ILizwi leNkosi yethu kunye nomthandazo ziindlela ezimbini ezinkulu asinike zona ukuba soyise utshaba, ke Ngena eli nqaku, kwaye ufunde. indlela yokuthandazela umntwanaKaloku akukho nto inamandla emhlabeni njengomthandazo kamama.
Unako uthandazela umntwana?
Ngokuhamba kwexesha utshaba lomoya lwamaKristu kunye neCawa, uSathana, ufuna ukutshabalalisa usapho, nangona kunjalo uBawo Wethu waseZulwini uzuze njengelifa iintsikelelo ezinkulu kwaye enye yazo kukusinika izixhobo zokukwazi ukuthandazela umntwana.
Xa uSathana eceba ukuhlutha omnye wabantwana bethu, indima yabazali kukuguqa phambi koThixo ukuze abathethelele yaye ngesenzo esinamandla ngolo hlobo utshaba luyangcangcazela. Yiyo loo nto injongo yeli nqaku kukuchaza indlela yokuthandazela umntwana.
UYehova uthi kwiLizwi lakhe:
I-Psalm 2: 8
8 Cela kum, ndikwenze iintlanga zililifa lakho;
Neziphelo zomhlaba njengelifa lakho.
Ngoko unokuphumla kuYehova uze wenze izicwangciso zomthandazo ezisebenzayo nezinenjongo ezisekelwe eLizwini likaThixo, ezi zimela izixhobo ezikhulu kumlo wokomoya esiwuziswa mihla le.
Sinako ukwenza imithandazo kuSomandla ngamaxesha onke, umzekelo: kwizilingo, kwimilo kunye noloyiso, kunye nakwimeko yabantwana abavukelayo abafudukela kude nekhaya.
Amaxesha amaninzi siyazibuza ukuba kutheni abantwana bethu bengathobeli? Kutheni beshiya ikhaya? Ngezo zihlandlo ukudimazeka kuyasijikeleza kwaye ukudana kuyasihlasela, kwaye kulapho kufuneka silandele, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, indlela yomthandazo njengoko incwadi isitsho:
UYeremiya 33:3
3 Khala kum, ndikuphendule, ndikufundise izinto ezinkulu ezifihlakeleyo ongazaziyo.
Kwabase-Efese 3: 14-15
14 Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ndaguqa ngamadolo phambi koYise weNkosi yethu uYesu Krestu.
15 eyathi ngaye yonke imizalwane esemazulwini nesemhlabeni, ilibize kuye igama layo;
Ngoku, uYehova usinike isipho esixabiseke gqitha, esiyintsapho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uThixo usisikelele ngosapho, ngoko ke akukho nto inokuyithatha kuthi. Kakade ke, kodwa yiloo nto uSathana engayeki ukusebenzisa amaqhinga akhe okusenza siwele kwizilingo yaye kulapho simele sibambelele emthandazweni njengendlela nomthombo wokusithethelela.
indlela echanekileyo yokuthandaza
NgeZibhalo Ezingcwele sinokubona ngokucacileyo ukuba ukuthandaza asiyonto ngaphandle kokuthetha noThixo. Xa sithandaza, sivula iintliziyo zethu eNkosini ukuze simxelele indlela esiziva ngayo. UYesu uthi:
UMateyu 6: 5-8
5 Naxa sukuba uthandaza, uze ungabi njengabahanahanisi; ngokuba bethanda ukuthandaza bemi ezindlwini zesikhungu nasezimbombeni zezitrato, ukuze babonwe ngabantu; Ndikufungisa ukuba sele bawufumene umvuzo wabo.
6 Ke wena, xa sukuba uthandaza, ngena egumbini lakho, uluvale ucango, uthandaze kuYihlo osemfihlekweni; aze uYihlo obona emfihlekweni akubuyisele ekuhleni.
7 Kwaye uthandaza, ungasebenzisi ukuphindaphinda okungenanto, njengeeNtlanga, abacinga ukuba ngentetho yabo baya kuviwa.
8 Ngoko musani ukuba njengabo; kuba ekwazi uYihlo enikusweleyo, ningekamceli.
Ukususela kumzuzu ukuba iNkosi isinika ithuba lokuba nomntwana, siqala ukufumana ihlabathi elitsha, siziva uthando olukhulu kunye nokukhuselwa kubo, okukhokelela ekubeni siqaphele impilo yabo yezinto eziphathekayo kunye nokomoya.
