Kweli nqaku siza kukwazisa kuMthandazo wokuPhilisa kunye nokuKhululwa, ukucela uncedo lwaBantu bonke, xa unengxaki yezempilo okanye othandekayo egula. Siyakumema ukuba uqhubeke ufunda, ekubeni imeko entle yomzimba ikwenza ukwazi ukwenza yonke imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla, yaye ngenxa yoko iNkosi isoloko ikho ukuze ikunyamekele.
Umthandazo wokuphilisa kwabagulayo
Okulandelayo, sibonisa umthandazo ophilisayo, ukuze ucele ukuchacha ngokukhawuleza komntu ogulayo, esithi:
“UThixo Bawo onamandla onke, umthombo wempilo nentuthuzelo, uthe “ndim okunika impilo”.
Siza kuwe, Nkosi, ngenxa yokuba esi sifo sibangele ukuba buthathaka emzimbeni wethu, ngoko ke ndicela ukuba ubenzele inceba abo bangenawo amandla, babuyisele impilo yabo, ukuze baphile kwakhona. Ivumela unyango lwezonyango ukuba lusebenze kubo, ngaphandle kokushiya nayiphi na imiphumo yokubambisa. Siyakucela ukuba wenze into amayeza angenako ukuyenza.
Yenza ummangaliso wothando lwakho kwaye ubanike impilo yomzimba, yengqondo kunye nomphefumlo, ukuze bangaguli kwaye baphinde bazuze amandla abo. Kwaye ukuze ndibe senkonzweni yakho kunye nabazalwana bethu. Oku sikucela kuNyana wakho uMesiya, kunye noyena mama ungcwele kunye nomoya oyingcwele, ophilayo nolawula ngonaphakade. Amen.
Wenza nini lo Mthandazo?
Singawuthetha lo mthandazo wokuphilisa ngalo naliphi na ixesha lemini, nanini na xa kuyimfuneko ukuva ubukho boSomandla, ukuthethela nokubuyisela impilo entle, nokuphilisa izifo zethu okanye zeentsapho zethu, abahlobo bethu okanye izalamane zethu. Kwakhona sinokuthandazela nabani na ogulayo esicinga ukuba kufuneka simthandazele.
Kutheni uthandazela Umthandazo Ophilisayo?
Omnye wemixholo ehlala isemithandazweni yethu yimpilo. Yaye kungenxa yokuba kuya kuxhomekeka kwimeko yethu yomzimba nengokweemvakalelo ukuze siphile ubomi obupheleleyo. Ukuba ngoku ukhathazwa yimpilo, ilungu lentsapho okanye umntu omthandayo, ngokuqinisekileyo ucinga ngokuthandazela abagulayo uze ngaloo ndlela ufumane intuthuzelo yokomoya ngenxa yempilo enkenenkene.
Uwenza njani uMthandazo wokuPhilisa kunye nokuKhululwa?
Eyona nto iphambili ekufuneka uyiqwalasele xa uthandaza umthandazo wokuphilisa kunye nenkululeko lukholo abalubeka kwizicelo zakho, olubonakaliswe kwizibhalo ezingcwele, ngakumbi kwi:
Yakobi 5:16 : Xelelanani izono zenu omnye komnye, nithandazelane, ukuze niphiliswe. Umthandazo onyanisekileyo wamalungisa unamandla amakhulu.
Amandla omthandazo wokuphiliswa kunye nenkululeko nawo anxulunyaniswa nathi ukuba sibe nobulungisa kwaye sibe noxolo lwangaphakathi, ukuze olu nxibelelwano lungcwele kunye noPhakamileyo lusebenze ngakumbi. Kufuneka sibe nonxibelelwano kunye noPhakamileyo kwaye sihambisane nesakramente. Uvumo lwezono rhoqo, ukubhiyozelwa kweMisa eNgcwele, ukunqulwa koMthendeleko oNgcwele, ngokufutshane, ukukhonza iNkosi nokwakha ubukumkani bukabawo.
Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ilizwi loPhezukonke, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukuthandaza kunye nelizwi, ukulifunda imihla ngemihla, nokuba yindinyana nje, kodwa masenze njengesiseko sobomi bethu. Kwakhona, sinokunikela ngokuzila ukutya kunye nesisa, kuba kusinika amandla amakhulu kuwo wonke umlo womthandazo wokuphiliswa kunye nenkululeko.
Umthandazo wemihla ngemihla kuMoya woPhezukonke unceda unxibelelwano kunye nolwalamano olusenyongweni naye. Kufuneka sifune eyona mfuno iphezulu nepheleleyo yobabalo oluNgcwele, oluthi lona ngokwalo libe ngumthombo onamandla kakhulu wempiliso nenkululeko.
Iingcebiso zokuthandaza umthandazo wokuhlangula
Ukugqiba eli nqaku, kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni uthotho lweengcebiso eziluncedo kakhulu xa usenza umthandazo ngamnye wokuphilisa kunye nenkululeko. Ngoko ke, siya kukhankanya oku kulandelayo:
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukufumana indawo ezolileyo nevisisanayo yokuthandaza. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba akukho ngxolo kwindawo ephazamisa umzuzu womthandazo.
Okwesibini, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ulungiselele indawo ekuthethwa ngayo: imifanekiso yenkolo, amakhandlela, isiqhumiso kwaye ukuba uyathanda, unokongeza umculo ophumlayo. Kakade ke, umnqweno nokholo ekwenzeni ezi zicelo akufanele kuswelekile.
Okwesithathu, khumbula emthandazweni ukuhlangulwa ukubiza igama (bathi igama abagulayo), ubhaptiziwe kwaye ngenxa yam ubhaptizo kubudlelane neCawa emntwini Pope.
Okwesine, biza igama, amanxeba, kunye neGazi likaYesu, kuba asinakufumana kuphiliswa kunye nokukhathalelwa ngaphandle kwegama likaYesu. Masiphinde sicele ukuncenga okunamandla kukaMama kaMesiya, ngakumbi ngeenyembezi zakhe zegazi, njengoko kungqinwa ngokubonakala kwakhe eSalette.
Okwesihlanu, emva kwesibongozo, utsalela kumandla okulwa eengelosi eziziingelosi kunye neengelosi, ngakumbi ecela amandla okulwa kaMikhayeli uMphathi weengelosi. Kukho iidemon ezinokuthi zitshatyalaliswe kuphela ngamandla okulwa kaSaint Michael ingelosi enkulu.
Okwesithandathu, ukugqiba njengesiqhelo, kuhle ukuba nombulelo ngezipho eziya kufunyanwa ngokuzingisa ukwenza zonke iintlobo zemithandazo ephilisayo, ekhokelela ekuchacheni ngokukhawuleza kwempilo yethu kunye/okanye nomntu esimthandayo okufunayo.
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba xa umthandazo wokuphiliswa nokuchacha unikelwa ngephanyazo, baya kuphiliswa baze bakhululwe. Siya kusoloko sikhululekile yaye siphilisiwe, kodwa asifanele silibale ukuba sisehlabathini nokuba sithwaxwa ziimpazamo, ubuthathaka, ubungendawo nobuthathaka benyama. Ke ngoko, umthandazo wokuphiliswa kunye nenkululeko kufuneka ube ngokusisigxina, mihla le kwaye ungaguquguquki, njengophawu lokuxhomekeka kwethu ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo kwinceba yeNkosi.
Siyathemba ukuba ulithandile eli nqaku kuMthandazo oMmangaliso wokuPhilisa nokuKhululwa. Sicebisa ezi zihloko zilandelayo: