Umfazi othobelayo kuThixo uhlala efuna ukwenza ukuthanda kwakhe. INkosi ichaza eLizwini layo ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumfazi onesidima. Ngaba uyazazi iimpawu zomfazi onesidima? Funda ngale post malunga nenkcazo yobuKristu malunga neNgcaciso Engcwele inombolo 31.
Umfazi onesidima
Incwadi yeMizekeliso kwisahluko 31 ithetha ngomfazi onesidima. Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyibalule kukuba ijongene nesimilo sabasetyhini.
Igama elilungileyo livela kwisiGrike chayil Oko kuthetha ukuba woyisile, ukhaliphile, womelele kwaye ukhaliphile, umfazi oligorha. Ukuqonda ukuba ungubani umfazi olungileyo, kufuneka ke sicofe iimpawu zakhe kwisimilo.
Ngokubanzi, singathi umfazi olungileyo ngumntu ophila ngokwentando kaThixo. Ngenxa yokuthobela kwakhe iLizwi, ungumfazi osikelelwe yiNkosi. Bonke abo bafazi bazinikelayo enkonzweni kaThixo baba yintsikelelo kumyeni wabo, usapho, abahlobo, abantu abasebenza nabo, phakathi kwabanye. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi ngecebo eligqibeleleyo likaThixo lomntu ngamnye, ngenisa eli khonkco lilandelayo Mfazi kaThixo
NgokweBhayibhile, ngokukodwa kwiMizekeliso Engcwele engamashumi amathathu ananye (31), the iimpawu zomfazi onesidima. Ngale ndlela, siza kuqwalasela uhlalutyo lomfazi onesidima ekukhanyeni kweLizwi likaThixo.
Iimpawu zomfazi onesidima
Xa sijonga a inkcazo elungileyo yomfazi Kuya kufuneka siye kumthombo wokuqala ojongana nomcimbi. Kule meko, iBhayibhile ichaza ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba ngumfazi onesidima. Ukuze ube nakho ukwenza ifayile ye- imbonakalo yomfazi onesidima Siza kuhlalutya iimpawu ezibalaseleyo kwiMizekeliso 31.
Oxabisekileyo umfazi
IMizekeliso 31: 10
10 Umfazi onesidima, ngubani na oya kumfumana?
Kungenxa yokuba ixabiso labo lingaphezulu lee kunamatye axabisekileyo.
Umzekeliso wama-31 uqala ngokubhekisele kwixabiso lomfazi onesidima. Ayinakuthelekiswa nexabiso lerubhi, okanye i-emerald, okanye amatye amaninzi axabisekileyo kunye, kuba ixabiso lalo mfazi lingaphezulu kwexabiso lezi zixhobo.
Ukuba sijonga le vesi ngocoselelo, sifuna ukuba igama elithi amatye likwisininzi. Oko kuthetha ukuba ixabiso lomfazi onesidima lingaphezulu kwexabiso lawo onke amatye axabisekileyo adityanisiweyo. Ikwathetha ngabasetyhini kwisinye. Ukuba sijonga imeko yomfazi emtshatweni, oko kubhekisa emfazini.
Ukuba sithetha ngomfazi osebenzayo onesidima, sithetha ukuba ungumfazi ongumKristu othobela imithetho kaThixo njalo njalo.
Umfazi othembekileyo
IMizekeliso 31: 11-12
11 Ikholose ngentliziyo yendoda yakhe,
Kwaye akasayi kuswela umvuzo.12 Umnika okuhle kwaye kungalunganga
Yonke imihla yobomi bakhe.
Ngokuphathelene noku, iyabonisa ukuba umfazi olungileyo uthembekile kokubini engqondweni nasentliziyweni. Akayihlazisi indoda yakhe, nendlu yakhe. Indoda enomfazi onesidima njengoncedo olufanelekileyo uzolile kwaye uyazithemba, kuba uyazi ukuba uya kuthembeka kuye emtshatweni, emalini, kulawulo lwepropathi, phakathi kwabanye.
Xa uMoya oyiNgcwele egxininisa ukuba intliziyo yomyeni wakhe ithembekile, uthetha ukuba useluxolweni, ukhuselekile, uzolile. Umfazi onesidima uyakwazi ukuxolela. Qonda ukuba uthando lungenza yonke into. Imalunga nomfazi oqondayo ukuba intloko yendlu yakhe yindoda kwaye uyazithoba kwelo gunya.
Eyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 4-7
Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, lunobubele. Uthando alunamona, alugwagwisi; Akakho ngqwabalala, akazingci, akacaphuki msinya, akabambeki ingqumbo. Uthando aluvuyeli bubi, luvuyisana nenyaniso. Uxolela yonke into, akholelwe yonke into, alindele yonke into, axhase yonke into.
Hebhere 13:4
4 Umtshato mawubekeke ngeendlela zonke, nesilili masingadyojwa; Ke abenza umbulo nabakrexezi, uThixo uya kubagweba.
Efese 5.22
22 Abafazi bawalulamela awabo amadoda, njengokuba esenza eNkosini
Zilawule kakuhle iiasethi zakho
IMizekeliso 31: 14-20
14 Injenge nqanawa yomrhwebi;
Zisa isonka sakho ukude.15 Uyavuka nasebusuku
Unika nosapho lwakhe ukutya
Nomxhesho kwizicakakazi zakhe.16 Liqwalasele ilifa, ulithenge;
Atyale isidiliya ngeziqhamo zezandla zakhe.17 Bhinqani amandla esinqeni sakhe,
Kwaye uxinzelele iingalo zakho.18 Uyabona ukuba ishishini lakhe lihamba kakuhle;
Isibane sakhe asicimi ebusuku.19 Faka isandla sakho kwintonga yokuluka,
Nezandla zakhe kwivili elijikelezayo.20 Isandla sakhe usitwabululela olusizana,
Kwaye uyazolula izandla zakhe kumahlwempu.
Umfazi onesidima uyayazi indlela yokulawula iiasethi zakhe. Ukhathalele ukuba okona kutya kunye nempahla kuvelisiweyo ngumsebenzi ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo. Kukwanesisa. Kululawulo alulo anganako ukunceda abo basweleyo.
Umfazi onesidima ukhuthele
IMizekeliso 31: 22-24
22 Uzenzela imibhinqo;
Ngelinen ecikizekileyo nemfusa ilokhwe yakhe.23 Iyaziwa indoda yakhe emasangweni;
Xa ehleli namadoda amakhulu omhlaba.24 Wenza amalaphu, kwaye athengise,
Kwaye unike amakhasethi kumrhwebi.
Umfazi onesidima ubonakaliswa ngokubeka ikhaya lakhe phambili. Usebenza ukuzisa isiqhamo semisebenzi yakhe ekhayeni lakhe. Kukhuthele, kuhleliwe kwaye kucocekile. Uzinikele ekugcineni ikhaya lakhe likwimeko efanelekileyo, kuba uThixo nguThixo wocwangco.
Uzabalazela ukuba indlu yakhe ikhanye kokubini kubudlelwane bosapho nakunonophelo, esazi ukuba umgaqo wobulumko kukuba umfazi uyayakha indlu yakhe.
IMizekeliso 14: 1
Ubulumko bomfazi buyayakha indlu yakhe;
Kodwa isidenge siyayichitha ngezandla zayo.
Ukuqonda ngakumbi malunga nokuba ngubani umfazi onesidima, siyakumema ukuba ubukele le vidiyo ilandelayo
Umfazi ongumzekelo
IMizekeliso 31: 22-24
21 Akoyiki ikhephu kusapho lwakhe,
Kuba usapho lwakhe luphela lunxibe iimpahla ezimbini.25 Amandla nozuko sisambatho sakhe;
Kwaye uhleka ngokuzayo.
Umfazi onesidima ungumzekelo. Unxiba ngokufanelekileyo, ngokundilisekileyo nangobulumko. Indlela aziphethe ngayo ayothusi.
Umfazi onesidima unengqondo
IMizekeliso 31: 26
26 Wuvule umlomo wakho ngobulumko;
Kwaye umthetho wokubabonisa ulwimi lwabo.
Umfazi onesidima ubonakaliswa ngokuba nobulumko xa ethetha. Yazi ukuba ubulumko buqulathe ukubamba ulwimi. Ziphephe iingxabano nomyeni wakho. Iphawulwa ngokuphendula ngokufanelekileyo ukuze ungacaphukisi impendulo.
IMizekeliso 15: 1
Impendulo ethambileyo isusa umsindo;
Kodwa ilizwi eliqatha livusa umsindo.IMizekeliso 21: 9
9 Kungcono uhlale kwikona yophahla
Kunokuhlala nomfazi onosukuzwano endlwini ebanzi.IMizekeliso 19: 14
14 Indlu kunye nobutyebi zizuzwe njengelifa kubazali;
Umfazi onengqondo uvela eNkosini.