Ewe ekuhambeni kwexesha kuyafundwa ukuba abantwana baya kudlula kumanqanaba anzima kwihlabathi labo lokomoya, nokuba kungenxa yemvukelo okanye ngenxa yezenzo zotshaba lokomoya, kulapho kufuneka sithathe indima yabazali kwaye sibambelele elukholweni lwethu ukuze sincede. ngabo ngemithandazo.
Xa kukho ootata noomama abasikelela abantwana babo, akukho bani ubaqalekisayo kwaye inceba enkulu yeNkosi yethu iya kuthululwa phezu kwabo.
Amanyathelo okuthandazela umntwana ovukelayo
Ukuba unonyana oyinjubaqa wemka ekhaya ungasazi nokuba wenzeni, ziye zakhula iimeko ungazi ukuba uthandazela unyana njani, eLizwini likaThixo kuhlala kukho izisombululo. Nakweyiphi na imeko ojongene nayo kufuneka sihlale simkhumbula uThixo.
vusa injongo
Ngexesha lokuthandazela lo nyana unemvukelo wemka ekhaya, oswele intlonipho, ochasene nemilinganiselo yokuziphatha neyobuKristu ekuthiwa, ukongezelela ekuchaseni imizimba nobomi babo.
Kungoko kufuneka sifunde into yokuqala xa sithandaza kukuvusa injongo uThixo ayinike umntu kwasesizalweni sikanina.
UYehova umnike injongo yaye akasanyakazi ngokupheleleyo de afumane iNkosi, noko ke, ebudeni bekhondo lobomi uyamnceda afikelele kweso siphelo nenjongo yakhe; kulapho umthandazo ungena khona njengomthombo ophambili wokuvusa injongo kunye nokwenza usindiso lusebenze kwaye nobumnyama obusemehlweni abo bunokuphuma.
Loo njongo ilele kwaye into ephaphileyo yeyoSathana, ukongezelela kwizigqibo ezenziwa ngumntu zokungalandeli umendo wokulungileyo. Ngokuba uYehova unokubujika ububi bube kokulungileyo.
ukuvuka kwengqondo
Xa abantu besenza izono ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ubugwenxa bungena. Sinokuthi isazela sabo sitshiswe, abakwazi ukwahlula okulungileyo nokubi.
Eli nqaku, siyakumema ukuba ufunde eli khonkco lilandelayo Umzekeliso wonyana wolahleko owayenayo yonke kwaye waphulukana nayo. Wayenemvukelo kakhulu kwaye kanye ngalo mzuzu xa engasenanto, kulapho wafika ezantsi kwaye kulapho wasabela khona wajolisa ujongo lwakhe phezulu, esibhakabhakeni.
UThixo ngenceba yakhe engapheliyo waziva izikhalo nemithandazo yabazali bakhe ukuba abuyele ezingqondweni, apho wasivusa isazela sakhe waza waba namandla okucalula phakathi kokulungileyo nokubi.
Biza izinto njengoko zinjalo
Ibaluleke kakhulu, njengoko isitsho kwiZibhalo Ezingcwele:
IMizekeliso 18: 21
21 Ulwimi lunamandla obomi nokufa, yaye abo baluthandayo baya kudla isiqhamo salo.
Kulapho thina bomama sithetha kakubi ngabantwana bethu, sivakalisa ubumnyama kubo, ngoko ke kufuneka sitshintshe iziqalekiso zentsikelelo sithi unyana wam uphawulwe nguThixo, ukhonza uThixo kwaye uzoyifeza injongo yakhe apha emhlabeni. Oku kuphumeza ukuvuswa kwihlabathi lomoya kwaye kugxotha ubumnyama babantwana abanemvukelo.
Kufuneka unikezele kwingxokozelo nomthandazo, kuloo Moya womthandazo. Nqulani nidumise iNkosi yethu phambi kokuba nithandaze, kuba Yena uhamba phambi kwabantwana bethu esilwa amadabi abo. Kubalulekile ukuba sifunde iNdumiso 140 kwaye izalisekisa umthandazo wabantwana abanemvukelo.
