iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho, zizibhalo esizifumana kwiZibhalo Ezingcwele. Yiyiphi isikhokelo kunye noncedo ukuze amakhaya abunjwe ngokwentando kunye noyilo lwantlandlolo lukaThixo. Ukuze bakhule bomelele, baphile kwaye bonwabe.
iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho
Iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho lilizwi likaThixo elivumela ikhaya ukuba lenziwe ngokokuthanda kukaThixo. Ngamana ingakhula ngokwesicwangciso sayo kunye nenjongo egqibeleleyo eyayidalelwe yona. Masikhumbule ukuba ihlabathi ukutyhubela imbali liye lavumela ilungiselelo likaThixo lantlandlolo ukuba libe namava okugqwetheka okuthile. Zonke zichasene necebo likaThixo kwilizwi lakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, ngaphandle kokuphambuka okuninzi, kwihlabathi usapho liselona khonkco likhuselekileyo elinokubakho ukugcina uluntu lukunye. Ngoko ke usapho yeyona nkxaso ibalaseleyo umntu anokuba nayo ehlabathini.
Uyilo lukaThixo – Imvelaphi yosapho
Ukususela ekudalweni, uThixo umisela umnqweno wakhe wokuba indoda nomfazi bande ngomanyano lwabo, ukuze bazalise umhlaba. Genesis 1:27-28
27 Wamdala ke uThixo umntu ngokomfanekiselo wakhe; wadala indoda nenkazana. 28 Wabasikelela uThixo, wathi kubo, Qhamani, nande, niwuzalise umhlaba niweyise; Nibe nobukhosi ezintlanzini zolwandle, nasezintakeni zezulu, nasezintweni zonke eziphilileyo ezinambuzelayo emhlabeni.
Ukongeza, ikwamisela ukuba amadoda nabafazi mabahlale kunye. Kwakunye nokumanyana enyameni enye, ukuseka usapho phakathi kwabo, Genesis 2:24 (LBLA)
24 Ngenxa yoko indoda yomshiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo, babe nyama-nye ke.
Emva koko sibona indlela uThixo ayinika ngayo indoda umncedi ofanelekileyo omelwa kumfazi, yaye ngokumanyana nayo baya kuba yindoda nomfazi. Intsikelelo kaThixo kolu manyano ngabantwana, abagqibezela usapho lwecebo eligqibeleleyo leNkosi. Ilizwi lithi ngabantwana abonwabileyo kubazali, sinokuyibona kwincwadi yeeNdumiso 127: 3-5 (LBLA):
3 Qaphelani, abantwana basisipho seNkosi; nomvuzo sisiqhamo sesizalo. 4 Njengeentolo esandleni segorha, banjalo oonyana bobutsha. 5 Hayi, uyolo lwendoda enomphongolo ozele ngabo; Awuyi kuba nentloni xa uthetha neentshaba zakho esangweni.
Usapho ke ngoko, ngokwesicwangciso sikaThixo sisiqalo sokuba ikhaya likhule ngolonwabo. Nangakumbi ukuba usapho lusekelwe kwilizwi likaThixo.
Iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho kunye nendlela yokunxibelelana ekhaya
Ihlabathi linomgaqo omiselweyo weziko losapho, oko kukuthi usapho sisiseko soluntu. Ngandlel’ ithile, lo mgaqo unezizathu ezininzi zokubakho. Kuba kuya kwenzeka kuphela ukuseka uluntu olusempilweni nolukhuselekileyo ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba iintsapho zakhiwe kumakhaya apho kukho uthando, intlonipho kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni. Ngokuphathelele oku eBhayibhileni sinokufumana iindinyana ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinokuthanani nentsapho nekhaya, makhe sibone ezimbalwa zazo ngezantsi.
