El isizinda sakho, ngokweBhayibheli, amandla okuzithiba nokuzithiba. Ngokuvamile, iyona evimbela abantu ekwenzeni izinto abayozisola ngazo kamuva. Uma unentshisekelo kulesi sihloko, hlala esihlokweni sethu futhi ufunde ngokubaluleka kokuzithiba, kanye nezinyathelo okufanele zilandelwe ukuze sikufeze nokuthi babonakala kanjani abantu abangenakho.
Yini i-self domain?
Ukuzithiba akulutho ngaphandle kwamandla uNkulunkulu awanika umuntu, ngoMoya wakhe oNgcwele. Lokhu ukuze ungathathwa yimicabango, imizwa, amazwi noma izenzo zakho futhi uphike isono. Vuliwe KwabaseGalathiya 5: 16-25 kuvezwa ukuthi impilo yezoni igcwele isiyaluyalu, ukuziphatha okubi nokunganeliseki. Ngakho-ke, labo abazithiba bayayifulathela yonke into engamjabulisi uJehova.
Igama leBhayibheli elithi ukuzithiba lithi kunikeza abantu amandla okuzikhethela lokho abafuna ukukucabanga, ukuzizwa, ukukusho, nokwenza. Okusho ukuthi ukhululekile ukukhetha indlela oyifunayo. Futhi, uma usebenzisa ukuzithiba uzobonisa ukuthi ngenxa yomsebenzi kaMoya unegunya phezu kwenyama yakho.
Uzoba nokuzithiba noma nini lapho amandla kaNkulunkulu engaphakathi kuwe futhi lapho ukuphulukiswa kuyingxenye yempilo yakho. Akulungile ukucabanga ukuthi ukuze uthole ukuzithiba udinga kuphela intando nesinqumo, iqiniso liwukuthi ukushiya izono noma imikhuba emibi enjengokucasuka, inzondo nemicabango engcolile, kufanele ube nomusa nosizo lukaKristu.
Uma uphila ngokuzithiba, uzobe uvumela impilo yakho ukuthi igcwale amaphupho kanye Nokholo.Ukufeza lokhu, kufanele uzilungiselele impi futhi uqale indlela yakho yokukhula komuntu siqu.
Mhlawumbe ufuna ukwazi okwengeziwe mayelana izimfanelo zomuntu.
Ukubaluleka kokuzithiba
Ukuthobeka yigama elaziwayo namuhla, njengoba kuyisimo amaKristu amaningi afuna ukusifinyelela. Ukuzithiba kukuvumela ukuthi ulawule imizwa yakho futhi ungathathwa yiyo. Ngale ndlela, abantu abanaso bayakwazi ukubeka imingcele ezifisweni zesono futhi basuke kuzo.
Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukuzithiba kuba okubalulekile ukuze ujabulele ukuphila ngesimo sengqondo sokuqaphela nesithambekele empumelelweni, undiza ngaphezu kwezivunguvungu ezenzeka nsuku zonke.
Ukuzithiba kuyokwenza ukwazi ukuzithiba, okuyokwenza ube nesimo sengqondo esingcono kakhulu nsuku zonke. Lokhu kungakhathaliseki izimo ezinhle noma ezimbi eziza kuwe.
Isitha esikhulu sabantu abalandela uNkulunkulu akuyena uSathane, kodwa bona uqobo. Ngakho ukuzithiba iyona ndlela kuphela ongahlala ukhululekile futhi unqoba ngayo empilweni kuKristu.
Okushiwo ukuba nesizinda sakho
Ukuzithiba kusho ukuba abantu abalungile, abangadukiswa imicabango yabo noma eyabanye. IBhayibheli linikeza bonke abantu izimfanelo ezithile ezichaza umuntu onokuzithiba nsuku zonke. Lezi izi:
- Ukuzithiba kusho ukubekezela ngaphezu kwakho konke, nangaphezu kwesibindi.
