Kulesi sihloko uzothola ezinye amavesi emishadweni Umshado uyisigaba sokuphila esigcwele izinselele nezibusiso, thola ukuthi iBhayibheli lithini ngale ndaba.
Amavesi emishado, lithini ibhayibheli ngomshado?
IBhayibheli liyincwajana yokuphila uNkulunkulu ayishiyela isintu, kulo kunezincwadi zomlando, zomthetho, izindumiso nezimfundiso. Kunamavesi angapheli futhi kuqinisekile ukuthi awusoze wafunda elinye lawo ngendlela efanayo futhi. UNkulunkulu ukhuluma njalo ngamaZwi akhe.
Nakuba abaningi abangabangabazi bengakukholelwa, iBhayibheli lilandisa indaba engakhathali yothando, kaNkulunkulu ezama ukuhlenga isintu. Lolu hlobo lothando olungapheli kwakuyilokho uNkulunkulu ayekucabanga lapho ebeka ukuhleleka endaweni yonke, umlando womshado umdala njengendalo ngokwayo.
Uma ufuna ukwazi kabanzi ngothando oluchazwe ebhayibhelini, ngiyakumema ukuthi ubukele ividiyo elandelayo, ngiyazi kuzoba isibusiso ukuqonda kabanzi ukuthi lolu thando luhlangana kanjani ne amavesi emishadweni
I-Los amavesi emishadweni zihlakazekile kuwo wonke ububanzi bemiBhalo Engcwele. Ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho kukhulunywa ngendaba yomshado eBhayibhelini, kusuke kuyindaba yokugubha. Lo mqondo ubaluleke kakhulu eNkosini kangangokuthi uwuqhathanisa nothando yena ngokwakhe aluzwayo ngebandla lakhe. Akuyona nje noma yini, akulona nje ubulili, ukuhlangana kwabantu ababili kangangokuthi banyamanye.
Madoda, thandani omkenu, njengalokho noKristu walithanda ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yalo. ukumenza abe ngcwele. Wamhlambulula, emgeza ngamanzi ngezwi; ukuba alethule kuye njengebandla elikhazimulayo, elingenabala nambimbi nasinye isici, kodwa elingcwele nelingenasici. Ngokufanayo, indoda kumelwe ithande umkayo njengoba ithanda umzimba wayo. Othanda umkakhe uzithanda yena;
Efesu 5: 25-28
Owesifazane, isipho sikaNkulunkulu senceku yakhe, indoda.
Umshado awuyona nje indikimba yenjabulo nokugubha, ngoba uNkulunkulu wayeyisidingo kumuntu ukuba abe nomfazi futhi yileyo ndlela adala ngayo owokugcina ohlotsheni. Ngokungafani nezilwane zasendle, uNkulunkulu wenza u-Eva waba muhle kakhulu kuno-Adamu, wacoleka, wathambile futhi waba nomusa.
UNkulunkulu wenza owesilisa nowesifazane baba ngababili abaphelele, bephelelisana kukho konke. Umshado uwukumelwa kwalolu hlelo oluphelele kuphela. nansi enye amavesi emishadweni
Khona-ke uJehova uNkulunkulu wathi: “Akukuhle ukuba umuntu ahlale yedwa. Ngizomenzela umuntu ozoba umsizi omfanele.” UJehova uNkulunkulu wabumba zonke izilwane nezinyoni emhlabeni, waziyisa kumuntu ukuba aziqambe amagama. (...) Nokho, akekho kubo owaba usizo olufanele kuye. UJehova uNkulunkulu wamehlisela umuntu ubuthongo obunzima, kwathi elele, yakhipha olunye lwezimbambo zakhe, yavala inyama futhi. INkosi uNkulunkulu yenza owesifazane ngalolo ubambo, yamyisa kumuntu. owathi embona wathi:
“Lo uvela enyameni yami nasemathanjeni ami! Uzobizwa “ngowesifazane,” ngoba uNkulunkulu wamkhipha endodeni.UGenesise 2: 18-23
Qaphela injabulo ka-Adamu: ekugcineni! umkami (enelisekile) futhi nginesiqiniseko sokuthi u-Eva wayeholwa yisandla sikaNkulunkulu, wayejabule futhi ejabule ukubona ukuthi ubani omdalile. Sidalelwene.
Nakuba isimo sengqondo saleli khulu leminyaka kanye nesono sesintu sifuna ukulimaza inhlonipho nomqondo womshado, kukithi ukwazi ukuthi akuyona into edlule nendala, noma into ekha phezulu. Kuyisu lothando, kuyisu likaNkulunkulu lobudlelwano obuhle phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane.
Umshado, ngaphezu kwenkontileka yomphakathi, inselele yokuphila.
