Ngaba usandul’ ukutshata okanye uza kutshata kungekudala? zixabise ezi Iingcebiso zemitshato yamakristu, nto leyo ekunceda wakhe ubuhlobo nobulumko nothando lukaThixo.
iingcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu
Njengamadoda nabafazi bakaKristu simele siyiqonde eyona njongo yomtshato, engeyiyo enye ngaphandle kokuba yimbumba egqibeleleyo, ukuba bayaphelelisana yaye bathandane ngentliziyo epheleleyo.
Xa isibini sithatha isigqibo sokutshata, asenzi nje isenzo sokubhiyozela esidlangalaleni apho sibonakalisa uthando lwaso omnye komnye. Kunoko, wenza umnqophiso phambi koYehova neqabane lakhe omele uhlale ngonaphakade. Esi sivumelwano kufuneka sihlonitshwe, sixatyiswe kwaye kungabikho sizathu saphulwa. Kufuneka sihlale sikhumbula ukuba lowo ukuthi mkhulu kunalowo usehlabathini.
Ukuqala ubomi bomtshato kuzisa iintsikelelo, ulonwabo, uthando kunye neenkumbulo ezintle. Nangona kunjalo, iimvavanyo kunye neemeko ekufuneka bazisombulule njengesibini banokuza nabo.
Yiyo loo nto namhlanje siza kukunika ezinye Iingcebiso zemitshato yamakristu oko kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu kwesi sigaba esitsha kubudlelwane.
Iziko nguKristu
Ingcebiso yokuqala kwimitshato yamaKristu esiya kwabelana ngayo nomntu ngamnye kuni namhlanje kukuba uYesu Krestu makabe ngundoqo kubudlelwane benu.
Ithetha ntoni le nto? Kuthetha ukuba baya kuphila ubomi obusekelwe kwilizwi likaThixo kaSirayeli. Ukoyika uYehova kuya kubakho ebomini babo ngamaxesha onke. Ukuqonda ukuthanda kweNkosi uYesu Kristu ebomini babo nokuphila ngovuyo kuya kwenza izithembiso zoPhezukonke zibe likhaya labo.
Kwihlabathi eligcwele ubumnyama, ukuba nethemba kunye nokuKhanya kukaKristu akunantekiso. Masikhumbule ukuba ubomi obuzeleyo bobo uYesu Krestu anokusinika bona kwaye eyona nto ilungileyo yeyokuba ubomi obungunaphakade.
Ukukhula ngokomoya sibambene ngezandla, ukufunda ngakumbi yonke imihla ngeemfihlelo zelizwi likaThixo, ukuba kunye nokubuxabisa ubomi obubanjwe sisandla sikaSomandla, kuya kwenza umahluko ophawulekayo emtshatweni wakho.
Ukugqiba ukuba umbindi wobudlelwane nguKristu kukuqonda ukuba ngaphandle Kwakhe asinakwenza nto kwaye sidinga amandla kunye neengcebiso zakhe ukuze sigcine ubomi bemvisiswano. Ukongeza, xa besenza isigqibo sokwandisa usapho, abantwana bethu baya kuqonda ukubaluleka kokuba noYesu Krestu ebomini babo, ngaloo ndlela benikela ngobomi babo neentliziyo zabo kwintando yeNkosi.
KwabaseRoma 8: 9-10
9 Ke nina aningabo abaphila ngokwenyama, kodwa niphila ngokoMoya, ukuba kambe uMoya kaThixo uhleli kuni. Ukuba ke umntu akanaye uMoya kaKristu, akangowakhe lowo.
10 Ukuba ke uKristu ungaphakathi kwenu, umzimba okunene ufile ngenxa yesono, kodwa uMoya umi ngenxa yobulungisa.
Molweni
Uthando yeyona mvakalelo inyulu neyinyani enokuviwa nawuphi na umntu. Akukho mvakalelo edlula uthando, kuba le nto ayilungiswanga, inzulu kwaye izibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Eyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokubonakalisa uthando nguThixo noMdali ngokwakhe, owathi ngaphandle kokulibazisa wanikela ngoNyana wakhe okuphela kwakhe ngenxa yokusithanda kwakhe. INkosi uYesu isithanda kakhulu kangangokuba yonke imihla, imini nobusuku, Ithandazela ngamnye wethu phambi koBawo oseZulwini.
1 Yohane 4: 8
8 Lowo ungenaluthando akazanga amazi uThixo, kuba uThixo uluthando.
Uthando phakathi kwesibini kufuneka lube yimihla ngemihla, lubonise enye indlela okhathala ngayo, kukugcina imvisiswano phakathi kobudlelwane.
Ukuba uyazi ukuba iqabane lakho libe nosuku olunzima, mmangalise ngokuphuma okanye incoko engenasiphazamiso kwigumbi lokuhlala. Umhla wothando okanye uhambo olungalindelekanga apho bobabini banokuyonwabela luya kugcina ilangatye livutha phakathi komtshato.