- Ukuze uthandaze kahle kubalulekile ukuthi uhlale uphilile futhi unengqondo ehluzekile.
- Baphilela ukwandisa ulwazi ngoKristu. Impela ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kufanele ugcine ukholo lwakho, ukulunga nokuqonda kwakho kubhekise ezwini.
- Bayazikhuza bagijime baze bafinyelele izinhloso zabo.
- Balawula umzimba wabo, umphefumulo wabo futhi baphile ngendlela enempilo.
- Ayakhiqiza lapho ekhipha amagama. Yile ndlela abalawula ngayo ama-impulses.
- Bagcina ukwahlulela kwabo kunengqondo futhi abakushintshi kwabanye.
- Basusa yonke iminonjana yezifiso zesono.
- Ozithiba kanye naye akakunaki ukuthukwa nokuphathwa kabi.
Khumbula ukuthi uma uzama ukunqoba izifiso zenyama ngamandla akho kuzoba umthwalo osindayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ufuna uKristu nsuku zonke futhi uthathe uMoya oNgcwele njengomqondisi wakho, uzobona izinguquko zangempela futhi uthole isimo sokuzithiba. Funa ukuzigcwalisa ngoNkulunkulu ukuze uthole Ukuthobeka okudingayo empilweni yakho.
Uma uluthandile lolu lwazi, ungase futhi ube nentshisekelo yokufunda indatshana yethu ku izimpawu zomoya ongcwele.
Ukuzithiba kuncike kuphi?
Kumele wazi ukuthi ukuzithiba akuzalwa ngokuphazima kweso. Lokhu kuzoncika othandweni nasekuzinikeleni onakho ngoNkulunkulu. Ngokuvamile, akunakwenzeka ngawe ukuba ube nokuzithiba ngaphandle kokuthi uqale ukholelwe amazwi eBhayibheli.
Isiyalo siyimfihlo yempumelelo, okusho ukuthi uma uboshelwe ebubini ngeke ukwazi ukuphunyuka kubo kalula. Kuzodingeka utshale imigomo emisha futhi ube ikholwa likaNkulunkulu ukuze umsebenzi ube lula. Ukuzithiba nokukhululwa kuhlwanyelwa kancane kancane, ngakho kufanele uqale ukulandela uMoya oNgcwele.
Amandla okuzithiba kwakho azoncika esifisweni onaso sokulandela uKristu. Kumelwe ube nokuzithiba lapho ukhuluma, wenza, wenza isinqumo esibalulekile, ngisho nalapho ufunda.
Nakuba kungekho muntu ozalwa ezilawula, bonke abantu banengcosana yalesi simo ngaphakathi kubo. Ngale ndlela, uzoyithuthukisa njengoba ukhula futhi uqala ukwenza izinqumo zakho.
Njengoba kushiwo emavesini amaningi eBhayibheli, umuntu kumelwe aqale afunde ukwenqaba izono ukuze akwazi ukuzithiba. Ngoba ukungabi nayo kuyinkinga ethinta abaningi, futhi okubi nakakhulu, abanye abaningi abazi nokuthi banayo.
Isetshenziselwani isizinda sakho?
IBhayibheli lifundisa abafundi balo ukuthi ukuzithiba kungasetshenziswa ezintweni eziningana. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ungaba nesimo sokuzithiba ukuze ubone lezo zinqumo ezingahle zephule imibhalo engcwele.
Ukuzithiba kuzokuvumela ukuba ugqashule izibopho onazo nemikhuba emibi, njengotshwala, izidakamizwa, amanga nokuphinga. Lonke ikholwa eliphethe uMoya oNgcwele enhliziyweni yalo lizokwazi ukusebenzisa ukuzithiba.
- Ukumelana nesilingo: abantu babhekana nezilingo eziningi, ngakho omunye wemigomo yokuzithiba uwukusiza amakholwa ukuthi angathatheki kuzo futhi alandele imiyalelo yeNkosi.
