Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba uThixo usoloko ephezu kwakho nentsapho yakho, yaye uSathana usebenza ukubabona betshatyalaliswa. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukunikela ixesha eNkosini yethu. Ukuze sibe nobudlelane noThixo kufuneka sithandaze rhoqo. Ke ngoko, sicebisa okona kulungileyo amagama abantwana abaneenkani, ukuze batshintshe isimo sengqondo sabo ngothando, kungekhona ngezohlwayo ezingenamsebenzi.
Amabinzana abantwana abanemvukelo
Ngokuqhelekileyo, inkqubo yemihla ngemihla kunye nabantwana abavukelayo igxininisekile kwaye siyalibala indlela esivuya ngayo ukuba siphila ubomi bethu. Noko ke, kubalulekile ukubaxelela ngamaxesha athile indlela esibathanda ngayo size sibanike iingcebiso ngobomi. Ngamanye amazwi, fumana amabinzana abantwana abanemvukelo abenza bazive bethandwa.
Apha sikunika amabinzana amaninzi amahle ukusuka kumama ukuya kunyana ngokuqinisekileyo ongayi kukwazi ukulibala, umbono kukuba ubazise ukuba uhlala usecaleni kwabo kwaye ubakhumbuze ukuba babalulekile. Apha sishiya ezinye amazwi kubantwana abaneenkani, Ndiyathemba ukuba ziluncedo:
- Ngaphezu kwako konke kweli hlabathi nguwe.
- Ungomnye weentsikelelo ezinkulu ebomini bam.
- Asifezekanga, iimpazamo zisoloko zisenziwa.
- Ikhaya lakho yitempile yakho, ngaphandle kwakho ngekhe kufane.
- Gcina intliziyo yakho, ngokuba kuphuma ubomi kuyo.
- Yanga iNkosi ikusikelele, ikugcine.
- Khumbula ukuba iNkosi iyakulwela amadabi akho
- UThixo wethu ulikhaka lethu nomvuzo wethu.
- Umhle, uhlakaniphile, unesiphiwo kwaye uyile.
- Yiba nesibindi sokukhusela iinkolelo zakho, ngaphandle koloyiko lokuba uphosakele.
- Intlonipho sisiseko sobudlelwane obuphilileyo.
- Ukuziphatha kwakho kufuneka kube kokokwakha ubomi bakho.
- Ubomi bunganzima, akukho mntu uthe buya kuba lula, kodwa uYehova unawe.
- Ubomi buhle, kuphela ukuba ukunye noThixo.
- Ngamana utshintsho lwakho lungaba yimveliso yokungenelela kukaThixo ebomini bakho.
- Ndihlala ndikuthanda.
oonyana abaneenkani
Emva kokuziphatha komntwana onemvukelo kusenokubakho oonobangela ezahlukahlukeneyo. Amaxesha amaninzi ukukhuliswa phantsi kokugxekwa rhoqo kwabazali, ukungabikho kothando kunye nobukhali, kunokukhokelela kubantwana bethu uhlobo oluthile lwemvukelo. Ngamanye amaxesha sisebenzisa kakubi ukuthetha amabinzana `kubantwana abanemvukelo anokuthi achazwe njengokuxhatshazwa ngamazwi.
Ngokufanayo, sinokuqinisekisa ukuba nokuba nonyana othobela kakhulu, uya kuzityhila, nokuba kungaphakathi okanye ngokuziphatha kwangaphandle. Yiyo loo nto abazali befanele bakuphephe ukukhulisa abantwana babo phantsi kolu cwangciso. Kwincwadi yabaseKolose ( 3:21-23 ) iZibhalo Ezingcwele ziyasibongoza ukuba singabacaphukisi abantwana bethu.
