Ngexesha iNkosi ibathathile abantwana, kuba kubalulekile ukubafundisa abantwana ngeLizwi likaThixo, namhlanje sikufundisa ukuba ulungiselela njani ukuzinikela kwabantwana abancinci nabadala.
Ukuzinikela kwabantwana
Kuya kufuneka sichaze ukuba kukuthandaza, lixesha elinikezelwe kubudlelane noThixo, ukumamela nokuthetha. Abantwana bafanelwe kukuqwalaselwa, ke ndiyakumema ukuba ulandele isihloko esilandelayo Umthandazo wabantwana, umkhwa onokuhlakulwa.
Ebhayibhileni, uMoses waxelela u-Israyeli ukubafundisa abantwana bakho kwizingqi eziqhelekileyo zobomi, oko kukuthi, xa beza kulala, ngexesha lesidlo.
Duteronomi 6: 7
7 uze uwaphindaphinde kubantwana bakho, uthethe ngawo ekuhlaleni kwakho ekhaya, nasekuhambeni ngendlela, nasekulaleni kwakho, nasekuvukeni kwakho.
Amanyathelo okuthandaza abantwana
Phakathi kwamanyathelo okuzinikezela kubantwana:
Fumana ixesha elisebenzayo
Kuya kufuneka iqale ngento elula, kulula ukuyibamba encinci. Umzekelo, funda inxenye yebali okanye uthethe isivakalisi. Into ephambili kukuba uhlale ungagungqi, kwaye ungaphelelwa lithemba ngabantwana abazama ukudibanisa usapho yonke imihla.
Funda into yendalo
Kubalulekile kwaye kuyadingeka ukugcina inkqubo emfutshane neqondakalayo, kuba kufuneka baphathe amagama alula eLizwi, njengegama likaYesu, umthandazo, isithembiso kunye nesono.
Thetha neNkosi
Ngokomgaqo kufuneka sithambekele entloko, sivale amehlo, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana babambane ngezandla, ukunqanda ukubetha phakathi kwabo. Kufuneka ikhawuleze kwaye iqapheleke; ngokweminyaka yabo.
Sebenzisa umculo ukuze ufunde
Kuya kufuneka usoloko uthathela ingqalelo indlela yokuba ngabantwana bakho, ukubeka umculo olungele iminyaka yabo kunye nezinto abazithandayo. Kula maxesha zininzi iindidi ngeendidi.
Nika abantwana bakho inkathalo esemgangathweni
Ixesha olisebenzisela ukuthandaza, ngaphandle kokulusebenzisa ngenjongo yokunika abantwana ulwazi, lixesha lokuba wabelane nabo, ujonge emehlweni abo, uyazi ukuba ubaphulaphule kwaye ubonakalisa uthando.