- Ukulawula uhlamvu: ukuzithiba kusebenzela ukulawula isimilo. Uma unokuzithiba, esikhundleni sokusabela ngokushesha, uzothatha isikhathi sakho ukuzindla nganoma yisiphi isimo.
- Ukuqapha imizwa: isiwula sikhipha intukuthelo yaso. Imizwa yakho ingaba iqhinga elingcolile, futhi uSathane usebenzisa lokho. Ukuzithiba kuyokusiza ukuba uqede ukukhungatheka kwakho ukuze wenze ngokuvumelana nentando kaNkulunkulu.
- Ukunakekela amazwi: ukubekezela kusiza ukuqapha ukuthi amazwi akho alungile ukubusisa abanye abantu.
- Ukuhola impilo yocansi edidiyelwe: Kungakhathaliseki isimo sakho somshado, iBhayibheli liyala bonke abantu ukuba baphile impilo enempilo yobulili. Ukuzithiba kukuvimbela ukuba uwele esilingweni futhi kukudonsele ezingalweni zikaNkulunkulu.
- Ukuze ugweme ukudla noma ukuphuza kakhulu: Nakuba kudingekile ukuba abantu badle futhi baphuze, lokhu akufanele kwenziwe ngenjongo yokuzijabulisa noma ngendlela engalawuleki. Ukulinganisela kuzokusiza ugcine isibopho esinempilo nokudla.
Injani impilo ngaphandle kokuzithiba?
Ukuntula ukuzithiba kubonisa uthando oluncane ngoNkulunkulu. Ukuphila impilo engenakho ukuzithiba kusho ukuthi awukavuthwa futhi awunasimilo. Lokho akusho ukuthi abantu abawenzi amaphutha ngokuba nalesi simo sokulinganisela, ngoba wonke umuntu uyona ngesinye isikhathi.
Nokho, lapho umuntu ehlale ehlukumeza abanye abantu futhi ephula imithetho kaNkulunkulu, kungenxa yokuthi ukuzithiba kwakhe kubuthakathaka.
Namuhla, abantu abaningi basemajele ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuzithiba, abanye balahlekelwe imisebenzi, babhidlize imishado yabo, behlulekile emigomweni yabo noma babhekana nezinkinga zempilo.
KumaKrestu, ukuzithiba kumayelana nokumelana nesilingo sokwephula umthetho kaNkulunkulu, ngakho ngaphandle kwakho bekungeke kube khona umkhondo woMoya oNgcwele emithandazweni yakho. Ngakho-ke, kungaqondwa ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba nokuzithiba ekuphileni kwamakholwa, njengoba ngaphandle kwakho bayoba abantu abangcolile, abangakufanelekeli ukuba nobuhlobo noKristu.
Chofoza lapha futhi ufunde konke mayelana imizwa emihle.
Abantu abangenakho ukuzithiba
Uma ungenakho ukuzithiba, uzophila nsuku zonke empini nawe. Lokhu kuzodala ukubonakala kokukhungatheka, intukuthelo, usizi kanye nemizwa engemihle, engalimaza ingqondo, inhliziyo, umzimba nomoya wakho.
Ngokuvamile, umuntu ongenakho ukuzithiba wenza futhi uphila ngale ndlela elandelayo:
- Abakwazi ukulawula imizimba yabo, izifiso noma imicabango.
- Bahlale bekhathazekile futhi besengozini njalo.
- Baphila ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokubusa futhi abazilawuli izenzo zabo, amazwi noma ukubukeka kwabo.
- Behluleka ukuzuza impumelelo, ngenxa yokuntula kwabo Ukukholwa.
- Abantu abangenamandla bayizisulu zesitha.
- Zintekenteke enhliziyweni futhi zingasetshenziswa kalula,
- Abanakho ukuhlakanipha noma ukuhlakanipha.
