Luthetha ntoni uncedo olufanelekileyo, yaye ngubani onokulunikela?

Xa sisedwa, silinda loo mntu uyakuba yintlanganiso yakho yokunceda, kwaye sicela iNkosi isibonise loo mntu; kodwa uyazi lithetha ntoni uncedo olufanelekileyo kwaye ngubani onokukubonelela, ndicebisa ukuba ungayi, hlala kwaye uya kuziqonda iinyani kwesi sihloko.

Kutheni usithi “luncedo olufanelekileyo”?

Siqala kwilizwi leNkosi:

IGenesis 2:18 isixelela oku: “Akulungile ukuba umntu abe yedwa; Ndiza kumenzela umncedi ”.

Kuthetha ntoni ukuhlangabezana ukunceda?xa iNkosi isitsho la mazwi "ncedisana”, Kuya kufuneka sizibuze. Ibinjani indoda xa u Yehova ewathetha la mazwi? Ngaba wayenemisebenzi ekhethekileyo e-Eden? Waziva njani?

Rhoqo ngoFebruwari 14, siyavuya kuba sifuna ukuchitha nalo mntu ubalulekileyo, kwaye sonke siyakholelwa ukuba ukuba secaleni kwakhe kuko konke esifuna ukukwenza ngala mhla.

Siwuguqule lo mhla waba lusuku lokwabelana ukongeza kubahlobo, ngoncedo olufanelekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha sisebenzisa eli binzana naloo mntu ukhethekileyo, ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba kunjalo, ngaphandle kokwazi yintoni kuthetha uncedo ukuhlangabezana.

Sifuna ukukuxelela ukuba ucinga ntoni kwaye uthi emntwini "uncedo olufanelekileyo", ungatshatanga okanye sele utshatile, ayisiyiyo nje into yokuba sifuna ukunika loo mntu into ekhethekileyo, kuba lo mcimbi awungowothando olulula okanye kuba Siyakholelwa ukuba yindlela echanekileyo yokubiza igama, kuba ayinikezi umntu inqanaba okanye inqanaba.

Intsingiselo yomncedisi wedlula kwindawo enzulu, ezinikele ngakumbi kuThixo kuqala emva koko kuwe. Ukukunika umbono, siza kuphendula le mibuzo eya kusinceda ukuba siqonde eli binzana.

Ukubuyela kwilizwi leNkosi, ekubeni nguAdam e-Eden, kuba la mazwi awela kuye ngenxa yokuba wayengumntu wokuqala ophilayo. Wayenjani uAdam? Yayinguye yedwa kuhlobo lwakhe, zonke izilwanyana zazineqabane, kodwa wayeyedwa. Yayenza ntoni imisebenzi? Wahlwayela, wanika amagama izilwanyana, wanyamekela i-Eden kunye nezinye izinto.

Uthando lukaThixo ngoluntu

Nanku umbuzo wonke umntu ebewulindile. Waziva njani? Ucinga ukuba uAdam waziva njani, kulapho iimvakalelo zingena khona; waziva eyedwa, ecinga kancinci, sinokuthi buhlungu. Ngaba kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntu ongatshatanga unokuziva onwabile, onwabile ukuba sehlabathini yedwa, uninzi lwethu lunomfanekiso-ngqondweni wemeko yaye besingayi kufuna ukuba sendaweni yakhe.

Kodwa uyazi, ngubani owazibeka endaweni yakhe? -Thixo. Akukho nto inye kwaye akukho nto ingaphantsi komdali wakhe, lowo wayemthanda kakhulu, de wamazi ukuba wanika loo ndoda waziva elilolo. Ndicinga ukuba wayecinga ngezilwanyana, nganye, kunye neqabane lakhe, kwaye eyedwa! Wayengenamntu anokuncokola naye, abelane naye, asebenze naye, nokunye okuninzi.

Ndicinga ukuba uThixo ebona lo mbono wonke, xa wayesithi: akulungile ukuba umntu abe yedwa; Ndizomenzela "ahlangane", ukuba uThixo ngokwakhe, umdali wayo yonke into, umxelele ukuba akulunganga ukuba umntu abe yedwa ngenxa yento ayithethileyo.

Ngoku siza nomnye umbuzo. Uyakholelwa ukuba umntu unokuvelisa into kuphela? Ukuba uyayenza, angayenza, enyanisweni, usebenza yedwa kumyezo wase-Eden, ekhathalela izilwanyana phakathi kwezinto ezininzi. Sibuyele umva kwakhona, kodwa wayeyedwa!

