Incwadi ingoma yeengoma kaSolomon yayiyincwadi ephikisanayo kumaYuda. Umxholo wakho wohlukile. Ngale post uya kwazi ngokweenkcukacha ngezahluko ukuba ithini INgoma yazo iiNgoma zoKumkani odumileyo uSolomon nentsingiselo yayo?
INgoma yazo iiNgoma
El ingoma yeengoma kaSolomon okanye njengoko abanye bezibiza ngokuba "Iingoma zikaSolomon" yincwadi esemthethweni yeTestamente eNdala, ijongene nothando olunyulu emfazini nasendodeni.
Yincwadi yebhayibhile enodidi lwesihobe. USolomon ubalaselisa ubuhle nobunyulu kolo thando luxhomekeke kwizinto ezingcwele. Obu budlelwane bufaniswa nobudlelwane beNkosi nebandla layo. Ingcamango ephambili yale ncwadi libali lothando phakathi komyeni (oya kumela uKumkani uSolomon) kunye nomfazi wakhe. Injongo yakhe kukuqinisekisa ubungcwele bomtshato aze awuthelekise nothando lweNkosi ngabantu bayo nebandla.
Ngokweendlela ezenziwe ziingcali zoncwadi, unyango olunikelwa nguSolomon kweli bali alunamchasi wemibongo. Ngexesha lophuhliso lwencwadi, kunokubonwa ukuba uSolomon uhlala ebhenela njani ekutshintsheni indawo kunye nabalinganiswa. Esi sixhobo senza kube nzima ukuqonda ukufunda kwakho.
Ingcaciso abanye abaye bayichaza ekuculweni kweengoma lulwalamano uYesu analo necawa yakhe, ethi kwezinye iindinyana zeBhayibhile ichazwa njengomtshakazi wakhe. Kwabanye, kuthethwa ngoMaria. Noko ke, kwezi mbono, eyona ifumene amandla amakhulu lulwalamano oluphakathi kukaYesu necawa yakhe.
Efese 5: 27
27 ukuze alimise phambi kwakhe linobuqaqawuli, lilibandla elingenabala, elingenamibimbi nanye into enjalo, elingcwele, elingenasiphako.
Efese 5: 32
32 Inkulu le mfihlakalo; nditsho ke ngaye uKristu necawe.
Unyango
Igama lale ncwadi yemibongo, ingoma yeengoma, livela kwisiHebhere שִׁיר הַשִּׁירִים, Shir Hashirim, yaye inguqulelo yayo ithetha “ingoma egqwesileyo” okanye “eyona ngoma imnandi”. Njengoko kuphawuliwe ngasentla, le ncwadi ithetha ngothando olunyulu nolungcwele phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, abalubonakalisa uthando lwabo ngemibongo ezaliswe zizikweko nemifanekiso.
Umbhali kunye nomhla wengoma yeengoma
Ngokuhlolisisa izibhalo esinokuzixabisa kwincwadi yoku- 1 kaSamuweli 4:32 sinokukwazi ukubona umbhali wale ngoma yeengoma. Ukuba sifunda umongo wonke siyazi ukuba ngoSolomon. Njengoko lo kumkani wayecela kuYehova ubulumko bokukhokela abantu bakhe. Ngokukwanjalo, kuthiwa nguye owabhala iingoma ezingamawaka amahlanu, ukongezelela kwiNtshumayeli nencwadi yeMizekeliso.
1 Samuel 4: 32
32 Waqamba amawaka amathathu emizekeliso, zathi neengoma zakhe zaliwaka elinantlanu.
Iingoma 1: 1
Ingoma yazo iiNgoma, eyekaSolomon.
Ngokubhekiselele kumhla wokubhalwa, le ncwadi yombongo icingelwa ukuba yabhalwa ngenkulungwane yesi-XNUMX BC.
KwiBhayibhile yobuKristu, yamaKatolika sinokuzifumana ezi ngoma zeengoma phakathi kwencwadi yeNtshumayeli noIsaya.
ukuba yinxalenye yemibhalo engcwele
Ukuba yinxalenye yemibhalo engcwele yeengoma kwakunempikiswano ngokomongo wamaYuda, ekubeni kusaziwa ukuba abantu abaselula abangaphantsi kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala babengenakufikelela kule ncwadi.
