Ukuba nomntu osondeleyo kuwe onengxaki yotywala kunokuba yingxaki eyoyikekayo. Imeko iyakwazi ukuba nzima ngakumbi xa loo mntu unalo mthwalo uliqabane lakho, kwaye ukuba oku kunjalo, unethamsanqa; Kweli nqaku siza kukufundisa yonke into malunga umthandazo womyeni olinxila.
Utywala kwinkalo yokomoya
Yaziwa kakuhle into yokuba kususela kwiminyaka yokuqala yokudalwa komntu, utywala bebuyeyona ngxaki iphambili kwimpucuko.
Nasemva kokukhula komntu, iingxaki zotywala zehlabathi azikancitshiswa okanye zincitshiswe. Esi sisiphumo sokungaphuhlisi ngokomoya koluntu kwaye kuphumela ekwahlukaneni komntu neNkosi.
Akazange nanini na uThixo akwalela ukuselwa kwezinto ezinxilisayo, ngokuchaseneyo, ngokubanzi, wacela ukuba umntu anandiphe zonke iingenelo eziphuma emthini nokuba basebenzise ngokunengenelo iziqhamo zawo.
Noko ke, ingxaki ibakho xa indoda iqalisa ukuphulukana nobugxwayiba ngokugalela umxube obangela imiphumo yotywala.
Xa umntu esiba likhoboka lotywala, akamthobeli uThixo ngenxa yokungakwazi kwakhe ukuzilawula, ngokusebenzisa kakubi utywala ngokungenamlinganiselo nokwazi izinto ekwaziyo ukuzenza ephantsi kwempembelelo yesiselo.
Ngokomzekelo, kwiminyaka yamandulo, iwayini yayisisiselo esasisetyenziswa kwimibhiyozo emikhulu ngaphandle kokudelela umyalelo kaThixo.
Yazi kwakhona malunga Umthandazo kaYabhetse. Kuya kuba nomdla kuwe.
Kwelinye icala, xa abo babenenxaxheba bekwimeko yokungakwazi ukuzibamba, umsindo kaKumkani kaKumkani wavutha yaye wenza okusesikweni ekungathobelini kwaloo ndoda.
UNowa, umzekelo, owaba yindoda uThixo amthembileyo ukuba abe yinxalenye yecebo lakhe kumsebenzi wokuphelisa bonke ububi emhlabeni, wayelinxila ngaphambi kokuba ahlanjululwe ngegazi likaKristu uMhlawuleli xa wayivula intliziyo yakhe. ezulwini waza wakhala kuThixo ukuba amcoce.
Oku kuthetha ukuba ilizwi likaThixo liyakwazi ukuhlamba nakuphi na ukungcoliseka okanye ukhula olukhula emoyeni womntu.
Kwelinye icala, kwibutho lamaKristu ehlabathi lonke, abantu bakholelwa ukuba ukukhotyokiswa butywala akunanto yakwenza nemeko yokomoya yomntu, kodwa oku akunakuphosakele ngakumbi.
Xa ubungendawo buyinto ebangela ubungendawo emphefumlweni, ingxaki inengcambu yomoya ngokuthe ngqo.
Uninzi lwabantu abasehlabathini luye lwabandezeleka kukutsaleleka kwinto ethe ekugqibeleni yaba bubugwenxa, kodwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ivangeli isoloko ivakalisa kwaba bantu ukuze uBawo asebenze ezintliziyweni zabo.
Ukuba kukho umntu omaziyo onengxaki yokusela utywala, ngakumbi ukuba lo mntu ngumntu osondeleyo kuwe njengomyeni wakho, uyihlo, unyana wakho okanye umntu osondelelene ngokubanzi, unokumlungisa ngelizwi likaThixo, uvakalisa umthandazo wekhoboka lotywala. umyeni .
Umthandazo womyeni olinxila
Kwibhayibhile kukho intlaninge yamaqhekeza ebhayibhile asebenza ngokugqibeleleyo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo kwaye anefuthe elimangalisayo kubomi bomntu ofuna ukuthandaza kuye.
