Kule nqaku uza kufumana ezinye iivesi zemitshato. Umtshato sigaba sobomi esigcwele yimiceli mngeni kunye neentsikelelo, fumana ukuba ithini ibhayibhile ngalo mbandela.
Iivesi zemitshato, Ithini ibhayibhile ngomtshato?
Ibhayibhile sisikhokelo sobomi esishiyelwe nguThixo eluntwini, kuzo ziincwadi zembali, zomthetho, zokudumisa kunye neemfundiso. Kukho iivesi ezingapheliyo kwaye kuqinisekile ukuba ngekhe uphinde ufunde enye yazo ngendlela efanayo kwakhona. UThixo uhlala ethetha ngamazwi akhe.
Nangona abantu abaninzi bengakholelwa, iBhayibhile isixelela ngebali lothando olungapheliyo lukaThixo azama ukuhlangula uluntu. Olu hlobo lothando olungapheliyo yinto awayecinga ngayo uThixo xa ebeka ucwangco kwindalo iphela, imbali yomtshato indala indalo uqobo.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi ngothando oluchazwe kwibhayibhile, ndiyakumema ukuba ubukele le vidiyo ilandelayo, ndiyazi ukuba iyakuba yintsikelelo ukwazi ukuqonda ngakumbi malunga nendlela olu thando oludibana ngayo iivesi zemitshato.
Los iivesi zemitshato basasazeka kuzo zonke iZibhalo Ezingcwele. Ngalo lonke ixesha umxholo womtshato ukhankanywa kwibhayibhile, ngumxholo wokubhiyozela. Le nto ibaluleke kakhulu eNkosini kangangokuba uyithelekise nothando lwakhe lwecawe yakhe. Ayisiyonto, ayisiyonto yesondo kuphela, kukumanyana kwabantu ababini ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba babe nyama-nye.
Nina madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, njengokuba naye uKristu walithandayo ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yakhe ukuyenza ngcwele. Emhlambulule, wamhlamba ngamanzi ngelizwi elo. ukummisa kuye njengecawe eqaqambileyo, engenabala okanye mibimbi okanye nakuphi na ukungafezeki, kodwa engcwele kwaye engenasiphako. Ngokunjalo, indoda kufuneka imthande umfazi wayo njengomzimba wayo. Lowo umthandayo umkakhe, uyazithanda;
Kwabase-Efese 5: 25-28
Umfazi, sisipho sikaThixo somkhonzi wakhe, indoda.
Umtshato ayisiyonto nje yolonwabo kunye nokubhiyozela, kuba uThixo bekuyimfuneko ukuba umntu abe nomfazi kwaye yindlela endenza ngayo okokugqibela kohlobo. Ngokuhlonela amarhamncwa asendle, uThixo wenza u-Eva waba mhle ngakumbi kuno-Adam, waqaqamba, wabuthathaka ngakumbi kwaye wamkeleka.
U-Thixo wenza indoda nomfazi bagqibelele kuyo yonke into. Umtshato kuphela ukubonakaliswa kwesi sicwangciso sigqibeleleyo. Nantsi enye iivesi zemitshato
Waza ke uNdikhoyo uThixo wathi: “Akulungile ukuba umntu abe yedwa. Ndizomenzela umntu oza kuba luncedo olufanelekileyo kuye. UYehova uThixo wabumba zonke izinto eziphilileyo zomhlaba, neentaka zonke zomhlaba, wazizisa emntwini ukuba azithiye amagama. (...) Nangona kunjalo, akukho namnye kubo oba luncedo kuye. UNdikhoyo uThixo wamenzela ubuthongo obukhulu uAdam, waza ke, xa elele ubuthongo, wakhupha olunye lweembambo zakhe wabuya wavala. UYehova uThixo wenza umfazi ngentsambo leyo, wamazisa emntwini. owambonayo wathi,
«Ngokwenene le yinyama yam kunye namathambo am! Uza kubizwa ngokuba 'ngumfazi', kuba uThixo umkhuphile endodeni. »IGenesis 2: 18-23
Qaphela uvuyo luka-Adam: ekugqibeleni! Umfazi wam (wanelisekile) kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba uEva wayekhokelwe sisandla sikaThixo, wayenemincili kwaye bonwabile ukubona ukuba ngubani owamdalayo. Sidalelwene omnye nomnye.
Nangona ingqondo yale nkulungwane kunye nesono soluntu zifuna ukonakalisa imbeko kunye nomxholo womtshato, ikuthi kuthi ukuba siyazi ukuba ayisiyonto idlulileyo okanye indala, okanye ayisiyonto nje. Sisicwangciso sothando, licebo likaThixo lobudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
Umtshato, ngaphezulu kwesivumelwano saseburhulumenteni, umceli mngeni wobomi.