Isizathu sokuba ayengavunyelwa ukuba ayifunde yayikukuba amaYuda ayekholelwa ukuba ingoma yeengoma yayizaliswe buburhelem, ihambo evakalala, ihambo evakalala, kwanokuziphatha okubi ngokwesini. Noko ke, ukuthelekiswa kwayo nothando lukaThixo ngabantu bakhe kuye kwavumela amaYuda ukuba ayifunde le ncwadi ngoMthendeleko wePasika.
Ngokwenxalenye yayo, le ncwadi yayinabakhuseli bayo kwi-hedonism, abaphakamisa uyolo lwenyama njengendlela yokuphila.
Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ingoma yeengoma inikela umxholo wothando phakathi kwesibini njengento enyulu, entle neba ngcwele kuThixo. Ngesi sizathu, iwa phantsi kokubini okugqithisileyo kwaye ifezekise ubunyani bayo kwiBhunga laseJamnia.
ivesi esembindini
Xa sifunda ingoma yeengoma sinokuqonda ukuba ithetha ngothando olunyulu, oluthembekileyo, oluyinyaniso nolungcwele lomtshato. Ivesi equka zonke ezi mpawu yile:
Iingoma 6.3
3 Mna ndingowentanda yam, nentanda yam yeyam yona;
Yalusela ezinyibibeni.
Umxholo weengoma zeengoma
Ukufunda umxholo wencwadi yeengoma zeengoma, kuyimfuneko ukuchukumisa iinkalo ezintathu ezifana nesakhiwo, iskimu kunye nomxholo ngokwawo.
Ulwakhiwo
Okwangoku, iBhayibhile yamaKristu kunye/okanye yamaKatolika iqulethe izahluko ezisibhozo zengoma yeengoma. Esi sakhiwo sesona sifumene amandla amakhulu kwihlabathi lamaKristu.
Inkqubo
Ukuze sifundisise incwadi yeengoma zeengoma, kufuneka kuqwalaselwe amacandelo amahlanu, kwakunye neengoma ezintlanu. Ngaphandle kokuqwalasela imiboniso emithandathu eya kufumaneka kwimibongo esixhenxe eguqulelwe kwiingoma ezingamashumi amabini anesithathu.
Ukushwankathela, sinikezela ngamacandelo asebenzayo ngoku kufundo lwale ncwadi yemibongo.
Njengoko uya kuyixabisa, yenziwe yintshayelelo, imibongo emihlanu emihle kunye nezihlomelo ezibini, ezakhiwe ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
Intshayelelo ( 1, 2-4 )
Ingoma yokuqala (1 - 5)
Ingoma yesibini (2, 8 – 3, 5)
Icanto yesithathu (3, 6 – 5, 1)
Icanto yesine (5, 2 – 6, 3)
Icanto yesihlanu (6, 4 - 8, 7)
Kukho izihlomelo ezibini ezongezelelwa kamva (8, 8-14)
umxholo jikelele
Umxholo wengoma yeengoma uxubusha imbono kaThixo ngothando emtshatweni. Ubunyulu nobuhle bothando phakathi kwendoda nomfazi wayo bubalasele kwiingoma. Baphucula imigaqo yokunyaniseka kwamadoda kubafazi kwaye ngokuphambeneyo. Le mbono ivela kwiGenesis 2:24.
IGenesis 2:24
24 Ngenxa yoko indoda yomshiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo, babe nyama-nye ke.
Kumxholo wayo, eli bali lijolise kubalinganiswa ababini abaphambili, uKumkani uSolomon (Ingoma yazo iiNgoma 1: 4, 12; 3: 9, 11; 7: 5) kunye nentombazana engumShulam (Ingoma yeNgoma 6:13). Imeko yembali yale ncwadi kuxa uSolomon wenyukayo waya esihlalweni sikaDavide ngo-971 BC. Uthandana nale ntombazana incinci kwakamsinya nje akuba ethathe ulawulo.
Njengoko sele siqaphele, le ngoma ibalaselisa ubunyulu kunye nobuhle bothando emtshatweni. Khankanya imigaqo yokunyaniseka kunye nokuthembeka kokubini.
