Indlela yokuqeqesha ikati: iseluleko esisebenzayo sokuhlalisana okuvumelanayo

izinyane lekati eliqeqeshwayo

Amakati, abangani abathandekayo nabangaqondakali emakhaya ethu, athathe abantu kusukela kudala. Avame ukubhekwa njengozimele futhi kunzima ukuwaqeqesha uma kuqhathaniswa nezinja, kodwa amakati empeleni ahlakaniphe kakhulu futhi lokho kuwenza kube lula ukuwaqeqesha. ngempumelelo uma sisebenzisa isineke, ukuqonda nokugxila okuhle.

Kulesi sihloko, sizohlola amasu angcono kakhulu okuqeqesha ikati lakho, ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhle, nokuqinisa isibopho phakathi kwakho nesilwane sakho esifuywayo. Hlala nathi ukuze ufunde konke odinga ukukwazi ngakho indlela yokuqeqesha ikati: iseluleko esisebenzayo sokuhlalisana okuvumelanayo.

ukuxhumana nokubekezela

Ikati linika umnikazi walo izidladla

Ukuqeqeshwa kwekati kuqala ngokuxhumana okuphumelelayo. Ukuqonda ulimi lomzimba wekati lakho kubalulekile ekuchazeni izidingo nezifiso zalo.. Bheka ukuma kwazo, ukunyakaza komsila kanye nesimo sobuso ukuze uchaze indlela ezizizwa ngayo. Ukubekezela kuyisihluthulelo, njengoba ikati ngalinye linejubane lalo lokufunda nokuzivumelanisa nezimo.

Gwema ukujeziswa kanzima noma ukuklabalasa, lokhu kungalimaza ukuzethemba kwekati lakho futhi iphazamise inqubo yokuqeqesha. Ngokuvamile, le ndlela isetshenziselwa ukuqeqeshwa kwanoma yisiphi isilwane, njengoba ukuqinisa okuhle-njengoba sizobona ngezansi-kubonise ukuthi kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yemfundo, kuhlanganise nabantu.

Ukuqiniswa okuhle

Ukufuya kuwukuqiniswa okuhle kwamakati nazo zonke izilwane.

Njengezinja, ukuqiniswa okuhle kuyithuluzi eliphumelelayo ekuqeqesheni i-feline. Nika ikati lakho umvuzo ngokukuphathisa, ukuphulula, noma ukulidumisa isikhathi ngasinye lapho lenza into oyifunayo.

Amakati, njengezinja nezinye izilwane ezincelisayo, ayakwazi ukubona iphimbo kanye nothando nobumnene aphathwa ngakho. Naphezu kokungaqondi ulimi lwabantu, bayaliqonda ithoni yemizwa. Yingakho kunjalo Kubalulekile ukubaphatha ngothando.. Kuze kwabonakala ukuthi lokhu kuziphatha kunomphumela omuhle ezitshalweni, lapho kuye kwafakazelwa ukuthi -ngokuphambene nalokho okwakucatshangwa - bazizwa, futhi lokhu kuye kwaqinisekiswa ezingeni lesayensi ngokusebenzisa imisebenzi eminingi kanye nencwadi edumile enesihloko esithi. "Impilo eyimfihlo yezitshalo".

Lokho okushiwoyo, imivuzo ngemva kokuziphatha okuphumelelayo kwezinyane lekati iqinisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwesenzo nomvuzo, ikhuthaza isilwane sakho esifuywayo ukuthi siphinde ukuziphatha (lokhu kwaziwa ngokuthi ukufunda okunemibandela, ifundwe kabanzi nguPavlov ezinjeni). Isibonelo somvuzo wokuziphatha osebenza njengokuqiniswa okuhle kungaba: Uma ikati lakho lisebenzisa ibhokisi lalo likadoti esikhundleni senye indawo, lidumise futhi ulinikeze ubumnandi njengomvuzo.

ukuhlalisana kwasekuqaleni

umdlwane ukhotha kitten, ukuhlalisana kwasekuqaleni

Uma uqeqesha izinyane lekati, ukuhlangana nabantu kusenesikhathi kubalulekile. Mjwayeze abantu, izindawo nemisindo ehlukene kusukela esemncane ukuze uzizwe ukhululekile ezimweni ezihlukahlukene.

Ubuchopho obukhulayo buwupulasitiki owengeziwe, ngakho isilwane sizothatha zonke izinto ezishukumisayo -kuhlanganise nezokuhlalisana kwabantu - sisebancane kangcono kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele kucatshangelwe ukuthi i-genetic imprint yemvelo yamakati ukuxhumana namanye amakati. Nakuba kuyiqiniso ukuthi ziyizilwane ezifuywayo, ukuhlalisana nabantu kuyindaba yokufunda.

Uma sicabangela lezi zinyathelo sizonciphisa amathuba okuthi ikati libe nokwesaba noma ukuziphatha okunolaka kamuva empilweni

Ibhokisi likadoti kanye nokulola uzipho

Ikati elimhlophe ebhokisini likadoti eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka

Ukuqeqeshwa kwebhokisi likadoti kubalulekile ekugcineni indawo ehlanzekile nenempilo. Ukuhlanzeka nokuhleleka kuyizici ezibalulekile zokuhlalisana ngendlela efanele futhi kuyatuseka ukunikeza isilwane izitsha ukuze sikwazi ukugcina isikhala nezidingo zaso zimboziwe.