Okokuqala, khumbula ukuba kwanaxa kukho umthandazo okhethekileyo wolu hlobo lwengxaki, ukunxibelelana noThixo kuya kusoloko kusebenza ekuphiliseni ububi obusebomini bakho ukuba uyayivula intliziyo yakho.
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ukongezelela ekucengcelezeni lo mthandazo oza kuwufunda ngezantsi, umele uvule iingcamango zakho kuSomandla uze uvakalise iimvakalelo zakho ngalo mbandela ubizwayo.
Ukongezelela koku kungasentla, kukwabalulekile ukuthandaza ngokusuka entliziyweni kuphela. Ukufezekisa oku kufuneka unyaniseke ngokupheleleyo, ubonakalise ukholo olunyulu nolufutshane, uphakamise uThixo njengenxalenye yomthandazo wakho kwaye uzimele kuzo naziphi na iziphazamiso ngexesha lomthandazo.
Ngezantsi uya kufunda malunga nokuthandazela umyeni olinxila:
Owu Bawo, isandla sakho entliziyweni yam sivuleke ngokupheleleyo emehlweni akho, ndithandazela okundiphazamisayo ebusuku.
Uloyiko lwam ndilubekile kuwe ngento eye yaba yintsizi nentlungu kusapho lwam obusoloko unalo entliziyweni yakho.
Phantsi kwegama lakho ndiyaguqa ukuze ubone kum imfuneko yokuba ndiguqukele kuwe, ngaphezu kwako konke, kuba nguwe hayi mna, okwaziyo ukusombulula zonke iingxaki ezisemhlabeni.
Nguwe kuphela onokuyiphelisa intlungu yam ukuze ndiphile ngokuvumelana nomoya wakho.
Nkosi, uyalwazi kakuhle uthando endiluvayo ngomtshato wam kunye nosapho lwam, kwaye ndilubone kakuhle uthando onalo nalo, kungoko ndilapha ndicela ukuba undincede ndoyise esi sigaba.
Owu Nkosi enenceba, ugqibelele kwaye unamandla onke, ndithandazela umyeni wam ozivumeleyo ukuba abanjwe ngamabanjwa esihendo.
Okwangoku, iqabane lam alikwazi ukubaleka ngokuthanda kwakhe, kuba imixube yokuphoxeka eyenza ingqondo yakhe ibe nesiyezi kwaye imenze ashiye indawo yokuhlala apho umoya wakho uvalelwe khona.
Ndenza umthandazo wam kuwe kuba uyakwazi ukubiza ukukhanyisa onke la mandla amngcungcuthekisayo ebusuku kwaye azifihla emva kwamehlo akhe emini.
Ndiyakucela kuba xa sele ethathelwe bububi bakhe uyakwazi ukuphulukana nobugwenxa bakhe kwaye akhuphe konke okuhle okushiyekileyo ebomini bakhe, okuzele nguwe kuphela kwaye alibele.
Ndiphethukela kubabalo lwakho kuba uyazi kakuhle, njengomntu onolwazi lwento yonke, ukuba uthando endinalo ngaye lukhulu kangangokuba luhlala naxa ukwimeko embi kakhulu kwaye ndikhalela kuwe usindiso lwakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, ndiyaqonda ukuba uthando lwam alufani nothando oluthi wena, Thixo wothando nobomi, umvale yena, kuba ungunyana wakho kwaye ungukukhanya nokukhanya kuphela, ngaphandle kobumnyama okanye ingqumbo kunye nemisebenzi Àbayingcolisi intliziyo yakho, ngobubi.
Ngoko ndithetha ngeenjongo ezintle zomyeni wam, ongumthengisi kwizintlu zabashumayeli bakho nokhala ebusuku ngentliziyo efuna ukukuvulela, kodwa angakuhoyi.
