Ukuxhumana Okuphumelelayo Izihluthulelo zokuyifinyelela!

Isikhungo a ukuxhumana okusebenzayo Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingxoxo phakathi kwabantu yenziwe ngendlela efanele, ngoba lokhu kudingekile ukucabangela amaphuzu athile anethonya, okuzochazwa kabanzi kulolu lwazi.

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Shintshanisa imilayezo ngendlela efanele

Kuyini ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo?

Lolu uhlobo lokuxhumana oluvumela abantu ukuthi bathumele noma badlulise umlayezo ngendlela eqondakala kalula, ngendlela yokuthi owamukelayo akwazi ukuwemukela ngaphandle kwezinkinga futhi ngaphandle kokubonisa noma yiluphi uhlobo lobunkimbinkimbi ukuze awuqonde. Okugqamayo ukuthi uma umlayezo uthunyelwa futhi wamukelwa ngeke kuholele ekuhumusheni okungalungile.

Iphuzu okufanele libhekwe mayelana nokuxhumana okuphumelelayo ukuthi kuncike ezintweni ezithile ezivumela ukuthi inhloso ifezeke. Ngayinye yazo inomsebenzi othize oyisihluthulelo njengoba ihambisana nesidingo ekuxhumaneni.

Izinto

Yakhiwe ngezinto ezahlukene ezifeza indima ethile, okuyilezi ezilandelayo:

  • Umthumeli: Ingabe umuntu ophethe ukudala nokudlulisa umlayezo
  • Umamukeli: Umuntu ozokwamukela umlayezo futhi akwazi ukufeza ukuchazwa kwawo
  • Ikhodi: Ukugcwaliswa kwezimpawu ezidingekayo kanye nemithetho ethile ehlangatshezwana nayo ukuze lowo othumelayo akwazi ukudala umlayezo futhi kudingekile ukuthi wethulwe ngumuntu owamukelayo kufanele ayisebenzise ukuze awuthole.
  • Isiteshi: Yindlela noma indlela umlayezo othunyelwa ngayo
  • Umlayezo: Umongo okufanele kukhulunywe ngawo, odalwa futhi wahlelwa umthumeli futhi uthunyelwe kumamukeli owutholayo.
  • Ireferensi: Yinkomba esetshenziswa ukuhlobana nomlayezo ozodluliswa.
  • Isimo: Isikhundla noma indawo abantu abakuyo ngesikhathi sokudlulisa umlayezo kanye nokwamukela okufanayo
  • Umsindo: Lezi yizici ezengeziwe ezibonisa umthelela ekuxhumaneni njengengxenye eyengeziwe.

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Amaphuzu abalulekile

Lapho abantu besungula ukuxhumana basengozini yokuthi ngeke kusebenze, okufanele kugwenywe. Ngakho-ke, ukuze kusungulwe ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo ngempela, kuyadingeka ukucabangela amaphuzu alandelayo azosiza ukufeza le njongo.

Bheka amehlo

Phakathi kwamaphuzu abaluleke kakhulu ukuxhumana kwamehlo nomuntu osungula ingxoxo, kusukela ngaleso sikhathi lapho imilayezo ishintshana khona kuyadingeka ukukhombisa ukubukeka okuzinzile nokuthakazelayo okuvumela ukuthi ukuxhumana kugeleze ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezinkinga. Kodwa futhi akunconywa ukuthi ukubukeka kuphoqwe noma kuvezwe ukubalekela kuleli cala, ngoba kuzothathwa ngomunye umuntu njengokuntula inhlonipho noma ukuphepha.

Ukusungula ukubukeka kwemvelo okusiza ukuxhumana ukuthi kukhululeke kakhulu, kuvumela ubuqotho bomuntu ukuba ivezwe, kanye nokuchazwa kwesimo ngendlela efanele. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, mayelana nokubuka, kunconywa ukuthi ungabheki ngokweqile ezinhlangothini, ngoba kungase kuqondwe kabi.