Ngaphandle kobu bulumko kunye nokuzithemba kukaSolomon siyazi ukuba wajika kule ndlela yobomi. Wayephila ubomi bokuziphatha kakubi. Nangona kunjalo, emva kohambo lobomi bakhe, xa wayehlalutya amava akhe, wayesazi ukuba obu bomi bungamampunge kuphela kwaye uqukumbela:
INtshumayeli 9: 9
9 Yolisa ubomi bakho nomfazi omthandayo, yonke imihla yobomi bakho obungamampunge, akunikileyo phantsi kwelanga, yonke imihla yamampunge akho; ngokuba sisisabelo sakho eso ebomini bakho, nasemigudwini yakho owaphuka yiyo phantsi kwelanga.
Ubuncwane boncwadi obusetyenziswa nguSolomon yinkcazo, incoko kwaye uphuhlisa ibali lakhe ngokwezitanza nemifanekiso.
Phakathi kweencwadi ezintlanu amaYuda azifunda kwimithendeleko yawo yaminyaka le, le yeyokuqala ayifundayo, ngokukodwa ngoMthendeleko wePasika.
Ebudeni bazo zonke iingoma sinokuqonda ukuba undoqo wengoma yeengoma luthando oluphakathi kwendoda nomfazi, olubonakaliswa entsimini, phakathi komhlambi wabalusi ( INgoma 1:8 ) phakathi kwezidiliya, izindlu nemiyezo ( INgoma 1:16; 2:4; 7:12 ) okanye esixekweni ( INgoma 3:2 ).
Amazwi aphakathi kwabantu abathandanayo kunye nezenzo zabo amiselwa yintshukumisa yothando ekhoyo phakathi kwabo.
Sinokuqonda ukuba ukongezelela kulo mfana, intombazana ikwavakalisa iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zayo ( INgoma 8:14 nese-1:2, 4 ). Alithandabuzeki elokuba ezi ngoma zifuna ukubalaselisa ubuhle nobunyulu bothando lomntu. Nangona kunjalo, le ngcamango iyachithwa ngamaYuda kunye namaKristu.
Iingoma 8: 14
14 Khawuleza sithandwa sam.
Kwaye ube njengexhama, okanye inkungu,
Kwiintaba zevumba elimnandi.Iingoma 1: 2-4
2 Owu, ukuba angandanga ngomlomo wakhe!
Kuba izithandwa zakho zilunge ngakumbi kunewayini.3 Ngaphandle kwevumba lezithambiso zakho ezithambileyo.
Linjengeoli ethululwayo igama lakho;
Kungenxa yoko le nto iintombi zikuthanda.4 nditsalele ngaphakathi; Siza kubaleka emva kwakho.
Ukumkani undingenise ezingontsini zakhe;
Siza kuvuya kwaye sivuye ngawe;
Uthando lwakho luya kukukhumbula ngaphezu kwewayini;
Akumangalisi ukuba bakuthande.
Ukutolika
Njengoko besesiphawulile ngaphambili, umbono wokuthathwa njengomxholo oqaqambisa ubuhle kunye nokucoceka kothando lomntu yintsingiselo elahliweyo ngamaYuda kunye namaKristu.
Kula maqela isizathu silula. Incwadi engcwele ngolo hlobo eneBhayibhile ayinakuba neengoma ezingahloneli Thixo ezilungiselelwe ukubalaselisa inkanuko yenyama yendoda nomfazi.
ILizwi likaThixo liyasilumkisa ukuba ezenyama nezomoya zichasene. Ngoko ke, le ncwadi iluphawu lothando lukaThixo kubantu bakhe, kunye neBandla lakhe.
Galati 5:17
17 Kuba inkanuko yenyama inxamnye noMoya, inkanuko yoMoya ichasene nenyama. Kwaye ezi zinto ziyachasana, ukuze ungenzi oko ufuna.
uthando olunyulu emtshatweni
Ingoma yeengoma inokubonwa ngokwembono yothando olunyulu, oluthembekileyo nolunyanisekileyo olufanele lubekho emtshatweni. Kaloku, ukususela ekudalweni kwehlabathi uThixo uye wawugqala umtshato njengelungiselelo elingcwele.