Kumanyano lomtshato
Kwakusele kusenzeka ukubona ngaphambili ukuba kwisicwangciso sikaThixo kukuba isibini ngasinye xa sitshata, siqhubeke siseka usapho olutsha. Kodwa kwakhona ilizwi likaThixo libonisa kwiindinyana zalo ezininzi ukuba umtshato umele ntoni entsatsheni. Umzekelo unokufunyanwa kwincwadi yemizekeliso kaKumkani uSolomon, umlinganiswa oseBhayibhileni onobulumko obukhulu. Kule ncwadi sifumana IMizekeliso 18:22
22 Ukufumana umfazi kukufumana eyona ilungileyo: kwamkela umqondiso wokuba uThixo uyakholeka
Kodwa unokukhankanya ezinye ezifana nezi:
Musa ukuthumela nayiphi na indoda esanda kutshata emfazweni, okanye umise nawuphi na omnye umsebenzi phezu kwayo. Uza kuba nonyaka wonke ekhululekile ukuba anyamekele umzi wakhe aze onwabe umfazi amthabathe njengomfazi wakhe. ( Duteronomi 24:5 )
Kodwa ke, ukuba abanakuzibamba, mabazeke, mabende, kuba kukhona kulungileyo ukuba kuzekwe, kwendiwe, kunokutshiseka. ( 1 Korinte 7:9 )
Nina madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, njengokuba naye uKristu walithandayo ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yalo. ( Efese 5:25 )
Ukuba ufuna ukungena nzulu kwiivesi zomanyano losapho, siyakumema ukuba ungene kweli khonkco lilandelayo apho uya kufunda indlela yokumazi uThixo. izikhalazo kusaphoukuhlala simanyene
Iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho kunye nobomi bomoya
Ngumsebenzi noxanduva lwabazali ukunceda abantwana babo bakhulise ubomi bokomoya obusekelwe kwilizwi likaThixo. Kwakunye nokunikela umzekelo wothando nokoyika uThixo. Konke oku kuya kuba yintsikelelo kungekuphela nje kubantwana, kodwa nakwiqela losapho lonke.
6 Uze uwakhumbule onke amazwi endikuwisele umthetho ngawo, ndikuwisele umthetho ngawo namhlanje, 7uwuthethe koonyana bakho ngamaxesha onke, nasezindaweni zonke, naxa usekhaya, nokuba usendleleni, nasekuvukeni kwakho, nasekulaleni. ( Duteronomi 6:6-7 )
Kunye njengentsapho ukudumisa uThixo
Alukho ulonwabo olungaphezu kokuba intsapho iphela izinikele yaza yahlaziswa ekudumiseni uThixo. Ngale ndlela, ukongezelela kwiqhina legazi elimanyanisa intsapho, bakwaseka umxokelelwane omkhulu ngakumbi womanyano oluluthando lukaThixo. Eli qhina liqhina lomanyano lokomoya noThixo, oluzalisa intsapho yonke ngovuyo, uxolo nobubele. Intsapho yonke imanyene ngomoya ifumana intsikelelo uThixo ayinika bonke abo bamnqula ngomoya nangenyaniso. 1 Kronike 16:28-29
28 Mawaqondeni amandla kaThixo wethu, nonke nina bantu, nimnqule! 29 Yizani phambi kwakhe, nizise iminikelo yenu; Mthande njengoko emfanele! Qubudani kuye engcweleni yakhe enobungangamsha.
Iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho - Intsikelelo yabantwana
Abantwana sesona sipho sikhulu nesibalaseleyo uThixo anokusinika emtshatweni. Ngaphandle kokumela imbopheleleko, abantwana bayindlela kaThixo yokuwusikelela umtshato. Ngoko ke abazali bamele babathande, babanyamekele, babafundise yaye babakhusele. Ngokuyintloko bahambise kwindlela esa ebomini elilizwi likaThixo. IMizekeliso 17:6
6 Isithsaba samadoda amakhulu ngoonyana, isihombo soonyana ngooyise;
(KwabaseRoma 8:14)
14 Kuba bonke abakhokelwa nguMoya kaThixo, bangoonyana bakaThixo abo
3 Yohane 4
4 Andinaluvuyo lungaphezu kolu, lokuba ndive ukuba abantwana bam bahamba enyanisweni
Funda ngakumbi kule link malunga ne iintsikelelo kubantwana ezikhuselayo nezakhayo. Injongo kaThixo kususela kwindalo kukusikelela iintsapho, yaye uphathise abazali umsebenzi noxanduva lokusikelela nokuthethelela abantwana babo ukuze babakhokelele kubomi obulungileyo.
