Ukuba ufuna loo ndoda ifanelekileyo okanye uthanda kakhulu ukuba nawe okanye ucinga ngawe ngalo lonke ixesha, yazi umthandazo wokuphelelwa lithemba indoda ngemizuzu. KuMandla oMoya, sichaza iindlela ezahlukeneyo onokuthi uzenze xa uzifuna.
Umthandazo wokuphelelwa lithemba indoda ngemizuzu
Uya kumangaliswa kukwazi ukuba kukho umthandazo wokuphelelwa lithemba kwindoda ngemizuzu, ke ukuba ungomnye wabo bafuna ukuba kufutshane naloo mntu ufunayo okanye uzive nje umtsalane omkhulu, nokuba ucinga ukuba kunokuba njalo. iqabane lakho lomphefumlo, ungawuthandaza
Ingcamango yokwenza umthandazo wokuqhuba indoda ukuba iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu kukuba ivakalelwa kukuba inomdla kuwe kwaye ayiyeki ukucinga ngawe. Ngokusebenzisa amandla athile uya kuziva umnqweno wokukukhangela kwaye uzame ukuba kunye.
Kukho abo bacinga ukuba ngumthandazo obhekiswa kumoya wokuphelelwa lithemba, ekubeni uya kukunceda ukuba le ndoda itsaleleke ngokupheleleyo kuwe, kangangokuba iya kufuna ukukukhangela.
Umbono kukuba wenza umthandazo wokuqhuba indoda ukuba iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu, ngokunzulu kakhulu. Oku kukunika amandla akhethekileyo, kodwa kuya kuxhomekeka kwinto oyifunayo ngokwenene xa uyithandazela.
Ngumthandazo oye waba yimpumelelo kwabo batsaleleke ngokupheleleyo komnye umntu nabafuna ukuba bavakalelwe ngendlela efanayo, oko kukuthi, ukutsaleleka omnye komnye. Iphinde yathandazwa ngabo bahamba nengxaki njengesibini kwaye bafuna uthando luphinde luphile, ukuze ubudlelwane buqhubeke nokuvela.
Enyanisweni, lo mthandazo unokuthandaza xa ufuna ukususa umntu osoloko ekwenzakalisa okanye ongakuphathi kakuhle, ukuze uzikhulule kuye uze ufumane umntu oza kukuxabisa ngokwenene. Okubalulekileyo kukuba ngalo lonke ixesha uyigcine engqondweni injongo yaloo nto uya kuyithandazela.
Nangona umthandazo wokwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu ubonakala ungakholeleki kuwe, kufuneka ukhatshwe zizenzo eziwuvumelayo ukuba usebenze. Oko kukuthi, kuya kufuneka utshintshe eminye imiba ukuze yonke into ihambe.
Enye yezi nkalo kukutshintsha isimo sengqondo, ingakumbi indlela omphatha ngayo loo mntu. Cinga ngonxibelelwano phakathi kwenu nobabini, ukuba kukho ukusondelelana, ukuthembana okanye nokuba uye waqaphela ukuba unokuziva ngendlela efanayo ngawe.
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba, ukuba ngaphambili ubunguye obezama ukufumana ingqalelo yakhe, unazo zonke iintlobo zeenkcukacha kunye naye, umfunile, wabhala okanye wenza nantoni na ukuze umbone, kufuneka utshintshe indlela yokwenza. Ngoko kuya kufuneka wenze okuchaseneyo, ade abe nguye okukhangelayo okanye enze konke okusemandleni ukufumana ingqalelo yakho.
Ngale ndlela, uya kwazi kwakhona ukuba isivakalisi sisebenzele ukuqhuba indoda ukuba iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu. Kuba ukuba uqhubeka unguye owenza yonke into, isimo sakhe sengqondo siya kuhlala sinjalo, ngaphandle kokuba umnika isizathu esithile sokuba ibe nguye okukhangelayo.
Kodwa ukuba kwenzeka ngokuchaseneyo, oko kukuthi, awuzange wenze nantoni na ngaphambili ukuze uthabathe ingqalelo yakhe, kuya kufuneka uqale ukwenza konke okusemandleni ukusondela kuye okanye ubuncinane ubonise ukuba unomdla kuye. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba kukho inyathelo lokuqala ukuze yonke into iqale ukuhamba. Yazi kwakhona umthandazo wokuba andifune enyanyeni.