Musani ukuvumela omnye wenu ukuba aye kulala ecaphukile omnye ngenxa yemeko ethile. Yenza umkhwa ukuba kukho ingxabano, ngaphambi kokulala ukusombulula umba ochaphazelekayo. Ukukhetha usuku lweveki ukuze sazi indlela omnye avakalelwa ngayo, ukuba bekukho into emkhathazayo okanye eyona nto ndiyithanda kakhulu, kuya kusenza sikwazi ukulungisa iingxaki kwangethuba.Eli cebiso lemitshato yamaKristu limela esinye seziseko ezisisiseko zolwalamano. .
Usenokushiya imiyalezo eyothusayo inamabinzana ukuze ngamazwi ukwazi ukuchaza indlela umyeni okanye umfazi wakho akwenza uzive ngayo. Ngekhonkco elilandelayo uya kufumana intle Amabinzana othando lobuKristu
Unxibelelwano
Amadoda nabasetyhini baneempawu ezihluke ngokupheleleyo, iichromosome, iihomoni, iindlela zokucinga neemvakalelo. Le yinyani esingayifumani eBhayibhileni kuphela xa uYehova wadala indoda nomfazi. Kodwa nenzululwazi ngokwayo inika inyaniso koku.
Kubalulekile ukuba sikugcine oku engqondweni kwaye singacingi ukuba omnye uyayiqonda indlela endiziva ngayo, into endiyidingayo kunye nento endingathanda ngayo. Ukuba sithatha njengesalathiso umanyano olukhoyo kuBathathu Emnye, olugqibeleleyo nobalaseleyo, sinokuvuma ukuba lukho:
- amor
- NoNxibelelwano
UYise, uNyana noMoya bathandana ngokunzulu. INkosi uYesu imisela ukuthanda uThixo nommelwane njengowona mthetho ubalulekileyo. Ngenxa yothando uYehova wanikela ngoNyana wakhe emnqamlezweni ukuba asifele kwaye ngenxa yothando basishiyela uMoya oyiNgcwele ukuba abe nguMthuthuzeli wethu, kude kube sekubuyeni kwesibini kukaYesu.
Ngoku, masijongane nonxibelelwano njengengcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu. UBathathu Emnye, xa babedala ihlabathi, banxibelelana ukuze kwenzeke.
IGenesis 2:18
18 Wathi uYehova uThixo, Akulungile ukuba umntu abe yedwa; Ndiya kumenzela umncedi onguwabo.
UYesu Kristu ebudeni bobulungiseleli bakhe wasifundisa ukuba wayesoloko enxibelelana noBawo ngokuqhubekayo ngemithandazo. Ndiyabongoza ukuba singene emthandazweni sicele ukuba siwunikwe.
Kubalulekile ukuba unxibelelwano phakathi kwesibini lube elubala kwaye luhlale luhleli. Kanye njengokuba uvakalisa ukuba ulithanda kangakanani iqabane lakho, kubalulekile ukuba umxelele into ongayithandiyo ngaphandle kokumkhathaza ngamazwi. Yiba neencoko ezisemgangathweni ngexesha lasemini, apho zonke iimvakalelo zakho zikuloo mzuzu.
Ubomi bomthandazo
AmaKristu afanele abe noYesu Kristu njengendawo yokuqala ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto. Ubomi bomthandazo bubomi bobudlelwane noBawo waseZulwini. Njengamaqabane angamaKristu kufuneka sibe namaxesha asondeleleneyo omthandazo kodwa kunye nomzuzu apho bobabini bazisa izibongozo zabo eNkosini.
UMateyu 15: 19-20
19 Kanjalo ndithi kuni, Ukuba ababini kuni bathe bavumelana emhlabeni apha ngeendawo zonke abangazicelayo, bozenzelwa nguBawo osemazulwini.
20 Kuba apho bahlanganisene khona egameni lam, nokuba babini nokuba bathathu, ndikho mna apho phakathi kwabo.
Ngaphambi kokuba niqalise ukuthandaza, nobabini kufuneka nivumelane ngezibongozo eniya kuzinikezela kuThixo kwaye kwangelo xesha kanye xa nilungiselela ukuvula intliziyo yenu phambi kukaSomandla, ubukho bakhe buya kuba lapho nani. Eli licebiso elimele lihlale likho ezintliziyweni zabo kwizibini ezingamaKristu.
Ukunyaniseka
Njengoko sele sikhankanyile kweli nqaku, umtshato sisivumelwano esasenza neqabane lethu yaye uYehova watywina ngobungcwele bakhe. Ukukrexeza sesinye sezona zono zilisikizi azicekisayo uYehova.
Siyifumana kwiTestamente Endala xa uYehova wemikhosi emisela imiyalelo aze abongoze abantu bakhe ukuba bangakrexezi. Eli ayilocebiso nje lemitshato yamaKristu, lo ngumsebenzi ekufuneka siwufeze ngobuntu bethu bonke.
Umfazi kunye nendoda oqala ukwabelana nayo ngobomi bakho namhlanje, ngoyena mntu ufanelekileyo uThixo ebefuna wena. Ukuba niphila ubomi bomtshato bentlonipho, uthando kunye nentsikelelo yeNkosi, uvuyo lwenu luya kuphelela.
Musani ukulahlekiswa nangamnye kuni. Akukho luyolo silufumanayo kweli hlabathi, lusinika uvuyo noxolo, njengoko iNkosi uYesu ingenako ukusinika bona.
Umtshato emehlweni kaThixo ngumnqophiso ongenakwaphulwa yindoda nebhinqa waza watywinwa nguThixo. Umtshato ngumnqophiso owamiselwa nguYehova wokunyaniseka nokunyaniseka. Kukuzibophelela esikufumana ubomi bonke esi sibini.
Hebhere 13:4
4 Umtshato mawubekeke ngeendlela zonke, nesilili masingadyojwa; Ke abenza umbulo nabakrexezi, uThixo uya kubagweba.
Kwanjengokuba uPhezukonke engabafundisi ngelizwi lakhe, enganqweneli ngeliso umfazi okanye indoda engeloqabane lakho. Kungcono ukungabi nalungu lomzimba kodwa ube nako ukuyonwaba ngonaphakade phambi koSomandla, kunokulahla umzimba uphela esihogweni.
iyunithi enye
Eli licebiso lomtshato wamaKristu elibalulekileyo ukuze ulwalamano luphumelele. Omabini amadoda nabafazi banabo babathandayo abanqwenela ngentliziyo iphela impumelelo emtshatweni.
Noko ke, simele sikhumbule ukuba xa sigqiba kwelokuba sinikele ubomi bethu komnye umntu ngomtshato, sikwiphulo lokuseka intsapho entsha.
Izinto esizifundileyo kule minyaka idluleyo sinokuzisebenzisa kobu bomi butsha kodwa asinakuzivumela ukuba zingenelele ukusa kwinqanaba lokuba singakwazi ukuzenzela izigqibo njengesibini.
IGenesis 2:24
24 Ngenxa yoko indoda yomshiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo, babe nyama-nye ke.
Ukufumana kunye nokufuna iingcebiso kubazali bethu, usapho kunye nabahlobo kwamkelekile ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye kufuneka sibe nombulelo ngabo. Kuphela kukuba kufuneka sibenze baqonde ukuba likhaya elitsha kunye nosapho oluya kuba namandla asebenzayo kuni njengesibini.
Indima yendoda njengengcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu
Indoda iyintloko yosapho, inkokeli, eyondla intsapho yayo, ibonelela kwaye iyikhathalele ngamaxesha onke nangawo onke amaxesha. Ifanele imnyamekele umfazi wayo njengelitye elinqabileyo alilo ize imnike ingqalelo eyimfuneko, ukuze azive exatyiswa yaye ethandwa.
Khumbula ukuba abasetyhini bahluke ngokupheleleyo kumadoda kwaye kuyimfuneko ukwenza izinto ezinokuthi zingahambelani namadoda kodwa zibaluleke kakhulu kwabasetyhini.
Efese 5: 23
23 ngokuba indoda le iyintloko yomfazi, njengokuba naye uKristu eyintloko yebandla, eli;
Kanye njengokuba uYesu Kristu ethanda, eyikhathalele yaye eyixabisa icawa yakhe, indoda ifanele yenze okufanayo nomfazi wayo.
Indima yamabhinqa njengesiluleko kwimitshato yamaKristu
Umfazi kwelinye icala wadalwa ukuze abe lolona ncedo lufanelekileyo endodeni. Simele sibaxhase abayeni bethu size sibe liqabane elithembekileyo elimkhuthazayo xa efuna.
Indoda njengentloko-ntsapho, umfazi ubophelelekile ukuba azithobe kuyo. NjengamaKristu, uya kuqonda ukuba oku akuthethi ukuba indoda iya kumnyanzela umfazi wayo ukuba enze izinto ezingavisisaniyo nokuthanda kukaKristu. Yaye akayi kumphatha kakubi aze amxhaphaze ngokuba ngumncedi wakhe ofanelekileyo.
UKristu useka umtshato njengobudlelwane bakhe necawe yakhe kwaye le yindlela eshukuma ngayo isibini esitshatileyo. Igcwele inceba, uxolelo, uthando, uvuyo, unxibelelwano, ukhuseleko nokunye.
Kwabase-Efese 5: 28-29
28 Ngoko amelwe amadoda ukubathanda abawo abafazi, njengokuba beyimizimba yawo. Lowo umthandayo umkakhe, uyazithanda;
29 Kuba akukho namnye wakha wayithiya eyakhe inyama; usuka ayigcine, ayigcine, njengokuba nayo iNkosi ilenjenjalo ibandla.
hayi ukuqhawula umtshato
Elinye icebiso lemitshato yamaKristu esifuna ukwabelana nani ngalo namhlanje kukuba ngaphandle kwesizathu sicinge ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato sisicombululo. Ubomi njengesibini, njengalo naluphi na ulwalamano lobuqu okanye lomsebenzi, abusoloko bumnandi.