Iivesi zeBhayibhile ezithetha ngentsapho ukuze uqeqeshe abantwana kakuhle
Inxalenye esisiseko yosapho kukufundisa abantwana kwasebancinane kakhulu ilizwi likaThixo. Ixabiso eliphambili elinokufundiswa kumntwana, kuba ukuba lenziwe ngoloyiko nokuhlonela uThixo, zonke ezinye imilinganiselo ziya kongezelelwa. Ukuba abantwana basekelwe kubomi bokomoya obunempilo kunye nokwenyani, baya kuba nako ukujongana nayo yonke into enokuthi ubomi bube kubo endleleni:
Efese 6: 4
4 Nani boyise, musani ukubacaphukisa abantwana benu; bondleleni ekuqeqesheni nasekululekeni kweNkosi.
UMateyu 19: 14-15
14 Wathi ke uYesu, Bayekeni abantwana, ningabaleli ukuza kum; ngokuba ubukumkani bamazulu bobabo banjalo. 15 Wababeka izandla, wemka apho.
IMizekeliso 22: 6
6 Mfundise umntwana indlela efanele umntwana, Naxa athe wamkhulu, akasayi kumka kuyo
Ngaba uyafuna ukufundisa abantwana ukuba babe nobulumko kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi? Sicebisa ukuba ufunde i Incwadi yeMizekeliso: Yincwadi eyabhalwa nguKumkani uSolomon, emva kokuba uThixo emnike intliziyo enokuqonda ezele bubulumko. Apho abalisa kwizahluko ezingama-31, indlela lo kumkani enza ngayo izityhilelo ezinkulu malunga: nobulumko, indlela yokuphila, ubuvila, ukuziphatha, umfazi onesidima kunye nokunye.
Ngokuthobela Abazali
Ngaphakathi kwecebo likaThixo kukwacacile ukuba abantwana bamele bathobele baze bababeke abazali babo. Ukuba abazali bathobela inxalenye esele ibonwe ngaphambili yokufundisa abantwana babo indlela kaThixo. Njengoko bekhula elizwini, ukuthobela nentlonelo ngabazali babo ngokwemvelo benza oko, ekubeni bekhokelwa nguMoya oyiNgcwele. Asikuko ke oku ukuba abazali bakutyeshele ukufundisa abantwana babo, bafanele bahlale bephaphile, kuba utshaba lunokuthabatha ithuba nabuphi na ubuthathaka okanye ukungakhathali.
Efe 6:1 Abazali nabantwana
6 Nina bantwana, bathobeleni abazali benu. Ke nina ningabakaKristu, nimelwe kukwenza oko.
KwabaseKolose 3: 20
20 Nina bantwana, balulameleni abazali benu ezintweni zonke, kuba oko kukholekile kuyo iNkosi.
Efese 6: 2
2 Beka uyihlo nonyoko; wona lowo ngumthetho wokuqala onedinga;
AmaRoma 1: 30
30 abagxeki, abathiyi bakaThixo, abasileyo, abanekratshi, abaqhankqalazi, abacebi bobubi, abangeva bazali;
IEksodus 18:19
Phulaphula ngoko izwi lam; Ndiza kukunika iingcebiso, kwaye wanga uThixo angaba nawe! Wena ke uya kubamela abantu phambi koThixo, uwamise amatyala abo phambi koThixo
Ukusikelela ezinye izizukulwana
Ngokuphathelele uThixo usapho lumele icebo lakhe lokuqala kwindalo. Liyinyaniso elokuba xa esikelela iintsapho, akapheleli nje ekusikeleleni eso sihlandlo kodwa usikelela nezizukulwana ezingakumbi zaloo ntsapho inye. Oku kunokubonwa kwiindinyana ezininzi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho apho uThixo aphawula ikamva elisikelelekileyo kuyo yonke indoda okanye umfazi omthobelayo ngokuthembeka. 1 Kronike 16:15-17
15 Uhlala ewukhumbula umnqophiso wakhe, Ilizwi awalinika iwaka lezizukulwana; 16 ngomnqophiso awawenzayo noAbraham, nesifungo awasenza kuIsake, 17 awasimisayo ukuba sibe ngummiselo kuYakobi, ube ngumnqophiso ongunaphakade kuSirayeli;
I-145 Psalms: 4
4 Izizukulwana ngezizukulwana, kunconywa izenzo zakho, Kuxelwe izenzo zakho ezincamisileyo
Kwakule ndumiso kamva uThixo uyaphinda, IiNdumiso 145:13
13 Ubukumkani bakho bubukumkani bamaphakade onke; ulawulo lwakho luhleli kuyo yonke iminyaka (kwizizukulwana)
Ukuba uThixo uzixabisile izizukulwana, kufanele kube njalo ngentsapho nawo onke amalungu ayo nawo onke ubudala. Intsapho yexabiso ihlonipha kwaye ihlonipha bonke abo bayenzayo, ingaba ngabantwana, ootatomkhulu, abazukulwana, oomalume, abazali, abazala, njl. Bakhaphana nokuba imeko injani na, ngolonwabo nangosizi, ekutyebeni nasekusweleni.
