Kusho ukuthini ukuhlangana kosizo, futhi ubani ongakunikeza?

Uma uwedwa, silindela lowo muntu ozoba umsizi wakho ofanele, futhi sicele iNkosi ukuba isibonise lowo muntu; kodwa uyazi ngempela kusho ukuthini ukusiza ukuhlangabezana futhi ubani ongakunikeza, ngiphakamisa ukuthi ungahambi, hlala futhi uzowaqonda amaqiniso ngale ndaba.

Kungani uyibiza ngokuthi “Help Meet”?

Siqala ezwini leNkosi:

UGenesise 2:18 uyasitshela: “Akukuhle ukuba umuntu ahlale yedwa; ngizomenzela umsizi.

Kusho ukuthini ukuhlangana kosizo?, lapho iNkosi isho lawo mazwi “siza ukuhlangana”, kuzofanele sizibuze. Yayinjani indoda ngenkathi iNkosi isho lawoMazwi, yayiphelekezelwa na? Ingabe wawunemisebenzi ethile e-Edene? Wazizwa kanjani?

Njalo ngo-February 14, siyajabula ngoba sifuna ukuyichitha nalowo muntu okhethekile, futhi sonke sikholelwa ukuthi ukuba ngasohlangothini lwakhe yikho konke esifuna ukukwenza ngalolo suku.

Siguqule lolu suku lwaba usuku lokuhlanganyela ngaphezu kwabangane, ngosizo olufanele, ngezinye izikhathi sisebenzisa lesi sisho nalowo muntu okhethekile, ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi kunjalo ngempela, ngaphandle kokwazi yini kusho usizo ukuhlangabezana.

Sifuna ukukutshela ukuthi ukucabanga nokusho kumuntu othile "usizo olufanele", ukungashadi noma kakade ushadile, akukhona nje ukuthi sifuna ukunikeza lowo muntu ukuthinta okukhethekile, ngoba le ndaba akuyona eyokuthandana nje noma ngoba sikholelwa. ukuthi kuyindlela efanele yokuyiqamba, ngoba ayinikezi isimo noma izinga kumuntu.

Incazelo yosizo olufanele idlulela endaweni ejulile, ezinikele kakhulu kuNkulunkulu kuqala bese kuba kuwe. Ukukunikeza umbono, sizophendula leyo mibuzo ezosisiza senze umqondo walo musho.

Ebuyela ezwini likaJehova, lapho u-Adamu ese-Edene, ngoba lawa mazwi awela phezu kwakhe ngoba wayengumuntu wokuqala ophilayo. Wayenjani u-Adamu? Eyedwa!Wayehlukile ngokohlobo lwakhe, zonke izilwane yileso naleso sasinomngane waso, kodwa wayeyedwa. Yayinamiphi imisebenzi? Wahlwanyela, wetha izilwane amagama, wanakekela i-Edene kanye neminye imisebenzi.

Uthando lukaNkulunkulu phezu kwesintu

Nanku umbuzo wonke umuntu akade ewulindile. Wazizwa kanjani? Ucabanga ukuthi u-Adamu wazizwa kanjani, kulapho imizwa ingena khona; wazizwa eyedwa, eqagela kancane, singasho ngisho nokudabuka. Kungenzeka yini ukuthi umuntu ongashadile angazizwa ejabule, ejabulela ukuba sezweni yedwa, abaningi bethu bayasicabangela isimo futhi besingeke sifune ukuba sendaweni yakhe.

Kodwa uyazi, ubani owazibeka esikhundleni sakhe? - UNkulunkulu. Akukho okunye futhi akukho okungaphansi komdali wakhe, lo owayemthanda kakhulu, waze wamazi ukuthi wamnika lowo muntu wazizwa eyedwa. Ngicabanga ukuthi wayecabanga ngezilwane, ngayinye inomngane wayo, futhi yena yedwa! Bengingenaye umuntu engingakhuluma naye, engingabelana naye, engisebenza naye, nokunye okuningi.