INkosi uYesu ayizange isilahlekise ngale nto. Wasixelela ngokucacileyo ukuba othe wathanda ukumlandela, makawuthwale umnqamlezo wakhe, ahambe ezinyaweni zakhe. Ukuba sibonakalisa kancinane ngeli binzana kwaye sihamba siye kuloo mzuzu, siyaqonda ukuba indlela awayehamba ngayo nomnqamlezo emqolo yayingelula kwaphela.
Kufuneka kwakhona ucinge ukuba icebo lokuqala loMdali wethu yayikukudala indoda nomfazi ukuba bawulime umhlaba, bazala baze babe nobunye kuye.” Kwenzeka ntoni emva koku? Utshaba lwangena ezingqondweni zabo ukutshabalalisa icebo leNkosi.
Namhlanje oku akutshintshanga. Ukuba sibona amanani oqhawulo-mtshato okanye sihlalutya nje imeko yabantu esibaqhelileyo, siya kuvuma ukuba unyaka nonyaka, oku kuyanda.
UYesu Krestu wamisela ukuma okuqinileyo ngokunxulumene noqhawulo-mtshato, ecacisa ukuba eli yayingelocebo lokuqala likaBawo oseZulwini, ngoko ke njengamaKristu akufuneki sicinge ngolu khetho.
UMateyu 19: 6-8
6 Ngako oko abasebabini, banyama-nye; ke, oko akumanyileyo uThixo, umntu akahlukanisi
7 Bathi kuye, Phofu ibiyini na ukuba uMoses awise umthetho wokuthi, makamnike incwadi yokwahlukana, amale?
8 Wathi kubo, Ngenxa yobulukhuni bentliziyo yenu uMoses wanivumela ukuba nibale abafazi benu; kodwa ekuqaleni bekungenjalo.
Xa ujongene nayo nayiphi na ingxaki, thetha ushiye iimvakalelo zakho ecaleni uze uzame ukuqonda ingongoma yenye. Ukuba imeko ingaphezu kwamandla akho yaye uvakalelwa kukuba akunako ukucombulula le meko uwedwa, yiya kumfundisi wakho okanye umdala webandla ukuze akuncede.
Amazwi othando hayi intiyo
Amagama anamandla okwakha okanye okonakalisa kwaye kungoko kufuneka sikukhathalele oko sikuthethayo, kungekuphela nje kumaqabane ethu kodwa kuye wonke umntu osingqongileyo, kubandakanywa nathi. Ukuba sifuna ukwenza nakuphi na ukugxeka iqabane lethu eyakhayo kwaye isekelwe eluthandweni.
Amazwi ethu kunye nesimo sethu sengqondo sinokuba sisigqibo kulwalamano lwethu. Masingaze sithethe ngokusekelwe kwimvakalelo esinokuba sivakalelwa ngayo ngelo xesha kwaye ngaphantsi ukuba ngumsindo okanye umsindo. Kuhle ukuba sirhoxe, sikhalele uxolo kuThixo size ngokuzolileyo sithethe ngezinto ezisicaphukisayo okanye ezisicaphukisayo.
IMizekeliso 21: 19
19 Kulungile ukuhlala ezweni eliyintlango
Ngaphezu komfazi onengxabano nomsindo.
Ixesha elisemgangathweni njengeengcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu
Ixesha elisemgangathweni esilinika amaqabane ethu libaluleke kanye njengexesha esilichitha noThixo. Lixesha apho engqondweni yethu, entliziyweni yethu nakubo bonke ubuntu bethu, kukho iqabane lethu kuphela.
Ngamanye amaxesha sizifumana sikwindibano yosapho okanye sikunye nomhlobo kodwa ingqondo yethu ikwenye indawo. Eli asiloxesha elisemgangathweni. Kukubeka zonke iimvakalelo zethu kweso sithuba sexesha.
Ezi zithuba zexesha zinokusekwa phakathi kwamaqela omabini, nokuba yiyure, isiqingatha seyure okanye iiyure ezintathu ngosuku, into ebalulekileyo kukuqonda ukuba lixesha elisemgangathweni kwaye lilodwa kwisibini sethu. Lixesha elifanelekileyo lokufumana inyathelo elilandelayo ofuna ukulenza njengesibini, iprojekthi ekhethekileyo okanye ucwangcise uhambo lweeholide. Lixesha nje lobudlelwane, akumele kubekho omnye umcimbi ngaphandle kwalowo wobudlelwane kunye nendlela yokuqhubeka nokusebenza kuwo ukuwomeleza kunye nokuwenza ukhule.
Isigqibo kunye nokuthembela njengengcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu
Xa sigqiba kwelokuba sitshate, sizimisele ngokupheleleyo ekuthandeni omnye umntu. Uthando alusekho phantsi kweemvakalelo, nto leyo eyenza kube buthathaka kakhulu, kuba ngolunye usuku sinokuziva sithandwa kakhulu kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo sicaphuka ngento kwaye uthando alukho nje.