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Sebenzisa ulimi lomzimba

Njengento efanelekile ekukhulumisaneni, ukusetshenziswa komzimba kuveza ukuhambisana nomlayezo ozodluliswa, ngokunyakaza, izinkulumo, ukusekelwa kuzonikezwa kumongo othunyelwayo, ngoba lokhu kuvumela ukuthi kube nomqondo owengeziwe futhi kube lula. ukuqondisisa.

Ukuthumela umlayezo ocacile

Ngakho ukuthi ukuxhumana okusebenzayo zingavezwa, kuyadingeka ukuthi ulimi olusetshenziswa ekuthumeleni imiyalezo lube mfushane, lube lula, lucace, ukuze ukuqondwa kwalo kuvezwe kalula kakhulu. Ngokuvamile kunconywa ukuthi ungasebenzisi ulimi lobuchwepheshe olusezingeni eliphezulu, kodwa konke kungase kuncike esimweni.

sebenzisa izincomo

Phakathi nengxoxo kuyadingeka ukusebenzisa izincomo ngezikhathi ezithile, ngoba lezi zinhlobo zemisho zivumela umlayezo ukuthi uphelele futhi zizoqinisa nokusebenza kwawo. Ngokujwayelekile lezi zivezwa njengokuphelelisa, isisho, kubhekiselwa kulokho okushiwoyo, njengokuthi, "Kuhle lokho", "Umbono omuhle kangakanani", "Ngiyavuma" nokunye.

Ngokusebenzisa izincomo, kuvumela ubudlelwano nabahlanganyeli ukuba buqiniswe, ngaphezu kwalokho, izinhlobo ezahlukene zemisho zingasetshenziswa ukufeza le nhloso, uma unesithakazelo kuyo, sincoma ukuthi ufunde mayelana imishwana yokugqugquzela 

Cacisa umongo

Kuyisici esibalulekile ukuthi umyalezo utholakale ngendlela efanele, okungukuthi, lowo ozodlulisa umyalezo kumele abe nesiqiniseko solwazi oluzosetshenziswa uma kubhekwa indawo azithola ekuyo. Okusho ukuthi indawo etholakala kuyo, inani labantu abayilalelayo, izici zangaphandle nokunye kuyaphawuleka, ngoba akuzona zonke izinhlobo zezingxoxo ezisungula ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo ngendlela efanayo.

Iphimbo

Izinga lezwi elisetshenziswa lapho kusungulwa ukuxhumana kubalulekile ukucatshangelwa, njengoba ithoni yezwi efanayo ayihlali isetshenziswa, lokhu kungahluka kuye ngengxoxo noma ukuxhumana okusungulwe, kanye nokucabangela umongo womlayezo othunyelwayo. dlulisa.

Uzwela

Ukuba nozwelo kusiza indawo yengxoxo ukuthi ibe yenhle futhi ibe yinhle, njengoba izokwazi ukuhlobana kakhulu nomthumeli nomamukeli. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuthathwa njengengxenye yosizo ukusungula ukwethembana engxoxweni, ukuze ukuqonda kube lula kakhulu kuzo zombili izinhlangothi.

lalela kahle

Kuwukuqeqeshwa okumelwe kwenziwe, uma kukhombisa ubunkimbinkimbi kuleli phuzu, ngoba iqiniso lokuthi umuntu ulalela ngenkuthalo kuzoholela ekutheni kube nokwenzeka ukusungula inkhulumomphendvulwano ngendlela eyanele. Lapho imilayezo idluliswa, isithakazelo salowo owamukelayo siyaphawuleka, uma ngempela elalele umongo owamukelwe, okuzoholela ekukhulumisaneni okungcono kakhulu okuphumelelayo.

ukuhlonipha amajika

Ukushintshana kuhlobene nephuzu langaphambilini. Kudingeka ukulalela ngenkuthalo futhi uhloniphe isikhathi umthumeli asinikezayo ukuze akhiqize futhi athumele umlayezo wakhe, okusho ukuthi lowo owamukelayo ngaleso sikhathi akufanele abangele ukuphazamiseka noma athathe isikhathi sakhe. Lapho umthumeli eqeda ukusungula imibono yakhe futhi efinyelela umvuthwandaba lapho-ke angayeka ithuba lokuxhumana ngokujwayelekile.