Kwangokunjalo, umfazi onesidima uyazi ukuba umthetho wokubuyekeza ukhona. Njengoko watshoyo uYesu, esikunika kona siyakwamkela. Kanye njengoko sigxeka kwaye sigweba abanye, nathi siyayifumana imbuyekezo. Umfazi onesidima akabandakanyi nokuhleba okanye ukuhleba. Kuphephe ukugxeka nokugweba. Ezi zinto zingcolisa iingcinga neentliziyo zethu.
UMateyu 7:2
2 Kuba ngogwebo enigweba ngalo, niya kugwetywa kwangalo nani; nangomlinganiselo enilinganisela ngawo, niya kulinganiselwa kwangawo nani.
UMarko 4:24
24 Wayesithi kubo, Khangelani izinto enizivayo; kuba umlinganiselo enilinganisela ngawo, niya kulinganiselwa kwangawo nani, kongezwe kuni abo bakuvayo.
UMateyu 7: 1-5
Musa ukugweba, ngenxa yokuba ungagwetywa. Kuba ngogwebo oligweba ngalo, niya kugwetywa kwangalo nani; nomlinganiselo enilinganisela ngawo, niya kulinganiselwa kwangawo nani. Yini na ke ukuba usibone isibi esisesweni lomzalwana wakho, kanti akuwuqiqi wona umqadi okwelakho iliso?
Yizisa uvuyo ekhayeni lakho
IMizekeliso 31: 26
27 Qonda iindlela zendlu yakho,
Kwaye akasityi isonka mahala.28 Bayasuka oonyana bakhe, bathi unoyolo;
Kwaye indoda yakhe iyamdumisa nayo:
Umfazi onesidima uyamdumisa ngesisa sakhe, inkathalo, nothando. Ngomzekelo omhle awumiselayo. Uyamxhasa umyeni wakhe nangayiphi na indlela eyimfuneko.
Ukoyika uThixo
IMizekeliso 31: 26
29 Uninzi lwabafazi lwenza okuhle;
Kodwa ungaphezu kwabo bonke.30 Ubuhle buyinkohliso, kwaye ubuhle buyinto engento;
Umfazi omoyikayo uYehova uya kudunyiswa.31 Mnikeni isiqhamo sezandla zakhe,
Mdumise emasangweni ngezenzo zakhe.
Umfazi owaziyo ukuba uThixo umjongile uyamoyika. Uzabalazela ukwenza ukuthanda kukaThixo. Iphawulwa ngokuthobela uThixo hayi ngokukholisa abanye.
Umfazi onesidima unombulelo
Ewe, umfazi onesidima uyayazi indlela yokubulela. Kubalulekile ukuba nombulelo kuThixo. Abaphengululi abaninzi bathi iifilosofi ezazisele zithethiwe kumawaka eminyaka eyadlulayo. EBhayibhileni, eyona ncwadi indala embalini, ithi masibe nombulelo.
Yibulela umoya esiwuphefumlayo, ukwazi ukubona, ukuhamba, ukuziva, ukusebenza, kunye nobukrelekrele bethu. Yiba nombulelo kwabo bantu basincedayo ngamaxesha obomi bethu. Lo ngomnye umkhwa osizalisa ngoxolo lwangaphakathi.
1 Tesalonika 5:18
18 Ezintweni zonke bulelani; kuba oko kukuthanda kukaThixo kuKristu Yesu ngani.
Umfazi olungileyo wenza uxolelo
Umfazi onesidima uyakwazi ukuxolela. Ukuziqhelisa ukuxolela sisixhobo esisisiseko somfazi onesidima. Ukuxolela ngokoqobo kuthetha ukuyeka. Asitsho ukuba kufuneka uyamkele impazamo. Uyazi ukuba isenzo ngasinye sineziphumo, kodwa kuye kubalulekile ukuxolela.
Isalathiso esibalulekileyo kumfazi onesidima kukuba akanawo umsindo kwaye akafuni mbuyekezo ngeso siphoso. Uxolelo luvela kuthando olubhekiswa kwabanye. Ukuba sithanda abamelwane bethu njengokuba sizithanda, simele sibaphathe ngendlela esifuna ukuphathwa ngayo.