Kodwa ukushada nokuphila njengombhangqwana akulula. Kuyohlale kunezinto esingathandi ngazo omunye nomunye, futhi lokho akukubi noma akujwayelekile. Kuyinto evamile ukuthi kube nezingxabano phakathi nomshado, into ebalulekile kulezi zimo ukukhumbula ukuthi imvelo yethu yobuntu nenyama ayikwazi ukusibusa, ingasaphathwa eyokulimaza umlingani wethu.
INkosi futhi yakusho ngemiyalo (St. Mathewu 22: 37-39) kanye nomthetho wegolide (St. Mathewu 7:12). Umshado ongenaNkulunkulu umshado ongenalo uthando lwangempela, ngaphandle kokuqondiswa uMoya oNgcwele, futhi ngaphandle kwesithembiso sohlelo lwempilo yabo.
Uma ukulesi sigaba somshado futhi ufuna isiqondiso esivela eNkosini, ngikumema ukuba ufunde isihloko esilandelayo siqhubeke Umthandazo wokucela umshado osenkingeni.
Abanye amavesi emishadweni
Njengoba sesishilo, uthando kanye amavesi emishadweni Zalukwa kulo lonke iBhayibheli. Lapha sikulethela izibonelo zaleyo mpumelelo yemibhalo.
Futhi wathi, "Ngakho indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina ihlangane nomkayo, futhi bobabili bayoba njengomuntu munye." Ngakho-ke akusebabili, sekukodwa. Ngakho umuntu akufanele ahlukanise lokho uNkulunkulu akuhlanganisile.
Mathewu 19: 5-6
NgokukaMathewu, uKristu wayechazela abalandeli bakhe ngokuganana futhi okugqama kakhulu kulawa mavesi “ukuhlangana” umshado ohamba eNkosini ubumbene, abasacabangi ngokwehlukana, abazifuneli okwabo okuhle kodwa okuvamile. okuhle kwabanye, ababili, ngokuba banyamanye; Uma uNkulunkulu ebahlanganisele ndawonye, amasiko abo, izimpande zabo, ukungezwani kwabo, noma imibono yabo ngeke ibahlukanise.
I-Los amavesi emishadweni bachaza njengombhangqwana ohamba eNkosini labo abakhonza iNkosi ndawonye ngomoya, kuchaza uPawulu encwadini eya kwabaseRoma.
Thandanani ngobuqotho. Zondani okubi, nibambelele kokuhle. Thandanani njengabazalwane, nithandane, nihloniphane.Qinani, ningavilaphi, nikhonze uJehova ngenhliziyo emhlopheKwabaseRoma 12: 9-11
Umbhangqwana ozibophezele ekuhambeni neNkosi, ufuna ukuzithoba nokuzithoba omunye komunye ngokwesaba uNkulunkulu.
(...) ngoba lokho kuzolimaza izimpilo zabo. Kunalokho, gcwaliswa ngoMoya oNgcwele.
Efesu 5:18b
Ngoba kubafazi, yilowo nalowo thobela indoda yakhe njengokungathi kukuyo iNkosi. ngokuba indoda iyinhloko yomkayo, njengokuba noKristu eyinhloko yebandla. UnguMsindisi womzimba wakhe, oyibandla. Njengoba nje ibandla lizithoba kuKristu, kanjalo nomfazi kufanele azithobe kumyeni wakhe kukho konke.XNUMX:XNUMXNgokuba amadoda, yilowo nalowo athande umkakhe, njengokuba noKristu walithanda ibandla. Wanikela ngokuphila kwakhe ngenxa yakhe ukuze alenze libe ngcwele futhi lihlanzeke ngokuligeza ngokuhlanjululwa kwezwi likaNkulunkulu. wakwenzela ukuba alethulele kuye njengebandla elikhazimulayo, elingenabala, umbimbi, nasici. Kunalokho, liyoba ngcwele futhi lingasoleki. Ngendlela efanayo, indoda kufanele ithande umkayo njengoba ithanda umzimba wayo. Ngoba indoda ethanda umkayo empeleni ibonisa ukuthi izithanda yona. Akekho ozonda owakhe umzimba, kodwa uyawuphakela futhi awunakekele njengoba nje noKristu enza kulo ibandla. Futhi singamalungu omzimba wakhe.Njengoba imibhalo isho: "Indoda ishiya uyise nonina futhi inamathele kumkayo, futhi ababili babe munye.". Leyo yimfihlakalo enkulu, kodwa ikhombisa ukuthi uKristu nebandla bamunye kanjani. Kungakho ngiyaphinda ngithi: Yilowo nalowo makathande umkakhe njengoba ezithanda yena, nomfazi ahloniphe indoda yakhe.Efesu 5:22-33
Umshado ohamba eNkosini unakekela ukungathembeki.