Ngaphakathi kwecebo likaThixo lothando phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Sinokubona kwisicatshulwa seLizwi likaThixo indlela uThixo alunikela ngayo ukubaluleka kothando emtshatweni.
Ngokunjalo, ibiyincwadi enxulunyaniswa nemitshato eyayifudula isenzeka kwimeko apho incwadi yayibhalelwa khona. Ebudeni bale mibhiyozo umtshakazi nomyeni babecula iingoma zothando nezovuyo ( Yeremiya 33:11 ). Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, imitshato ibithabatha iintsuku ezisixhenxe. Umzekelo bubude bomtshato phakathi kukaYakobi noLeya:
UYeremiya 25:10
10 Ndoliphelisa phakathi kwabo izwi lemihlali nezwi lemivuyo phakathi kwabo, izwi lomyeni nelizwi lomtshakazi, ingxolo yelitye lokusila nokukhanya kwesibane.
IGenesis 29: 27-28
27 Gqibezela le veki, kwaye uya kufumana enye, ngenkonzo oza kuyenza kunye nam eminye iminyaka esixhenxe.
28 Wenjenjalo uYakobi, wayizalisa iveki yale. wamnika ke uRakeli intombi yakhe, yangumkakhe.
ABagwebi 14:12
12 Wathi uSamson kubo, Makhe ndinihlekisele iqhina; ukuba nithe nandixelela ngeentsuku ezisixhenxe zomsitho, nalicoca, ndoninika iingubo zelinen entle ezingamashumi amathathu, neengubo zokungqengqa ezimashumi mathathu.
Kwimeko yothando olusulungekileyo kwisibini, uthando olungenakophulwa, oluthembekileyo phakathi kwabatshatileyo luyoyisa iminqweno yenyama kwaye ngoko ke ukuzibophelela okuye kwacingelwa bobabini.
IMizekeliso 15: 15-19
15 Sela amanzi kwelakho iqula,
Nemisinga yequla lakho.16 Ngaba iya kuchitha imithombo yakho ezitratweni,
Nemijelo yakho yamanzi ngezikwere?17 Yiba nawe wedwa,
Kwaye ingabi yeyabasemzini kunye nawe.18 Usikelele umthombo wakho
Uvuye ngumfazi wobutsha bakho;19 Njengexhama elithandekayo nebhadi elihle.
Ukucofa kwakhe kuyanelisa maxa onke,
Kwaye kuthando lwakhe zihlekise.
Uthando lukaThixo ngabantu bakhe
Enye ingcaciso enikelwe kule ncwadi luthando lukaThixo ngabantu bakhe. Xa siphengulula iTestamente eNdala sifumana izicatshulwa zeBhayibhile ezithetha ngalo mxholo.
Ngokukwanjalo, xa sihlolisisa iTestamente eNtsha sifumana uthando uYesu awayeluchaza ngebandla lakhe. Ngokwale mbono, incwadi yeengoma zeengoma ithathwe njengesafobe okanye umzekeliso wothando lukaThixo kubantu bakhe amaSirayeli, lweNkosi uYesu kwibandla lakhe kunye nebandla elibhekisa kuYesu.
Yeremiya 2: 1-3
Kwafika ilizwi likaYehova kum, lisithi:
2 Yiya umemeze ezindlebeni zeYerusalem, uthi, Utsho uYehova ukuthi, Ndikukhumbulile ukuthembeka kwasebuncinaneni bakho, uthando lokunyelisa kwakho, oko wawulandela entlango, ezweni elingahlwayelwayo.
3 Ubengcwele uSirayeli kuYehova, intlahlela yakhe entsha. Bonke abo bamqwengayo babenetyala; bafikelwa bububi; utsho uYehova.
Hezekile 16: 6-14
6 Ndadlula ngakuwe ndakubona ungcolile egazini lakho, ndathi kuwe usegazini lakho: “Phila! Ewe, ndathi kuwe usegazini lakho, Phila!
7 Ndakwenza wandisa njengengca yasendle; wakhula, waba mkhulu, waba mhle kakhulu; Amabele akho amila, zahluma iinwele zakho; ke ubuze, yaye ubuzé.