Ke ngoko ndiyazibhengeza, ukuze umkhuphe kuloo ntolongo yesono nokungahloneli Thixo, umhlambulule, kwaye umncede akhe intando yakhe ebomini bakhe ukuze alandele umendo wakho ngenxa yokuba ungunyana olungileyo, okwaziyo, onothando.
Ngenxa yokuba ulibele ilizwi lakho, kodwa akukho ndlela apho umoya ungekho entliziyweni yakhe emva kokuba ekhululwe ezonweni zakhe ngokushiya umphefumlo wakhe isidingo sokwanelisa izenzo zakhe ezimbi ngaphandle kwemilinganiselo okanye imida.
Hayi Bawo umyeni wam ongubhuti ongunyana womntu nomfazi uye waphambuka kuba naye akafezekanga njengabo bonke abantu.
Umyeni wam uya kuba ngcwele enkosi kwilizwi lakho elisikelelekileyo, kuba uthando lwakho luya kumkhulula kwaye uya kuphinda athandane ngobabalo lwakho, ngakumbi kunokuba wayethanda unina, umfazi wakhe okanye unyana wakhe.
Ndiyakucela ke, Bawo, ukuba ube ngumsindisi wakhe, umbonise ukuba ungakanani na phambi kwakhe, nokuba ungakanani na ngaphakathi. Ndiyakucela ukuba umkhulule ekutshabalaleni kwakhe kwaye umnike, ngendlela yosindiso, ubabalo lobomi bakho.
Mkhulule kuko konke okubi okumzingelayo nokuhlebeza endlebeni yakhe ukuba anelise ububi bakhe kuba nguwe wedwa onako, ngaphezu kwezinye izinto zexeshana nezingahloneli Thixo nezingeyiyo imithombo yokukhanya nosindiso njengawe Bawo.
Owu Nkosi yam ndiyabulela kuba ibinguwe ngalo lonke ixesha othe wandenza ndazi ukuba nguwe wedwa onempendulo yalo mthwalo awuthweleyo umntu endimthandayo emqolo kwaye nguwe kuphela ozawususa ebomini bakhe.
Egameni lakho, uya kuphilisa kubo bonke ububi, uya kumnika amandla emoyeni wakhe ukuze akhulule ekuhendweni kwaye, okokuqala, ngokuthanda kwakhe, abe nako ukuthi 'Hayi' ukusela.
Uya kwandula ke, ngenxa yemiqondiso othe wayenza ngemihla yakhe, alubone ubabalo lwakho ekusindisweni kwakhe, athi ngokuthanda kwakhe abe nenzondelelo ngozuko lwakho, abe kule ndawo ethandaza phambi kwakho, mfundiseni indlela yosindiso. Amen.
Ziqhelise lo mthandazo womyeni olinxila ukuze ukwazi ukunceda iqabane lakho, ukude, ngomsebenzi weNkosi.
Ukubaluleka kokuqhelisela lo mthandazo
Umtshato wesibini apho elinye lamaqela mabini lixhoba lesenzo esibi okanye isilingo esihlala sikhona, sonakala ngalo lonke ixesha. Ukwazi umthandazo womyeni olinxila kubaluleke kakhulu.
Xa omnye waba balingane ababini entywiliselwa kwi-vice ngamaxesha onke, omnye mhlawumbi ngoyena mntu uchaphazelekayo kulo lonke isangqa sentlalo yokuqala.
Kulo hlobo lwemeko kuya kuhlala kukho iingxaki zobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu besi sibini, kwanele ukukhumbula zonke iingxaki ezibangelwa butywala bomyeni wakho.
Kuwe akukhange kube kuhle kwaphela, mhlawumbi baye baneengxaki ezininzi kunesiqhelo, intlantsi yobudlelwane iye yacinywa ngenxa yokuphazamiseka okukhulu okubangelwa yile ngxaki.
Kwimeko enqwenelekayo encinci, ukubakho kobundlobongela ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni okanye naluphi na uhlobo lobundlobongela oluphazamisana neengxoxo.