Ngicabanga ukuthi lapho uNkulunkulu ebona sonke lesi simo, kwaba yilapho ethi: ukuthi akukuhle ukuba umuntu ahlale yedwa; Ngizomenza “umsizi ofanelekayo”, uma uNkulunkulu ngokwakhe, umdali wezinto zonke, emtshela ukuthi akukuhle ukuba umuntu abe yedwa ngenxa yokuthile, washo kanjalo.

Manje siza nomunye umbuzo. Uyakholelwa ukuthi umuntu yedwa angakhiqiza okuthile? Uma enza kanjalo, angakwenza, empeleni, usebenza yedwa ensimini yase-Edene, enakekela izilwane, phakathi kwezinye izinto eziningi. Siyabuya futhi, kodwa ngangingedwa!

El incazelo yosizo ukuhlangabezana, nakuba kubonakala sengathi kuphela owesilisa, abangashadile, kodwa nakubangane abafunda lesi sihloko, sisebenza nakodade abangashadile, ukuze sobabili siqaphele le nkulumo esetshenziswa abaningi ngaphandle kokwazi iqiniso layo eliyinhloko.

Umphelelisi kaNkulunkulu owesilisa noma owesifazane

Njengoba sike saphawula, u-Adamu wayeyedwa e-Edene, lapho ayenemisebenzi ehlukahlukene ayeyigcina ematasa, phakathi kokunakekela izilwane naphambi kukaNkulunkulu usuku lonke. Nokho akazange azizwe ephelele, kukhona okushodayo, wazizwa eyedwa, wonke umuntu enomlingani wakhe noma olingana naye futhi akazange afane namuntu.

Okubalulekile ngale ndaba ukuthi iyasifundisa namuhla, yingakho sithi iBhayibheli aliphelelwa yisikhathi, izwi lalo liyasebenza futhi lisazoqhubeka nokusebenza. Buka okuthile, uNkulunkulu azi indalo yakhe, wayefuna ukumbona ejabule, ejabule, ukuthi akasazizwa eyedwa. Wacabanga ukunikeza umsizi wakhe ofanelekayo, ngoba ngisho no-Adamu wayengacabangi ukuthi angaba nenkampani. UNkulunkulu uyazazi izinhliziyo zethu futhi uyasikhathalela, futhi izibusiso ayosinika zona ziyofika ngesikhathi esifanele. (UMathewu 6: 8,32)

Abesilisa nabesifazane bayizidalwa ezihluke ngokuphelele, kodwa ngayinye iyaphelelisa enye. Zinjengezingcezu zephazili efanayo okuthi lapho zihlanganiswa, zihlangane ngokuphelele; Ngakho-ke, ubulili ngalunye baqeqeshelwa ukuthatha umthwalo wabo wemfanelo ngaphakathi kwendalo kanye nohlelo lukaNkulunkulu, kuwo wonke lo mklamo omkhulu.

Kusho ukuthini ukufaneleka?

Umsuka wegama elithi "ofanelekile" lisuselwa kwelesiHeberu elithi "négued" ngakho linencazelo yalo njengozakwabo, iqembu eliphambene, umlingani, umlingani, noma ngaphambili; ebukhoneni, emehlweni, ngqo phambili.

Ukuhlangana kosizo, ukunamathela encazelweni yalo, kusebenza kumuntu oseduze kwethu, kodwa ngakithi, kanjani? Ukusiza, ukusiza, ukuphelezela, ukweseka, kanye nokuba umphelelisi womunye umuntu. Nokho, lokhu akusebenzi emadodeni kuphela; kusukela kowesifazane kuya eNdodeni, futhi ngokuphambene; indoda yowesifazane, ngamagama ambalwa indoda kumele ibe konke lokhu kowesifazane.

