Ngamanye amaxesha abantu abaninzi baye bazibuze umbuzo othi, ndibaxolele kangaphi abo bandikhubekisileyo, impendulo yalo mbuzo kweli nqaku, kunye nokwazi ukuba kutheni kufuneka uxolele kwaye ungabambi inzondo.
Kufuneka ndixolele kangaphi?
IBhayibhile isifundisa ukuba ukuxolela luphawu lokuthanda abazalwana bethu, ngoko ke, njengamaKristu simele sihlolisise umlinganiselo esixolela ngawo. Abantu abaninzi bakufumanisa kunzima ukuxolela umntu omonileyo, nokuba mncinci kangakanani.
Sinako rhoqo amava kwindawo esihlala kuyo, iimeko ubuhlobo ezinkulu ukuba, ngenxa yengxoxo silly, ukuvumela ubuhlobo ukuba wonakaliswe. Bahamba kancinci kancinci kwaye bengaqondi, ubuhlobo buye balahleka ngokuhamba kwexesha.
Nangona kubonakala kungakholeleki kule meko ivelayo, ebonakala ngathi ayibambeki ububi, iyakwazi ukwenza lukhuni kwaye yenze buhlungu intliziyo ngenxa yenzondo. Kufuneka ke sazi ukuba lisoloko likho ixesha lokuxolela.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba lingakanani na ixesha elidluleyo, kuyimfuneko ukuba sicoce iintliziyo zethu kuyo yonke iintshukumisa zengqumbo ngokuxolela abo basonileyo, basikhubekise okanye basenze saziva siphathwa kakubi. Kwezi meko, kungcono ukuba sibeke amehlo ethu emnqamlezweni, ukuze sikwazi ukubona owona mzekelo mkhulu wokuxolela, lowo uKristu axolela ihlabathi liphela.
KwabaseRoma 3:25 (PDT): UThixo wathembisa uYesu Kristu ukuba enze okungokufa kwakhe, ukuxolelwa kwezono. Uxolelo lufunyanwa ngokholo. Wanikela ngoYesu Kristu njengedini ukuze abonise ukuba usoloko enobulungisa kwizinto azenzayo. Wabonisa kwixesha elidlulileyo xa Ekunyamezeleni kwakhe, waziyeka izono zabaninzi, kwanangoku ngokuvuma wonke umntu okholose ngoYesu.
UThixo uSomandla wazidlulisa izono zabaninzi ngegazi elaphalalayo laLowo ungenasono, uYesu Kristu. Onke amakholwa angamaKristu abizelwa ukuba axolele, ukuze eli gazi lihle kangaka aphalalayo lingabi lilize.
Ndixolele kangaphi ngokwebhayibhile?
Ibhayibhile isifundisa ubukhulu bokuxolelwa ekufuneka wonke umKristu abe nako, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kungakanani na ukugculelwa. KwiVangeli kaMateyu, iNkosi uYesu isixelela ngokucacileyo:
UMateyu 18: 21-22 ( NKJV ): 21 Weza ke uPetros kuye, wathi:Nkosi Ukuba umzalwana wam undona, ndimele ndimxolele kangaphi na?? Ukusa kwizihlandlo ezisixhenxe? 22 Athi uYesu kuye, Andithi kuwe, koda kube kasixhenxe; ndithi, koda kube kamashumi asixhenxe aphindiweyo kasixhenxe.. "
Ukuba siqhuba lo msebenzi wezibalo, siya kuba nakho ukuqonda ukuba inani elikhulu elinamanani amaninzi liya kuba nesiphumo. Kwangokunjalo ke, umthetho omkhulu kaThixo kubantu bakhe ngowokuba sibathande abazalwana bethu njengoko sizithanda ngako:
UMateyu 22: 36-39: 36 "Mfundisi, ngabaowona myalelo mkhulu emthethweni ngowuphi na?» 37 Waphendula uYesu wathi,Uze uyithande iNkosi uThixo wakho ngentliziyo yakho iphela, nangomphefumlo wakho uphela, nangengqondo yakho iphela..” 38 Nguwo lowo owokuqala nowona mthetho ubalulekileyo. 39 Kwaye owesibini ufana nowokuqala:Umthanda ummelwane wakho njengoko uzithanda. "
Ukuthanda omnye njengoko uzithanda ngako kufuna ukukwazi ukuxolela, oko kuthetha ukuba ngendlela esizikhathalele ngayo izinto zethu, ngendlela efanayo siya kwenjenjalo nakwabanye. Kukwathetha ukukwazi ukupha nokwabelana nabanye ngezinto esinazo.
Kukuvakalelwa njengokwabanye iimfuno ezithwaxa abanye, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bangoobani na. Konke oku kubonisa uvelwano, imfesane okanye inceba kwabanye.
Kuphela kukuzibeka endaweni yomnye ukuze sifikelele ukukwazi ukuxolela. Kuba emva koxolelo kukho uthando, uthando olukhoyo kuNyana nakuBawo waseZulwini, kuba uThixo uyimbonakaliso yothando lokwenene.
IBhayibhile isifundisa ukuba uThixo uluthando.
Ukususela kwiTestamente eNdala ukuya kweNtsha, zininzi iivesi zeBhayibhile ezisixelela ukuba uThixo uluthando. Umpostile uYohane usifundisa obu kulunga bukhulu bukaThixo kwisahluko sesine sencwadi yakhe yokuqala, eqala kwivesi yesi-7.
Apho usixelela ukuba lowo ungenaluthando akazanga amazi uThixo, ngokuba uThixo uluthando. Ukuyibona ekuxolelweni, kuya kuba ukuba awukwazi ukuxolela kungenxa yokuba awukwazi ukuthanda, ngoko awumazi uThixo, kodwa:
Eyoku-1 kaYohane 4:16 (NKJV): Kwaye siyalwazi, sakholwa uthando lukaThixo unalo kuthi. Uthixo Luthando; lowo ke uhleli eluthandweni umanyene noThixo, noThixo umanyene naye.
La mazwi ompostile uYohane afanele asenze sicamngce ukuba nangaliphi na ixesha siziva singenako ukuxolela. Simele sifunde ukuba yintliziyo kuphela enolwazi lothando lukaThixo ekwaziyo ukuxolela wonke umntu osonileyo; Njengoko uYesu esifundisa kumzekelo wakhe womthandazo:
Luka 11:4a (NIV): -Sixolele izono zethu, ngokunjalo thina sibaxolela bonke abasonayo-.
Ukuqhubeka kudidi lweemfundiso, siyakumema ukuba ufunde malunga Ubulungisa bukaThixo: yintoni kwaye iquka ntoni? Kuba besesibonile ukuba uThixo uluthando, ukanti ulilungisa, ngoko ke ubulungisa bubonakala kuye ngokwemvelo kuyo yonke indalo yakhe.
Emva kwexesha ungaqhubeka namanqaku, Ukuxolelaniswa noThixo: Kutheni ifuneka kangaka? kwaye i Ukusondelelana noThixo: Uyiphuhlisa njani? UThixo ufuna sibe nolwalamano olusenyongweni naye.