8 Ndabuya ke ndagqitha kuwe, ndakubona, nalo ixesha lakho lilixesha lothando. Ndatwabulula ingubo yam yokwaleka phezu kwakho, ndabugubungela ubuze bakho; ndakufungela, ndanqophisana nawe, itsho iNkosi uYehova, waba ngowam ke.
9 Ndakuhlamba ngamanzi, ndakuhlamba igazi lakho, ndakuthambisa ngeoli;
10 Ndakwambesa iingubo ezimfakamfele, ndakunxiba iimbadada zembila, ndakubhinqisa ilinen emhlophe, ndakugqubuthela ngesilika.
11 Ndakuhombisa ngezihombo, ndakufaka izacholo ezingalweni, nentsimbi yomqala entanyeni yakho.
12 Ndakufaka empumlweni yakho igolide, namajikazi ezindlebeni zakho, nesithsaba sokuhomba entloko.
13 Wavatha ke igolide nesilivere, nesinxibo sakho ngelinen ecikizekileyo, nezesilika, nezimfakamfele; Wadla intyantyambo yomgubo wengqolowa, nobusi, neoli; yaye wawuhombe ngokugqithileyo, waphumelela wada waba ngukumkani.
14 Lwaphuma udumo lobuhle bakho lwagqiba ilizwe lonke; ngokuba ebegqibelele, ngenxa yobuhle bam, endakunxibayo; itsho iNkosi uYehova.
Kwabase-Efese 5: 22-23
22 Abafazi bawalulamela awabo amadoda, ngokokululamela iNkosi;
23 ngokuba indoda le iyintloko yomfazi, njengokuba naye uKristu eyintloko yebandla, eli;
ISityhilelo 21: 2
2 Ndaza mna, Yohane, ndawubona umzi ongcwele, iYerusalem entsha, usihla uphuma kuThixo, uphuma emazulwini, ulungisiwe njengomtshakazi ehonjiselwe indoda yakhe.
Akukho bungqina bukhoyo bokutolikwa okunjalo, kodwa ulwimi olufumaneka eBhayibhileni lolomfuziselo. Intsingiselo ayichazwanga ngumntu. Ngoko ke, xa siqwalasela uthando oluphakathi kwendoda nomfazi, kulula ukufumanisa ukuba luphathelele uthando lukaYesu ngomtshakazi wakhe ibandla.
Isishwankathelo sencwadi yeeNgoma zeeNgoma
Ingoma yeengoma iqala ngaphambi komtshato. Umtshakazi unqwenela ukuba nomyeni wakhe wexesha elizayo kunye namaphupha omzuzu apho baya kuba kunye ngokusondeleyo.
Nangona kunjalo, uyayazi kwaye ucebisa imfuno yothando ukukhula ngokwemvelo kwaye lixesha lakhe. Kwelinye icala, ukumkani uncoma ubuhle bentombi engumShulamikazi, ekoyisayo ukungazithembi kwayo ngokuphathelele inkangeleko yayo.
Le ntombazana iselula iphupha iphulukana noSolomon ibe ekufuneni kwayo ngamandla ibhenela koonogada besixeko abayincedayo. Ukufumana isithandwa sakhe, ngokungathandabuzekiyo unamathela kuye. Ugqiba kwelokuba amse kwindawo abaya kukhuseleka kuyo. Xa evuka kweli phupha linzima, ugxininisa ukuba uthando kufuneka luvunyelwe ukuba lukhule ngokwemvelo kwaye aluze lunyanzeliswe.
Xa ubusuku bomtshato bufika, isithandwa sakhe esiselula siphinda sibalaselise ubuhle bomtshakazi wakhe. USalomón ubhenela kulwimi olunophawu, apho athi aveze iminqweno yomfazi ngokumema umyeni wakhe ngento anokumnika yona. UThixo uyalusikelela umanyano lwabo baze babe nyama-nye.
Njengoko ixesha lihamba, amaqabane ayakhula kulwalamano lwawo. Umtshato utyhubela iimvavanyo ezinzima ezichazwe kwelinye iphupha.