El Intsingiselo yoncedo ukudibanaNangona kubonakala ngathi yenzelwe kuphela amadoda, angatshatanga, kodwa nabahlobo abafunda eli nqaku, iyasebenza nakoodade abangatshatanga, ukuze sobabini silazi eli binzana lisetyenziswe ngabaninzi ngaphandle kokwazi inyani yalo.

Ukufezekisa kukaThixo indoda okanye umfazi

Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, uAdam wayeyedwa e-Eden, apho wayenemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo, wayehlala exakekile, phakathi kokukhathalela izilwanyana naphambi kobukho bukaThixo imini yonke. Nangona kunjalo, wayengaziva ephelele, kukho into eyayilahlekile, waziva eyedwa, wonke umntu eneqabane lakhe okanye elinganayo kwaye wayengafani nomntu.

Into ebalulekileyo ngeli bali kukuba liyasifundisa namhlanje, yiyo loo nto sisithi ibhayibhile ayiphelelwe lixesha, igama layo lisasebenza kwaye liza kuqhubeka lisemthethweni. Jonga into, uThixo eyazi indalo yakhe, wayefuna ukumbona onwabile, evuya, kuba engasaziva elilolo. Wacinga ngokubonelela ngoncedo lomntu ahlangana naye, kuba no-Adam akazange acinge ukuba angabanaye. UThixo uyazazi iintliziyo zethu kwaye usikhathalele, kwaye iintsikelelo asinike zona ziya kuba ngexesha lakhe. (UMateyu 6:8,32)

Amadoda nabasetyhini zizinto ezahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, kodwa nganye iyazanelisa enye. Bafana neziqwenga zamaphazili ezifanayo, xa zidityanisiwe, zilungelelene ngokugqibeleleyo; ke isini ngasinye saqeqeshwa ukuba sithathe uxanduva kwindalo kaThixo nakwicebo lakhe, kuko konke oku kuyilwa.

Kuthetha ntoni okufanelekileyo?

Imvelaphi yegama elithi "Ifanelekile" isuka kwisiHebhere "négued" ke inentsingiselo njengeqabane, iqela eliphikisayo, iqabane, okanye ngaphambili; ebusweni, emehlweni, ngqo phambili.

Uncedo olufanelekileyo, ukunamathela kwintsingiselo yayo, kusebenza kumntu okufuphi nathi, kodwa ecaleni kwethu, njani for ntoni? Ukunceda, ukukhonza, ukukhapha, ukuxhasa, kunye nokuncedisana nomnye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, oku akusebenzi kumadoda kuphela; Ukususela kumfazi ukuya kwindoda, ngokunjalo; Indoda yomfazi, ngokufutshane, indoda nayo mayibe yiyo yonke le nto yomfazi.

Ke uluvo lwantlandlolo lokuba umntu unoncedo oluvela kuye luvela entliziyweni kaThixo. Kuba eyazi ukuba bobabini xa bedibene bangafezekisa izinto ezinkulu, ngaphandle kokufikelela kuncinci kakhulu, bayakhumbula ukuba uAdam wayenjani, wayesebenza kwaye ezigcina exakekile, kodwa akazange azive onelisekile.

Isicwangciso sokuqala sikaThixo yayikukuba bahambisane, baphile ubomi kunye, indoda nomfazi. Yiyo loo nto indoda nomfazi bephelelisana, indoda yayikho ngenxa yokuba uThixo wayechulumancile ukudala umfazi, ukuza kuphelelisa indoda, yiyo loo nto umtshato unenjongo yawo echazwe nguThixo.

Ndiyathemba ukuthandwa

Izipho zikaThixo zihlala zihamba phambili, kuba lowo uthanda kuphela uyazi ukuba anganikela ngeyona nto anayo, lo ngumzekelo wokuba uThixo usifundisa yonke imihla kwaye kufuneka sifunde kule nto. UThixo wanika uAdam esona sipho sihle, wanika noEva.

Qaphela into, wasebenzisa ntoni uThixo ukudala umfazi? Ubambo luka-Adam, oko kukuthi, umfazi uphume kwakulo mzimba weNdoda. Ngubani na ongawuthandiyo umzimba wakhe? Ngendlela efanayo nokhathalelo lwemizimba yethu, kufuneka sithande kwaye sikhathalele abafazi bethu, abafazi, okanye umncedisi ofanelekileyo.

Xa sifunda kwiGenesis 2: 21-22, isixelela ukuba iNkosi uThixo yamvumela umntu ukuba alale ubuthongo obunzulu; uThixo wasusa ubambo waluvala kwakhona, wadala umfazi wamsa eMntwini.