Ukuba uthando luba sisigqibo, luqina kwaye luzinzile. Kufana naxa sithatha isigqibo sokumthanda uKristu. Yayisisigqibo sethu ukumlandela, ukwenza ukuthanda kwakhe, ukuphila ngemilinganiselo yakhe, nokuvuma ukuba uyiNkosi noMsindisi. Kunjalo ke emtshatweni.
Esi sigqibo kufuneka sibe yimihla ngemihla, sisebenze yonke imihla kwaye usigcine engqondweni ngamaxesha onke.
Ukuba bobabini bayavumelana ngesigqibo sokuthandana kunye nayo yonke into efika neli gama (intlonipho, ukuncoma, ukuxabiseka, uvuyo), ukuthembela okuyimfuneko kuveliswa kubo bobabini ukwazi ukuba kwelinye, sibaluleke kakhulu.
Ukwazi ukuba ulwalamano lolona luxabisekileyo kuthi sobabini nokuba uYesu Kristu ungundoqo wobomi bethu, siyazi ukuba akukho nto yaye akukho mntu unokusahlula. Ukuqiniseka kokwazi ukuba omnye umntu ufuna ukuba nathi yeyona nto ibalulekileyo nenika ukuzithemba kokubini.
bonke ubudlelwane bahlukile
Ukuba nomzekelo womtshato njengereferensi kuhle kakhulu. Kubo bonke ubomi, sibe nemizekelo eyahlukeneyo ekufuneka siyilandele, abathi babe ngabantu esibathandayo kwaye basincede senze ngcono nakweyiphi na indawo yobomi.
Umzekelo wokwenene woku ngowokuba onke amaKristu angabalandeli bakaYesu Kristu. Sifuna yonke imihla ukufana naYe kwaye silangazelela ngomphefumlo wethu wonke, ukuba nobomi basemoyeni obufana nobo safundiswa yiNkosi yethu uYesu. Into esimele sicace ngayo kukuba umtshato wethu wahluke ngokupheleleyo kuyo nayiphi na enye esemhlabeni.
Okokuqala, singabantu abahluke ngokupheleleyo. INkosi uYesu, ekusidaleni kwakhe, yasenza sabodwa, akakho omnye umntu ofana nathi ngaphakathi.
Okwesibini, injongo uYesu Krestu anayo ngobudlelwane bethu bubudlelwane bethu obubodwa. Akukho njongo zimbini zifana kwindawo enye, nabantu abafanayo nangexesha elinye. INkosi yanibiza ukuba nimanyane ngesizathu esithile.
Okwesithathu nokokugqibela, iimeko ezingqonge ubudlelwane bethu, imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla esiyenzayo, indlela esilawula ngayo umtshato wethu, zahluke ngokupheleleyo kumtshato esiwuncomayo nesinawo njengomzekelo.
Loo mtshato abanawo njengesalathiso nawo unemizabalazo yawo, ubuthathaka kunye noloyiso kuKristu Yesu. Ke ngoko, akukho nto ehlabathini xa ithelekiswa nenye.
Intlonipho
Intlonelo, njengothando, isisiseko sonxibelelwano oluphumelelayo. Asimele sihlonele kuphela ngokusuka kumazwi siye kwilizwi lethu kodwa kuzo zonke izinto ezenziwa ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwekhaya. Kwakhona njengamaKristu kufuneka sihloniphe usapho nezihlobo zamaqabane ethu.
Ukunika ixabiso kunye nokuqwalasela zonke ezi zinto ngaphakathi kobudlelwane kudala umoya wokuvisisana kunye nobudlelwane, kungekhona nje ngaphakathi kobudlelwane, kodwa nakweyiphi na imisebenzi yentlalontle apho kufuneka badibanise nosapho, osebenza nabo okanye abahlobo bomnye. Eli lelinye lamacebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu ekufuneka isoloko ikhona kubudlelwane bethu.
Eyesi-1 kaPetros 2: 17
17 Beka wonke umntu. Thandani abazalwana. Yoyika uThixo. Beka ukumkani.
Xolela njengengcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu
Simele siqale simisele yaye sivumelane ukuba singabantu abangafezekanga nokuba senza iimpazamo mihla le ezidla ngokungenziwa ngabom.
Ubomi bethu njengabantwana bakaThixo abufezekanga, nangona sinikela ngayo yonke into ngokwethu ukuze sikholise uThixo, senza iimpazamo esingaziqondi nokungaziqondiyo. Ilizwi elibi okanye inkangeleko eyenzakalisayo komnye umntu isenokuba sesinye sezono esizenzayo. Nangona kunjalo, uThixo mihla le ngothando lwakhe olukhulu nenceba yakhe uhlala esixolela kwaye uyasilibala isono sethu.
Ndenza le ntshayelelo kuba ngamanye amaxesha siba nzima ngokwenene xa kufikwa ekuxoleleni, nokuba nzima ngakumbi kunoMdali onguSomandla ngokwakhe, okuphela koMgwebi wendalo iphela nayo yonke into ekuyo.
IMizekeliso 17: 9
9 Osigubungelayo isono ufuna ubuhlobo;
Ke lowo uyisasazayo ubekela bucala umhlobo.