Efese 6: 4
4 Nani boyise, musani ukubacaphukisa abantwana benu, kodwa nibakhulise ekukhuliseni nasekululekeni kweNkosi.
KwabaseKolose 3: 21-23
21 Bazali, musani ukubacaphukisa abantwana benu, hleze batyhafe.
22 Nina bakhonzi, balulameleni ezintweni zonke abaziinkosi zenu zasemhlabeni;
23 Nantoni na eniyenzayo, yenzeni ngokusuka entliziyweni, ngokungathi niyenzela iNkosi, aniyenzeli bantu;
Iimpawu zabantwana abanemvukelo
Olunye lweempawu zabantwana abanemvukelo kukuba bavavanya imida, enoba yeyabazali okanye yabasemagunyeni. Bazama ukulawula iimeko, kokubini ekhaya nangemigaqo emiselweyo. Olunye uphawu lwabantwana abanemvukelo kukugatya ngabom igunya labazali.
Xa sihlalutya abantwana abavukelayo sinokufumana into efanayo; kwaye bangabantwana okanye abantwana abakrelekrele kakhulu. Ukususela kule nkcazo, sinokuqonda ukuba bayakwazi ukukhupha iimeko ngokulula kwaye bazibeke phambi kweemeko zokulawula.
Ulwalathiso LukaThixo Lokukhulisa Abantwana Abanemvukelo
Ngokuqhelekileyo, olu hlobo lomntwana ludinwa kakhulu kwaye luyabacaphukisa abazali babo. UThixo uBawo wethu wasezulwini, ngobulumko nothando lwakhe, uye washiyela abazali ukhokelo kwiLizwi lakhe. Ngobu butyebi, abazali baya kukwazi ukuhlangabezana nocelomngeni lokukhulisa abantwana abanemvukelo.
Phakathi kweziyalo zokuqala ezenza ukuba iNkosi sifunde kwiLizwi lakhe:
IMizekeliso 22: 6
6 Yalela umntwana ngendlela yakhe,
Naxa athe wamkhulu, akasayi kumka kuyo.
Ngale ndlela, iLizwi likaThixo liyasixelela, indlela esifanele sihambe ngayo. Ngokuchanekileyo oku kukwenza ukuthanda kukaBawo. Xa sizama ukulamla nabantwana bethu abanemvukelo kufuneka sibenze baqonde ukuba umnqweno wokulawula iimeko asiloxanduva lwabo. NguThixo olawulayo kwaye xa beqonda ukuba baya kuphinda baqondise indlela abaziphatha ngayo.
Ukuze abantwana bethu baqonde ukuba nguThixo olawulayo, abazali bamele baphile beyisekile yile nyaniso. Ubawo ovukela uThixo akanakunikela ubungqina ngale nyaniso ipheleleyo, singasathethi ke ngokuseyisela unyana wakhe ukuba azithobe.
Xa senza amalungu entsapho yethu aqonde ukuba nguThixo omisela imithetho yakhe ngeLizwi lakhe, abazali ngabokuqala ababizelwe ukuzalisekisa ukuthanda kukaThixo. Ngoko ke, ngandlel’ ithile abantwana baya kusetyenzwa ngaphantsi kolwalathiso loMoya oyiNgcwele.
Ukuba umgangatho wokungeniswa awusetyenzwa ukususela ebuntwaneni, umntu uya kuhlala ejongene neengxabano ebomini bonke. Iya kuvukela amagunya amiselweyo nokuba ingabaphathi, amapolisa kunye nezinye iindidi zabasemagunyeni.
Xa sisithi uThixo ulawula namagunya amiselwe nguThixo (KwabaseRoma 13:-5). Kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqonde ukuba abantwana abavukelayo banokuthobela kuphela imithetho nemimiselo xa benengqiqo kubo. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bahlale bezisa ekhaya inyaniso yendlela uThixo afuna senze ngayo izinto. Oku phantsi kweemeko akunakuxoxwa. Enye yeemfundiso ezinkulu malunga nonyana ovukelayo inokufumaneka kwi Umzekeliso wonyana wolahleko.
Enye into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka sisebenze nabantwana bethu kwasebutsheni bethu kukubenza baqonde ukuba igunya labazali limiselwe nguThixo. Xa siqwalasela imbopheleleko yabazali, kukwalithuba lokuba abantwana bethu bavakalelwe kukuba bayabandakanyeka ekwenzeni izigqibo zentsapho; kwaye ngaloo ndlela abayi kuziva bengamakheswa ngokupheleleyo, bengenakukwazi.