Yile nto asixelela yona, ukuba indawo exabisekileyo yendoda ishiywe ngaphandle, ukunika umntu obhinqileyo, into afuna ukusinika yona ukuba siyiqonde, kukuba enye iyancedisana nomnye, oku kubizwa ngokuba "kukuhambelana, "ithambo, eyokuqala ayisayi kugqitywa de ufumane elinye icandelo. Ngale ndlela, kukudibana, indawo leyo yathathwa isemntwini ekufuneka iqhubeke nokuba yinxalenye yakhe.

Indoda ikhathalele isipho sayo

NgokweTalmud, indawo athathwe kuyo umfazi, ukusuka embanjeni, isondele entliziyweni.

Ngesizathu esivakalayo kukho le nguqulo iseyinyani: Umfazi wadalwa wasebenzisa iimbambo zendoda, umdali akazange asebenzise amathambo eenyawo, ukuze amnyathele, okanye athathe nto entlokweni yakhe, ukuze ikholelwe ukuba ingaphezulu komntu, qaphela into; Wamthabatha ecaleni, ukuba azibone elingana naye, phantsi kwengalo yakhe, efanekisela ukukhuselwa kwendoda emfazini, kwaye isondele entliziyweni yakhe, ngenjongo yokuba indoda imthande.

Kithina maKrestu, isiseko sobomi bethu lilizwi likaThixo, "yiBhayibhile", ke inkolelo yethu siyisekele kuyo, kuba ithathwa njengesikhokelo sokuziphatha kwethu, kodwa ukubonakaliswa kweTalmud, xa ithetha ngothando, ichanekile kakhulu, oko kufuneka kube phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.

Ukubuyela kumxholo kunye noAdam, nje ukuba ajonge uEva, ndicinga ubuso obothukileyo xa embona okokuqala: wambiza, uEva, yiyo loo nto kulwimi lwesiHebhere lithetha "Isha", ethi ukujika kuthetha "Umfazi kwaye Uyathandwa". Ke ngoko, ngoncedo olufanelekileyo, kufuneka athandwe yindoda yakhe kwaye ayinyamekele ngothando.

Uthando oluyinyani, olufumana kuphela isidima salo emntwini, apho ubomi bakhe bahlaziywa okanye baguqulwa ngomsebenzi kaKristu, wabethelelwa emnqamlezweni ngenxa yothando lwethu.

Efese 5: 25 : (echazwe ngenye indlela) "Madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, njengokuba naye uKristu walithandayo ibandla wazinikela ngenxa yakhe."

Kwabase-Efese 5:28: uthi: (echaza ngendlela efanayo) amadoda afanele abathande abafazi bawo njengemizimba yawo. Ukuba uyamthanda umfazi wayo, iyazithanda.

Amadoda kufuneka abathande abafazi bawo, ayitsho ukuba bayakwazi "ukumthanda"; bathi "mababathande" abafazi babo njengemizimba yabo. Kucace gca? Ayinakwenzeka loo nto!, Okanye ubonile umntu owuzondayo umzimba wakhe.

Unceda ukudibana, vuyisa intliziyo yakho

Nje ukuba uAdam ajonge isipho sakhe, uxolo! ku "Eva", jonga awakuthethayo, amazwi ayinyani, kwaye siwafunda kwiGenesis 2:23, kwaye indoda yathi: yena (ebhekisa emfazini, "uEva") ulithambo lamathambo am, kwaye Inyama yenyama yam (esazi ukuba yeyakho evela kuye), uya kubizwa ngokuba "nguMfazi" ngenxa yendoda awayeyithathile.

Kule vesi ifundwayo, siphambi kwencomo yokuqala eyenziwa yindoda emfazini; Ukuncoma okuvela entliziyweni eyonwabileyo, kubukho bukaEva ebomini bakhe.

Ngale ndlela kufuneka sibe nesimo sethu sengqondo ngabasetyhini; Nje ukuba angene ebomini bendoda, kufuneka amdumise, amncome, athethe amazwi amnandi kuye, ukuze azive ethandwa kwaye aqhubeke nokuvuya intliziyo yendoda.

UThixo wanika intswelo ka-Adam kwaye wagubungela isizungu sakhe neqabane, le lithetha "ukunceda ukuhlangana." Phambi komfazi (isipho sikaThixo), into ayivakalisileyo yayilulonwabo: amathambo amathambo am nenyama yenyama yam! Kunjengokungathi ebetshilo, omnye umntu onjengam. Yethambo nenyama, njengam nje.

Jonga oko kutshiwo yiMizekeliso 18: 22: Ofumana umfazi ufumana ulonwabo, INkosi imenzele ubabalo. (Ukucacisa.)