Oku, njengoko usenokuba uyazi ngokusuka kwimithombo yobuKristu esentliziyweni yakho, kubangelwa ngamandla akhohlakeleyo awondla umyeni wakho xa enikezela kwiintswelo acinga ukuba unazo ngokuphathelele utywala okanye iziyobisi.
Enkosi koku, enye into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe ibonakala. NguThixo kuphela onokunqanda ukukhula kwembewu embi etyelwe butywala emyenini wakho okanye kwisizalwane esinale ngxaki.
Okuphela komthombo wokukhanya okunyulu okukwaziyo ukulwa idabi eloyisayo nxamnye nobungendawo obusehlabathini nguThixo. Ke ngoko, ukuze ingxaki yomyeni wakho yokusela utywala iyeke ekugqibeleni, kufuneka uthandaze kuBawo ngalo mthandazo wozuko. Ngaba uneengxaki zobudlelwane ezikwenze wazibuza yintoni injongo yakho ebomini?, Fumana apha ngezantsi.
Nayiphi na enye indlela ofumana ngayo ukusombulula le ngxaki ingadityaniswanga nesicwangciso soKumkani wamaKumkani iya kuba yinto engento, yonakale kwaye ekugqibeleni eli lishwa liya kunkqonkqoza kwiingcango zobomi bakho kwakhona.
Oku akuthethi ukuba azikho iindlela ezininzi kwihlabathi zokujongana neengxaki zangaphakathi zomntu, umzekelo, iiseshoni zonyango, amaqela angabonakaliyo e-Alcoholics Anonymous, kunye nokungenelela kwabanye abasondeleyo kumntu. Kodwa kuyinyaniso ukuba akuncedi ukufuna isisombululo kwingxaki eneengcambu zomoya, ukuba yonke into ayidibanisi kuqala nobabalo loMoya oyiNgcwele.
Umthandazo wokuphelisa ikhoboka lotywala
Kusenokubakho imeko entsonkothileyo ngakumbi nenzulu, kuxa ngokuqinisekileyo uphelelwa lukholo kumntu othe wantywiliselwa kwingxaki yokusela utywala.
Xa oku kusenzeka, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ucinga ukuba akufanelanga ukuba uqhubeke unyamezela bonke ubundlongo-ndlongo obuvela kwiqabane lakho, eliye lachithwa ngokupheleleyo kukusela.
Ityala liba lusizi xa umntu olinxila eqalisa ukukuxhaphaza, ukukubetha okanye ukukuhlasela.
Kunzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuba wenze ntoni xa umntu omthandayo ekubeka kweso sikhundla, nangona kunjalo, eyona nto ilungileyo kuwe kukuthatha ukuba uxanduva lwakho lweemvakalelo nomntu othethiweyo lulinganiselwe kwaye ukubakho ngalo lonke ixesha kunokuba yityhefu kuye. wena.
Xa umntu ephuma engonzakelenga kubukho bomntu amthandayo (othi yena agcine amaqumrhu angendawo ngokwawo) anika indlela ekhululekileyo yokuba iidemon okanye imikhosi evela kwihlabathi lobumnyama isebenze ebomini babo.
Le asiyonto uThixo ayifunayo kuwe. Intando yakhe kukuba uhlale nabantu abakwenzela okulungileyo nabanokukunceda ukhule ngokomoya.
Kwangaxeshanye, intando yakhe kukuba uthathe ilizwi lakhe ulise kweyona mimandla imnyama nenzima kakhulu ukusasaza ubabalo lwakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, xa ubukho bakho ebomini baloo mntu budla amandla akho omoya, kungcono ukuba uhambe.
Ukuthatha inyathelo ngalo mba xa kufikwa kumntu omthandayo kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba ngumntu ongahlali ekuzalisa ngokuzisola kodwa kwimeko apho kukho ubundlobongela ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokwasengqondweni okanye ngokwesondo, kuyathatha isigqibo sokuba ungahlali apho.