Okufanelekile, beka ibhokisi likadoti endaweni efinyelelekayo nethule.. Lapho ikati lakho lisebenzisa ibhokisi likadoti, livuze futhi ugcine indawo ihlanzekile ukuze ukhuthaze ukuziphatha okuqhubekayo. Ukunikeza izikhala zokuklwebha kanye namathoyizi alola uzipho nakho kubalulekile. Yethula ikati lakho kulezi zinto futhi uliqinise lapho lizisebenzisa.

Kubalulekile ukuthi ungalahlekelwa umbono wokuqiniswa okuhle nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ngisho nasezilwaneni ezindala, ngenxa yezizathu ezihlukahlukene, zingaphambuka ekuziphatheni kwazo ngezinye izikhathi kanye nesibopho sethu njengabanikazi abanothando ukuziqondisa njalo emuva ezenzweni ezilungile.

ukuqeqeshwa ngemidlalo

Ikati elimhlophe elidlala ngegundane lokudlala

Ngaphandle kokungabaza, umdlalo ubonakale uyithuluzi elingcono kakhulu lokuqeqesha. Ayikho into enhle njengokukhuthaza ukufunda ngokuzijabulisa nokukhuthazwa okujabulisayo. Ngakho, imidlalo ingaba yindlela enhle yokuqeqesha ikati lakho ngempumelelo.

Sincoma ukusebenzisa amathoyizi asebenzisanayo, afana nezinduku zezimpaphe noma amalaser, ukuze uvuselele ingqondo nomzimba wakho.. Mfundise imiyalo elula njengokuthi "woza" noma "hlala" ngenkathi udlala. Khumbula ukuklomelisa ukuziphatha okuphumelelayo ngokuncoma nokuphatha.

ukuqeqeshwa komthumeli

Ikati elimnyama liphuma kumthwali ngosizo lukadokotela wezilwane

Ukufundisa ikati lakho ukugibela inkampani yenethiwekhi kungakongela ingcindezi ohambweni oluzayo lokuya kudokotela wezilwane kumbe okwenye imvelo. Beka inkampani yenethiwekhi endaweni efinyeleleka kalula futhi elula ekhaya lakho. Mphakele futhi ubeke amathoyizi ngaphakathi ukuze ahlobanise inkampani yenethiwekhi nezinto ezinhle. Futhi, ukuqeqeshwa kwethreyi kuyasiza uma uhlela ukuhamba nekati lakho ohambweni. Mfundise ukusebenzisa ithileyi ukuze akwazi ukuzikhulula kahle phakathi nohambo.

Gwema ukuziphatha okungafunwa

Ikati libanjwa "izandla ezibomvu" ngemuva kokucekela phansi iphepha lasendlini yangasese

Ukuqeqesha kuhlanganisa nokunciphisa ukuziphatha okungafunwa. Uma ikati lakho libonisa ukuziphatha okufana nokuklwebha ifenisha noma ukweqa endaweni enqatshelwe, sebenzisa amasu okuqondisa kabusha. Nikeza ezinye izindlela ezifana nokuklwebha izigxobo nezindawo eziqokiwe zokugibela. Sebenzisa izinto ezixosha ikati eziphephile ukuze ugcine ikati lakho liqhele ezindaweni ezingafuneki.

Ukuvakashelwa njalo kwezilwane

Ikati lihlolwa udokotela wezilwane

Ukuqeqesha ikati lakho akuphelele ngaphandle kokugcina ingqondo yalo iphilile. Ukuyisa ikati lakho kudokotela wezilwane njalo kubalulekile ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi lisesimweni esihle ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ikati elinempilo liyakwamukela ukuqeqeshwa futhi alithambekele kakhulu ekuziphatheni okuyizinkinga.

Ukubekezela kuyisihluthulelo semfundo enhle

isithombe esimnandi nesithambile sowesifazane osemusha namakati akhe

Kuyaziwa ukuthi ukubekezela kuyimfanelo. Futhi kungenxa yokuthi yonke into enongwe ngaleli khono elikhulu ngokushesha noma kamuva izonikeza imiphumela yayo. Futhi ukuqeqeshwa kwamakati akukhishwe kulo mthetho. Ngakho-ke, uma uzibophezele emfundweni yesilwane sakho esifuywayo, isineke nothando kuyisihluthulelo. Ngaleso sisekelo kanye nokusebenzisa zonke izinyathelo esizisungule ngale migqa, maningi amathuba okuthi impumelelo izoqinisekiswa.

Nakuba amakati evame ukuchazwa njengazimele futhi ngisho nendawo, kufanele kucace kusukela ekuqaleni kakhulu ukuthi ungumholi. Nokho, kunomehluko ngamunye ekati ngalinye: kuyilapho amanye ezimele kakhulu, amanye anethenda ngokungagunci futhi asondelene nabanikazi bawo. Ngakho kubalulekile ukuthi uvumelane namasu akho okuqeqesha ngokuvumelana nobuntu nezidingo zabo.

Ngaphandle kokuqhubeka, sithemba ukuthi lawa magama akusize ukwazi ukuqeqesha ikati: iseluleko esisebenzayo sokuhlalisana okuvumelanayo nokujabulisayo, kumngane wakho onoboya kanye nawe.


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