- Bavumela ukuyengwa yisono.
- Abazi ukwenza izinqumo ezifanele futhi bathambekele ekwenzeni amaphutha ngokwenza izinto ngokungacabangi.
Ngale ndlela, kulula ukuqonda ukuthi lapho uphila ngaphandle kokuzithiba uyoba sempini ehlala njalo nawe, okuyokuholela ekubeni budedengu, wenze izinqumo ezingalungile, wenze izenzo zokuxhamazela, ube nokuzithiba okuphansi. ukuhlonishwa nokuzisola, ukungazethembi, ukwenza okubi, ukucekela phansi ubudlelwano nezinye izinto eziningi ezizokuvimbela ekutholeni ukuthula.
Izinyathelo zokuba nesiyalo nokuzithiba
Uma ufuna ukuzithiba, kubalulekile ukuthi uhambisane nezinyathelo ezithile futhi ushiye izimo zengqondo ezithile. Bonke abantu balingwa izifiso ezimbi, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi wamukele ukungabi nakuzithiba futhi ulwele ukukufeza. Kamuva, ungaqala indlela yakho yokulinganisela nokuyala.
Uma uthanda izindatshana ezifana nalezi, ungadlulela esigabeni sezempilo futhi ufunde kanjani ukujabula wedwa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ukulawula.
Shiya okwedlule ngemuva futhi uqaphele ukubaluleka kwempilo yakho
Ungabambeleli emaphutheni enziwe, kubalulekile ukuthi ukhulule ingqondo nomoya wakho esikhathini esedlule uma ufuna ukuzithiba. Kuhlala isikhathi sokushintsha, ngakho-ke zikhulule ezonweni zakho futhi uqaphele ukubaluleka kwempilo.
Uma uhlela ukwenza ngesiyalo, ungakunaki ukuphawula okubi futhi ucabange ukuthi konke ozimisele ukukwenza kungafezeka. Nokho, khumbula njalo ukuhlonipha ukubaluleka kwempilo yakho futhi ufeze umsebenzi owawudalelwe wona.
Ngokuvamile, ukuze ube nokuzithiba kufanele uqale wamukele lokho okubalulekile, uqaphele amakhono akho futhi uhambe konke ubheke empilweni yobuhle. Gwema izimo ezidabukisayo, ngoba ukuphela kwendlela yokunqoba okwedlule ukuziphonsela esikhathini esizayo ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho.
Ungazivumeli ukuthi uthonywe yilokho ozizwayo
Nakuba, ngezinye izikhathi imizwa inamandla kunesizathu. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuzilawula, ngoba kuzoncika kulokhu ukuthi ungaphila ngokuthula. Akusho ukuthi kufanele uzizwe ukhululekile ngayo yonke into, kodwa yemukela ukuthi izinto eziningi azenzeki njengoba bekulindelekile.
Uma wamukela okwenzeka empilweni yakho ungaqala ukulawula imizwa yakho nezifiso zakho. Imfihlo yokuphumelela ngokomoya itholakala endleleni yakho yansuku zonke, ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukuyifinyelela, udinga ukugcina isimo sengqondo esiqondile.
Uma kwenzeka izinto zingahambi, zishiye ezandleni zikaKristu. Itiye lizoqondisa.
Qaphela amanga e-ego
Ukungakwazi ukuzithiba kusho ukuba umuntu ontekenteke, othathwe imicabango engelona iqiniso. Kungenzeka ukuthi ingqondo yakho izokugcwalisa ngemibono ukwenza umzamo wakho ungabalulekanga kangako, isibonelo:
- konke kunzima kuwe
- Ubuthakathaka, awukwazi ukuzuza lutho.
- Kukhona okungalungile ngawe, ngoba awusebenzi.
- Uhlukile kwabanye.
Wazi lawa manga engqondweni yakho, uwabuze, uwalahle futhi usondele ezingalweni zikaNkulunkulu.