Uma leli phuzu lingagcwaliseki, ukudelela kuboniswa, okubangela indawo engalungile futhi akuvumeli ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo ukukhiqizwa. Khona-ke isidingo sokulinda umuntu aqede ukukhuluma ukuze anezele ukwaziswa engxoxweni.

Setha imibuzo bese ubeka ngemisho ethile

Phakathi nengxoxo eqinisiwe, ukushintshana kwemibuzo kanye nokubeka amazwi athile kukhulisa isithakazelo sabantu abahlobene, okusiza ekwandiseni impumelelo. Okuhlobene nokuzwelana, kuzoba lula kakhulu ukuxoxisana nomuntu(abantu), okudinga ukuphimisela ukuze umlayezo omisiwe ube nomqondo.

Lapho la maphuzu ayisihluthulelo ecatshangelwa ukuze kuqeqeshwe uhlobo oluthile lobuthakathaka futhi lusetshenziswe, kuyovumela ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi akubona bonke abantu abawavezayo la maphuzu kodwa kuyadingeka ukuthi bakhombise umzamo wokuwufinyelela kodwa kungabonakali kuyisibopho.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuba umkhuba ukusungula amaphuzu alungile ekuxhumaneni, kube yikhono lokukwazi ukuveza imibono ngendlela efanele nephumelelayo, ngaphandle kokugqamisa izinkinga zokuthumela noma zokwamukela imiyalezo.

Ukubaluleka

Ngokuvamile, ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo kubaluleke kakhulu ukuze ukwabelana ngolwazi phakathi kwabantu kube nokukhiqiza, phakathi kwabo kungaqokonyiswa njengesibonelo endaweni yebhizinisi lapho kunenani eliphezulu labantu, okuthi njengeqembu badinga ukuxhumana ukuze ukufinyelela umgomo. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi bakwazi ukuphelelisana ngokusebenzisa ingxoxo efanele.

Enye indawo engabhekwa isesikhundleni sezemfundo, lapho uthisha edinga ukudlulisa ulwazi kubafundi bakhe, kufanele acabangele uhlobo lolimi oluzosetshenziswa kubo, kanjalo nokunye. Ngokuvamile, kungase futhi kucatshangelwe lapho abafundi njengeqembu bedinga ukushintshana ngemibono, imicabango, futhi basungule umsebenzi okufanele bawenze, ukuze ugcwaliseke ngendlela efanele.

Ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo kugqama endaweni yezombangazwe, lapho iziphathimandla zidinga ukudlulisa umlayezo ngokucacile ukuze kusungulwe ukuxhumana nezakhamuzi, uma kwenzeka kungakhulumisani kahle, imiphumela ngeke ibe ngendlela elindelekile, ngoba bazokwazi ukufeza lokho okushiwo. inhloso yokucacisa ulwazi jikelele kumuntu ngamunye, kanye nokuwina amavoti, okubalulekile kule ndawo.

Emisebenzini yezohwebo, ukuze impumelelo nokukhiqiza kube kuhle, ukuxhumana okusebenzayo kuyiphuzu elidingekayo lokusungula ukuze ukuthengisa ofuna ukukwenza kukhule futhi kubambe ukunaka kwabantu abaningi. Ngakho-ke, kunesidingo sokwazi kuyini ukuxhumana okusebenzayo kanye nendlela yokuyisungula ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila.

Ukuze usungule ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo, kubalulekile ukucabangela amaphuzu ahlukene okufanele asetshenziswe, uma unesithakazelo kakhulu kuwo, sincoma ukuthi amasu okuxhumana 


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