Ngakho-ke umqondo wokuqala wokuba umuntu abe nomsizi wakhe uvela enhliziyweni kaNkulunkulu. Ngoba uyazi ukuthi laba ababili bendawonye bangafinyelela izinto ezinkulu, ngaphandle kokuncane abangafinyelela kuzo, bayakhumbula ukuthi u-Adamu wayenjani, wasebenza futhi wazigcina ematasa, kodwa akazange azizwe enelisekile.

Icebo likaNkulunkulu lasekuqaleni laliwukuba bahambisane, ukuthi baphile impilo ndawonye, ​​Owesilisa nowesifazane. Yingakho owesilisa nowesifazane bephelelisana, indoda yaba khona kahle, uNkulunkulu wakujabulela ukudala owesifazane, ukuze agcwalise indoda, yingakho umshado unenhloso yawo echazwe nguNkulunkulu.

ithemba ukuthandwa

Izipho zikaNkulunkulu zihlezi zizinhle kakhulu, ngoba onothando uyakwazi ukupha okuhle anakho, lesi yisibonelo uNkulunkulu asifundisa ngaso nsuku zonke futhi kumele sifunde kulokhu. UNkulunkulu wanika u-Adamu isipho esingcono kakhulu, wanika u-Eva.

Nanzelela okuthize, uNkulunkulu wasebenzisani ukudala owesifazana? Ubambo luka-Adamu, okungukuthi, owesifazane waphuma emzimbeni ofanayo noweNdoda. Futhi ngubani ongawuthandi umzimba wakhe na?+ Siyazi ukuthi siyazithanda ngoba sinakekela imizimba yethu; Ngendlela efanayo esinakekela ngayo imizimba yethu, kumelwe sithande futhi sinakekele amakhosikazi ethu, amakhosikazi ethu, noma sisize ukuhlangana.

Uma sifunda kuGenesise 2:21-22. lisitshela ukuthi iNkosi uNkulunkulu yavumela umuntu ukuba alale, ebuthongweni obukhulu; futhi uNkulunkulu wakhipha ubambo waluvala futhi, wadala owesifazane futhi wamletha kuNdoda.

Yilokhu elisitshela khona, ukuthi ingxenye eyigugu yowesilisa ishiywa ngaphandle, ukuze ikhulise owesifazane, yilokhu efuna ukuba sikuqonde, ukuthi enye ingumphelelisi kwenye, lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukuphelelisa," ithambo. eyokuqala ngeke iphelele uze uthole enye ingxenye yayo. Ngalo mqondo, yilokho ukuphelelisana, ingxenye eyasuswa kumuntu okufanele iqhubeke iyingxenye yakhe.

Ukunakekela komuntu ngesipho sakhe

Ngokusho kwe-talmud, indawo lapho owesifazane athathwe khona, ekubanjeni, iseduze nenhliziyo.

Akumangalisi ukuthi kukhona le nguqulo namanje eyiqiniso: Owesifazane wadalwa kuzo kanye izimbambo zomuntu, umdali akazange asebenzise amathambo onyawo, ukuze amnyathele, futhi akazange athathe okuthile ekhanda lakhe, ukuze kube. ukukholelwa ukuthi uphakeme kunomuntu, qaphela okuthile; Wamthatha eceleni, ukuze azicabange njengaye, ngaphansi kwengalo yakhe, okufanekisela ukuvikelwa kowesilisa kowesifazane, futhi eduze nenhliziyo yakhe, ngenhloso yokuthi indoda izomthanda.

Kithina maKristu, isisekelo sempilo yethu siyizwi likaNkulunkulu, “iBhayibheli,” ngakho sisekela ukukholelwa kwethu kulo, ngoba libhekwa njengencwadi yethu yokuziphatha, kodwa ukubonakaliswa kweTalmud kunembile, lapho ikhuluma ngothando. Kufanele kube yini phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane?