Thandaza kumoya ongenamonde
Le yinxalenye yento enxulumene nomthandazo wokwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu kwaye kufuneka uwuthandazele unike ingqwalasela. Kukwabalulekile ukuba wenze isiko elithile ukuze yonke into isebenze njengoko uthanda.
Into yokuqala omele uyenze kukukhanyisa ikhandlela elibomvu kwaye uthandaze iintsuku ezisixhenxe. Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba oku kuya kuba nokuguquguquka okuninzi kwaye injongo othandaza ngayo kuyo iqale ukwenzeka.
Emva kokuba ikhandlela lilayitiwe, kufuneka uthi:
Moya wamathandabuzo namandla, ndicela undincede, moya ongenamonde, ngalo mzuzu ndicengceleza la mazwi ukuba umamele kwaye undixhase, moya woloyiso.
Ndifuna nenkxaso yoMoya kaJuan Minero, kunye naleyo yothando, leyo kaDon Juan inika uloyiso, lowo weSan Marco de León, imfesane kaSaint Elena waseYerusalem, uMarta onomsindo, lowo imimoya emine, iindlela kunye neendawo kwaye ngokukodwa uthando, ukubonakalisa kunye nokundinceda ngeli xesha.
Umoya onovelwano kunye nokuzinikela, umtsalane kaSalvador de la Horta kunye noMaría Cabeza, ndifuna uncedo lwakho ngeli xesha kwaye ndicela ukuba undinike inkxaso yakho.
Kwakhona umoya ophilayo, iingcinga zobulumko kunye nomnqweno, uzazi zonke iimvakalelo, ndicela ukuba undixhase ngeli xesha kwaye undincede ndisebenzise amandla (kufuneka uchaze igama lomntu omfunayo), ndicela ngokupheleleyo ukuba ingcwele yalemini ndimamele.
Ndicela ungcwele wemini yokuzalwa kwam nongcwele wemini endazalwa (uphinde ulibize igama lalomntu umfunayo), ndicela inxaso kwiingelosi zethu ezisigcinileyo ndenze umnikelo welikhandlela so ukuba umzimba womntu endiwufunayo, uzive umtsalane ofanayo kunye nomnqweno kum. Kwakhona ukuba ufuna ukundiphulula kwaye asondele kum.
Kwangathi amalungu akhe angasese angavuya xa endibona acinge ngam qha angandicingeli nabanye abantu. Kwanokuba usoloko ecinga ngam, ukuze umnqweno wakhe, ingqondo nengqiqo ibe kum. Ngendlela efanayo, ukuba iinyawo zakhe zifuna ukuza apho ndikhoyo kwaye zisondele kakhulu kum ngamaxesha onke.
Kuni nonke bomoya, ndiyanicela ukuba nindinike amandla okulawula intando yam (ukwaphinda achaze umntu amfunayo), ukuze ndim ndedwa amfunayo nanqwenelekayo. Ndithandazela nabangcwele ukuba bandixhase, ngakumbi ukuba uthando lwabo lube ngolwam, lulufanele ukuba sibe nalo sobabini.
Umthandazo wokuba aphelelwe ngumonde kwaye andifune ngokukhawuleza
Ngalo mthandazo wokuphelelwa ithemba indoda ngemizuzu uya kumenza afune ukukukhangela ngokukhawuleza kwaye usondele kuwe ngamaxesha onke. Ukuba yile nto uyifunayo, thandaza ngokunzulu kwaye rhoqo ukuze ubone iziphumo.
Xa umntu ethandana, uziva enqwenela ukuba angabi naloo mntu amfuna kakhulu. Ngoko ke, uya kwenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukuze babe kunye nokuba bavakalelwa ngokufanayo omnye komnye.
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuyenza kukuthandaza lo mthandazo ukwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu kwaye uya kubona ukuba, ekuhambeni kwexesha, iya kuqala njani ukuba nomdla kuwe. Uya kukhangela nasiphi na isizathu ukuze bathethe baze babe nolwalamano olusondeleyo.
Lo mthandazo ngowoThixokazi wothando, uAphrodite. Enamandla okwenza nawuphi na umntu azive enqwenela ukuba kufutshane nalo mntu amfunayo. Ke ihambelana kakhulu nento oyifunayo, ukuba umntu ofanelekileyo kuwe usecaleni kwakho.
Kufuneka ucinge ukuba kungcono ukuthandaza lo mthandazo kuphela xa kuyimfuneko kakhulu. Oko kukuthi, xa isiganeko okanye ukuphazamiseka kwenzekile okwakunamandla kakhulu kwaye ufuna ukuyisombulula ngokukhawuleza.
