Yintoni umda wokuzithanda? Ngaba unokuthelekelela ukuba uzithanda kangangokuba awusakwazi ukunxulumana nabanye abantu? Siyakumema ukuba ufunde i intsomi kaNarcissus, ibali elimangalisayo elisenza sibone indlela ukuzithemba ngokugqithiseleyo okunokukhokelela ngayo ekufeni kwakho.
Imvelaphi yentsomi kaNarcissus.
Ukuba sijonga imvelaphi yentsomi kaNarcissus, sifumanisa ukuba yadalwa kwiintsomi zamaGrike, ibali libalisa ngobomi bomfana othile oselula, ombonakalo yakhe yasemzimbeni yayinomona wabo bonke, omde, onomtsalane nonomtsalane, bonke. amadoda nabafazi abazange bakwazi ukumelana namakhubalo akhe. Ngelishwa, uNarciso wayenesiphene esikhulu, ukuzithemba kwakhe.
Kangangeminyaka, wagatya ngamnye kubakhweli bakhe, ngelishwa, phakathi kwabo kwakukho i-nymph enhle egama lingu-Eco, engazi ukuba yayiza kuphelisa ubomi bukaNarciso njengempindezelo.
Inguqulelo yesiGrike-Latin.
Ukuba kukho into ekufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo, kukuba iintsomi ziyindlela yokuqonda iinkcubeko, oko kukuthi, sinokujonga indlela iintsomi ezidalwe ngayo ukubonisa iinkolelo zabantu, ukuba naxa ziguquka kwaye zitshintsha, ziqhubeke. ukushiya okufanayo.
Inguqulelo yesiGrike yesiLatini yentsomi yaseNarcissus ithetha ngomfana ongento yanto nongenaluvelwano, owahlwaywa ngoothixo, kuba ebudeni bobomi bakhe wazinikezela ekwala abakhweli bakhe. Indalo yayo inenjongo ecacileyo kakhulu, ukulungelelanisa amaGrike aselula ngelo xesha ukuze angaziphathi ngendlela efanayo. Kufunyenwe iziqwenga ezibini ezibhekisa kweli bali.
Kwelinye icala, ibali lamaGreki libonisa indlela u-Amenias oselula athandana ngayo noNarcissus de wamgatya, ngokumangalisayo, unika u-Ameninias ikrele, elisebenzisela ukuzibulala kwindlu kaNarcissus, ngelixa efa ucela i-Goddess Nemesis uyohlwaya isithandwa sakhe ukuze ayazi intlungu yothando olungasifanelanga.
I-Nemesis iqalekisa uNarcissus, yenza lo mfana ukuba athande ukubonakalisa kwakhe, engazi ukuba ngumntu wakhe, uzama ukumbamba ade awele kwinyani eyoyikekayo yokuba ungumfanekiso wakhe, ngenxa yentlungu ayisebenzisayo. ikrele eso sipho kuAmeninias ukuzibulala. Ukususela ekufeni kwakhe, kudaleka intyatyambo entle endaweni yayo.
Unokufunda amanqaku amaninzi afana neli malunga nentsomi kaNarcissus kwibhlog yethu, enyanisweni, unokufunda iintsomi zamaRoma kudidi lweentsomi namabali.
Inguqulelo yamaRoma.
Inguqulelo yamaRoma yentsomi kaNarcissus ithathwa njengenguqulo yakudala, eyandisiweyo neyaziwayo kwihlabathi liphela. U-Ovid utshela ukuba kukho umfana ogama linguNarcissus, unyana wobudlelwane phakathi kwe-nymph kunye nothixo, ubuze bakhe kunye nobuhle bakhe baziwa kakhulu. Imboni kaTiresias yabanga ukuba uNarcissus uya kuhlala ebudaleni obuvuthiweyo logama nje uNarcissus engaboni mbonakalo yakhe.
I-nymph Eco ithandana noNarcissus kwaye iyamgatya, u-Eco ke uthatha isigqibo sokuphila ubomi bakhe yedwa, xa efa, ucela uNemesis ukuba ajezise uNarcissus. Ephenjelelwe yintlungu, wenza uNarciso ukuba athande ukucinga kwakhe. Kukho iziphelo ezininzi kweli bali, eyokuqala kukuba uNarcissus uyazibulala ngokungakwazi ukufumana umboniso wakhe, owesibini uthetha ngendlela arhaxwa ngayo xa ebona umfanekiso wakhe emanzini kwaye owokugqibela uchaza ukuba uNarcissus ukwindawo ephantsi komhlaba. , ubandezeleka kwisigwebo sobomi bakhe bonke ejonge kuphela indlela acinga ngayo.
Imbali epheleleyo.
Ubukhosi obukhulu bamaGrike babuyinto encomekayo, izitrato zayo, ezizele ngabantu, zibonisa kuphela amandla edolophu. Phakathi kweso sihlwele, kukho umfana ogama linguNarcissus, ubuhle bakhe babuthandwa ngamadoda nabafazi ababehlala apho.