Umfazi onesidima uyazi ukuba ukuxolelwa ayisiyo imvakalelo okanye imvakalelo, sisigqibo. Ukuxolela amatyeli amaninzi kufuna ungenelelo lukaThixo. Ke ngoko, abantu basetyhini abazabalazela ukuba nesidima kufuneka bamcele amandla okuchitha loo rancor. Sisigqibo sokwamkela ukuba inzondo okanye ingqumbo ayisilawuli. Ukukhetha kukusondela kuThixo kwaye ucele amandla okuxolela. Uxolelo sesona sixhobo somfazi sinesidima.
UMateyu 18: 21-22
21 UPetros waya kuye wathi: "Nkosi, ndimxolela kangaphi umzalwana wam owonayo?" Ukufikelela kwisixhenxe?
22 Athi uYesu kuye, Andithi kuwe, koda kube kasixhenxe; ndithi, koda kube kamashumi asixhenxe aphindiweyo kasixhenxe.
UMateyu 6: 14-15
14 Kuba xa nithi nibaxolele abantu iziphoso zabo, uYihlo osemazulwini wonixolela nani. 15 Ke ukuba anibaxoleli abantu iziphoso zabo, noYihlo ke akayi kunixolela iziphoso zenu.
Eyesi-1 kaPetros 2: 23
23 abathi bakumthuka, bangaphenduli ngesiqalekiso; Xa wayebandezeleka, akazange asongele, kodwa wanikezela ityala kulowo ugweba ngokufanelekileyo.
Amabinzana omfazi onesidima
Umfazi onesidima uthetha ngobulumko. Intetho yakho yeyokusikelela. Ngokubanzi ibonakalisa ubulumko amabinzana amabhinqa anesidima. Amanye amabinzana esiwava kubulumko beli bhinqa ngala:
- "Yanga iNkosi ingandipha uvuyo lokundibonisa ukuba yeyiphi indlela eyiyo yolonwabo"
- "Indlela yeNkosi icuthene, kodwa ndiyakuqinisekisa, myeni wam, ukuba umvuzo kuphela kwento oya kufuna ukuyonwabela"
- Nyana wam, khumbula ukuba kufuneka sizalisekise lo mthetho "Hlonipha uyihlo nonyoko njengoko uYise esiyalelayo kwaye uyakuba nobomi obuzeleyo ngeentsikelelo"
- "Myeni wam, masingoyiki ukusasaza ilizwi leNkosi, masizingce ngokuzibiza ngokuba singamaKrestu kwaye sikhokelwe nguBawo"
- “Sihlobo sam, khumbula ukuba ukuthandaza nokuthandaza akufani. Ukuthandaza yindlela ethe tyaba yemithandazo eyahlukeneyo. Xa uthandaza uthetha naye, zivakala iimvakalelo zakho, khumbula ukuthandaza unokholo kwaye uqinisekisa ukuba uyeviwa "
- "Namhlanje, mhlobo wam, ndiyakumema endlwini yeNkosi uYesu Krestu ukuba singene ngqo kunye naye simamele ilizwi asilungiselele lona namhlanje."
Nangona kunjalo, umfazi onesidima uhlala enelizwi lenkuthazo kwiLizwi likaThixo. Uhlala ehlala kwiivesi zebhayibhile eziphendula yonke imeko.
INdumiso 91: 10-11
10 Akukho bubi buya kukuhlela,
Akukho sibetho siyakuchukumisa ikhaya lakho.11 Kuba uya kuthuma iingelosi zakhe phezu kwakho,
Ngamana zingakugcina ezindleleni zakho zonke.UYeremiya 33:3
3 Khala kum, ndikuphendule, ndikufundise izinto ezinkulu ezifihlakeleyo ongazaziyo.
INdumiso 23: 1-2
UYehova ngumalusi wam; Andiyi kuswela nto.
2 Uya kundilalisa emadlelweni aluhlaza;
Ndisaluswa ngasemanzini.I-37 Psalms: 25
Ndaka ndamtsha, kungokunje ndimdala; Ukanti andizanga ndilibone ilungisa lishiywa, Nembewu yalo ivukela ukutya.
IMizekeliso 4: 23
23 Ngaphezu kwako konke, yigcine intliziyo yakho;
Iingcebiso zokuba ngumfazi onesidima
Ukuze ube ngumfazi onesidima, into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile kukuthatha isigqibo sokuthobela uThixo. Nangona kunjalo, sifuna ukukushiya ezinye zeendlela zobomi bemihla ngemihla eziya kukunceda ukuba ube ngumfazi onesidima.