Uma sibuyela esihlokweni no-Adamu, lapho esebeke amehlo akhe ku-Eva, ngicabanga ukuthi ubuso bakhe obumangele lapho embona okokuqala: wambiza ngokuthi, u-Eva, ngakho ngolimi lwesiHeberu lisho ukuthi "Isha", okusho ukuthi. "Umfazi Nothandekayo". Ngakho-ke, umsizi ofanelekayo kufanele athandwe yindoda yakhe futhi amnakekele ngothando.

Uthando lwangempela, oluthola kuphela ubuhle balo kumuntu, lapho ukuphila kwakhe kwavuselelwa noma kwaguqulwa umsebenzi kaKristu, wabethelwa esiphambanweni ngenxa yothando lwethu.

Efesu 5: 25 :(esho ngamafuphi) "Madoda, thandani omkenu, njengokuba noKristu alithanda ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yalo."

Kwabase-Efesu 5:28: uthi: (echaza) ngendlela efanayo amadoda kufanele athande omkawo njengemizimba yawo siqu. Uma ithanda umkakhe, izithanda yona.

Amadoda kufanele athande omkawo, akusho ukuthi "angamthanda"; bathi “kufanele” bathande abesifazane babo “njengemizimba yabo kanye”. Kucace kakhudlwana? Akunakwenzeka, noma uke wabona indoda ezonda umzimba wayo.

Usiza ukuhlangabezana, jabulisa inhliziyo yakho

Wake wabheka isipho sakhe, u-Adamu, uxolo! ku“Eva”, bheka ukuthi wathini, amazwi ayiqiniso impela, futhi siyawafunda kuGenesise 2:23, futhi indoda yathi: lo (ebhekisela kowesifazane, “u-Eva”) manje useyithambo lamathambo ami, nenyama yamathambo ami. inyama yami (ebona ukuthi bekungeyetiye lakhe), uzobizwa ngoMfazi ngoba ethathwe endodeni.

Kuleli vesi elifundiwe, siphambi kokuncoma kokuqala okwenziwa indoda kowesifazane; izincomo ezivela enhliziyweni ejabulayo, ngobukhona buka-Eva empilweni yakhe.

Yile ndlela isimo sethu sengqondo ngabesifazane okufanele sibe ngayo; uma efika empilweni yendoda, kufanele imdumise, imncome, ikhulume naye ngamazwi amnandi, ukuze azizwe ethandwa futhi aqhubeke nokuletha injabulo enhliziyweni yendoda.

UNkulunkulu wasinikeza isidingo sika-Adamu futhi wasibekela isizungu sakhe ngomngane, lokhu Kusho ukuthi "usizo lokuhlangana". Phambi kowesifazane (isipho sikaNkulunkulu) akubonisayo kwakuyinjabulo: amathambo amathambo ami nenyama yenyama yami!Kunjengokungathi wayeshilo omunye umuntu njengami. Okwethambo nenyama, njengami nje.

Bheka ukuthi izaga zisitshelani: 18:22 Ofumana umfazi uthola injabulo, uJehova umenzele umusa. (echaza.)

Usizo lwakho olufanele, umngane wakho wokukhula kuKristu

Usizo lwakho olufanele kufanele kube umuntu, uJehova amgcwalisa ngomusa wakhe, onezimpawu ezifana nezakho, inhloso yakhe, zihambisana nezakho, ngamafuphi, ungumphelelisi wakho, ukuze akhule eduze kwakho. ngokomoya, nomyeni wakhe.

Okuhle wukuthi bobabili baqhubeke bekhula emseni, nasolwazini olumayelana nenjongo kaNkulunkulu. Ngakho-ke, kuyisizathu esihle sokubonga uNkulunkulu ngesipho “somhlangano wosizo”.

Wena "Usizo Olufanelekile" ukuzibophezela kwakho kothando lokuphila

Uma usitholile lesi sipho esivela kuNkulunkulu, funda ukuthanda lona wesifazane, ukwazi ukuthi yini kusho ukuthini ukusiza ukuhlangabezana, kumelwe umthande njengoba uJesu alithanda ibandla lakhe.

