Hlangana nathi kweli nqaku, elona liphakamisayo izicaphuno zebhayibhile zemitshato. Ukuze zibe yincwadi yokufundisa evela kuThixo kuwe, ngamaxesha apho kufuneka ujamelane neengxaki ezinzulu kulwalamano lomtshato.
Yakha umtshato wakho noThixo
Iingcaphulo zeBhayibhile zemitshato
Ngesi sihlandlo sifuna ukwabelana ngothando ngezinye izicatshulwa zeBhayibhile zemitshato ukuze yakhiwe ngobulumko bukaThixo. Ubudlelwane bomtshato ngomnye wemiyalelo emangalisayo yeNkosi yokwandisa uluntu.
Kodwa, ukuze ezi zikhule njengoko uThixo ethanda, amaqabane afanele azahlulele aze azingise kulwalamano lwawo lomtshato. Oku kuphunyezwa ngokubonakalisa uthando lukaThixo omnye komnye.
Izibhalo zisixelela ukuba lunjani uthando lokuqala kwenye yezicatshulwa zebhayibhile zomtshato kunye naluphi na olunye uhlobo lobudlelwane:
1 Korinte 13:4-8 ( NKJV ): 4 Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, lunobubele; akanamona, akanakratshi, akanakratshi; 5 akenzi nto imbi; akazingci okanye akacaphuki; akananzondo; 6 aluvuyeli kungalungisi; luvuyisana nenyaniso; 7 Uthwala iinto zonke, ukholwa ziinto zonke, uthemba iinto zonke, uxhasa iinto zonke. 8 Uthando alunakuze luphele. Kunoko, iziprofeto ziya kuphela, iilwimi ziya kuphela, nokwazi kuya kuphela.
Ukuba umtshato wakho usebutsheni bakho, nawe usenokuba nomdla kwabanye Iingcaphuno zeBhayibhile zabaselula ngeengcebiso ezilungileyo. Ungalibali ukungena kweli khonkco, apho siya kwabelana nawe ngeengcebiso ukuze uphile ubutsha bakho ngokwelizwi likaThixo.
Amacebiso amabini aphambili kaThixo emitshatweni
IBhayibhile ililizwi likaThixo eliphilileyo, ngoko izele zizithembiso namacebiso amahle kubomi bethu. Uninzi lwala macebiso aluncedo kakhulu ukuba asetyenziswe kubudlelwane bomtshato.
Noko ke, esinye sezicatshulwa zeBhayibhile zemitshato eyona nto ibalulekileyo yile iqulethe imiyalelo emibini ephambili uThixo ayenzayo kubantu abatshatileyo.
Eyokuqala, ukusekwa komyalelo wokubaluleka kosapho kwaye okwesibini, ukumanyana ngokungathi babanye:
IGENESIS 2:24 Ngenxa yoko indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo, babe nyama-nye ke.
Esi sicatshulwa seBhayibhile sibonisa uyilo lokuqala lukaThixo lomtshato, xa indoda nomfazi betshata baba lusapho olutsha. Endlwini akunakubakho iintloko ezimbini zentsapho, kodwa inye kuphela nangaphezu koKristu wakhe, oku kuya kuphepha iingxabano ekhaya.
Bobabini indoda kunye nomfazi baya kuqhubeka bebathanda kwaye bebahlonela abazali babo, kodwa kwikhaya labo elitsha. Okwesibini, phakathi kwesibini kufuneka kubekho ukusondelelana, umanyano, ukuthembana, ngokungathi ngumntu omnye, oko kukuthi, omnye komnye.
Amaqabane kufuneka ahambe kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bawo kunye, isini, uqoqosho lwasekhaya, imicimbi yentsapho, ukukhonza uThixo kunye nemfundo yabantwana, njl.
Ngale ngqiqo sikumema ukuba ufake inqaku apho uya kufumana ezinye Iingcaphuno zebhayibhile malunga nosapho Ngokumanyeneyo ukudumisa uThixo. Kungenxa yokuba uThixo wasidala ukuba siphile ngokwenjongo yakhe yantlandlolo njengentsapho yaye simanyene Naye.
Iingcaphuno zeBhayibhile zemitshato kunye noyilo lokuqala lukaThixo
UThixo wadala intsapho njengoyilo lwakhe oluphambili nolona lubalulekileyo phakathi kwesicwangciso sakhe esigqibeleleyo waza wayilwa ngendlela eya kuhlala ngonaphakade, olu luphawu oluphambili omele ulufezekise umtshato.