Nanku umthandazo womyeni olinxila ekukhathazayo ngenxa yeengxaki zakhe zotywala kwaye akushiye wedwa:
Owu Nkosi yam, wena wenza ubulungisa bakho ebomini bam, balahla ububi ngokwenza okulungileyo. Wena ungumdali wam kwaye wazi ngaphezu kwakhe nabani na into endifanele kwaye andifanelekanga.
Bawo ndicela undincede ndisuse bonke ububi obukhathaza intliziyo yam. Kanye njengokuba umyeni wam wawela etywaleni, ndicela ukuba umkhuphe, kodwa kungekhona ngoncedo lwam, kuba kulimaza ukukhula kwam kwangaphakathi.
Malingcwaliswe igama lakho ebomini bam, Bawo. Ukuba iintambo zobubi zalifaka etywaleni iqabane lam, ndicela ungandibambi nam ngeenzame zokusindisa oko kungekokwam.
Ndiguqa phambi kwakho ukuze ubone ukuba ndiyathemba ukuba uyabazi ubuntu bam kwaye ndithathela ingqalelo ukuba nguwe wedwa ongumsindisi ongcwele.
Ndifuna ukuhlukana nomyeni wam kuba ukusela kwakhe utywala kundenza ndixakeke ubusuku nemini, kwaye ukukhanya kwakho kuphela okundikhanyisela indlela yam. Amen.
Umthandazo wokuzikhusela kwikhoboka lotywala
Xa uziva usengozini ngenxa yokuba umyeni wakho ekungcungcuthekisa ekunxileni kwakhe ngumsindo, ungalibazisi ukubhenela kulo mthandazo.
Ukuba usoyikiswa ngumyeni olinxila, lo mthandazo womyeni onxilisayo uya kuba sesona sixhobo sokuzikhusela kuye:
Owu Bawo undikhathalele imini nobusuku wandenza ndabona ukuba ngubani na ondijikelezileyo kunye nawo wonke umoya wonxunguphalo ozifihle ngomqolo.
Ndibe yimfama ukuba undikhaphe emehlweni akho, isandla sakho singandikhaphela ezindleleni zemvisiswano, kuba ndikholose ngawe, Nkosi yam.
Nkosi yam msuse lomntu ebengandiphathanga kakuhle nam ondivulele imfazwe ebomini bam ndingahoyanga ukuba ndilula kuba ndikhokelwe luthando.
Kuba uthando lwam lomelele, ndiyakucela ukuba umsuse kwihlabathi lezotywala kwaye umenze abone enye indlela yokuzaliseka ngokomoya.
Kwaye ngenxa yokuba uthando lwam kuwe kunye nam lomelele, ndicela ukuba umsuse ebomini bam.
Kwaye xa lo mntu endilandela endleleni yam egodukayo, nindinike ikhaya ngokukhalipha kwenu, kuba niyomgxotha kangangoko ninokusuka apho ndihlala khona. Ngelo xesha ke kuphela ndiya kuba nenzolo ngozuko lwakho.
Xa lo mntu esiphakamisela kum isandla sakhe, umsindo wakho uwuphakamisele ezulwini lakhe nasemhlabeni wakhe nasemhlabeni wakhe, ngenxa yokuba ndingcwaliswe egameni lakho.
+ Egameni lakho lobuthixo ndiya kusindiswa esandleni sakhe nakumakhamandela amonakalisayo ngemixube enetyhefu, yaye ndiya kubulela ngobulungisa bakho nakuyo yonke into ephathelele ilizwi lakho. Amen.
Ukubaluleka kwalo mthandazo
Ukunqanda iingxaki kubomi bakho kwaye ukhule njengomKristu kwivangeli, kuya kufuneka uqhelisele lo mthandazo kwelo qabane likuhlukumezayo ngenxa yeengxaki zabo zokusela utywala.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba lungakanani na uthando onalo ngomyeni wakho, ukuba uyakuhlasela, ukuxhaphaza aze asebenzise ugonyamelo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, khumbula indlela olubaluleke ngayo uthando omele ube nalo ngoThixo nakuwe siqu.
