Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngendlela yokwenza i Umthandazo wesibini esitshatileyo sisebunzimeni. Awukho umtshato ogqibeleleyo, hlala kwaye siza kubona amanye amagama esinokuphumla ngawo eNkosini.
Umthandazo wesibini esitshatileyo sikwingxaki.
Umtshato kwibhayibhile uthathwa njengento ebalulekileyo. UThixo kwasekuqalekeni wayefuna ukuba uAdam abe neqabane lakhe lothando, intlonipho nembeko, ngendlela efanayo umfazi wayenzelwe ukuba abe sisipho esivela kuThixo esiya endodeni. Wayikhupha emathanjeni akhe, kwiimbambo zakhe, incwadi yeGenesis; Isahluko 2 iivesi 21 kunye ne-22 siyibalisa.
Kodwa ukuhlala njengesibini kuhlala kunzima amaxesha amaninzi. Bangabantu ababini abohlukeneyo abakhuliswe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, abalinganiswa kunye neemfundiso ezizama ukuqhubela phambili, kwaye kwinkqubo yokuqhekeka, amanxeba okanye ukwaphuka okubuhlungu kunokwenzeka.
Enye yeempazamo ezihlala zicetyiswa kwaye zicinga ukuba "ixesha liya kuphilisa" lihlala lithule kwaye lifihle ukuba lo mzuzu odlulayo wentlungu awubuhlungu, awubi nje kuphela kodwa uchasene nomntu kunye nomtshato. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukwenza a Umthandazo wesibini esitshatileyo sisebunzimeni yazini ke ukuba uThixo uyasiva;
Ukuze isiphumo esibuhlungu singafikelelwa, kuyimfuneko ukuba bobabini indoda nomfazi bazithobe ngokupheleleyo kuThixo.
Ukuthobela iNkosi kubalulekile ukuba indoda nomfazi bazi ukuba uThixo ukhona nabo. Ukufunda iLizwi kwaye ube nejenali yakho yokuthandaza yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuzizalisa ngokukhuthaza kunye namandla.
Ukuba unomdla wokwazi ngakumbi ngolawulo lukaThixo kwiimeko, ndiyakumema ukuba ubone inqaku elilandelayo: UThixo ulawula.
Umzekelo wesigwebo somtshato osengxakini.
Kwimigca embalwa elandelayo siza kubonisa iimodeli ezimbini ze umthandazo womtshato kwi ngxaki, ezinokukukhokela ngamaxesha obunzima.
Umthandazo owenziwe ngumyeni.
Thixo uBawo ndifuna ukukubulela ngokundithanda kwakho kangangokuba undivumele ukuba ndibeneqabane lam, kumanyano lomtshato.
ILizwi likaThixo lithi kwiMizekeliso 18:22 “Othe wafumana umfazi, ufumene okulungileyo, uzuze okukholekileyo kuYehova.” Inkosi ikusikelele kakhulu, ukuze ilithande njengoko ulithandayo ibandla, njengoko usitsho kwabase-Efese 5:25 (...) bathandeni abafazi benu, njengokuba naye uKristu walithandayo ibandla, wancama ubomi bakhe ngenxa yalo.
Ndicela impilo yakhe ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo nangokomoya. Zisikelele izandla zakhe nobungakanani beprojekthi ayicebayo, njengoko usitsho kwiMizekeliso 31:18 . «Qaphela ukuba ishishini lihamba kakuhle, kwaye ebusuku usebenza kude kube sebusuku.” Ndicela ukuba ukukhanya kwakho kuhlale kukhanyisa kuyo, ukuze nayo ikhanyise ikhaya lam.
Ngamana uthando lwethu lungaba yintambo ebamanyanisayo. Nkosi yam, yanga singanxibelelana ngentlonipho nolwazelelelo kuzo zonke iimeko. Thatha ubukhosi kwaye ulawule emlonyeni wam. Bawo, undiyalela ukuba ndiyiphathe njengendebe eethe-ethe, njengoko isitsho eyoku-1 kaPetros 3:7.Ke nina madoda, qondani kubafazi benu. Banike imbeko elingana nabo, nikhumbula ukuba bathe thaa, yaye babizelwe ukwabelana nani ubomi aya kubanika bona njengelifa. Yenzani ngolu hlobo ukuze ningathinteli enu imithandazo».
Beka kuyo intliziyo ethantamisayo ephantsi kwakho kuqala. Ngamana uMoya wakho oyiNgcwele ukumgubungela ngokupheleleyo.
Ngamana singaba omnye komnye kwaye zombini kuKristu. Konke oku ndikucela ngegama likaKrestu Yesu amen.
Umthandazo owenziwe ngumfazi.
Nkosi endimthandayo, ndiyabulela ngomyeni wam. Undisikelele ngale ndoda ndiyithanda kakhulu. Ndicela impilo yakho yokomoya, yomzimba neyomphefumlo. Ndifuna ukuba ube liziko ebomini bakhe, ukuze akwazi kakuhle ngokunzulu kuba ndiyazi ukuba xa ekwazi kakuhle uya kuba nako ukundithanda njengokuba ulithanda ibandla (Kwabase-Efese 5:25).
Sikelela onke amashishini kunye neeprojekthi, ngaye usikelela iimali zekhaya, ndicela ukuba idilesi yakho ingaze isilele.
Bawo ndicela ukuba uthando lwakho luthululelwe kuthi sobabini, ngohlobo lokuba sithandane kwaye sobabini nawe Nkosi, egameni elimnandi likaYesu. Amen.
Ukuba ufuna ukubona ukuba ibhayibhile ilubonisa njani uthando phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, ndincoma ukuba ubukele le vidiyo ilandelayo, ibhekisa kwincwadi yeNgoma yazo iiNgoma.