Kodwa umtshato kunye nokuhlala njengesibini akukho lula. Kuya kuhlala kukho izinto esingazithandiyo malunga nenye, kwaye oko akukubi okanye akuqhelekanga. Iqhelekile into yokuba ngexesha lomtshato kubakho iingxoxo, into ebalulekileyo kwezi meko kukukhumbula ukuba ubuntu bethu nobenyama buyakwazi ukusilawula, kungasokolisa amaqabane ethu.
INkosi ikwatsho nemiyalelo (uMateyu oNgcwele 22: 37-39) kunye nomthetho wegolide (uMateyu oNgcwele 7:12). Umtshato ngaphandle kukaThixo ngumtshato ngaphandle kothando lwenene, ngaphandle kwesikhokelo esivela kuMoya oyiNgcwele, nangaphandle kwesithembiso sesicwangciso sobomi babo.
Ukuba ukule nqanaba lomtshato kwaye ufuna ulwalathiso oluvela kwiNkosi, ndiyakumema ukuba ufunde inqaku elilandelayo malunga Umthandazo womtshato osengxakini.
Abanye iivesi zemitshato.
Njengoko besesitshilo, thanda kwaye iivesi zemitshato zilukiwe kuyo yonke ibhayibhile. Apha sikulethela imizekelo yezo mpumelelo zoncwadi.
Wathi, Ngako oko, indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye. Ke ayisengobabini kwakhona, inye kuphela. Ke umntu akamele ukwahlula into ayijoyinileyo uThixo.
UMateyu 19: 5-6
NgokukaMateyu, uKristu wayecacisela abalandeli bakhe ngokuphathelele umtshato kwaye eyona ibalaseleyo kwezi ndinyana “lumanyano” umtshato ohamba eNkosini umanyene, abasacingi ngokwahlukeneyo, abafuni kulunga kwabo kodwa okuqhelekileyo. Okulungileyo kwabanye, ngokuba benyama-nye; Ukuba uThixo ubahlanganisele ndawonye, izithethe zabo, iingcambu zabo, iiyantlukwano zabo, neembono zabo azinako ukubahlula.
Los iivesi zemitshato bachaza njengesibini esihamba eNkosini abo bakhonza uYehova kunye ngomoya, ucacisa oko uPawulos kwincwadi eya kwabaseRoma.
Sithandane ngokunyanisekileyo. Kuthiye okubi kwaye unamathele kokulungileyo. Thandanani njengabazalwana, yibani ngabathandanayo, nibe nembeko omnye komnye.Yomelelani, ningonqeni ukukhonza iNkosi ngentliziyo evuthayoKwabaseRoma 12: 9-11
Umtshato ozibophelele ekuhambeni neNkosi, ufuna ukuzithoba kunye nokuthobela omnye nomnye ekoyikeni uThixo.
(…) Kuba oko kuya kubonakalisa ubomi babo. Endaweni yoko, zaliswa nguMoya oyiNgcwele.
Efese 5: 18b
Kubafazi, oku kuthetha ukuba, thobeleni indoda yenu ngokokululamela iNkosi; ngokuba indoda le iyintloko yomfazi, njengokuba naye uKristu eyintloko yebandla eli; UnguMsindisi womzimba wakhe, olibandla. Njengokuba ibandla lithobela uKristu, ngokunjalo umfazi makathobele indoda yakhe ezintweni zonke.Kwabesilisa, oko kuthetha ukuba: ngamnye makamthande umfazi wakhe njengokuba noKristu walithandayo ibandla. Wanikela ngobomi bakhe ngenxa yakhe ukuze ingcwaliswe, ihlanjwe, ngokuhlanjululwa kwelizwi likaThixo. Wenza ukuba azise kuye njengecawe ezukileyo, engenabala okanye mibimbi okanye nasiphi na isiphako. Iya kuba ngcwele, ingenakusoleka. Indoda mayimthande umfazi, njengoko iwuthandayo umzimba wayo. Kuba indoda emthandayo umfazi wayo, eneneni, ibonisa ukuba iyazithanda. Akukho mntu uwuthiyayo umzimba wakhe; Kwaye thina singamalungu omzimba wakhe.Njengokuba * iziBhalo zitshoyo ukuthi: "Indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye.". Yimfihlakalo enkulu leyo, kodwa ibonisa ukuba uKristu kunye nebandla banye. Kungenxa yoko le nto ndiphinda ndinibongoza: Indoda mayithande umfazi wayo, njengoko izithanda ngako; umfazi ke makayoyike indoda.Kwabase-Efese 5:22 - 33
Isibini esitshatileyo esihamba eNkosini sikhathalela ukungathembeki.