Khumbula ukuthi njengoba nje ibandla lingaphelele, ngendlela efanayo uJesu alithanda ngayo ibandla, uyalinakekela futhi aliqondise ngothando.

Cela ukuhlakanipha kuNkulunkulu wethu ukuze, ngendlela efanayo, wenze ngosizo lwakho olufanele, ukunakekele, ukukuvikela, nokukulungisa ngothando, ukuze ndawonye bafeze injongo uJehova abahlanganisele yona noma ezokwenza. ubahlanganise, ngokuba uyakuziphendulela ngalo wesifazane uNkulunkulu akunike yena.

Manje usuzokwazi ukusebenzisa lesi sisho esithi “Usizo Oluhle”, ukwazi ukuthi lisho ukuthini futhi kuzofanele ukuthole, ukwamukele, Ukuyinakekele, futhi uyiqondise futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, uyithande ngobuhle bayo nobuthakathaka bayo. .

Ukwazi ukuthi bobabili basesezandleni ezingcono kakhulu, lezo zombazi; eqopha umsebenzi wakhe ngothando ukuze usuku ngalunye uJesu Kristu abonakale ekuphileni kwabo.

Bonga eNkosini ngokukuvumela ukuba ube nomsizi ofanelekayo, ozoba umngane wakho, umngane wakho kanye nokusekela. Funda lokhu, ukuya emshadweni, akusikho ukuthi uthole umuntu ofanele, okubalulekile kakhulu ukuba ngumuntu olungile.

Izilinganiso Zokuzindla Ngengoma Yezingoma

Incwadi Yezingoma Zezingoma, ungayicabangela ukuze uhehe umsizi wakho okahle. Njengoba igxile ekugujweni kothando nomshado, ababhali abaningi babuye baphawule ngokuthi iwuphawu lothando lukaNkulunkulu ngebandla lakhe noma abantu bakhe.

Nazi izingcaphuno ezidumile, kodwa lokhu kungaba yisiqalo sokuncoma kwakho ngokuhlangana kosizo:

IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 4:10

Amnandi kanjani ama-cares akho, sithandwa sami! Zimnandi kunewayini! Amakha akho anephunga elimnandi kunawo wonke amakha.

IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 8:6-7

< Bhala igama lami enhliziyweni yakho! Bhala isithombe sami engalweni yakho! Uthando lunamandla njengokufa! Umdlandla uqinisekile njengethuna!

Ama-Oremos: Ngiyabonga mnumzane ngoba ngizwile kusho ukuthini ukusiza ukuhlangabezana, ngiphe ubuhlakani bokulisebenzisa kahle leli gama futhi ngilisebenzise kuphela nalomuntu omnike impilo yami, ukungeseka nokungiphelezela.

Ngicela intethelelo ngalesi sikhathi engamzwisa ubuhlungu ngaso, ngingazi ukuthi ngamphatha kabi futhi angizange ngimfundise ngothando futhi ngokukhanya kwezwi lakho, amaqiniso kamoya, angeke asisize siqhubekele phambili ndawonye.

Nkulunkulu ngomusa wakho ongapheli ngisize ngibusise impilo yakhe, noma ngabe izinto zibheda kakhulu, ngisize ngimbone ngamehlo kaJesu. Ngisize ngimeseke futhi ngibe umnikezeli wakhe lapho eswele. Noma kunjalo, ngisize ngimnakekele njengoba wenza.

Uma ufuna ukufunda ngalesi sihloko ungafaka: Izingcaphuno ZeBhayibheli Zomshado.

Uma la mazwi abe yisibusiso empilweni yakho, futhi unomuzwa wokuthi akwakhe, hlanganyela lesi sihloko nabanye, ukuze nabo baqonde. kusho ukuthini ukusiza ukuhlangabezana.