Ebuhlungu, uNarciso woyisa neyona ntliziyo yaphukileyo. Into engaziwa mntu ngaye kukuba emva kwe-facade yakhe enhle, enye yezona ziphene ezinkulu ezinokubonwa emntwini zazifihliwe, ukuzithemba kwakhe kwakugqithise kangangokuba wayengenakukwazi ukuthanda omnye umntu.
Abakhweli bakhe bahluke kakhulu, bahle, abantu abanengqiqo kunye nobutyebi obuninzi bazama ukunqoba kunye nokwenza umfana ukuba athande, nangona kunjalo, kwakungenakwenzeka kubo, kuba i-ego kaNarcissus kunye nenkohlakalo yayinkulu kangangokuba wayedelela bonke abakhweli bakhe.
Ngenye imini walahla i-Echo, i-nymph yobuhle obuhle kunye nelizwi elixabisekileyo. U-Eco, nangona ubuhle bakhe, wayengakwazi ukuthetha ukususela ekubeni wayeqalekisiwe nguHera, ubuhle bakhe babangela uthixokazi ukuba abe nomona omkhulu, kangangokuba wayedalelwe ukuba angakwazi ukuthetha izivakalisi ezipheleleyo, ekuphela kwento awayenokuyenza kukuphinda igama lokugqibela. oko kwathethwa ngabantu.
UNarciso akazange azithathele ingqalelo izibhengezo zothando zika-Eco, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ubuhle bakhe abunakuthelekiswa nobobakhe. Ephukile, u-Eco ubalekela indawo, efihla emiqolombeni ukuze achithe ubomi bakhe bonke yedwa kwaye ebuhlungu.
Wathi xa esemasangweni okufa uEco wamcenga uNemesis uthixo wempindezelo nobulungisa bukaThixo ukuba uNarcissus abandezeleke ngenxa yakhe, intlungu yokungakwazi ukuhlala kunye naye. ngoko wayeya kuqinisekisa, kwanaxa esekhukweni lokufa, ukuba uNarcissus uvakalelwa ngendlela efanayo.
U-Nemesis ke uthuka uNarcissus ukuze athande kuphela ngokucinga kwakhe, ekwabela ukubandezeleka okufana naloo nymph kwafuneka ihlupheke. U-Echo wamgwebela ukufa uNarcissus ngokungazi.
Engazi nto ngesiqalekiso, uNarcissus waya kuMlambo iStyx, njengoko wayesoloko esenza xa efuna ukubaleka ubushushu. Wathi xa esondela emlanjeni, wakwazi ukujonga ubuhle bawo, ethanda into ayibonayo, wasondela ngakumbi de ekugqibeleni, wawa ngecala.
Ngenxa yokuba wayeyedwa, akukho bani unokumnceda, wafa erhaxwa yi-ego yakhe ekujongeni imbonakalo yakhe. Ke, ngesiqalekiso sikaNemesis, u-Eco wayifeza impindezelo yakhe, akafumananga nje ukufa okubuhlungu kukaNarcissus, kodwa kwakhona, wamgweba ukuba aphile ubomi bakhe kumhlaba ophantsi, ejonga inkampani yakhe ekuphela kwayo, ukucinga kwakhe.
Ukuba unomdla kumanqaku amaninzi afana neli malunga nentsomi yeNarcissus, sincoma ukuba ufunde Iintsomi zaseBolivia kuluhlu lwethu lweentsomi kunye namabali.
Yintoni iNarcissus complex?
Ukufumanisa impembelelo yeentsomi kubomi bokwenyani akunzima kangako. I-Narcissus complex yithiyori eyenziwe ngu Sigmund Freud, nto leyo ecacisa ukuba ngaphakathi kwengqondo yomntu kukho ukuzicingela ngokugqithiseleyo, nto leyo ethetha ukuba endaweni yokwalathisa uthando ekuthandeni izinto ezingezizo thina, abanye abantu baya kufuna ukufumana ezinye iimpawu zobuntu babo de bafumane imfezeko epheleleyo.
Abantu beNarcissistic ke bajonge kuphela uthando olugqibeleleyo abangalufumaniyo, emva koko, akunakwenzeka ukufumana umntu ofana ngokugqibeleleyo. Ngokunjalo, aba bantu bayakwazi ukufumana uthando kumntu wabo kuphela, kunzima ukubonisa uvelwano kwabanye kwaye bazicingela kakhulu.
Ukuba ulithandile eli nqaku, siyakumema ukuba uqhubeke uphonononga iindidi ezahlukeneyo ezifunyenwe kwibhlog yethu, enamanqaku azele lulwazi olumangalisayo nolupheleleyo, enyanisweni sicebisa ukuba ufunde inqaku lethu lamva nje. ubuntu Pisces.
Sinomdla kakhulu kuluvo lwakho, ke sishiye uluvo ukuze wazi ukuba ucinga ntoni ngeli nqaku ngentsomi kaNarcissus.