Lo mthandazo wokwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu, kufuneka uhlale unayo nabanye, kodwa ungalibali ukuba kufuneka uye kuyo kuphela xa uyifuna ngokwenene.
Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka uhlalutye kakuhle okwenzekileyo kwaye kulapho ke uya kwazi ukuba kufanelekile okanye ungayithandazi.
Aphrodite, ndibhalela wena olawula ngokupheleleyo kwimibandela ephathelele uthando, ndicela uncedo lwakho (igama lomntu omfunayo) ukuze ungandihoyi, ekubeni usazi ukuba andifanelanga ukuba ndiphathwe ngolo hlobo. . Ebendiphepha lomntu akandihoyanga akandijongi and even less he feel attraction against me.
Ngoko ke ndinibhalela ukuze (khankanya igama lalowo umfunayo kwakhona) acinge ngam ngamaxesha onke. Kwakhona ukuba nomonde ungabi nam kwaye naxa sikufutshane. Ukuba uziva ngale ndlela bendiziva ngayo kwicala lakho.
(Chaza igama lalo mntu umfunayo kwakhona) Uyadinga ukuba sibe kunye, ndicela ukuba umbonise amandla akho amakhulu, azive engahoywanga njengam. Ndiyazi ukuba uya kundiphulaphula undincede. Ndiyalubulela uncedo lwakho thixokazi.
Umthandazo wokuba ndikubize ngokukhawuleza
Lo mthandazo wokwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu unamandla kangangokuba kukho abo bafumene isiphumo esikhawulezileyo. Ngoko thandaza ngenyameko kwaye uya kubona iziphumo ezithandekayo, ukuze oko ukucelileyo kuzaliseke.
Enyanisweni, akusekelwanga ekukhankaseni amabinzana okanye amagama, kunoko kukwenza izinto ezithile ukuze indlela ovakalelwa ngayo ngaloo mntu uyifunayo ihambe kakuhle. Ukuze ukwazi ukwenza oku, kufuneka ube nogxininiso oluninzi kwaye ngaloo ndlela uya kuba neziphumo ezingcono.
Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukucinga malunga nento oyifunayo kwaye ufuna ukuziva ngalo mntu, oko ucinga ukuba uziva naye. Ukuze ufezekise oku, kufuneka ubonakalise kakuhle kwaye ugqibe ngokufanelekileyo iingcamango zakho.
Nje ukuba ucinge ngayo, kuya kufuneka ucele uncedo kwiRay yokukhanya, ukuze ikhuphe nayiphi na imeko, ingcinga okanye imvakalelo engakuvumeli ukuba usondele kumntu omfunayo. Injongo kukuba loo mntu abe nomnqweno omkhulu kuwe kwaye uzive umnqweno ongenamonde wokukubiza, kunye nokukuthanda kwaye uhlale unawe, kuphela kunye nawe kwaye ngaphandle kokucinga omnye umntu.
Cela imvume kuThixo, uMikayeli oNgcwele, uGabriyeli oNgcwele kunye nengelosi yakho engumgcini ukuba bakuthethelele. Ngale ndlela uya kuliva igama lakho njengokuhlebeza kwaye ngokuzenzekelayo, uya kuqala ukucinga ngawe kwaye azive njengothando lwakhe olufanelekileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuyilawula iminqweno yabo. Funda ngakumbi malunga ne umthandazo wokuphelelwa lithemba.
Umthandazo kuSaint Cipriano ukuba angabi namonde
Ngalo mthandazo wokwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu, uya kumenza loo mntu umfunayo nomthandayo acinge ngawe ngamaxesha onke kwaye afune ukuba secaleni kwakho ngamaxesha onke. Yenza ngokugxininise kakhulu, ukuze ube nemiphumo emihle.
Uyingcwele kubo bonke abangcwele, kuwe esikubona njengoyena unamandla phakathi kwabanamandla, ngalo mzuzu ndithetha nawe, ngalo lonke ukholo endinalo lokuba uzifake kwiingcinga, umzimba kunye nomphefumlo (khankanya igama le umntu omfunayo), ukuze uzive uphelelwa ngumonde ngokufuna ukuba nam ngamaxesha onke, yiba nomnqweno womzimba wam nokuba ndim lo usezingqondweni ngamaxesha onke.
Ndiyabulela ngokuzalisekisa uvuyo lokuba (khankanya umntu omfunayo) azive engenamonde xa ekufuphi nam okanye xa endikhumbula kakhulu yaye engenakuba nam.