Umthandazo wabantwana abanemvukelo
ubawo onothando
Ngeli xesha ndimi phambi kobuso bakho ukuba ndithethelele abantwana bam, ndithethele usapho lwam.
Kungalomzuzu Nkosi yam ndizibona ndixakwe kukuvukela kwabantwana bam.
Wena Nkosi uyazazi iintliziyo zabo. Nguwe kuphela onokundinceda.
Ndiyakubongoza ngale yure ukuze ngegama likaYesu, hlukanani nonke
ukuthinjwa bububi, ugwiliko, ikratshi
kwaye ndibhengeza ukuba ndizikhulule iingqondo zabantwana bam kubo bonke ubugwenxa.
Ndimisela ikamva lam
abantwana abangaphenjelelwayo yimifanekiso engamanyala, ubuhenyu, amaqela emigulukudu, abaziphethe kakubi nokunganyaniseki imisebenzi.
Bawo othandekayo, Nguwe kuphela onokuthi ubagcinele abantwana bam kuyo yonke imfundiso yobuxoki, unqulo-zithixo, ubugqwirha kuyo yonke into ephakama ngokuchasene nentando kaThixo.
kwaye ndiyakhala ngenxa yokuba bahlala befuna inyaniso kuwe.
Enkosi ngenxa yakho
iingqondo zithinjwa, zisiwe kuKrestu wethu oyintanda.
Bawo eGameni likaYesu ukuba abantwana bam bazithobe kwintando yakho egqibeleleyo
Ndikhokele njengotata/umama ukukhokela, ukukhokela nokulungisa abantwana bam eLizwini lakho.
Nkosi, ndivumele ndimamele ulwalathiso lwakho, ndilusebenzise ngobulumko obuvela phezulu.
Ayindim onyanzelisa intando yam, kodwa yeyakho ekhayeni lam.
Zizukise Nkosi endlwini yam, kusapho lwam nasebomini babantwana bam.
Ngoku Bawo ndiyamcelela umyeni wam ukuba nawe umnike idirection yokuba sikwazi ukujongana nale meko nabantwana bethu.
Gcina yonke itolo kude notshaba, yaphule kwaye yaphule naliphi na iqhina lemvukelo Nkosi kwizizukulwana zethu.
Khumbula Nkosi yendlu yomkhonzi wakho
Okwangoku Nkosi yam ndiphumle kuwe kuba ndiqinisekile ukuba usivile isicelo sam kwaye ulawula zonke izinto.
Konke oku Thixo wam ndikuthumela kuwe egameni lonyana wakho oyintanda neNkosi Jesucristo
Makube njalo.
Kwakhona, kubangel’ umdla ukuba siye kwindinyana elandelayo.
1 kwabaseKorinte 1:10
10 Ndiyanibongoza ke, bazalwana, ngalo igama leNkosi yethu uYesu Kristu, ukuba nithethe nto-nye nonke, nokuba kungabikho zahlukahlukano kuni;
Ngokulandelelana kwezimvo, siyaqhubeka nezinye iindlela zokuthandazela umntwana ukuze ukhethe lowo uzifanelayo iimfuno zakho.
Umthandazo wabantwana abanemvukelo
Bawo Oyintanda, ndikucela ukuba usebenze elusindisweni nakutshintsho lonyana wam; Ndilawula intliziyo yakho, ingqondo yakho,
nokuthanda kwakhe ukumkhulula kwiingcamango ezimbi ezimlawulayo; ukuze ndiphume emthunzini ndikhanyiselwe kukukhanya kwakho okukhuselayo.
Nkosi yam yalela ukuba lonke ulawulo lobubi phezu konyana wam lunyamalale ngoko nangoko kwaye ludlulele ngokupheleleyo kuThixo uSomandla;
kwaye ke ndinokufumana uxolelo lwakho, ndifumane intsikelelo yakho.
Mguqule unyana wam abe ngumntu onobubele ngokupheleleyo kwaye othobekileyo.
Mnike intsikelelo yakho unyana wam ukuze aziqonde izono zakhe kwaye enze isenzo senguquko ngenxa yazo;
kwaye unokuphuma kwiindlela ezimbi, iingcebiso, iinkampani kunye nomntla wayo ukunyaniseka kunye nokuchaneka.