Umntu oncedisana naye liqabane lakho lokukhula kuKristu

Uncedo lwakho olufanelekileyo kufuneka lube ngumntu, athe iNkosi yamgcwalisa kuqala ngobabalo lwakhe, eneempawu ezifana nezakho, injongo yakhe, ihamba kunye neyakho, ngokufutshane, ungumncedi wakho, ukukhula ecaleni kwakho ngokomoya, naye umyeni.

Ngokufanelekileyo, nobabini niqhubeke nokukhula elubabalweni, naselwazini malunga nenjongo kaThixo. Ke ngoko, sisizathu esivakalayo sokubulela uThixo ngesipho "somncedisi".

Wena "Uncedo olufanelekileyo" kukuzibophelela kothando lwakho ebomini

Ukuba usifumene esi sipho sivela kuThixo, funda ukuthanda lo mfazi, sele esazi ukuba yintoni Luthetha ntoni uncedo olufanelekileyo?, Umele umthande njengoYesu ecaweni yakhe.

Khumbula ukuba njengokuba ibandla lingafezekanga, ngendlela efanayo uYesu uyayithanda icawe, uyayikhathalela kwaye ayilungise ngothando.

Cela ubulumko kuThixo wethu ukuze, ngendlela efanayo, wenze ngoncedo lwakho, ulunakekele, ulukhusele kwaye ulungise ngothando, ukuze xa bebonke bafeze injongo yeNkosi ebamanyanisileyo okanye eya kuyenza zimanyanise, kuba uya kuphendula kulo mfazi ukunikwe nguThixo.

Ngoku uya kuba nakho ukusebenzisa eli binzana "Uncedo oluLungileyo, ngendlela eqondayo ukuba kuthetha ntoni kwaye kuya kufuneka uyifumane, uyamkele, uyikhathalele, kwaye uyikhokele kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke uyithande ngobuhle bayo kunye neziphene .

Ukwazi ukuba zombini zisesandleni esona sikhulu, ezo zomchweli; owenza umsebenzi wakhe ngothando ukuze yonke imihla uYesu Kristu abonakaliswe ebomini babo.

Bulela iNkosi ngokukuvumela ukuba ufumane uncedo olufanelekileyo, oya kuba ngumhlobo wakho, iqabane kunye nenkxaso yakho. Funda oku, ukuya emtshatweni, ayikuko kuba ufumene umntu olungileyo, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ngumntu olungileyo.

Iingcaphuno zokuBonisa Ingoma yeeNgoma

Ingoma yeeNgoma, unokucinga ukuba uncedo lwakho luyahlangana. Kuba ijolise kumbhiyozo wothando kunye nomtshato, ababhali abaninzi baphinde bathi luphawu lothando lukaThixo kwicawa yakhe okanye kubantu bakhe.

Nanga amabinzana adumileyo, kodwa esi inokuba sisiqalo sendumiso yakho ngoncedo lwakho:

Iingoma 4: 10

«Zimnandi njani ii-caress zakho, sithandwa sam! Zimnandi ngaphezu kwewayini. Iziqholo zakho zinevumba elimnandi ngaphezu kwazo zonke iziqholo! ».

Iingoma 8: 6-7

< Libhale igama lam entliziyweni yakho! Bhala umfanekiso wam engalweni yakho! Uthando lunamandla njengokufa! Umdla uqinisekile njengengcwaba!

IiOremos: Enkosi mnumzana kuba ndiqondile lithetha ntoni uncedo olufanelekileyoNdinike ubulumko bokusebenzisa eli gama ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ulisebenzise kuphela nalo mntu undinikeze ubomi bam, ukundixhasa kunye nokuhamba nam.

Ndiyaxolisa ngelixesha ndimonzakalise ngalo, ukuba ndingazi ndimphathe kakubi kwaye khange ndimfundise ngothando nangokukhanya kwelizwi lakho, iinyaniso zomoya ezingasincedi ukuba siqhubele phambili kunye.

UThixo ngenceba yakho engapheliyo ndincede ndibusikelele ubomi bakhe, nokuba izinto zihamba kakubi kakhulu, ndincede ndimbone ngamehlo kaYesu. Ndincede ndikuxhase kwaye ube ngumboneleli wakho xa uswele. Nangona kunjalo, ndincede ndimkhathalele njengaye.

Ukuba ufuna ukufunda malunga nesi sihloko ungangena: Izicatshulwa zeBhayibhile zomtshato.

Ukuba la mazwi ebeyintsikelelo ebomini bakho, kwaye uziva ukuba akwakhile, yabelana nabanye ngeli nqaku, ukuze nabo baqonde Luthetha ntoni uncedo olufanelekileyo?.