Xa usiya kubulela inceba oyifumeneyo, kufuneka ulayite ikhandlela elibomvu kwangobo busuku. Oku kufuneka ukwenze xa kumnyama kakhulu.
Ukunikezela eSan Cipriano
Xa usenza umthandazo wokwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu, ekhankanywe ngasentla, kulungele ukuba uqwalasele iinkalo ezibalulekileyo. Eziyimfuneko ukuze uncedo olucelayo luzaliseke.
Kufuneka unike ingcwele ikhandlela elibomvu, kodwa emva kokutshona kwelanga. Nokuba uthandazela phi na lo mthandazo, kufuneka usoloko uwenza loo mnikelo ebusuku nangosuku olunye lomthandazo.
Ngokuchaseneyo nendlela abantu abaninzi abacinga ngayo, ukuba okukhona uthandaza, kokukhona ubabalo lwakho luya kuzalisekiswa, kwimeko yalo mthandazo, ukuwuthandazela kube kanye kuya kwanela. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uyenza ngogxininiso oluninzi kwaye ngokukodwa ukwenza umnikelo ngexesha elikhankanyiweyo.
Kodwa ukuba into oyifunayo kukuthandaza lo mthandazo ngamaxesha amaninzi, kufuneka uhlale ukhumbula ukuba rhoqo xa uthandaza, kufuneka unikele ikhandlela elibomvu. Ngoko unokwenza umthandazo omnye kuphela ngosuku, kuba khumbula ukuba kufuneka ukhanyise ikhandlela emva kobumnyama.
Umthandazo wengcinga ukuze indoda okanye ibhinqa liphelelwe lithemba
Umthandazo wokwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba unokwenziwa ngeendlela ezahlukahlukeneyo, njengalezi zibhalwe ngasentla. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ngaphambi kokwenza oko kufuneka ucinge ngesizathu sokuba uza kuwuthandazela kunye noko ufuna ukucela ngokukhethekileyo.
Le mithandazo inokubhekiswa kubo bobabini abasetyhini kunye namadoda, kuba injongo kukuba abo bantu bakhethekileyo baziva bengenamonde wokuba nawe kwaye, ukongeza koko, bafuna ukukubona ngalo lonke ixesha.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uthandaze kumoya wesizinda, ukuze ucele inkxaso yabo. Ngale ndlela, uya kuqiniseka ukuba umntu omfunayo uya kuhlala ecinga ngawe yaye uya kufuna ukuba secaleni kwakho. Ngumthandazo onokuthi usebenze ngokukhawuleza.
Umthandazo wokucinga kuSan Marcos de León
Ngumthandazo wokuba ucele ukuba lo mntu umfunayo angayeki ukucinga ngawe, angakwazi nokulala kuba uhlala usezingcingeni zakhe.
Kuya kufuneka uthandaze lo mthandazo uqhube indoda ukuba iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu, kwisithuba sobusuku obuthathu obuqhubekayo. Emva kokuba ixesha lidlulile, loo mntu akayi kukwazi ukulala ngokufanelekileyo, ngokucinga ngawe kakhulu kwaye uya kuziva unomnqweno omkhulu wokukubiza.
umthandazo wengcinga enamandla
Ngalo mthandazo kufuneka ucele ingcinga yomntu omfunayo, kunye nokucela uncedo oluvela eSan Marcos de León, ukuze umntu azive enomtsalane kakhulu kuwe kwaye uhlala enawe kwiingcinga zakhe.
Ekugqibeleni, kufuneka uliphindaphinde ibinzana kathathu khawucinge ngam. Ilandelwe ngu Egameni loYise, loNyana neloMoya oyiNgcwele.
Umthandazo kuDon Juan wengcinga
Lo mthandazo wokuqhuba indoda ukuba iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu nayo kufuneka uhambe nomnikelo. Ngoko ngaphambi kokuba uyenzile, thatha isigqibo ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokuyenza kwaye, kule meko, uthenge ikhandlela. Kubalulekile ukuba wenze njalo ngokungaguquguqukiyo ngexesha elimiselweyo.
Kufuneka ufumane amakhandlela abhlowu asi-7. Ngoko ke, umthandazo kufuneka wenziwe ngeveki, ukukhanyisa ikhandlela elinye ngosuku. Emva kokuba ikhandlela lilayitiwe, ubuza umntu ongcwele ukuba umntu omfunayo ucinga ngawe ngamaxesha onke kwaye uza kukukhangela ngokukhawuleza.