Ngegama elinamandla likaYesu Krestu, amen.
abantwana abangathobeliyo
Iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokucela nokuthandazela abantwana bethu, ngokweZibhalo Ezingcwele:
ngenxa yenceba
UThixo uhlala exolela izono zethu, ngoko ke, akasiniki isohlwayo esisifaneleyo, yonke ingqumbo yakhe ngenxa yezono zethu yawela kuYesu, uNyana wakhe okuphela kwakhe, apho uya kuthululela inceba yakhe engapheliyo kubantwana bethu.
Lucas 6: 36
"Ngamana abantwana bam bangaba nenceba njengawe, Thixo wam, bawo onenceba."
Ngokholo
Ukholo kukuqiniseka koko kulindelekileyo, ukuqiniseka ngento engabonwayo, ngoko ukuba sibambelela kuyo kwaye sithembela eNkosini siya kubona iintsikelelo nezithembiso zikaThixo kubantwana bethu abathandekayo.
ULuka 17: 5-6
"Ndithandazela ukuba uKholo olusentliziyweni yabantwana bam lomelele, kwaye ngalo banokuloyisa ezo zithembiso uThixo abanike zona".
Eyakho i-domain
Xa sithandazela abantwana bethu kubalulekile ukuba sicele ukuzeyisa, ukuze iNkosi ibenze baqonde kwaye bavuke ebumnyameni babuyele kwindlela yokukhanya kokukhusela kukaThixo.
1 Tesalonika 5:6
“Thixo wam, namhlanje ndicela ukuba abantwana bam babe nobukhosi enyameni yabo, ukuze bangaphambuki kwiziyolo ezidlulayo ezinikelwa leli hlabathi.
Usindiso
Isaya 45:8
“Bawo, vumela usindiso lufike kubantwana bam nakuye ngamnye weentliziyo zabo, ukuze baqonde ukuba uKristu ungunyana wakho oyintanda nokuba uzihlawulele izono zethu.”
Abatshutshisi boXolo noXolo
Roma 14:19
“Bawo, vumela abantwana bam benze unako-nako ukwenza oko kuzisa uxolo.”
Ukuthanda iLizwi likaThixo
I-Psalm 19: 10
“Mabakhule oonyana bam, balifumane linqabile ilizwi lakho ngaphezu kwegolide embiweyo, nakwengcwengekileyo; kwaye zimnandi kunobusi benqatha”.
Umqobo omkhulu kwimithandazo
Kunyanzelekile phambi kokuba uqalise naluphi na uhlobo lomthandazo wemfazwe yokomoya ukuba onke amalungu osapho azibophelele ekutshintsheni isigama ukusuka kwisiqalekiso ukuya kwintsikelelo. Ke ngoko, kufuneka baziphephe izikhalazo, amabango, izithuko, ukugxeka, kunye nezenzo zobukrakra okanye ukoyiswa ezingabonwa kakuhle nguBawo wethu waseZulwini.
Ukuziphatha okungalunganga okuvuselela ukulwa, ukukhwaza, ukungavumelani, kunye nokunganyamezeli kufuneka kuhambe kude nekhaya okanye yonke into iya kuba yi-flop. Ulwimi kufuneka luhlale lunentsikelelo kwaye lubhengeze uloyiso lukaThixo. Ukuba kukho imilo nobukrakra ekhaya, imithandazo ayisayi kuba lilize.
Kukho amaKristu amaninzi athandaza kwiNkosi kwimeko ethile aze avakalise uloyiso, kodwa kuvela ukuba kamva bavakalisa ubukrakra, ukoyiswa okanye isiqalekiso, ngoko ke, imithandazo yabo ayiyi kuphendulwa.
Ulwimi olusetyenziswayo ukuphakamisa imithandazo kufuneka luhambelane nezenzo zethu.
Kudla ngokwenzeka ukuba xa abantu bethandaza, bachithachitheke ngomthandazo baphele bethandazela izinto ezininzi, ezingaphenduliyo ke kuThixo.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni ndikumema ukuba ubone enye imathiriyeli enomdla ye-audiovisual.