Qaphela imicabango elimazayo
Ukuze ulawule imizwa yakho nemizwa yakho kuyadingeka ukuthi uqale wazi imicabango yokuzilimaza ehambisana nawe nsuku zonke. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho ungaphila impilo esezingeni eliphezulu.
Eminye yemicabango evame kakhulu yokuzilimaza phakathi kwamakholwa afuna ukuzithiba yilena:
- Kuzothatha isikhathi eside, ngeke ngikwazi ukufika lapho.
- Ngeke ngiphumelele namuhla.
- Kungcono ngiqale lapho yonke into isiqondile empilweni yami.
- Imali iyikho konke.
- Angifuni ukushiya abangani bami ngemuva.
- Ukuphumelela okwengeziwe kusho inkinga.
Bika kumuntu olungile
Ukuziphendulela kumuntu kungakhandla, ngaphandle uma kungokukaNkulunkulu. Uyohlale ekusekela futhi ekukhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke nokufuna ukuzithiba. Uma ufuna ngempela ukuzithiba, thola umuntu ebandleni lakho, ukhuphuke uye kuye, uthi, nginalenkinga.
Thandaza futhi uqhelelane nabo bonke labo bantu abangenza buthaka ukuzithiba kwakho. Hlela kusengaphambili nganoma yisiphi isimo ukuze ugweme ukuwela esilingweni. Uma njengamanje ulingeka ukuba wenze isono, suka masinyane kuleyondawo engcolile.
Thembela emandleni kaNkulunkulu
Okokugcina, uma ufuna ukuzithiba, themba uNkulunkulu futhi umlandele. Ukuze uphile ngokuzithiba kufanele uthwale uKristu enhliziyweni yakho nasengqondweni yakho, ngoba uyena kuphela ongakusiza ufinyelele isimo sokulinganisela osifisayo.
Thola esihlokweni esilandelayo ukuthi kunjani ukukhonza uNkulunkulu.
Ubani oyisibonelo esihle kakhulu sokuzithiba?
Akuzange kube khona isibonelo sokuzithiba esingaphezu kwesikaJesu, njengoba ngisho nalapho ehlupheka esiphambanweni wakwazi ukuthula, njengoba nje babemkhohlisa, wathethelela futhi wabonisa ukuthi unomphefumulo ohlanzekile. Akazange agabadele amandla akhe futhi azi ukuthi angamlalela kanjani uNkulunkulu kuze kube sekupheleni. Nakuba wahlaselwa, wacasulwa futhi wabulawa, wathwala uKristu noMoya oNgcwele enhliziyweni yakhe.
Ngale ndlela, iBhayibheli libonisa ukuthi uJesu akakaze abe yisigqila sanoma yisiphi isono. Nakuba athatha isimo somuntu futhi evezwa izifiso zomhlaba, imfihlo yakhe yokuzithiba yayiwukuphila ngokuhlanganyela noyise.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kwakunabanye abalingiswa ababengenazo isizinda sabo. Ngokwesibonelo, uDavide akazange azithibe lapho ephinga noBhati Sheba, uGehazi wavumela ukubuswa amandla nemali, kuyilapho umkaLoti ehluleka ukuzithiba ngenxa yothando lwakhe lwezinto ezibonakalayo.
Ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukuzithiba akuwona umsebenzi olula, udinga ukwenza ingxenye yakho futhi unikele ukuphila kwakho kuNkulunkulu uma ufuna ukuzwa isimo sokulinganisela. Khumbula ukuthi i-Temperance ifana nomsipha, okufanele uwusebenzise usuku nosuku.
Uma ungathanda ukufunda okuqukethwe okwengeziwe okufana nalokhu, sikumema ukuthi uhlole ibhulogi yethu futhi uthole izindatshana zangempela ezingapheli. Phakathi kwabo, i Incwadi yokuphila