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Ukunyamekela nokunyamekela intsapho
Iqela losapho kufuneka likhathalelane kwaye libonelelane ngokweemfuno zomntu ngamnye. Lowo kufuneka ancede lowo uhamba ngeendlela, iimfuno okanye intlungu. Akunjalo kuphela kwimbono yezoqoqosho, kodwa nakwimeko yokomoya, impilo, njl. Usapho kufuneka lusebenze phakathi kwamalungu alo ngenceba novelwano njengoko uKristu wenzayo kuthi sonke. Ungowona mzekelo wethu ubalaseleyo wenkonzo ekufuneka siwulandele, Marko 10:45
45 Kuba noNyana woMntu engezanga kulungiselelwa; weza kulungiselela, nokuncama ubomi bakhe, bube yintlawulelo yokukhulula abaninzi.
Isiseko sokholo lobuKristu kukwenza ngothando lwedini uThixo analo nathi, njengoko uYohane 3:16 (NIV) esitsho.
16 Kuba wenjenje uThixo ukulithanda kwakhe ihlabathi, ude wancama uNyana wakhe okuphela kwamzeleyo, ukuze bonke abakholwayo kuye bangatshabalali, koko babe nobomi obungunaphakade.
Olo kholo lunye nothando kufuneka singaneli nje ukuziva, kodwa silubonise nakwabanye, ngakumbi kwiintsapho zethu, 1 Timoti 5:8
8 Lowo ungabalungiseleli abakhe, ngokukodwa abendlu yakhe, ulukhanyele ukholo, mbi ngaphezu kongakholwayo.
Iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho ukwenza ngobulumko
Intsapho elawula abantwana nolutsha ngobulumko ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba likhaya eliya kuhlala linoxolo novuyo. Kodwa ukuba oku akunjalo, kuya kusekwa intsapho engasebenzi kakuhle, enongquzulwano kwaye ibe kude kuyilo okanye injongo kaThixo. Xa kuthethwa ngobulumko, akubhekiselwa kulwazi lwenzululwazi, kodwa kubulumko obuvela phezulu, obuvela ezulwini.
- Unyana olumkileyo kulwazi lukaThixo uzalisa intliziyo kayise nomama luvuyo. Unyana osisilumko uya kuyazi indlela yokubabeka yaye uya kuba yintsikelelo kuwo onke amazwi nezenzo. Umthombo wobulumko obukaThixo uya kutyhila indlela emkholisayo yena nabazali bakhe.
- Ngoxa unyana osisinyabi udela lonke uqeqesho neemfundiso zabazali bakhe. Ukubabangela usizi. IMizekeliso 1:7-9
7 Ukoyika uYehova kukuqala kokwazi; Izidenge ziludelile ubulumko noqeqesho 8 Nyana wam, yiva uqeqesho lukayihlo, Ungazilahli iziyalo zikanyoko. 9 Zokuhombisa intloko yakho njengenkontsho, Zokuhombisa intamo yakho njengentsimbi yomqala.
Iivesi zeBhayibhile malunga nosapho kunye nothando
Ukuphelisa intsapho ehleliweyo ngaphandle kothando phakathi kwamalungu ayo, ayikwazi, okokuqala, ukuhlala kunye. Okwesibini, akayi kukwazi ukujongana neemvavanyo okanye iimeko ezinokuvela kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, uya kuba kude nothando lukaThixo.
Phakathi kwamalungu entsapho kumele kubekho amandla okuxolela nokucela ukuxolelwa, angabi nenqala aze azaliswe kukuzeka kade umsindo kukaThixo. Ukuba siyakwazi ukuthanda uYehova ngendlela esithanda ngayo, simele sihlale eluthandweni lwayo. Usapho oluhlala eluthandweni luhlala luhleli kuThixo, noThixo uhleli kulo. eyoku- 1 kaYohane 4:16