Kwakhona umShulamikazi xa ephupha uyamgatya umyeni wakhe amthandayo aze amshiye phezu kwako nje ukudelelwa. Lisindwa kukuzisola netyala, lilangazelela ukumfumana, limfuna ngamandla esixekweni. Ngesi sihlandlo oonogada abamncedi, kunoko bamphatha kakubi. Xa bedibana bobabini, indoda nomfazi, bayaxolelana.
Ekugqibeleni, xa amaqabane edibana, anentembelo kwiimvakalelo zawo. Bayazi ukuba uthando lwabo olunyulu noluthembekileyo lukhuselekile. Baphakamisa iingoma ukubhiyozela uthando lwabo lokwenyani kwaye abawuthandabuzi umnqweno wabo wokuba kunye ngonaphakade.
Ingoma yeeNgoma Sketch
INgoma yeeNgoma ichazwa njengencwadi echukumisayo ebalisa umdlalo wothando lwesibini. Eli bali libaliswa ngendlela ebumbongo yencoko eyayiphakathi komfana (uKumkani uSolomon) nomfazi (umShulamikazi).
Kuyo yonke le ncwadi, iimvakalelo ezikhoyo phakathi kwabo babini zichazwe kwiinkcukacha zabo ezinzulu. Injongo yabo yayikukuhlala kunye ngonaphakade. Iingxoxo zijongana nemiba eyenzeka emtshatweni ngokwembono kaThixo.
Njengoko siye saphawula kulo lonke eli nqaku, kuye kwakho iinguqulelo eziliqela eziye zanikelwa kwezi ngoma. Abanye bayayingqina into yokuba imalunga nothando olunyulu nolunyanisekileyo olumele lubekho emtshatweni. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwesibini kufuneka buguquke njani?
Abanye bayayithethelela ingcamango yokuba iphathelele uthando lukaThixo ngoSirayeli necawa yakhe. Noko ke, ubulumko nemfihlelo kaThixo azinasiphelo. Kuyo yomibini imixholo, ingoma yeengoma iyasebenza ekusombululeni le miba ekushumayeleni kwebandla.
Ukusuka kwimbono yokuqala, ukuthandana , ukunyamekela ukuhlala unyulu de umtshato kunye nobomi njengesibini kunokuqwalaselwa. Kwelinye icala, umntu unokuthetha ngothando nokuthembeka kukaThixo nabantu bakhe kunye neCawa de uMtshato weMvana wenzeke. Kushiyeke kuphela ukucela ulwalathiso kuMoya oyiNgcwele ukuze ushumayele ngezi nkalo.
Umzobo
Ngomhla womtshato ( Ingoma 1:1 kuse 2:7 )
Ukukhumbula ukuthandana ngaphambi komtshato ( INgoma 2:8 kuse 3:5 )
Ukukhumbula ukuzibophelela ( INgoma 3:6 kuse 5:1 )
Ukungaphumli kokulala ( Ingoma 5:2 kuse 6:3 )
Ukudunyiswa kobuhle bomtshakazi ( INgoma 6:4 kuse 7:9 )
Isibongozo somfazi ( INgoma 7:9 kuse 8:4 )
Amandla othando ( INgoma 8:5 kuse 14 )
Le ncwadi yemibongo yingoma yomtshato ebhiyozela umtshato. Indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo iyabonakala kule ncwadi. Abaninzi baye bayigxeka le ncwadi yeengoma ngenxa yenkanuko yayo. Noko ke, abo basithabathayo esi sikhundla, bayawalahla amaqhina eBhayibhile athetha ngobungcwele bothando, ubunyulu balo nobomi bomtshato obamiselwa nguYehova ukususela ekuqaleni kwendalo.
UThixo ungumdali wezinto zonke kwaye phakathi koko kukwabelana ngesondo kwimbono ecocekileyo. Emtshatweni ungcwele, ulungile kwaye unyulu. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ifanele inanditshwe phakathi kwesakhelo somtshato. Ngokwahlukileyo kwezi mbono zigxekayo ngobungcwele bengoma yeengoma, uThixo uyazizukisa izibini ezithandanayo nezizonwabisayo.
Ukusetyenziswa okusebenzayo
Namhlanje uluntu luye lwavelisa ingcamango ephosakeleyo ngoko kuthethwa ngumtshato njengelungiselelo elingcwele. Sinokuyibona indlela iintsapho eziwohloka ngayo kunye nezibini eziqhawula umtshato ngokulula.