Hlonipha umshado, futhi abashadile bahlale bethembekile komunye nomunye. Ngokuqinisekile, uNkulunkulu uyokwahlulela labo abenza ubufebe nalabo abaphingayo.Hebheru 13:4Kwangathi umkakho angaba umthombo wesibusiso kuwe.Jabula nomfazi wobusha bakho.Uyindluzelekazi enothando, insephe enomusa.Amabele akhe angakusuthisa njalo.Sengathi ungahlala ubanjwe luthando lwakhe.IzAga 5:18-19 .
Umshado ohamba eNkosini uveza ulimi olugcwele uthando nenhlonipho.
Bafazi, yilowo nalowo zehliseleni emadodeni enu njengokufanele abeNkosi.Madoda, yilowo nalowo uyamthanda umkakhe futhi akakaze amphathe kabi.KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19
Uthando luyabekezela futhi lunomusa. Uthando alunamhawu noma ukuzidla noma ukuqhosha noma ecasulayo. Akafuni ukuba izinto zenziwe ngendlela yakhe. Akacasuki noma agcine irekhodi lamacala awatholile. Akakujabuleli ukungabi nabulungisa kodwa uyajabula lapho iqiniso linqoba. Uthando alupheli amandla, aluphelelwa ukholo, luhlale lunethemba futhi luqinile kuzo zonke izimo.Isiprofetho, ukukhuluma ngezilimi ezingaziwa, nolwazi olukhethekile luyoba yize. Kodwa uthando luyohlala phakade!1 Korinte 13:4-8
Njengoba uNkulunkulu enikhethile ukuba nibe ngabantu bakhe abangcwele nabathandekayo, kufanele nigqoke ububele, umusa, ukuthobeka, ubumnene, nokubekezela. Qonda amaphutha abanye futhi uxolele noma ubani okonile. Khumbulani ukuthi iNkosi yanithethelela, ngakho kufanele nithethelele abanye. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, gqokani ngothando, olusihlanganisa sonke ekuzwaneni okupheleleKolose 3:12-14 .
Othandweni akukho ukwesaba, kepha uthando olupheleleyo luyaxosha ukwesaba; ngoba ukwesaba kuhambisana nesijeziso. Lapho lowesabayo engapheleliswanga othandweni.1 Johane 4:18kodwa ongathandiyo akamazi uNkulunkulu, ngokuba uNkulunkulu uluthando.1 Johane 4:8
Umshado oseNkosini uhlala uthembekile, ngisho nalapho umbhangqwana ungathembekile eNkosini.
Uma ikholwa ushade nowesifazane ongakholwa futhi uzimisele ngokuqhubeka nokuhlala naye, akumele amlahle. 13 Futhi, uma okholwayo enendoda engakholwa futhi ivuma ukuqhubeka ihlala naye, akufanele amshiye. 14 Ngokuba umfazi okholwayo uyangcwelisa umshado wakhe, nendoda ekholwayo ngcwelise eyakho.1 Korinte 7:12b-14a
Owesifazane osemshadweni ohamba eNkosini uyathandwa.
Ofumana umfazi uthola ingcebo;futhi uthole umusa we Nkosi.Taga 18:22Izihlathi zakho zinjengehalananda eliqhakazilengemuva kwesihenqo sakho.Ngisho naphakathi kwezindlovukazi ezingamashumi ayisithuphanezancinza ezingamashumi ayisishiyagalombilinezintombi ezingenakubalwa,Ngisazokhetha ijuba lami, owesifazane wami ophelele, (...)Izintombi ziyibona ziyidumise;Ngisho nezindlovukazi nezancinza zesigodlo zihlabelela kuye.“Ngubani lowo ovuka njengokusa,muhle njengenyanga,kukhanya njengelanga,njengobukhosi njengebutho elivuthululwe amabhanela alo na?IsiHlabelelo seziHlabelelo 6:7-10“Baningi abesifazane abaqotho nabanekhono emhlabeni,kodwa wena ubadlula bonke!”Ubuhle buyinkohliso, nobuhle abuhlali;kodwa owesifazana owesabayo Nkosi uzodunyiswa kakhulu.Mvuze ngakho konke akwenzile.Imisebenzi yakhe mayimemezele obala udumo lwakhe.Izaga 31: 29-31
Umbhangqwana ohamba eNkosini uyakwazi ukulinda futhi uqondiswe yiNkosi.
Futhi nilindele umusa weNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu, oyobanika ukuphila okuphakade. Ngale ndlela, bayohlala belondekile othandweni lukaNkulunkulu.UJuda 1:21