Xa indoda nomfazi bemanywe ngomtshato ngonaphakade, njengoko kubhaliweyo kwaza kwathethwa yiNkosi yethu:
(Mateyu 19:4-6) Waphendula uYesu wathi kubo, Aniyikhumbuli na into ethethwa yiBhayibhile? Kubhaliwe kuyo ukuba Ukususela ekuqaleni, UThixo wenza indoda nomfazi ukuba bahlale kunye. 5 Kungenxa yoko le nto uThixo wathi: “Indoda yomshiya uyise nonina, ize ithabathe, ihlale nomfazi wayo; Bobabini baya kuphila ngokungathi bangumntu omnye.” 6 Ngaloo ndlela, abo batshatayo hayi kwakhona bayaphila njengabantu ababini abahlukeneyo, kodwa ngokungathi babanye. Ke ngoko Ukuba uThixo ubadibanise nendoda nomfazi, akukho bani ufanele ubahlule.
Kubomi obungenaye uThixo bunokuba lukhuni intliziyo, kungoko kumnqophiso omdala woMthetho kaMoses, uqhawulo-mtshato lwaluvunyelwe. Kodwa ukuba siphila kuKristu, siya kukwazi ukunyamezela nayiphi na imeko enokuthi ivele emtshatweni, kwanabo bathatha isibini kumda.
Ingcaphulo zeBhayibhile ngemitshato: Ukulandela ukuthanda kukaThixo kuzisa iintsikelelo
Ngezantsi sabelana ngesinye sezicatshulwa zebhayibhile ezisifundisa ukuba umanyano lomtshato, ngokwentando yeNkosi, izisa kuwo iintsikelelo afuna sibe nazo:
IMIZEKELISO 18:22 Ukufumana umfazi olungileyo kulungile, ngokuba uYehova uyakholiswa nguwe.
Eli gama liyasicebisa ukuba masizivumele sikhokelwe nguThixo ekukhetheni amaqabane ethu, kuba uya kuhlala efuna okona kulungileyo. Ukuzivumela ukuba sikhokelwe kukuthanda kukaThixo kusiqinisekisa ngokuba liqabane nomncedi ofanelekileyo emtshatweni, ngale ndlela kuya kuba njalo ngonaphakade.
Izicatshulwa zeBhayibhile zemitshato emanyene kuKristu
INkosi iyasilumkisa ukuba singabotshwa edyokhweni ngokungalinganiyo, ukuze ukuba sikuKristu, umntu esimanyana naye naye makabe nguye.
(2 Korinte 6:14-15) Musani ukunxulumana nabolunye uhlobo, abangakholwayo ke, kuba kunakwabelana kuni na okusesikweni nokuchasa umthetho? Kunabudlelane buni na ke ukukhanya nobumnyama? Unakuvumelana kuni na ke uKristu noBheliyali? Unasahlulelwano sini na umntu okholwayo nongakholwayo?
Esi sibongozo sivela kuThixo ngenxa yethu thina bamanywe noKrestu. Ukuba uza kutshata, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde inqaku Ukungalingani kwedyokhwe yokuthandana: Kutheni uyiphepha?
Amaxesha amaninzi lo myalelo weNkosi uba yingxaki kumakholwa, kodwa qiniseka ukuba eyona ndlela ilungileyo iya kuhlala ikukuthobela uThixo.
Ukhetho lweengcaphulo zebhayibhile zemitshato
Okokugqibela, ukhetho lwezicatshulwa zebhayibhile zemitshato, apho uya kufumana iingcebiso ezivela kuThixo malunga nobudlelwane bomtshato obunempilo nobuhlala buhleli. Zicamngce ngazo, uzilandele ngokholo, isityhilelo nokuthembela kuThixo.
Kwabase-Efese 5:21-22 XHO21 - Nina ke nimhlonelayo uKristu, nithobelane. 22 Abafazi bawalulamele awabo amadoda, njengokuba enjenjalo kuKristu. Nithobelane ngokuhlonela uThixo. Nina bafazi, walulameleni awenu amadoda, ngokokululamela iNkosi;
Eyoku-1 kaYohane 4:18a: Eluthandweni akukho loyiko, kodwa uthando olugqibeleleyo luluphosela phandle uloyiko, kuba uloyiko lunesohlwayo; lowo ke woyikayo akagqibelele eluthandweni.
( Efe 5:25 ) Amadoda afanele ababonise abafazi bawo uthando olufanayo nolo uKristu walibonisa ibandla lakhe. UKristu wazinikela ngenxa yakhe.