Ngumthandazo osebenzayo, wokuba loo mntu ahlale esecaleni kwakho. Thandaza ngogxininiso olukhulu kwaye ukhanyise ikhandlela elihambelanayo suku ngalunye.
7 iingcinga zomthandazo
Ngaphambi kokwenza lo mthandazo ukwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu, kuya kufuneka ufumane zonke izinto ezibonisiweyo. Ukuze wenze oku, babeke kwindawo ethile, ukuze nibazalise ngexesha lomthandazo.
Kufuneka ubhale kwikhandlela elityheli igama laloo mntu umfunayo (nokuba yindoda okanye ngumfazi). Okulandelayo kufuneka ukhanyise ikhandlela ekuhambeni kwemizuzu emi-3, kuphela ngelo xesha, uze ucime ikhandlela.
Emva kokuba ikhandlela licinyiwe kufuneka ususe i-wick kwelinye icala. Emva kokuba ukhuphe i-fuse, kufuneka ube nokugxininiswa okukhulu, kubalulekile ukuba oku kwindawo ethule kakhulu ukwenzela ukuba ugweme naluphi na uhlobo lokuphazamiseka.
Kufuneka ugxininise ngokukodwa kwiingcamango ezi-7, njengoko i-fuse ivutha ngokupheleleyo, thetha la magama alandelayo:
Iingcinga ezi-7 kufuneka ndifumane, kuphela loo mali yeengcinga ezivela (khankanya igama lomntu ofunekayo). Ndiyakucela ukuba zonke iingcinga zakho kunye neminqweno yakho isuke kum kwaye uzive unomtsalane kum.
Imithandazo yokulawula kwaye ube naloo mntu ecaleni kwakho
Lo mthandazo wokwenza indoda iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu, uya kukwenza uhlale unaye ecaleni kwakho. Kufuneka uyenze ngogxininiso oluninzi ukuze amandla abe mkhulu. Kufuneka uwuthandaze kwakhona ngexesha elichaziweyo.
Umthandazo kumphefumlo wodwa ukuba ulawule umntu ofunekayo
Ngokucengcelezwa kwalo mthandazo, uya kukwazi ukuba nalo mntu usoloko enawe, baya kuqala ukuziva benomtsalane kuwe kwaye bafune ukuba nawe ngalo lonke ixesha. Kufuneka uthandaze iveki yonke.
Umthandazo kwisandla esinamandla sothando
Lo ngomnye wemithandazo onokuthi uyenze njengomthandazo wokuqhuba indoda ukuba iphelelwe lithemba ngemizuzu. Ukuba uthandaza ngokufanelekileyo uya kumenza loo mntu umfunayo ngokulangazelela kakhulu ukuba akuthande ngokupheleleyo kwaye kukho umtsalane omnye komnye.
Thandaza ku-Saint Catherine ukuba abe nalo mntu ecaleni kwakho okanye aphinde afumane uthando olukhulu
Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba lo ngumthandazo opheleleyo wesizinda, ke ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuwuthandaza, kuya kufuneka uzimisele malunga nento ofuna ukuyicela. Ukwenza oku, cinga ngaphambili malunga nendlela oziva ngayo kunye nento ofuna ukuyiphumeza nelo banjwa.
Kuya kufuneka uthandaze ngokholo olukhulu kuSanta Catalina ngeentsuku ezili-9. Emva kokuba lonke eli xesha lidlule, uya kuqinisekisa ukuba iqabane lakho lihlala likuwe okanye ukuba uthando lwangaphambili ofuna ukulubuyisela lubuyela kuwe. Kubalulekile ukuba ucinge kakuhle ngaloo mntu ufuna ukumtsala ukuze oko ukucelayo ngalo mthandazo kufezekiswe ngempumelelo.
Umthandazo kuPomba Gira ukuba uphelelwe lithemba
Abaninzi bawugqala lo njengowona mthandazo ubalaseleyo wokuqhuba indoda ukuba iphelelwe lithemba, njengoko baye bayibona imiphumo ngokukhawuleza. Ke ungayenza nanini na xa ufuna loo mntu ukhethekileyo umfuna kakhulu ukuba asoloko enawe kwaye ecinga ngawe ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ukuba ubuthanda ulwazi olukweli nqaku, unokuba nomdla wokwazi ngakumbi malunga ne Pomba Gira Maria Padilha umthandazo wothando lokwenyani.