Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo phakathi kwabantu, ukuze kubekho ukuzinza ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokuthembana phakathi kwabo, ngoko ke kuyimfuneko ukwazi iindidi ezahlukeneyo. iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda Ukuqwalasela uhlobo lobudlelwane, eli nqaku libonelela ngeendlela ezininzi ezisebenzayo zokubonisa loo mvakalelo.
Veza iimvakalelo ngomntu.
iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda
Zininzi iindlela ezivezwayo zokubonakalisa uthando kubantu ababathandayo, phakathi kwazo kusithi "Ndiyakuthanda" amagama ambalwa abaluleke kakhulu anokuthi aqheleke kwisigama sabantu ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, phakathi kwabo hayi. ukwazi ukutsho okanye ixesha elifanelekileyo, ngoko kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba zininzi iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda ukuphumeza loo mvakalelo emntwini.
Ukongeza ekuvakaliseni imvakalelo yokwenyani, ivumela imekobume yentuthuzelo ukuba ibekho ngokubhekiselele kule ndlela yokujongana, ngaphandle kokubonisa imida enikwe ukuba iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda awonelanga, nto leyo ethetha ukuba ukongezelela kula mazwi abalulekileyo, kufuneka kuthatyathwe inyathelo ngokuphathelele oku, kodwa kusenokuba nzima kwabaninzi.
Ngoko ke, kuthathelwa ingqalelo ezahlukeneyo iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda ukuqwalasela imeko, xa omnye umntu eyazi indlela avakalelwa ngayo naxa engayazi; Ihlala ibaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo-ntle yeemvakalelo, kuba sicebisa ukuba ufunde malunga indlela yokuba nengqondo ephilileyo.
Iindlela zokuthi "Ndiyakuthanda" ngaphandle kokutsho
Imvakalelo ayisoloko ibonakaliswa ngamazwi, izenzo yenye yezona ndlela zisebenzayo, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba izalisekile ukuze umntu azive enothando, ezinye zeendlela zokubonisa uthando kumntu zidweliswe ngezantsi:
Mchazele ukuba uyamthanda loo mntu
Uhlobo lobudlelwane nomntu lubonakaliswe, kwaye ukuba uyamthanda, kufuneka amazise iimvakalelo zakhe, ngokukodwa kwimpawu zakhe nganye kunye nendlela yakhe, le yingongoma emnika ukhethekileyo kuba eyibonisa njenge umahluko nabantu abakufutshane.
Yabelana ngexesha kunye nendawo
Enye ye iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda ngezenzo, asikokubenza bazive becinezelekile, nto leyo ethetha ukuba akufanele ugqithise ukusetyenziswa kwendawo kunye nexesha labo, ekubeni kufuneka ubonise intlonipho ngendlela efanelekileyo, ngelixa unikela ngexesha lakho kwaye ube nesabelo ngendlela efanelekileyo, ngoko ke yindlela esebenzayo yokubonisa ukuba uyamthanda loo mntu, kuba sicebisa ukuba ufunde malunga ne isimilo kunye nobuntu.
Phulaphula kwaye uxhase
Naluphi na uhlobo lobudlelwane onalo nomntu, enye yezona nkalo zibalulekileyo zokubonelela ngothando kubo kukumamela, kuba sisenzo esibenza basondelelane, kukuvumela ukuba ube nokuzithemba okukhulu, ngoko ke, ngesi simo sengqondo sele uzifumene ubonakalisa imvakalelo eyakhayo ngakuye kwaye kusenokungabi yimfuneko ukuyibeka ngamazwi; Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ifunyenwe njengenye ye iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda kwaye loo mntu uya kuyazi ngenkxaso yakho.
Ukumangaliswa
Usuku ngalunye ekwabelwana ngalo nomntu malube lukhethekileyo, uzame ukuba ungabi yinto yesiqhelo kodwa uqalise izinto ezintsha ngezinto ezenziwayo; ezi nkcukacha abantu abazifumana ngoxabiso kwaye ngale ndlela baziva oko omnye umntu akucingayo, yiyo loo nto ingenye iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda.
Ukuba nexhala
Ukubonisa ukuba imeko embi ngokuphathelele loo mntu ivelisa usizi, kanye njengokuba imeko entle ivelisa ulonwabo, le yinto emele ibonakaliswe ize yenziwe.
ube ngumthengisi
Xa zithiywa iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda, iinkcukacha yenye yezona zisebenzayo kwaye asithethi nje ngezinto eziphathekayo, kodwa malunga nesenzo, incoko echaphazelekayo, njengokubuza malunga nosuku lwakho, injani imeko emsebenzini wakho, i-hug, uncumo kunye abanye; ngamnye kubo iindlela zokuthi Ndiyakuthanda nokuba umntu unokubamba ngokukhawuleza.
Simele sithathele ingqalelo ukuba kusabalulekile ukuthi "Ndiyakuthanda", kodwa ukuba ngokwenene kube nemvakalelo, ngexesha elifanelekileyo, ukuba akukho nto i-monotonous, ukuba ibonakala ingenanto kubudlelwane babantu.