Uwele emngxunyeni nengonyama elambileyo kwaye ilizwi likaYehova liyikhaka lakho kanye njengesona sixhobo sakho singumthandazo. Ubabalo lukaBawo luyakunceda ukuba uphume apho kwaye ukwazi ukuphelisa loo mthombo wobumnyama ebomini bakho.
umoya wotywala
Ukuba umntu omthandayo uvalelwe entolongweni yokomoya apho alibanjwa lotywala, kufuneka udibanise ngokukhawuleza into eyenzekayo ngaphakathi ebomini bakhe bomoya.
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kunokwenzeka ukuba xa olu nxibelelwano lwenzeka engqondweni yakho ehambelana nomoya kwiimeko zeqabane lakho, into yokuqala ephakamayo ngumbuzo olandelayo: "Siyintoni isizathu somoya wotywala kumyeni wam? ? ''.
Impendulo inokuba nzima ukuba akuyazi kakuhle into omele uyazi ngelizwi likaThixo. Ebhayibhileni kubhaliwe ukuba ubukho bobubi kunye namandla angcolileyo bubalasele kakhulu.
Amaqumrhu obumnyama, ngenxa yokuba akuzo zonke iikona zehlabathi ozaziyo, asebenzise ithuba ngalinye lokungena ebantwini kwaye ubonakalise.
La mathuba abonwa ziidemon kunye nabathunywa bobubi, acetywa ngobungendawo babantu abanokholo olubuthathaka kwaye abangenazo iintliziyo zabo zivulelekileyo kuThixo.
Ngokomzekelo, ngethuba umyeni wakho eziphatha ngendlela engafanelekanga, engathobeli ilizwi likaThixo, imikhosi yobubi yangena entliziyweni yakhe yaza yahlwayela imbewu yobubi.
Zama ukwenza lo mthandazo kumyeni onxilisayo njengoko imbewu yobubi ikhula kwaye ikhula rhoqo ngendlela yokuba ngokuchaphazela intliziyo yomntu, isazela, iinjongo kunye namandla, iqala ukulimaza yonke into ngaphandle komntu.
Ngale ndlela wenza umonakalo kubudlelwane bakho, umsebenzi kunye notyekelo lwakho lokomoya. Ke ngoko, umthandazo womyeni olinxila sesona sisombululo silungileyo unokusifumana kuloo mntu ukuba alahle zonke izinto ebezibambe intliziyo yakhe.
Ukuhlangulwa ngokomoya kwikhoboka lotywala
Inkululeko yokomoya ibakho xa umntu evula intliziyo yakhe kuThixo ukuze akhuphe nawuphi na umoya ongendawo aze acoce amabala akhula entliziyweni.
Ukuba iqabane lakho lingumKristu kwaye liyaya ecaweni, kulula kakhulu ukulithatha ukuze lihlangulwe ngokomoya.
Indlela esiphuhla ngayo esi senzo ixhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kumntu esenziwa kuye nakumfundisi okanye ibandla elisenzayo. Ngokubanzi, inkululeko yokomoya ivelisa imeko enzulu kakhulu apho umntu aya kuthi achukunyiswe ligazi likaYesu kwaye ngale ndlela uya kusindiswa.
Fumana ukuba kuthetha ukuthini Ubulungisa bukaThixo kunye nokunye kweli khonkco.
Ukuba umyeni wakho akaphindi ebandleni, kuhle ukuba ummeme ukuba abe nenxaxheba kwiiveki ezimbalwa kwiiseshoni zokushumayela eziqhelekileyo kwaye ngelona xesha lifanelekileyo unokuthetha nomfundisi wakho ukuze amenywe ukuba abe yinxalenye yaloo nto. inkqubo.
Ukuba unomdla kweli nqaku ngokuthandazela indoda enxilisayo, siyakumema ukuba ujonge kwiblogi yethu, apho uya kufumana ulwazi onokuthi uzuze ngokukwazi.