Izicwangciso
Kukho izinto zokuhlalisana ezingakwaziyo ukuxoxisana, enye yazo kukuya ecaweni kuba uThixo uyala ukuba sihlanganisane njengamakholwa. Ngoku, eCaweni, abantwana banokutsho ngandlel’ ithile ukuba usapho lunokuhlala phi, ukuba abazali bayalufuna.
Kulo mgca wengcinga, ukukhulisa abantwana bethu kufuneka kwenziwe ngezipho zoMoya oyiNgcwele: uthando, umonde nobubele luphawu lobudlelwane phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Ezinye iindlela abazali abafanele bazisebenzise kukuzama ukungaphakamisi ilizwi nezandla zabo benomsindo okanye baphulukane nenzolo ebanika igunya elifanayo nelo banalo.
Xa unyana ebona uyise engakwazi ukuzibamba, unyana onemvukelo uyayazi indlela yokuphembelela iimvakalelo zikayise, ngoko simele sizame ukumlawula kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Izilungiso ezingokwasemzimbeni ezisetyenziselwa abantwana abanemvukelo ngokuqhelekileyo azisebenzi, njengoko kuyindlela abathi bengazi ukuba abazali bafikelele kumda wabo. Xa oku kusenzeka, le nkwenkwe inemvukelo ibagculela ngasese ngoxa ugonyamelo luqhubeka. Ilizwi likaThixo lithi ilizwi elithambileyo liyawuthomalalisa umsindo.
Kule mfazwe echasene nokuzimela, unokulwa idabi elinamandla kubantwana bakho, ukuba ukungathobeli kwabo akuyeki. Le mvukelo iya kuchaphazela ulwalamano lwakho noBawo osezulwini, kwanamaqabane omtshato, abaqeshi, abafundisi-ntsapho, abahlobo. Xa sihlolisisa iBhayibhile, sinokubona indlela uThixo asinika ngayo izixhobo zokuqeqesha nokufundisa abantwana abangathobeliyo, ade athembise ukuba siya kufumana iintsikelelo kubo bonke abo bakhula baze bafunde ukuthobela.
Umyalelo wokubeka abazali nokubathobela ukho kuyo yonke iBhayibhile, ukususela kwiEksodus xa uThixo enikela imiyalelo elishumi: ( Eksodus 20:12 ) ukuya kutsho kwiTestamente Endala kwi ( Levitikus 19:3; Duteronomi 5:16; IMizekeliso 1:8; 6:20–21; 23:22) de kufike itestamente entsha. UYesu Kristu nompostile uPawulos bayayiqinisekisa ngomthetho wesihlanu ( Mateyu 15:4; 19:19; Efese 6:1-3; Kolose 3:20 ) yaye ngokuqinisekileyo idinga eliza nayo. Makhe sijonge ezinye iindinyana zeBhayibhile.
KwabaseKolose 3: 20
20 Nina bantwana, balulameleni abazali benu ezintweni zonke; kuba oko kukholekile kuyo iNkosi.
Levitikus 20:9;
9 Umntu ngomntu, xa athe watshabhisa uyise nonina, wofa ukufa; utshabhise uyise nonina; igazi lakhe liya kuba phezu kwakhe.
IMizekeliso 10:1; 15:5; 20:20; 30:17;
1 Unyana olumkileyo uyamvuyisa uyise; Ke unyana osisinyabi lusizi lukanina.
5 Isimathane siyalidela icebo likayise; Ogcina uqeqesho uba nobuqili.
20 Othuka uyise nonina, Isibane sakhe siya kucinywa esithokothokweni.
17 Iliso eligxeka uyise, lidela isiyalo sikanina; Amahlungulu asentlanjeni ayalirhola, oonyana bokhozi bawudle.
Ukuba uThixo unike umntwana onemvukelo entsatsheni, sinokuqiniseka ukuba uThixo uSomandla uya kusinika amacebo, ubuncwane nokhokelo oluyimfuneko ukuze sikwazi ukunika intsingiselo nenjongo ebomini bomntwana wethu onemvukelo.