Kuye kwavela imibono emitsha yendlela yokuqalisa umtshato ephikisana noko kuthethwa yiBhayibhile. wadala indoda nenkazana. Ezi mbono zintsha zichasene nencwadi yeengoma zeengoma.
Ngokwembono yale ncwadi yebhayibhile, umtshato umalunga nokonwatyelwa, ukubhiyozelwa nokuhlonelwa. Ngale ndlela, iBhayibhile isinika imikhwa ekufuneka siyiphumeze emtshatweni wethu ukuze somelele:
- Kubalulekile ukuba ixesha lemihla ngemihla linikwe umyeni okanye umfazi. Elo xesha malinikelwe ekwazaneni.
- Ngokufanayo, kubalulekile ukuba kubudlelwane isibini sinconywa, sikhuthazwa kwiiprojekthi zesibini kunye nobudlelwane babo bomtshato.
- Isibini sifanele sonwabele omnye komnye. Kule nto kucetyiswa ukuba ezinye iintlanganiso zicwangciselwe yedwa. Kubalulekile ukuba bayile, baneenkcukacha kwaye badlale. Ngamanye amazwi, sonwabela isipho sikaThixo sothando lomtshato.
Enye indlela esebenza ngayo le ncwadi kukuba ukuzibophelela emfazini okanye endodeni kuyaqinisekiswa. Esinye isenzo kukuhlaziya izifungo zomtshato.
Igama elithi uqhawulo-mtshato akufunekanga libe nendawo emtshatweni wakho. Ukuthanda kukaThixo kukuba uthando emtshatweni lukhuselekile yaye lube seluxolweni.
iivesi zeBhayibhile ngomtshato
UMateyu 19: 4-6
4 Uphendule ke wathi kubo, Anilesanga na ukuba owadalayo kwasekuqalekeni wabadala bayindoda nenkazana?
5 wathi, Ngenxa yoko umntu womshiya uyise nonina, anamathele emfazini wakhe, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye?
6 Ngako oko abasebabini, banyama-nye; ke, oko akumanyileyo uThixo, umntu akahlukanisi
IGenesis 2: 22-24
22 UYehova uThixo walwakha ubambo abeluthabathe kuAdam, lwaba ngumfazi; wamzisa kuAdam.
23 Uthe ke uAdam: “Eli ke ngoku lithambo lasemathanjeni am, yinyama yasenyameni yam. Lo uya kubizwa ngokuba nguVarona, kuba uthathwe endodeni.
24 Ngenxa yoko indoda yomshiya uyise nonina, inamathele kumkayo, babe nyama-nye ke.
1 Yohane 4: 8
8 Lowo ungenaluthando akazanga amazi uThixo, kuba uThixo uluthando.
1 Yohane 4: 18
18 Eluthandweni akukho loyiko; lusuka uthando olugqibeleleyo luluphose phandle uloyiko; kuba uloyiko lunesohlwayo.
Eyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 13: 4-7
4 Uthando luzeka kade umsindo, lunobubele; Uthando alunamona. Uthando alunantsingiselo, alukhukhumali. 5 Ayisiyonto intle, kwaye ayizifuneli eyayo. Akacaphuki, engagcini neengxelo zobubi. 6 Aluvuyeli kungalungisi, luvuyisana nenyaniso. 7 Uyabandezeleka yonke into, ukholelwa yonke into, uthemba yonke into, uxhasa yonke into.
INtshumayeli 4: 9-12
9 Kulunge ngakumbi ukuba babini kunokuba ube mnye, kuba banomvuzo ongcono ngomsebenzi wabo. 10 Kuba ukuba bayawa, omnye uya kuliphakamisa iqabane lakhe. Kodwa yeha umntu owayo xa kungekho omnye wokumphakamisa! 11 Kananjalo ukuba ababini balala kunye baya kuhlala beshushu. Kodwa umntu angafudumala njani? 12 Kwaye ukuba umntu uhlaselwa ngumntu, ukuba babini, baya kumoyisa. Kwaye umtya ophindwe kathathu awuqhawuki ngokukhawuleza.
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