Hlonipha umtshato, kwaye abatshatileyo bahlala bethembekile omnye komnye. Ngokuqinisekileyo uThixo uza kubagweba abo bahenyuza kunye nabo bakrexezayo.Hebhere 13:4Ngamana umfazi wakho angangumthombo wentsikelelo kuwe.Yiba nemihlali ngumfazi wobutsha bakho.Yibhokhwe enothando, ibhadi eligcwele ubabalo.Ngamana amabele akhe angahlala ekwanelisa.Ngamana ungahlala uthinjwa luthando lwakhe.IMizekeliso 5: 18-19.
Isibini esitshatileyo esihamba eNkosini sichaza intetho ezele luthando nentlonipho.
Abafazi, elowo kubo bafanele abayeni bakhe, njengoko kufanelekile okungokwabo eNkosini.Madoda, thandani abafazi benu, ningaze nimphathe gadalala.KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19
Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, lunobubele; Uthando alunamona, alugwagwisi; okanye ikhubekise. Akafuni ukuba izinto zenziwe ngendlela yakhe. Akacaphukisi okanye agcine irekhodi lamatyala afunyenweyo. Akakonwabeli ukungabikho kokusesikweni kodwa uyavuya xa inyaniso yoyisa. Uthando aluze lunikezele, aluze luphulukane nokholo, luhlala lunethemba kwaye lumi luqinile kuzo zonke iimeko.Isiprofeto, ukuthetha ngeelwimi ezingaziwayo, Ulwazi olukhethekileyo alunto yanto. Kodwa uthando luya kuhlala ngonaphakade!Eyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 4-8
Ekubeni uThixo waninyula ukuba nibe ngabantu bakhe abangcwele nabathandekayo, kufuneka nigqoke imfesane yothando, ububele, ukuthobeka, ububele kunye nomonde. Yiba nokuqonda ngeempazamo zabanye kwaye uxolele nabani na okukhubekisayo. Khumbula ukuba iNkosi ikuxolele, ngoko kufuneka uxolele abanye. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, yambathani uthando, olusimanya sonke ngemvisiswano egqibeleleyo.KwabaseKolose 3: 12-14.
Uthando alukho uloyiko, kodwa uthando olugqibeleleyo luluphosela phandle uloyiko; kuba uloyiko luthwala isohlwayo. Ukusuka apho lowo woyikayo engagqitywanga eluthandweni.1 Yohane 4:18Lowo ungenaluthando akazanga amazi uThixo, ngokuba uThixo uluthando.1 Yohane 4:8
Umtshato oseNkosini uhlala uthembekile, naxa esi sibini singathembekanga eNkosini.
Ukuba umntu okholwayo Utshatile umfazi ongakholwayo kwaye uzimisele ukuqhubeka nokuhlala naye, akufuneki amshiye. 13 Kwaye ukuba okholwayo unomyeni ongakholwayo kwaye uzimisele ukuqhubeka ehlala naye, akafanele amshiye. 14 Kuba umfazi okholwayo uwungcwalisa umtshato, nendoda ekholwayo unika ubungcwele bakho.1 KwabaseKorinte 7: 12b-14a
Umfazi osemtshatweni ohamba eNkosini uyathandwa.
Othe wafumana umfazi, ufumene ubutyebi;kwaye wamkelwa ngu Nkosi.IMizekeliso 18: 22Izidlele zakho ngathi ziirharnate ezipinkiemva kwekhuselo lakho.Nditsho naphakathi kwabafazi abangamashumi amathandathunamashweshwe angamashumi asibhozoneentombi ezingenakubalwa,Ndiya kukhetha ihobe lam, umfazi wam ogqibeleleyo, (...)Abafazi abaselula bayayibona bayidumise;namakhosikazi namashweshwe ebhotwe avuma le ngoma:«Ngubani lo, uvuka njengokusa,intle njengenyanga,kuqaqambe njengelanga,inobungangamsha njengomkhosi neebhanile zawo zivulwe ngumoya? ».Ingoma yazo iiNgoma 6: 7-10"Baninzi abafazi abalungileyo nabafanelekileyo ehlabathini,Kodwa ungaphezu kwabo bonke! ».Umtsalane uyakhohlisa, kwaye ubuhle abuhlali,kodwa ngumfazi owoyikayo Nkosi iya kudunyiswa kakhulu.Mvuze ngayo yonke into ayenzileyo.Mayixele esidlangalaleni indumiso yakhe.IMizekeliso 31: 29-31
Isibini esitshatileyo esihamba eNkosini siyakwazi ukulinda kwaye sikhokelwe yiNkosi.
Lindela inceba yeNkosi yethu uYesu Krestu, eya kubanika ubomi obungunaphakade. Ngale ndlela, baya kuhlala bekhuselekile kuthando lukaThixo.Yude 1:21