Ukuba umyeni okanye umfazi wakho wenze into ekwenzakalisa ngokwenene, umele umxolele uze usibeke ngasemva eso senzo. Esi, njengothando, sisigqibo esifanele sisiqinisekise yonke imihla. Akukho lula kwaye utshaba aluyi kwenza kube lula ukuba silibale. Nangona kunjalo, sinako ukwenza yonke into kuKristu osomelezayo kwaye ngokusebenzela ukuxolela yonke imihla, siya kukwazi ukushiya isikhubekiso ngasemva kwaye sikholwe ukuba uthando luya kukhula kwaye lomelele ngakumbi.
Umtshato
Ukuze usebenzise la macebiso aphathelele imitshato yamaKristu, kubalulekile ukuqonda, ngokweBhayibhile, ukuba uyintoni ngokwenene umtshato kwanokuba uThixo wawudale ngayiphi injongo. Ukuba nolu lwazi kuya kusinceda ukuba sixabise, sihlonele size sithabathe uxanduva oluza nalo.
Umtshato lumanyano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi ukuze ngaloo ndlela babumbe inyama enye. Oku kubonakaliswa ngomsitho wasekuhlaleni nowecawa wokubonakalisa olu manyano ehlabathini. Esona senzo sibalulekileyo nesibalulekileyo kulo mbhiyozo zizithembiso ezenziwa kokubini phambi koThixo.
injongo yomtshato
Eyona njongo yomtshato kukuba ngolu manyano nangezenzo esizenzayo ngaphakathi kwawo, sizukise igama leNkosi yethu uYesu. Njengoko sele siphuhlile kwiingcebiso zemitshato yobuKristu, umtshato kufuneka ulingane nobudlelwane iNkosi uYesu enabo neBandla layo.
Ikwaluqhina oluzalisekisa isigunyaziso seNkosi sokusizala kunye nokuzalisa umhlaba. Kuphakathi emtshatweni kuphela apho iintlobano zesini zivumelekileyo. Masiqonde ukuba xa indoda nomfazi behlangene, baba nyama-nye, kungoko ukubaluleka nobungcwele besi senzo siphelelisa isibini esithandanayo.
ukuthobela iBhayibhile
Umtshato ufanele ube yindawo apho isibini sinokuzinandipha, sikhuseleke yaye oko kube kukukhula kobuqu nokokomoya kubo bobabini. Ikhaya elisempilweni yindawo ekonwabisayo ukuhlala nokudibana kwakhona.
Ukuze sibe nalo olu vuyo kunye nolu xolo, kuyimfuneko ukuba iNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu ibe ngundoqo wobudlelwane kunye nekhaya lethu. Kubalulekile ukuba yonke into esiyenzayo ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwayo sibeke uThixo wethu.
Masikhumbule ukuba umtshato liqela apho bobabini bayaphelelisana, zombini zibalulekile kuThixo kwaye ziyamkholisa.
INtshumayeli 4: 9-11
9 Kulungile ukuba babe ngababini kunokuba abe mnye. kuba bahlawulwa ngcono ngomsebenzi wabo.
10 Ngokuba xa bathe bawa, omnye uya kuliphakamisa iqabane lakhe; kodwa yeha kwedwa! kuthi, xa ithe yawa, kungabikho namnye uyiphakamisayo.
11 Kananjalo ukuba ababini balala kunye, baya kufudumelana; Ke umntu angáthini ukuvutha yedwa?
Ukusombulula iingxaki kubudlelwane
Ubunzima esinabo njengabantu abatshatileyo, ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela esijongana ngayo nabo, buya kusinceda ukuba sikhule kwaye somelele eluthandweni okanye sisohlukanise kwaye sizenze lukhuni iintliziyo zethu.
Kucacile ukuba njengamaKristu intliziyo eqaqadekileyo yintliziyo eyahlukene neNkosi yaye oku akumelanga ukuthanda kukaThixo.
Njengengcebiso yokuqala, kufuneka uhlale ukhumbula ukuba ingxaki onokuthi uhambe nayo kunye neqabane lakho asiyongxaki yodwa eye yafunyanwa ngomnye umntu wayoyisa. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba le meko iyenzeka kubo kuphela, ngaphandle kokucinga umzuzwana ukuba kukho abantu abaye bahamba kwezo zinto kwaye bakwazi ukushiya yonke into ngasemva.
Oku kungenxa yokuba ukuxolelwa okunyanisekileyo kunye nokwenyani kungenye yeziseko zobudlelwane babo kwaye baye bakwazi ukuyishiya ngentliziyo yonke loo ngxaki ukuba abanye banqume ukuphela kobudlelwane.
Kukho izimo zengqondo iqabane lethu elinalo esingabalulekanga ngakumbi kwaye sivele sithi: akunamsebenzi, unjalo. Ukhozo ngalunye lwesanti luyadibanisa kwaye ngalo ngalunye lwazo sinokwenza intaba enkulu yesanti enokuba yintaba ekunzima ukuyiwela.