Cinga ngaphambi kokwenza
Ukuthatha ixesha lokucinga ngaphambi kokuba sithethe okanye senze into kusivumela ukuba siqinisekise ukuba silumkile. Xa sisenza ngokuzenzekelayo, isixelela ukuba asoyiki nto, kwaye siyahambelana kwiingcinga zethu nakwizenzo zethu. Ngokuthatha ixesha lokuthetha nokwenza, sibonisa ukuba siyazi ukuba izenzo zethu zineziphumo kwaye oko kubaluleke kakhulu.
Xa sicinga ngaphambi kokwenza kwaye sihambelana, imeko-bume yethu iyabonwabela ubukho bethu.
Ukonwaba komzuzu
Xa sithatha amandla exesha elizayo ukulawula iingqondo zethu okanye iingcinga, siphulukana noloyiko lwento ezayo, ke ngoko sifikelela kukonwabela abo sibathandayo, ikhaya lethu. Ngokuqinisekileyo kubalulekile ukuba kucwangciswe, kodwa njengoko besikhe salumkisa ngaphambili, asinakulilawula ikamva, kwaneziganeko zalo. Ke, kuya kufuneka siwonwabele umzuzu. Wonke umzuzu ubalulekile. Olo lonwabo lokunandipha nabantu esibathandayo, umzuzwana uwedwa uvelisa uxolo lwangaphakathi.
Ukuzamkela
Umfazi osoloko egxeka iimpazamo zakhe akanakuba nesidima. Akonelisekanga koko akubona esipilini, nangoko kumeleyo. Umfazi onesidima uyazi ukuba uxolelaniswe noThixo. Ndiyabulela kuThixo ngokukuxolela zonke iimpazamo zakho kunye nesono sakho. Ke ngoko, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ujonge kwixesha elidlulileyo lokuzigweba ngenxa yezinto obunokuzenza ongazenzanga. Umfazi onesidima unokulungelelanisa iingcinga kunye nezenzo zakhe kwintando kaThixo. Ngoku unexesha lokuqondisa kwakhona ubomi bakho kwaye uhambelane neengcinga zakho kunye nezenzo.
Uvelwano
Umfazi onesidima uyaqonda ukuba iingcinga kunye neencoko zakhe zitshintshiwe. Akusekho ndawo yokugweba abanye, okanye yokugxeka inkangeleko yabo okanye ubomi babanye. Khathalela ukucinga kwakho, indlela oziva ngayo kunye nento oyithethayo kuba uyaqonda ukuba oku kungasusa uxolo lwakho lwangaphakathi. Ke, uphulukana naloo mdla wokwazi ubomi babanye kwaye ubagxeke.
Ukungabikho kweengxabano
Umfazi onesidima uyahamba kude kube yinto yemihla ngemihla kwinqanaba elinye lobomi bakhe. Ngaphambi koko, wayenxanelwe ukukhusela iingcinga kunye neenjongo zakhe. Lo mkhwa wokudibana nabanye utshintsha ngokulamla. Uyaqonda ukuba kungcono ukuba ngumlamli kunokuba ungquzulwano. Qonda ukuba ebomini bakho akukho nyani iqinisekileyo, kodwa inxulumene. Ekuphela kwento eyiyo ebomini bakho lulwalamano lwakho noThixo kunye neBhayibhile.
Akukho maxhala
Ngokubanzi ubomi babantu bubonakaliswa yinkxalabo malunga noqoqosho, ezopolitiko, intlalontle kunye namaxabiso. Umfazi onesidima uyaqonda ukuba xa esenza izithembiso zikaThixo ezichazwe eBhayibhileni, uyakuba neentsikelelo ezinkulu azinikwa nguThixo. Ke, uyazi ukuba akufuneki ukhathazeke ngekamva, okanye ngokuzayo. Kuya kufuneka ujolise ekujonganeni neemeko ezivela namhlanje. Njengoko itshoyo iNkosi:
UMateyu 6:34
34 Sukuba nexhala malunga usuku lwe ntseni; kuba i usuku lwe ngomso uzakuzihoya. Yanele usuku ngalunye iingxaki zalo ”.
Uxolo luphuma ebusweni bakhe
Umfazi onesidima ubonakala kwinkangeleko yakhe. Ubuso bakhe bubonakala bukhululekile. Uncumo lubambe ubuso bakhe. Uxolo lwangaphakathi lubonakaliswa kwindlela yokuthetha, yokuziphatha, yokucinga, kubudlelwane boluntu. Isinxibo sakhe sifanelekile. Ubuhle bayo buphuma ngaphakathi.
