwa da Elizabeth, malaminta na ruhaniya ya ba da shawarar cewa ta koyi zaɓen tunaninta, domin suna haskaka halayenmu. Ya ce mata kamar yadda take zabar wardrobe dinta, dole ne ta zabi abin da take tunani.
murmushi tare da dukan ku
Yayin da yake Italiya yana jin daɗin ilimin gastronomy na Italiyanci, Indiya ita ce wani kwarewa. A nan ya shiga cikin girma na ruhaniya. Ta so ta sake samun kanta. Wata koyarwar da ya samu ita ce, wajibi ne a ce:
"Murmushi da fuskarki, da hankalinki har da hantarki".
Murmushi yayi yana yaduwa. Duk inda kuka je sai wani yayi miki murmushi, mutum yakan yi murmushi. Wannan yana canza yanayin mu ta atomatik, don haka murmushi tare da dukkan halittunku.
Jituwa da kanku
Lokacin da Elizabeth Gilber ta yanke shawarar yin wannan tafiya, ta kasance cikin yanayin shakkar kai. Ya gane cewa dole ne ya sake haduwa. Duk da kamar tana da komai, ita ba ta da kanta. Dole ne ta yafe wa kanta kuma ta yi farin ciki da kanta. Darasin rayuwarsa shine:
"Balance ne baya barin kowa ya so ku kasa da son kanku."
Son kanku
Ƙauna, kwanciyar hankali, jituwa dole ne a fara da kai. Idan ba ka son kanka, ba za ka iya son wasu ba. Wani koyarwar wannan littafi yana bayyana a cikin jumla mai zuwa.
"Bana buk'atar sonki ki nuna min ina son kaina".
Ku kasance da ƙarfi
Lokacin da Elizaberh Gilbert tana Indiya, yanayinta ya cika ta. Wani shugaban Yoga ya gaya masa cewa dole ne ya kasance mai ƙarfi don iya fuskantar kowane yanayi. Wannan ƙarfin yana fitowa daga ciki. An gabatar mana da wannan jumla ta hanya mai zuwa.
“Kada ka ba kanka abin jin daɗi na rugujewa, domin zai zama al’ada. Maimakon haka, ya kamata ku yi ƙoƙari ku kasance masu ƙarfi."
Amar
Sa’ad da Alisabatu ta tashi tafiya, sai ta rabu da mijinta. A rasa tunanin son sake. Lokacin da ta isa Indonesia, ta ci karo da wani mutum wanda ba zai daidaita duniyarta ba. Wannan yana nufin cewa soyayya a duk inda muke. An bayyana koyarwar littafin a cikin jumla mai zuwa:
"Mun zauna don rayuwa ba tare da jin dadi ba saboda muna tsoron canji kuma komai ya zama kango"
Tarihin Elizabeth Gilbert: Mawallafin ku ci Addu'a da Soyayya
Elizabeth Gilber marubuciya Ba’amurke ce, wacce aka haifa a Waterbury, musamman a Connecticut, a ranar 18 ga Nuwamba, 1969. Ta fito ne daga ƙwararrun iyaye. Mahaifinsa injiniyan sinadari ne kuma mahaifiyarsa tana aiki a fannin lafiya a matsayin ma'aikaciyar jinya.
Ya fara karatunsa a Jami'ar New York a Kimiyyar Siyasa. Ta yi ayyuka daban-daban a matsayin mai hidima da dafa abinci.
Gina
Fitattun ayyukan da Elizabeth Gilber ta yi sun haɗa da Mahajjata (1997); Na Mutum da Lobsters (2000); Mutumin Ba'amurke Na Ƙarshe (2002); Ku ci, ku yi addu'a da ƙauna (2006); Aiki (2009); da sauransu.