Yiyo loo nto kungakhathaliseki ukuba incinci kangakanani na, ukuba kukho into engenzi ukuba uzive ulungile ngokupheleleyo kunye neqabane lakho, thetha ngayo ngothando. Akukho budlelwane buqhawuka ngobusuku. Konke oku kwenzeka ekuhambeni kwexesha nemiba engakhange isonjululwe kwangethuba. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, unxibelelwano, njengoko sele sibonile, lubaluleke kakhulu.
Umyeni wakho nomfazi wakho bakhuliswe ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Mhlawumbi kukho ukufana okubangelwa kukuba ngamaKristu, kodwa kukho izinto ezazibalulekile kwenye intsapho yaye kwenye ziyinto nje engadingi kubaluleka kangako.
Yiyo loo nto kufuneka sikulumkele ukutolika esikwenzayo ngezinto ezithile. Makhe sithethe ngomzekelo ukuze sikuqonde kakuhle oku.
Mhlawumbi ekukhuleni komyeni wakho, kwakubaluleke gqitha ukuncokola nentsapho yakhe uze ubazise enoba uze emsebenzini kusini na, xa wayehamba neqela labahlobo bakhe, okanye uziva esempilweni. Kwintsapho yomfazi wakho, oku kwakungabalulekanga ngokwenene, umyalezo omnye wawanele.
Xa bemanyene ngomtshato, unxibelelana nomfazi wakhe ngalo lonke ixesha kuba oku kubalulekile kuye, kwelinye icala, akayiboni imfuneko yokumazisa ngamanyathelo awathabathayo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Oku kufuneka kuxoxwe kwaye omabini amaqela kufuneka aqonde ukuba kwelinye libalulekile kwaye elinye alikho. Ukunika oku, fikelela kwisivumelwano esikhululekileyo nesilula ukusizalisekisa ngabo bobabini.
Iindinyana zeBhayibhile njengecebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu
Ukusuka kwiTestamente eNdala ukuya kwiTestamente eNtsha, uBawo oseZulwini utyhila kuthi ixabiso kunye nokubaluleka komtshato kunye nosapho ngaphakathi kwihlabathi loMoya.
Yiyo loo nto sikumema ukuba ufunde kwaye ucamngce ngezi ndinyana aziyi kukunceda kuphela kubudlelwane bakho, kodwa zikwayingcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu enikwe evela phezulu yiNkosi noMsindisi wethu.
IMizekeliso 18: 22
22 Onomfazi ufumene okulungileyo;
Kwaye nizuze inceba kaYehova.
Indoda efumana iqabane layo elingunaphakade yindoda efumene umncedi wayo ofanelekileyo, umphelelisi wayo, umfazi oya kumxhasa aze amkhuthaze. Ubabalwe nguYehova, kuba uThixo wasidalela ukuba sihlale ngoxolo, nothando, nobutyebi; Wathi akumbona ngokwakhe lo mntu wavele wathi akalunganga kungoko wadala iqabane lakhe.
KwabaseKolose 3: 18-19
18 Nina bafazi, walulameleni awenu amadoda, njengoko kufanele eNkosini.
19 Nina madoda, bathandeni abafazi benu, ningabi ngqwabalala kubo.
Isibongozo sesokuba umfazi abuqonde ubunkokheli bendoda ekhaya kwaye ayihloniphe ngolo hlobo. UThixo wamdalela loo njongo kwaye luthumo lwakhe kumbindi wosapho. Asinakungathobeli okanye sibe nemvukelo xa sijamelene nale nyaniso.
Ngokuphathelele yona, indoda imele imthande umfazi wayo yaye ingamphathi ngendelelo, ikratshi okanye ikratshi. Impatho yayo imele ibe yethambileyo nethambileyo yaye ngale ndlela ayisayi kufumana uthando lomfazi wayo kuphela kodwa nenkoliseko kaYesu Kristu.
IMizekeliso 31: 10
10 Umfazi onesidima, ngubani na oya kumfumana?
Kungenxa yokuba ixabiso labo lingaphezulu lee kunamatye axabisekileyo.
Umfazi onesidima ngulowo ubeka indoda yakhe, ungumcebisi, ungumzekelo omele ulandelwe kwamanye amantombazana angamaKristu, alumkileyo, awoyika uYehova, umlawuli olungileyo, onobulumko, akalolize, uyayithanda indoda yakhe yaye uyayihlonela.
Kubalulekile ukuba njengamabhinqa sizikise ukucinga ngezi zinto, kuba ungoyena mfazi ufanelekileyo kuyo yonke indoda engumKristu.
Duteronomi 24: 5
5 Ukuba ubani usandul’ ukutshata, akayi kuphuma umkhosi, engayi kuzixakathisa ngayo nantoni na; Woba simahla endlwini yakhe unyaka wonke, ukuze avuyisane nomfazi omthabathileyo.
Ke ngaba kufuneka sithathe ikhefu lonyaka sitshatile kwaye singenzi nto? Akunjalo, ngokucacileyo oku akuhambelani namaxesha anamhlanje. Okubalulekileyo kukuba siqonde ukuba ngexesha leholide yethu yomtshato, kufuneka sizinikele omnye komnye. Akukho ngxaki, umsebenzi, iimeko ezenza ukuba sisuke kulo mzuzu mhle.
