Kuba xa umthanda umntu, ufuna impilontle yakhe ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto, oku Umthandazo wesibiniNgumthandazo wothando. Xa ukwixesha elibi neqabane lakho, thandaza nje, ucele uThixo ukuba akhokele kwaye akunike amandla okujongana neemeko.
Umthandazo wesibini
Simele sitsho ukuba uthando lwesibini luyimvakalelo efanayo esekelwe ekuthembekeni nasekuhlonipheni, kufuneka kubekho ukuthembana kunye nokulungelelana kuzo zombini. Ke ngoko, uthando lwesibini lubhekiselele kubudlelwane bomphefumlo apho abantu baziva belungile ukwabelana ngobomi babo kunye neeprojekthi nabanye abantu ababonelela ngenkxaso, iingcebiso kunye nentlonipho.
Uthando luvakalelo lwendalo yonke, wonke umntu unamandla okuva namava omnye umntu, isilwanyana okanye into. Nangona kunjalo, uthando lwesibini aluvali nje ibhabhathane esiswini, kodwa luthetha ukuzibophelela, ukuqonda kunye nokuhlonipha indawo yomntu.
Ngamanye amazwi, uthando njengesibini yimvakalelo eqokelelayo kwaye yomeleza ngokuhamba kwexesha, yiyo loo nto ihluke eluthandweni ekuqaleni kokubona, inkanuko edlulayo okanye imfuno yokuxhomekeka.
Ke kufuneka sithandaze kuThixo ukuba aqinise ubudlelwane, makhe sibone eminye imithandazo:
Imithandazo
Xa siziva ukuba uthando lomlingo lubizwa ngokuba luthando, kwenzeka into entle kakhulu. Ngaphandle kokuqaphela oku, siqala ukuthandazela iqabane lethu elineemvakalelo.
Ekuthuleni okanye ekuhlebeni komthandazo, sixelela uThixo iqabane lethu. Siyakucela ukuba umkhusele, umvumele afezekise iphupha lakhe, enze zonke iiprojekthi kunye neminqweno yakhe ibe yinyaniso, kwaye ujonge impilo yakhe. Sathandaza kuThixo ukuba asivumele siqhubeke sithandana.
Ndinombulelo ngawo onke la maxesha siye sawonwabela ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ngoncumo kunye nokuncamisa, ukwanga kunye namazwi okukhuthaza. Enkosi, kuba oko wangena ebomini bam, ndiziva ndonwabile. Mandimthande njengoko anjalo, ukulula kwakhe, italente yakhe, iziphene zakhe kunye nemiqobo. Ndiyathemba ukumthanda kwaye andincede ndimthande.
Uthando lwethu malususe ukuzingca nenzondo. Ubuxoki okanye inkohliso. Nkosi, musa ukuvumela imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla igqume iimvakalelo zethu, okanye ngenye imini uncumo lwakho okanye ukuphulula kwakho akusayi kuphinda kubonakale ngokwaneleyo kum.
Ubumnandi bukaMariya kunye nomonde kaYosefu kwayizalisa intliziyo yam. Ndifundise ukuba nothando, ububele nokunceda. Ngamana uthando lwakho oluncinci lungafumaneka kum. Ndiya kuba likhusi lakho ngemihla yengqele nangemihla yobumnyama. Xa usizi nokudana kuchukumisa intliziyo yakho, ndikhona ukuze ndikuthuthuzele. Ngamana umnqweno wam wokuthanda ungamkhulu kunomnqweno wokuncama yonke into. Yanelisa uthando lwethu, ukuba ngumnqweno wakho lowo, sibonise indlela osibekele yona. Amen. «
Mfundi othandekayo, silandele kwaye ufunde: Umthandazo womtshato osengxakini.