Kwakhona ngaphandle kwe-honeymoon kwixesha lethu lokuphumla, kukuzinikezela ngokupheleleyo kubudlelwane bethu kunye nekhaya. Masingazikhathazi okanye sinike ukubaluleka koko kungeyona nto iphambili ebomini bethu. Masikhumbule ukuba yonke into inexesha neyure.
Iingoma 4: 7
7 Umhle onke, mhlobo wam,
Kwaye kuwe akukho mabala.
Njengabafazi sigxeka kakhulu inkangeleko yethu kunye nendlela yethu yokuba. Simele siqonde ukuba sisidalwa esifezekileyo esikuKristu Yesu, senziwe ngokomfanekiselo nangokufana naye.” Amadoda amele akhumbuze abafazi bawo ngazo zonke iimpawu neemfanelo zabo ezintle ezibangele ukuba bathandane nabo.
Eyesi-1 kaPetros 3: 7
7 Ngokunjalo, nina madoda, hlalani kakuhle nabo, nibabeka abafazi njengesona sitya siethe-ethe, njengeendlalifa kunye nani zobabalo lobomi, ukuze imithandazo yenu ingathinteleki.
Le ndinyana ityhila intsingiselo yokwenene nenjongo yokuxabisa nokuhlonelwa kwamabhinqa nentsingiselo yokwenyaniso ayimelayo kuThixo. Umyeni ongakuthobeliyo oku, imithandazo yakhe ayizukufikelela kuBawo waseZulwini ngaphandle komqobo. Indoda yakho isoloko ikhumbula kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho la macebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu anconyelwa yiNkosi uYesu.
Iyamangalisa indlela izenzo zethu ezinokwenza ngayo umahluko kubudlelwane bethu noThixo. Ukwazi ukuba ngenxa yabo, iNkosi isuka nje igqibe ekubeni ingasiphulaphuli de sitshintshe indlela yethu yokuphila, yinyaniso eyomeleleyo esichaphazela ngokunzulu njengamaKristu.
Umthandazo wokuqalisa ubomi bomtshato
Njengoko sibonile kwingcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu bubomi bomthandazo. Yiyo loo nto ndinimema ukuba nithandaze kunye lo mthandazo ukuze iNkosi uYesu iwukhokele umtshato wenu ukususela namhlanje nangonaphakade.
Ubawo wasezulwini
Malibongwe igama lakho Thixo Somandla
UMdali wazo zonke izinto ezikhoyo
Ngubani na onokuzifanisa nawe?
Namhlanje siza ngentliziyo evulekileyo kwaye singazenzisi
Enkosi ngeentsikelelo zakho kunye neenceba zakho ezihlaziywa rhoqo kusasa
Siyakudumisa kuba usimanye ngomtshato ongcwele
Ukusukela ngaloo mini sinyama-nye njengoko simiselwe liLizwi lakho elingcwele
Enkosi ngokuzisa umncedisi wam kunye nentloko yekhaya ebomini bam.
Yazisa iimvakalelo zethu kwilizwi loMoya oyiNgcwele wakho
Kwaye yiba yiNkosi osikhokelayo nosikhokelayo
Siyazi ukuba unenjongo kuthi kunye nobudlelwane bethu
Kwaye namhlanje siyakuxelela, silapha ukuzalisekisa
Sikelela umtshato wethu mihla le
Yenza uthando lwethu lukhule mihla le
Siphe ukuqonda nobulumko bokulawula amakhaya ethu
Musa ukuzivumela iinyawo zethu ukuba ziphambuke kumendo wakho ongcwele
Gcina kude kuthi sonke uhlaselo lotshaba
Injongo kabani kukutshabalalisa into eniyihlanganisileyo neyayibumbayo
Gquma ngeGazi lakho elinamandla ubomi bethu, umtshato wethu, ikhaya lethu, umsebenzi, imali kunye nempilo.
Makwenziwe ngokwentando yaKho kubudlelwane bethu
Enkosi Bawo waseZulwini ngokusikhetha ukuba senze usapho
Kwanga singalizukisa iGama lakho elingcwele ngezenzo zethu kwaye imithandazo yethu mayihlale inempepho emnandi kwiTrone yakho yaseZulwini.
Unoyolo ngonaphakade
Ngegama likaYesu.
Amen
Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi ngcebiso zemitshato yobuKrestu ziyakha, ziyakhula, kwaye zomelezwa ngoKrestu Yesu. Ungalibazisi okomzuzwana ukubeka uThixo njengombindi wobomi bakho. Vumela ngoMoya wakhe oyiNgcwele ukuba aguqulwe kubuthathaka bakho.
Ukuqukumbela, ndabelana nawe ngale audiovisual eya kukunika iingcebiso kwimitshato yamaKristu eya kuthi iqinise ngakumbi olu manyano lungcwele olusikelelwe nguMoya oyiNgcwele.